What Is A Swingers Party

What Is A Swingers Party
5 Things You Need To Know About Swinging (And Why You Should Try It)
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By Mike Hatcher — Written on Dec 27, 2018
What is swinging? In American culture — and in most cultures — the term "swinging couples" applies to partners who engage in sexual activities with other people outside their marriage or relationship. The subject of swinging is considered a taboo, or too kinky for the general public.
However, there is much more to the swing lifestyle than what is generally known about it.
A lot of people think that swinging couples come from the ugly side of society. However, this is untrue. Swinger couples come from all walks of life. Some swinger couples come from middle class to upper class, some hold a high degree of education, some have a white-collar job, and some are from all sides of political affiliations.
Although swingers come from all walks of life, there is one common factor that binds them — they enjoy engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners and with the consent of their spouses. Despite what most people think, swinger couples are normal human beings that choose to explore their sexuality in a different way.
They aren't psychologically disturbed individuals. Furthermore, swinger couples organize meetings or parties where ground rules are laid down beforehand. A swinger party may be a threesome, foursome, or even an orgy. It all depends on what everyone in the party agrees on.
Most swinger couples, despite having a normal lifestyle, have a tendency to keep their swinger lifestyle a secret. This is understandable since the general public frowns upon the idea and thinks that people who "swing" are psychologically ill.
Because of this, swingers tend to make use of the internet to meet and set up a meeting with other swingers to initially conceal their identities.
One of the most asked questions when it comes to swinging is: Why do it? There are several advantages to a swinger lifestyle:
Not surprising, since the lifestyle comes with a set of challenges which are best solved by strong communication between partners. There are also some common misconceptions about swinging:
This is a common misconception. As mentioned before, swinger couples come in a wide range of variety , young and old, fat and thin and rich and poor.
Despite what other people think about STDs and swinging, the truth is a swinging couple is no more at risk than singles that are sexually active. The risk of contracting an STD for a swinger couple is lower than the general public.
Some swingers report that it is lower since they are open in communicating the importance of safe sex and they tend to choose their partners better compared to single people.
Swinger couples are no more dishonest from the rest of the average couple. In fact, they may be more honest. Having sex with other people is not cheating — having sex with other people without your partner knowing is cheating.
Swinger couples give consent that their partners will engage in sexual activities with other people.
In fact, most swinger couples have strongly committed relationships and the successful ones excel in the art of communication and honesty. Because of this, swinger lifestyle is not for everyone.
While some couples try being a swinger couple as a last-ditch effort to save a failing marriage, this is not advisable — the idea fails more than it succeeds.
This is not true. The percentage of swinger couples that use drugs is just about the same with the public if not less. In conclusion, there are a lot of misconceptions with swinging couples and the swinger lifestyle.
However, the truth is swinging couples are perfectly normal people that come from all walks of life. These people simply choose to express and explore their sexuality in their own way and with the consent of all parties involved.
Mike Hatcher is a sex coach who has been writing about open relationships, swinging and sex, and relationship advice for alternative sex lives.
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Sex is not a taboo subject anymore.
Most people feel comfortable with discussing their bedroom antics with friends and the average number of partners people have in their lifetime has increased dramatically in recent years.
Even sex parties, which were once reserved for only the very adventurous, are more popular than ever.
However, there is still an element of mystery that shrouds a ‘swinging party’.
From whether people really throw their car keys into a bowl to how the fun gets started – here’s 12 things you need to know about going to a swinging party.
1. No, people don’t throw their keys in a bowl
Sure, there is often a warm up game to get people started, but it’s usually something far more fun like spin the bottle.
No protection, no play. No exceptions.
People often presume swingers are either ridiculously good looking (think Eyes Wide Shut) or ridiculously suburban (think Abigail’s Party – minus the clothes).
In actual fact, they are rarely either.
Simply curious and open-minded singles and couples exploring their naughty side.
4. There’s a strong code of conduct
Courtesy, respect and an understanding of when someone is not interested in your advances are all essential at a swinging party.
5. Couples come as a couple and leave as a couple
…. Single men are rarely invited on their own, and single women are called unicorns – rare, precious and very welcome.
6. You should invest in some decent underwear
Knickers don’t tend to stay on for long at a swinging party, but, when they do, part of the fun is looking exceptional in your new Agent Provocateur underwear set.
And people don’t tend to strip naked as soon as they arrive.
Instead, they are encouraged to relax and enjoy the party first – some even forbid ‘play’ until a certain time.
The beauty of a swinging party is that there’s no judgement. People are stripped bare, literally and metaphorically.
So don’t be surprised if you’re ‘chatting’ to a barman one minute and a property tycoon the next – it’s all part of the fun.
9. Going just to watch is allowed (but not all the time)
There are different ‘types’ of attendees, from those who’ll do anything with anyone to those who prefer to watch.
Watching is considered fair play for newbies, but seasoned swingers often have a ‘get involved or go home’ rule for those who prefer to watch but not play *every* time.
If it’s a smaller party held at a private home, yes, you bring a bottle.
They’ve opened their home to you, the least you can do is turn up with a decent bottle of plonk.
A room full of champagne and nakedness after a hard week in the office.
12. It’s far less intimidating than you’d think
Because, at the end of the day, it’s all just a bit of fun, isn’t it?
And it was everyone’s first time once.

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BOLD couples have gone on TV and revealed what actually happens at swingers parties. They didn’t hold back on the details of their taboo lifestyle.
A GROUP of swingers have given a rare and honest insight into the inner workings of the taboo lifestyle, revealing the truth behind people’s common misconceptions.
ABC’s program You Can’t Ask That features different groups of Australians and asks them questions that people want to know the answer to but wouldn’t bring up in a regular situation.
Some of the past participants include former cult members, drag queens, transgender people, strippers and, in the latest episode, swingers.
The participants start off by addressing some of the myths around swinging and swingers parties.
There’s a common misconception that at these parties partners get chosen by everyone putting their car keys in a bowl and whoever’s keys you pick out is your partner for the night.
But according to the participant’s this rarely, if ever, happens and partners are chosen on a preferential basis.
“I would much rather have sex with a couple that we have talked with over drinks for an hour than be forced into a bedroom with another person,” Sally from Melbourne said.
Megan, a single woman who is involved in the Brisbane swinger scene, said: “That would terrify me because you don’t really have a choice about who you’re going home with or who you’re hooking up with.”
Megan is known as a “unicorn” in the swinging community because of her single status and said that a lot of couples often look to incorporate another woman in their sex lives.
She said that many people believe women are forced into the swinging scene by their husbands or boyfriends and that the community is just full of “sleazy, old, fat men”.
“The thing is that can be true sometimes because all types of people like to swing,” Megan said. “(It’s) people wanting to explore their sexuality with each other in a couple situation.”
Swinging has moved past â€œkeys in a bowl.â€ Find out what modern-day swinging is really all about in the new episode of #YouCantAskThat pic.twitter.com/v5Twyb4cFl
For the people being interviewed the decision to get into swinging was very much a mutual decision between both partners.
Husband and wife Andrew and Sally first got into the scene shortly after their engagement.
“I was only 18 when I met Andrew. He was pretty much one of my first sexual partners,” Sally said.
“As the wedding date slowly crept up on us, I sort of felt the pressure of, ‘I haven’t had any other sexual experiences, I haven’t played with anyone else’”.
She said it was a co-worker that first suggested that just because they were getting married didn’t mean they had to be monogamous.
The couple now regularly attend swingers events together, naming “jelly wrestling” and “the raw lust of it” as some of the most exciting aspects.
Interviewees answered a range of questions like “What are the best sex tips you have learned?” and “What is it like to lose your swinging virginity?”, but one of the big ones asked what it was like to see their partner with someone else.
Jess from Sydney said jealousy is definitely a factor, particularly in the beginning.
“I’m not going to say I don’t get jealous, especially in the early days … because, you know, I compared myself to that girl and I was like, ‘How did she do that?’” she said
“(But) I think just being able to communicate that with Lawrence has taught me … I don’t have to be jealous. I can just appreciate and love him and love her for what they’re doing. And do it better sometimes.”
Most of the couples agreed that communication between couples was key and a lot of the time seeing their partner with someone else was part of the thrill.
All of the interviewees were very forthcoming with information and the episode didn’t really leave much to the imagination.
While some viewers praised the show as “wonderfully honest” and “very eye-opening”, others weren’t so impressed.
“While I’m cool with people enjoying whatever they like, I actually felt like I was tricked into listening to porn without my consent,” one person wrote on social media.
“Bit ironic really when they were talking up the understanding of consent within the swinging community.”
Another said. “Now I am very broad minded but that needed some serious warnings before it was on. Bit OTT. Love the concept in the right situation.”
“Bit verbally graphic for 9pm my adult kids. Walked out! … not a prude just saying,” one person wrote.
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BOLD couples have gone on TV and revealed what actually happens at swingers parties. They didn’t hold back on the details of their taboo lifestyle.
A GROUP of swingers have given a rare and honest insight into the inner workings of the taboo lifestyle, revealing the truth behind people’s common misconceptions.
ABC’s program You Can’t Ask That features different groups of Australians and asks them questions that people want to know the answer to but wouldn’t bring up in a regular situation.
Some of the past participants include former cult members, drag queens, transgender people, strippers and, in the latest episode, swingers.
The participants start off by addressing some of the myths around swinging and swingers parties.
There’s a common misconception that at these parties partners get chosen by everyone putting their car keys in a bowl and whoever’s keys you pick out is your partner for the night.
But according to the participant’s this rarely, if ever, happens and partners are chosen on a preferential basis.
“I would much rather have sex with a couple that we have talked with over drinks for an hour than be forced into a bedroom with another person,” Sally from Melbourne said.
Megan, a single woman who is involved in the Brisbane swinger scene, said: “That would terrify me because you don’t really have a choice about who you’re going home with or who you’re hooking up with.”
Megan is known as a “unicorn” in the swinging community because of her single status and said that a lot of couples often look to incorporate another woman in their sex lives.
She said that many people believe women are forced into the swinging scene by their husbands or boyfriends and that the community is just full of “sleazy, old, fat men”.
“The thing is that can be true sometimes because all types of people like to swing,” Megan said. “(It’s) people wanting to explore their sexuality with each other in a couple situation.”
For the people being interviewed the decision to get into swinging was very much a mutual decision between both partners.
Husband and wife Andrew and Sally first got into the scene shortly after their engagement.
“I was only 18 when I met Andrew. He was pretty much one of my first sexual partners,” Sally said.
“As the wedding date slowly crept up on us, I sort of felt the pressure of, ‘I haven’t had any other sexual experiences, I haven’t played with anyone else’”.
She said it was a co-worker that first suggested that just because they were getting married didn’t mean they had to be monogamous.
The couple now regularly attend swingers events together, naming “jelly wrestling” and “the raw lust of it” as some of the most exciting aspects.
Interviewees answered a range of questions like “What are the best sex tips you have learned?” and “What is it like to lose your swinging virginity?”, but one of the big ones asked what it was like to see their partner with someone else.
Jess from Sydney said jealousy is definitely a factor, particularly in the beginning.
“I’m not going to say I don’t get jealous, especially in the early days … because, you know, I compared myself to that girl and I was like, ‘How did she do that?’” she said
“(But) I think just being able to communicate that with Lawrence has taught me … I don’t have to be jealous. I can just appreciate and love him and love her for what they’re doing. And do it better sometimes.”
Most of the couples agreed that communication between couples was key and a lot of the time seeing their partner with someone else was part of the thrill.
All of the interviewees were very forthcoming with information and the episode didn’t really leave much to the imagination.
While some viewers praised the show as “wonderfully honest” and “very eye-opening”, others weren’t so impressed.
“While I’m cool with people enjoying whatever they like, I actually felt like I was tricked into listening to porn without my consent,” one person wrote on social media.
“Bit ironic really when they were talking up the understanding of consent within the swinging community.”
Another said. “Now I am very broad minded but that needed some serious warnings before it was on. Bit OTT. Love the concept in the right situation.”
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