What The Fuck Is Wrong With Me
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What The Fuck Is Wrong With Me
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This is a bit long. Sit back, relax, get a cup of coffee…
Tl;dr? I've had opinions and beliefs that run counter to popular culture. I've hid these for many years just to survive. When times got tough and it didn't matter, I decided to really be myself. Friends left my life. Don't know if I should try to change my attitude or not. Or even if something is wrong with me.
Yes, that's quite vague. Let me clear this up without giving away too much that can personally identify me.
Here's an overused cliché: If one person tells you that you're drunk, they might be wrong. If everyone says it…well, you might want to sit down. Over the last several years, I've been told that I'm an unhappy, arrogant, stubborn, angry man. I've lost friends on Facebook left and right, and people who I thought I was close to have drifted or walked away. And enough people from every stage of my life have said this for me to take notice...
In my mind, I don't think I've changed. I've simply just been more forward about who I am. Well, now I'm in a position where I don't have to keep my real side quiet -- in the past, so much was riding on my behavior and appearance.
In college, a lot of my classes relied upon the image I projected -- having a reputation of being against the hive mind would've hurt me. My jobs were crucial -- being an RA, my personal life was my work life. I had to play along. The good-boy. Studious. Easy to get along with. Politically and religiously neutral. I could never say what was on my mind because…well, my opinions and upbringing certainly clash with mainstream opinions. And even though free speech is protected by law, tell that to those who can make your life a living hell.
I graduated from a technically-driven four year university 2 years ago. Once I left, I immediately got a job being a developer at a major software company. After 6 months, I hated the work. Absolutely killed me emotionally…partly because the weather in that part of the country was so DAMN CLOUDY in the winter. The environment was bad, the work itself was just sprint after sprint. No end in sight…and my work would increase, not decrease each year I'd stay there. So I left after a year. No regrets.
The economy tanked. Finding a job became harder and harder. When I left, most of my peers forgot about me -- treated me like a leper. I guess that was the turning point -- I figured FUCK anything that isn't in line with what I want or who I am. I'll admit my political opinions openly, I'll admit my atheism openly. Facebook statuses mainly. More so when asked directly, and almost always if I saw someone being stupid. It's OK for people to say stupid shit but not ok when I say something that's controversial? SCREW THEM, I'm going to be myself for a change!
No one was helping me, I've been on my own, and I was tired of holding onto that mask I've been wearing. Part of me is concerned that I'm burning bridges…on the other hand, in my time of greatest need, no one has come forward to help me. In my mind, I'm not losing anyone who'd ever help me in the first place.
People say I'm a cranky unhappy arrogant stubborn asshole. I can't say I argue with any of that. I see stupidity in the world and from people, I don't hesitate to call it out for what it is. If that's being cranky, then so be it. I don't prance around a field full of flowers oblivious to the real world...if that's unhappy, so be it. If in an argument and the other side is clearly wrong -- proven wrong logically and I refuse to back down...if that's being an arrogant stubborn asshole, so be it.
In my mind though, I don't feel unhappy -- to me, the lack of happiness doesn't mean the negation exists. To me, I don't feel negative even though I exhibit characteristics that indicate so. And trust me, I know very clearly when I'm feeling negative.
I'm sure I could think this through and be more concise, but it's hard to use language to pinpoint something that is as vague as I feel.
So I wonder…what is wrong with me? Is there anything wrong with me?
You're asking us to judge you, so here it is: Be more forgiving of friends.
You sound like you judge people very, very harshly... which is fine if you're with politicians, at a debate, or you're choosing a doctor. If you're with friends, you should realize that everyone has their weak spots and flaws... and be more forgiving.
That doesn't mean you shut up and stop being your opinionated self. It does mean you give them a pass on stupid shit they say (more often than you currently do) and support them if they're passionate about something you might not entirely agree with.
Summary: you can be assholish all you want, but as long as you are consistently a loyal and supportive friend, others will reciprocate.
"I am who I am." is the mantra of a someone who doesn't believe in self improvement, and is USUALLY the mantra of an asshole.
Well, it is a post about...um....who? Oh that's right. Me.
You should have thought about that BEFORE you read Ayn Rand.
lmao. How'd you figure I read that book?
Nurture people. It's that simple. Some day you'll realize that half your life you're awesome and half your life your a complete knob. The sooner you figure that out the sooner you'll realize there aren't stupid people, only stupid moments in a person's life. Nurture those around you and you'll find wealth in all facets of your life.
did you really just quit smoking? also, would like to hear more about nurturing and what it begets
I'm an atheist. Just even mentioning that has lost me countless "acquaintances".
I used quite a few jokes on the death of Michael Jackson...say, he died choking on 10 year old nuts. :P Also, countless references to EmmJayology and his rising from the dead 3 days after he's buried :P
My harsh criticism of both Bush and Obama. Pissed off my conservative and liberal friends.
Someone was complaining about how they thought vaccinations stunted mental development. I set them straight.
Here's some genuine advice: When asking stuff like you did, ask yourself... "What do I want to hear?"
Humor is a great way to tell people how you really feel without them getting pissed, I do it all the time. Nobody can get mad at you if you're saying something with a shit-eating grin on your face!
You might be right about the details but you're wrong about the big picture.
Dude, the way you feel is EXACTLY how I felt when I decided I was tired of appealing to/appeasing everyone around me for the sake of maintaining a peaceful, happy, fun-loving, happy go-lucky image. I came off like a total prick when I started regurgitating everything that I'd been thinking and feeling for so many years but held back for no good reason other than being a pussy for not wanting to cause any controversy. I just unloaded on my friends and family, and everyone just looked at me as if I were a modern poltergeist. Fortunately I have a good enough relationship with the few people that hung on that they weathered the storm and understood my frustrations. It was like a newfound freedom that came with a high sprinkled with arrogance whenever I stumped those around me. Eventually I learned to reign this in and limit my rants to those that tolerate my 'asshole' nature the best.
I'm still very light hearted, fun loving and generally peaceful. I just speak my mind with a lot more passion and freedom and know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Enjoy my friend. Enjoy.
Thank you -- you probably have put things into far better words than I have. Much more constructive than some of the others here.
I'm kinda at that cusp where I've driven away all the people who'd I'd be hostile with...and realizing that I might need to cool down unless I'm with those who truly appreciate my perspective.
On the other hand, it's so much fun!
So we know all the ways people perceive you to be a 'cranky unhappy arrogant stubborn asshole'. in what ways are you a 'positive, happy, selfless, giving friend' ?
I'm not. I'm quite neutral at best, not unhappy at best, selfish (there is value in that), and i give to those who I want to give to.
watch some Carlin or Black to see how some very smart people learned how to deal w/the incredible stupidity that is ordinary life. they'll show you how to deal...
Arguing isn't always worth it. And by posting your controversial opinions publicly, you open yourself up for criticism. There isn't anything wrong with this, but it definitely comes with its consequences.
It's a cost/benefit scenario... are the lost acquaintances worth displaying your opinion? Even though it's probably not changing anyone else's?
Have a family/friends get together where you can "be yourself". But get someone to follow you around with a video camera, recording all your interactions with other people. Then, watch the video the next day.
You don't like yourself very much, and people can tell. That is your problem. It sounds difficult to believe but it is true.
Find things you like about yourself now
Find ways to develop qualities that you would like to see in yourself
The more you like yourself, the more people will be inclined to do so.
Actually, not to sound argumentative... I do quite like who I am. I'm really honestly comfortable with my identity, for the first time in a long while. Mainly because...well...I'm being who I am.
You sound like a complete dickhead. If that's who you want to be, fine. It'll be a solitary existence, but at least your facebook status will be honest at long last.
Seriously, you're on track to be on of those guys who dies, and no one finds out until the neighbors complain about the smell.
Source: TikTok/@memesaboutmymind; TikTok/@rosiemay394
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What is the "what the actual f--k is wrong with me" test?
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TikTokers share their "what the actual f--k is wrong with me" test results.
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Jul. 5 2022, Published 5:06 p.m. ET
If you ever find yourself with absolutely nothing to do, we suggest making your way through several personality quizzes . They're mindless fun, and many of them tend to go viral anyway, so why not get involved with the trend?
From the human emotion quiz to a multidimensional anger test , there are plenty of fascinating questionnaires in the digital world. Now, the latest personality quiz to take social media by storm has us asking, " what the actual f--k is wrong with me? "
Stick around as we discuss all things related to the "what the actual f--k is wrong with me" test!
Since June 2022, various TikTokers have shared their results from the "what the actual f--k is wrong with me" test; now, if you're eager to take the test and join in on the fun, head to this UQuiz page .
Once you enter your name, you'll be given a series of 16 questions, ranging from asking about your favorite color to what you got up to while unsupervised on the internet as a child. There is also a timed question, so make sure you answer within 10 seconds.
After you complete the test, you will receive your results. Some of the possible outcomes include:
When we took the test, we received "gifted burnout" as our result.
"Let me guess. You are/were very talented at something but overtime, that talent become average and unforgettable," the result reads. "You scramble for attention and approval and just want to be recognized again. You're probably failing school [right now], but don't give up. You were given that talent for a reason, work with it and don't let it go!"
As usual, TikTok is the reason for a personality test going viral.
On June 27, user @_cassieberry took part in the trend, revealing that she received "victim complex" as her result ... yikes! The description reads, "get [your] head out of [your] a-- and stop crying all the damn time." Wow, talk about harsh!
TikToker @memesaboutmymind also shared her results, which turned out to be "background character #17." Alright, that doesn't sound too bad! But, let's check out what that means:
"You are like a generic avatar that you get when you don't have money for a cool one in a game. You try to be cool, follow trends, and copy others, but, in reality, you're a nobody." OK, that is a total drag through the mud.
"People use you left and right because they know you won't stand up for yourself," the report continues. "You put up and go through so much s--t, I just wanna give you a hug. You probably let others decide things for you and steal other's personalities since you don't have one yourself!"
Oof, that is brutal; luckily, it's all just fun and games. With that said, let us know your results!
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