What To Do When Being Fingered

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By Guest | 109 posts, last post 7 months ago

Kate Smith
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Pain During First Sexual Intercourse And After You Lose Your Virginity

When I was getting fingered, it was my first time and it was by the guy i liked. When he was fingering me, he was rushing it- and going really fast, he kept asking if "I was cuming yet?" I told him no, and every time he entered me it hurt like a b***h! it hurt so bad that i told him to stop... it could have been because his nails were too long; or because I was dry and tense. My stomach hurt after he left; and i was really upset! i even cryed! I went to the bathroom and when i wiped A brownish-red-maroon color appeared on the tissue; It doesn't smell or itch; it's kind of red but i think its just irritated from how hard he was fingering me. My stomach stopped hurting after a half hour and then i went to sleep. My vagina feels sort of sore, and it feels kind of sensitive when i wipe. But when I wipe, a little bit of brown\red appears... it's only been a day since i got fingered, so maybe he just cut me... and it needs to heal? And maybe the sore/sensitivity came from how hard he shoved his fingers in me? I don't know can someone please tell me what I'm feeling?? I hope this is a normal situation and not an infection or anything. PLEASE HELP ME.. i don't want to see the doctor my Mom would kill me!!

there is a possibility that you could have ripped you hymena its nothign to worry abotu actully asnd if he trys to finger you again just ask him to slow down so you can get wet.

The exact same thing happened to me when i got fingered ! But everything is Fine now :-) Just tell him to take things slower the next time !!

I haven't been fingerd yet but i mite soon but i am a bit to scared to get fingerd it really dose hurt tell me when u have sex

i just fingered my girlfriend last nigth... she moaned and she told me it felt good and that it hurt.... she did say that she felt like throwing up n dat her stomach hurt a little... and yeah her vagina was also sore... so its all gud... just nature... tell him to take it slower next time and to clip those nails... ;-)

;-)
theres nothing wrong with gettinq
finqered,, well i quess when its your first time than yes it might hurt
is kind a like when having sex for the first time you also might bleed and feel that your vagina feels sore,,
and yes it hurts alot,,

the first time i qot finqered i waz only 13 &n wen he did it we were in a pool...it maybe were his nails were lonq and rippped yu..but its nothinq to be scared of at all...jus tell him to let yu qet wet and qo slow.!;

I got fingered by my boyfriend and it felt good but it really depends on what time your period cycle is. Girls are very dry after a week from their period because they just released an egg from there ovaries that was not pregnant. Its all about timing and how you communicate with your boyfriends and/or partners. It helps if you use water based lubrication NOT OIL BASED. Thats only if you cannot produce enough lubrication by getting fingered.
Another thing is to make sure your partners have there nails cut short make sure they don't have any open cuts on there fingers because you might get a std.
Next time dont be in the pool when you get fingered. Thats one way to get your vagina irritated by that chlorine water. ;-)

In reply to Guest on 2008-07-25 - click to read

Woa. that must of been pretty scary but before you let a guy do anything sexual with you, you should be able to confide in him and tell you how and where you like it and to slow down. Was you turned on ? if not then you mustve been really dry but dont worry it will calm down.

First off....don't EVER let someone do something you don't like...not just because it's wrong but because you will never get ANYWHERE in terms of sexual pleasure if you don't even like what he's doing. And secondly, I'm not sure why people do so much "fingering" when they're young because it barely gets anyone off. The best thing to do is tell him an older friend told you to have him play with your clitoris....when I play with my own I just put a lot of spit on my two first fingers and then rub fast circles on my clit....you will see very quickly that this will probably cause you to orgasm....plus your boyfriend will be a much better bang then most guys he knows if he knows the right methods. I'd suggest you practice this first because it will make it easier for you to teach him. The fingering can add to the stimulation so once he gets good at playing with your clit tell him to slide another finger in and out of your vagina....this needs to be rythmic...speed is a waste of time...but once he's played with your clit a little you should be nice and wet to then enjoy being "fingered" but personally I would rather he just play with my clit lol. Have you ever really had an orgasm?

Yeah same thing with me. I thought that it would feel great but honestly, being fingered wasn't all that great. i really like the guy so i let him do it to me. I was so paranoid that something would go wrong. The next day i could barely walk and there was bloody discharge coming out. Although i was really wet when he fingered me, this still happened to me. Maybe next time it will be better...i hope.

Something like this happend to me last night, I thought there was somethign wrong with me, cause sometimes it would feel good and then it really hurt even though he wasnt going fast at first ... maybe it was because im still a virgin .

Well I'm 13, and I got fingered by my boyfriend. After he fingered me I started to bleed a little. Is there something that he could have done to me?? I can't tell my parents or they will kill me, so I'm staying to get the answer on here. Please help me?????

May I suggest something entirely different.? Get another girl to finger you and you finger her then neither will hurt each other. D

I totaly agree with 26swmilf, you should never let anybody hurt you through out your sex life , when some is a little rough or alot, and you are dry you are at greater risk of catching a sexualy transmitted disease, lubrication does help protect you, but let not foget the condom either, long finger nails can carry germs to , so its best to have them trim and clean,
Sex is ment to enjoy your self with unforgettable pleasure, not to be turn off,
Oh if you are keen to explore other areas , yes girl on girl , usauly know what they want !!!

best of luck

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