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What To Use As Anal Lube
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The anus is far from self-lubricating and can only get wet if one helps it along. Anal lube is a complete necessity and one of the main attributes to pleasurable anal sex. Remember: the anal walls are relatively thin, so thicker lubricants keep them hydrated and slippery, and can greatly reduce the chance of anal injuries, such as cuts and tears ( anal fissures ) that increase your risk for contracting an STD. The best anal lubes will keep you safe and satisfied, explore the many different varieties to find the right lubricant for your needs.
Saliva should not be considered an anal lube and should be avoided, as it will actually dry out your skin, making it less elastic. Warming and cooling lubricants, though highly desired, also should be avoided as they are a known irritant and are not truly designed for anal sex. Desensitizing lubes, unless physician recommended for specific situations, should be avoided as well – specifically in the beginning stages of learning anal play – since one should always be able to tell when an activity is painful. Otherwise, you might find yourself at Bespoke Surgical.
Water-based lubricants are completely condom-safe and offer a slippery texture that many people desire. However, because the body absorbs water very easily, even the best water based lube has a tendency to dry out quickly and needs to be re-applied fairly regularly. On the flip-side, this makes for easy clean-up. The key benefits are: it lacks the non-edible silicone taste and slippery texture you might experience during oral sex and it’s perfectly toy-friendly. Not to mention, water-based lubes are often a cheaper alternative, and therefore come in more generous quantities.
Silicone-based lubes are commonly recommended for anal intercourse due to their slickness and endurance. They are condom-safe, but are difficult to clean and tend to stain sheets or any fabric it comes in contact with, lingering on surfaces (and body parts). Silicone-based lube is hypoallergenic, which makes it a very skin-safe ingredient; people with sensitivity or allergies generally do not have reactions. They also won’t dry out and are waterproof, making them ideal for shower-play. But since silicone breaks down silicone, these lubes are not safe to use with silicone toys, unless noted as “safe”.
Water/silicone hybrid lubes are easier to clean than pure silicone lube and surely limit staining of the sheets; however, they also won’t entirely match the slickness of a pure silicone lube. The major benefits: you will get the best of both worlds with the texture and longevity of a silicone lube, while being able to use with most sex toys (just like a water-based lube).
Oil-based lubes are equally as slick as silicone (maybe even slicker), and are extremely long-lasting (making them great for extended play). In fact, they become more slippery as you add heat/friction. However, it’s important to note that oil-based lubes are neither condom nor latex toy safe, will also stain sheets and surfaces, and technically are not supposed to be used for internal anal play. They, however, are used extensively in massages and also have scents that can be quite stimulating, producing elevated releases of endorphins.
Foreplay is a great way to get in the mood and help your body relax before having sex with your partner. To enhance foreplay, we recommend using lube or oil. Oil-based lube, when used externally, can feel amazing, especially ones that become more slippery as you add heat/friction. However, they can sometimes feel so good that they can cause premature ejaculation.
It’s also important to note that oil-based lubes are not condom safe (sometimes not toy safe either — check the toy’s packaging), will stain sheets and surfaces, and aren’t technically supposed to be used for internal anal play. Instead, use them for massages and try to find ones with scents you and your partner find stimulating to elevate the release of endorphins.
Water-based lubricants are completely toy-friendly and a great start to anal play. Water-based lubes are also condom-safe, so when you’re ready for the real D, you can transition from toy to penis seamlessly. Additionally, many people opt for water-based lubes because they’re easy to clean up, and they can be made with all-natural ingredients.
There’s also a hybrid (part water, part silicone) toy-safe lubricant that increases the lubricity. We like this variety of lube because it offers enhanced lubrication and a slippery feeling in addition to the benefits mentioned above for traditional water-based lubes. Not all water-based lubes are created equal, however. Our team of medical experts recommends Flip Lube because it’s iso-osmolar, meaning it won’t dehydrate your cells, which reduces your risk of irritation, tearing, and ultimately, STD transmission.
The benefit of using a glass toy set, like the Dosha 3-Piece Glass Anal Plug Kit or another compatible material, is that you can use silicone lube. So, when you switch to the real thing, you won’t have to change lubes. You’ll experience maximum slip from start to finish.
When it comes to anal sex, real lube (not spit) is an absolute necessity and one of the main factors in a pleasurable experience. Hopefully, you’ve engaged in foreplay leading up to this moment, which helps pre-lubricate the anal canal even further. From a doctor’s standpoint, silicone lube is the best recommendation for anal sex with or without condoms. The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina, so it is essential to have an abundance of lube to prevent discomfort and minimize the risk of injury. It’s hard to find any lube that beats the slickness and endurance of silicone.
Silicone (and water-based) lubes are safe to use with latex condoms. It’s also hypoallergenic, which makes it very skin-safe, even for people with sensitivity or allergies. They also won’t dry out and are waterproof, making them perfect for shower-play. The one thing to keep in mind is that, like oils, they can stain sheets and surfaces and take extra effort to remove from your body post-play (though this scrub was specially designed to help easily remove lube and bodily fluids). Because of this, some people prefer water-based and hybrid lubes, even though they don’t provide as much slickness as silicone does.
Special lubes, like the warming or desensitizing varieties, may look tempting, but frequently, they can do more harm than good. Warming and cooling lubricants should be avoided as they are a known irritant and aren’t designed for anal sex. Additionally, unless they are recommended by a physician for specific situations, desensitizing lubes should be avoided as well to prevent anal injury.
The alternative is to wait to use them until you know for sure that you can fully accommodate your partner. Why? People tend to use these desensitizing lubes to not feel any pain during play, but what I find is it tends to cause more localized anal issues, such as anal tears and hemorrhoids, without you even knowing it. It’s not until after the sensation wears off and the session is over that you start to feel pain.
With all of these considerations in mind, from condom and toy compatibility to endurance and ingredients, it all comes down to personal preference, so my best recommendation is to try a few different lubes and see which one you, your partner, and your body like the most. It’s not a one size fits all, but hopefully, with this guide, you’ll be able to choose the right lube for the right activity.
People ask us at Bespoke Surgical all the time to recommend the best anal lubes, but as you can tell, it truly depends on the situation of use, personal preference, and budgetary requirements. There is no correct answer to the question, but the key is to educate oneself on all the pros and cons of each category and request samples from the manufactures to determine likability before purchasing. The primary thing to keep in mind is that it is always necessary to use lube for anal and it’s worth doing some research to find the best anal lube for your needs.
Dr. Evan Goldstein is the Founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, NYC’s leading sexual health private practice. He received his osteopathic doctorate from the University of Medicine and Dentistry School in 2002 and completed his residency in General Surgery at Maimonides Medical Center. In 2020, he was named one of NYC’s top LGBTQ+ business leaders by Crain’s New York and he is involved with GLSEN, ACRIA, HRC, and Callen-Lorde’s Howard J. Brown Society. All of these experiences and affiliations have shaped his whole-life approach towards the practice of private surgical care and sexual wellness.
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Lube is to anal sex what communication is to a healthy relationship: vital. Why? Well, without the addition of store-bought lubrication anal sex isn’t just less pleasurable, it can be pretty painful— and anal sex (say it with us!) isn’t supposed to be painful, says Jordan Soper , PsyD, certified sex therapist with Promescent , a sexual wellness brand explains.
"The anal canal is not self-lubricating the way most vaginal canals are," she says. “Lubrication increases moisture in the area, and therefore helps decrease the amount of friction during penetrative play." That means you should call in all the help you need by adding an anal lube to your sex drawer.
Sure, a little bit of friction while you frick-frack is fine. But too much friction can irritate the delicate anal tissues and increase the risk of tearing and infection. But with lube and a little patience, anal play can be downright orgasmic.
So what makes a lube... anal lube, exactly? Good question. The truth is most lubes you might use for vaginal, vulvar, penile, or pleasure product play can double as anal lube. You should watch out for flavored and scented lubes, though, which have irritating and sometimes desensitizing ingredients, which can cause people to go deeper, harder, or thicker than their body would like, causing a risk of pain or injury, Soper says.
However, the best lube for anal play is thick lube. And the thickest lube of them all? Silicone-based lube. “Silicone-based lubes are considered top-tier for anal play because they stay on for longer periods of time compared to water-based lubes, which are more-easily absorbed into the body, ” Soper explains.
But if you're using silicone anal toys , oil-based lube is the best choice, she says, as silicone-based options may break down the materials in your toy. Just remember that oil-based lubricants can *never* be applied with any latex barrier you might use (condoms, dental dams, finger cots, etc), since they can damage the latex.
You also shouldn’t be surprised if you have to re-apply the lubrication mid-way through your play sesh—even if you do choose a thick ass lube (pun intended). “The rectum absorbs fluids back into the body,” Soper says. “Because lack of lubrication can make anal play uncomfortable or even painful (which we want to avoid at all costs), you’d be wise to re-apply before you think you need to.” The wetter, the better.
Now, onto the good part. Here are 17 of the best anal lubes you can shop right now, picked from a mix of expert recommendations and customer reviews.
Hybrid lubes are all the rage. You get the staying power of a silicone lube, with all the compatibility of a water-based. Babelube Silk will never disappoint. It is silky and smooth and glides on like a dream. Feel free to use it with your favorite anal-sex toys —it won’t cause any pesky damage.
If you’re planning to get rowdy with a glass or stainless steel anal toy, there’s no better bedmate than this lubricant from Cake. Formulated specifically for ass play, this silicone-water hybrid formula is basically the lube version of waterproof mascara: long-lasting.
The Butters is a creamy, rich, oil-based lube that is an absolute must-buy for anal play. Its thick and smooth texture takes your anal experiences from good to mind-blowing. Plus, it leaves skin feeling soft and moisturized and will never, ever stain your sheets. If you’re a pleasure-seeker who prides themselves on decadence, The Butters is the way to go.
Coconut oil is a great choice for anal, especially for anyone looking for a safe all- natural lube option. Unlike baby oil or Vaseline, which will dry out and irritate the anal tissue, coconut oil will stay smooth. Just remember, this one isn't safe with latex condoms.
This natural water-based lube from Lynk has racked up almost 5 stars and 1,000 reviews on Amazon. Its ingredient list is clean, the price point rocks, and it has the perfect silky consistency for anal sex. Bonus: The pump-style bottle makes for way less mess.
People love the way Wicked Jelle stays exactly where you put it, doesn't dry out or turn sticky, and rinses off easily with water. Plus, this particular anal lube comes as a set of two mini tubes, so you can keep one at your place and one at your partner's.
If thick thighs save lives, thick lube saves anal canals. (Put it on a T-shirt!) With its silicone base, this long-lasting pick is one of the thickest on the market, making it the best option for anyone looking for something pillow-y to soften the sensation of anal penetration.
System JO is known for its silky texture and long staying power. Some anal lubes can get thick and gross, but this water-based one, despite its perfect-for-anal viscosity, won't.
This is a versatile lubricant that's completely organic and all-natural—you won’t find any harsh chemicals or sketchy parabens in this lube. It's water-based and compatible with condoms, but since it's not an anal-specific lube, you may need to reapply a bit.
This is a more affordable drugstore brand that is tried and true for anal play. It stays in place—even in water—which means it’s a good choice for anal play in the shower. The formula is very gentle and non-irritating to the skin. Astroglide is water-based, condom compatible, and super slippery.
This lube is 100 percent organic, vegan, and infused with green tea and sea extracts. If you have particularly sensitive skin, try starting with a small amount before going full throttle. It’s pretty mild, but it’s always best to be safe.
This one is neither goopy nor watery, and you only need a little to make a big difference. Of course, if you find that you need some more, do. it. up.
Überlube is an industry favorite. It’s so gentle on skin, you can even use it to remove your makeup. (No, for real.) This silicone lube is light to touch and has a slick, slippery feel. Just remember: Don’t use silicone lubes with silicone anal toys, as they can degrade the material.
Almond oil has a lovely, nutty scent that's completely body-safe—just be sure you’re purchasing 100 percent all-natural almond oil. This one isn't compatible with latex condoms, FYI.
This silicone-based lube makes you feel relaxed but not numb, ideal for a good—and safe—time!
Made with clove oil, this paraben-free, vegan lube is alright to use with both condoms and silicone toys. Safe *and* sexy? Sign me up.
This lube is for the luxe among us. Its chic black bottle looks more like a pretty perfume, but where it really stands out is in performance. It creates a smooth sensation and has a clean texture. Infused with aloe vera, it’s a safe choice for anal sex and butt toys of all kinds.
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There's an urgency when it comes to lube. When you need lube, you need it now . So what do you do if things are getting hot and heavy, and you realize you're out of stock? You could put your clothes back on and run to the nearest drug store while your naked partner twiddles their thumbs waiting for you...or you could check your cabinets for a worthwhile lube alternative.
There are a few common household products that can substitute as lube, including Vaseline, olive oil, coconut oil , and other things you might have lying around. We should note up front that they're not perfect; some are better for certain sex acts than others, and some carry risks, like increasing the likelihood of a vaginal yeast infection, or—in the case of oil-based products— eroding latex condoms.
But if you're really in a pinch, we rounded up seven trusty lube alternatives, including the pros and cons of each option. We'll also tell you which lube alternatives work best for which sexy activities. Coconut oil, for instance, is probably better for butt stuff than P-in-V sex.
If household products are a little too D.I.Y. for your liking, we get it! Here are some
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