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The idea of keeping your husband in strict and uncompromising chastity and not letting him orgasm – sometimes permanently and forever – is a strange one to most women, and one most will immediately dismiss, thinking somehow it is abdicating her womanhood not to give her man “what he wants”.
But I think it’s important to understand chastity is not the same as celibacy , at least not in the context of male chastity.
In a celibate marriage, sexual contact is non-existent.
While this is no doubt mutually agreeable in some marriages, it’s rare. Usually it’s because one partner (usually the woman, I’m afraid) has said “no more sex” or simply behaves in such as way as to preclude it.
This is why the idea male chastity will fix a broken marriage is nonsense.
The practice is intended to improve and enhance your sex life.
If you’re in a celibate marriage, then your sex life has been killed stone dead, and you need to get it fixed before you start trying to introduce kink.
If you don’t, then what you’ll be saying in effect, is “I want to have more and better sex and an more intimate and fulfilling relationship with you”.
But what she’ll be hearing is “I’ve just given you a great excuse for avoiding having sex with me even more than you are now”.
This will not end well, I assure you.
But in a chaste marriage, where they practice male chastity, there is typically more sexual contact and increased physical and emotional intimacy – the qualifier being the man rarely if ever gets to orgasm.
This is a good description of my marriage to John.
And while some women might be shocked at this, the fact of the matter is it is this way because this is what he asked me for .
And yes, at first I was surprised and a little sceptical.
But because I love him and I want to please him, I gave it a try.
Because male chastity in general, and orgasm denial in particular has been the best thing I ever did, next to actually marrying him.
Because the quality, frequency and duration of our lovemaking has increased dramatically. Almost any relationship tend to cool off after a while and sex becomes routine and even boring. Male chastity and orgasm denial put the spark right back into it, simply because he’s always turned on and can’t get the thought of making love to you out of his mind.
In other words, it’s just like it is at the beginning of a new relationship where everything is fresh, new and exciting.
First, John is locked, by his own consent, in a stainless steel chastity device.
It’s not 100% secure (no device is), but it’s an effective deterrent. It stops any “accidents” when we are making love and it also means for him to masturbate (which would be cheating!) very difficult.
He could still orgasm with the device on if he put his mind to it, but it would be painful and counterproductive to the game he wants me to play with him.
And secondly, it’s all done with John’s agreement, consent and cooperation.
Despite what you read on the ‘net on blogs and forums a man cannot be forced into chastity against his will.
It’s both physically and legally impossible.
That’s just a fantasy and one you’d be better off seeing as the fiction and the lie it is.
What’s more, it’s also physically impossible to create a chastity device a man can’t escape from.
No matter how robust and well designed a device is, an engineering shop would be able to remove it.
But that would be going to an extreme, and the chances are any device you could possibly make yourself or buy, whether off the shelf or custom-made, would quickly fall to a decent hacksaw.
Unfortunately, the Internet is filled with fantasists and wannabes and their frankly silly and unrealistic rubbish about male chastity, orgasm denial, and female led relationships.
Listen to what couples who have been living the lifestyle 24/7 for more than a decade have to say.
It makes sense to listen to people who practice what they preach, don’t you think?
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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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Training, grooming, persuading ... whatever you call it, women have been manipulating men since the the first cave woman suggested her knuckle-dragging boyfriend build a fire. Sometimes even the savviest of modern ladies needs a man-training guide. So here's our handbook for conditioning him to do exactly what you want, when you want it, because we care … sort of.
Reward always trumps discipline
Unless your boytoy is a submissive sex slave, like our crazy, crotchety grandma always said, “You’ll catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.” In your quest to train a man, always remember this: Positive reinforcement will yield the greatest results. Nagging, disciplining and otherwise emasculating your man most often ends with you alone at the porn store contemplating the pros and cons of wireless, vibrating panties.
The fellatio protocol
Oral sex is the end-all-be-all of treats when it comes to training your man. Any time he does something you particularly like, such as putting the toilet seat down or not getting his hair cut in some sad style, suck his dick. It’s important to let him know that’s why you’re sucking his dick, so a pattern can be established. Eventually, he’ll be buying you flowers, planning romantic dates, even washing your dishes in wanton anticipation.
The chastity belt method
Conversely, withholding sexual favors is another tried-and-true training method. If he's a slob, rude or unpleasing, stop rewarding him for bad behavior. He'll soon find that being an ass to the waiter, playing video games for days or wearing the same hole-filled basketball shorts that smell worse than his un-washed scrotum isn't worth celibacy. Before you know it, he'll be changing those pants to get into yours.
If a fart falls in the forest, and no one hears it, is it still a fart? Nope.
The point here is that if you ignore the problem, it's likely to go away on its own. Men seem to really enjoy getting a rise out of people, whether it be telling a sexist joke at your girlfriend’s birthday party or belching and farting simultaneously while you’re at brunch. Instead of nagging him to quit it or kicking him underneath the table, which is exactly what he's looking for, just order another drink or three, and ignore it. Eventually he'll get bored and stop, and then you can go on enjoying your well-earned buzz together.
Get it while it’s hot
When men are down for the day, they’re down for the day. You asking him to pick a place to eat or what he wants to do this weekend while he's in this state sounds like nagging. When men hear nagging, they shut down and start watching porn. If you want help with anything, ask him when he's already in motion, and generously reward him for his time. He’ll start doing things you ask because 1) he is already in the do-shit mode 2) he knows his knob is getting gobbled once he's changed your oil, and 3) he knows once it's all said and done you won't be interrupting his alone time.
Monkey see, monkey do
Every man can become the perfect sexual specimen; it just takes a little training. If your guy could use some help in the bedroom, you need to tell him what to do right off the bat. Don't be shy. If you don't tell him now that the jackhammer doesn't do it for you, he'll go on thinking it's your favorite, and you're in for a lifetime of bruised vagina. You don't want a bruised vagina do you? At his core he really does want to please you, and if you tell him exactly how you want it, he'll be more than happy to accommodate, especially with all the head he's been getting lately.
Appeal to his XY chromosomes
The only thing men love more than side boob is feeling useful. Men's confidence comes from having the technical skill, knowledge and drive to get shit done. So if there's something you want done, or something you want help with, make sure you let him know he's the only man for the job. Want him to go down on you more? Tell him no one's ever made you feel like he does when his head is between your legs. Want him to put up that bookshelf? Tell him you're always impressed by his superior ability to rotate IKEA assembly images in his head and that he looks sexy as fuck handling that drill.
Don't use psychic warfare to train him. He's a man, not a mind reader.
Men, for all their mighty capabilities and penises, have the psychic ability of a decorative lawn rock. While most women have a natural intuitive ability that allows them to perceive the needs of others, the majority of men aren't quite as blessed. Men, on the other hand, are most responsive to directness. So if you want something done, or you want him to know something, the quickest way to get it is to straight up tell him you need it. But don't worry, women of Rooster, the training part still applies. See, you'll probably have to tell him you need something several times. If he doesn't respond, just slash his tires. He'll be pussy-whipped in no time.

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Submitted On March 01, 2011

Many men who beg for male chastity prove recalcitrant and - in short - behave badly just so they'll get 'punishment'.
And the good news is, there are a few of things you can do, all depending on how annoyed you get with him.
They are all something he's really not going to like, but one is a bit more drastic than the others, and it's something I'd recommend only in the extreme.
Let's get the extreme and least-fun one out of the way first.
It's simply this: give him the key back and refuse to play the game.
In other words, treat him just like you would a child by withdrawing your attention from him.
I guarantee this will bring him into line very quickly.
If he's in chastity then the thought of being allowed free and just left free will stop him dead in his tracks.
But because it's quite an 'unfriendly' thing to do, I'd really do this only if it truly went beyond the pale and he simply wouldn't behave.
I don't expect my husband to be at my beck and call 24/7, even though we are in a female led relationship, although we do practice strict male chastity; but I do expect him to recognise and respect the effort it takes for me to keep him under lock and key and happy with it, and to accept my authority and obey my rules.
This is the killer - and I can guarantee when you read what it is, you won't think it's punishment at all.
Until you try it on him and see how he reacts.
It's simply this: give him a ruined orgasm.
It's easy: you just make sure his hands are restrained so he can't touch himself and then you treat him to a low, sensuous and deliciously torturous tease and denial session.
Only this time you're going to let him orgasm... BUT the instant he begins to orgasm, with the very first spasm, you let go of his penis and give him NO further stimulation whatsoever.
He will buck and moan and groan and beg, but you must NOT touch him.
Now, this is one of the worst things that can happen to a man, because while he gets the post-orgasm letdown, there is NONE of the pleasure normally associated with an orgasm.
I know this from experience - because my husband, John, occasionally has to suffer ruined orgasms and he gets only one proper one a year.
And if you really want to turn the screws and make it almost unbearable for him, you can give him several ruined orgasms in a row, one after the other. I guarantee, when your man has had three, four, six, ten ruined orgasms in a row, he'll have achning balls and will be on his best behaviour for some considerable time.
Now, if you're sick and tired of the hype and nonsense you read on the 'net about male chastity and orgasm denial, and you're really looking for safe, sane and realistic advice and information, then it makes sense to get it from a genuine 24/7 couple who are living the lifestyle for real, doesn't it?
More recently, since we have transitioned into a female-led relationship and John is bound by the oath of obedience he gave to me, I have started caning him if he displeases or disobeys me.
Now, John is not one of those men who enjoys this, so it's not a "funishment".
I restrain him on the bench and then cane him hard and without mercy so he understands the error of his ways (a minimum of 36 very hard strokes, and no warm up).
This is perhaps further than some people will want to go, but it works well for us, and it has definitely improved his behaviour all round.
If you'd like to know more about how to punish your man in chastity from a real woman who's living the lifestyle, just click the blue link and claim your FREE step-by-step chastity guide and discover the truth about male chastity and punishment .
... because right now I'm giving away this free Guide to anyone who visits my website, but this free offer won't last forever.
So if you're serious about strict and uncompromising chastity, be sure to get it as soon as you can.
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