What Is A Rub And Tug
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What Is A Rub And Tug
Men's Advice
Sex, Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs
By David Wygant
July 24, 2007
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LOL. Well I was just headed out to work and caught this one. It really makes me laugh since that is my line of work---NO, NOT RUB-N-TUG!, Massage Therapy. Never have asked if someone wants a "Happy Ending." Been desperate, but not that desperate!
David, 100% on the whole sleeping where a million others have been---and you know what they been doing! Whenever traveling--ALWAYS take your own blankets! lol YES I am serious.
The music, naked and oil---that is fun! Ladies add a little lap dance or strip tease to that and REALLY enhance the night!
Ok. Thats it for me. Time to go Massage some muscles without laughing the whole time! Lol I will be thinking about this BLOG all day now!
David, thank you!!! This work day will be extra fun for me and puzzleing for my clients. I will send them here to read this! Have an awesome day!
I live in a small town in Iowa. There are very few available women in the town. Often, I travel to Des Moines and hit the bars to find ladies. Sometimes I'm successful, but often I'm just sexually frustrated. Having a "rub and tug" in my hometown would get me through those weeks between sexual expierences. Unfotunately, there are no places such as that around here. How depressing. I really should move to Los Angeles and be like Johnny Drama, a known regular at the Happy Joy Asian Love Spa. Thanks David for understanding.
Jack,
I live in a small town too! Put your Personal Ad on a Craigslist.org, write something funny, like I once wrote, "If you are so..., so... so... I would like to hearing from you! Even of you didn't get an Apple IPhone last week, I still would like to hearing from you! Well, about the IPhone - I was only kidding..."
And then dozens of men started to write to me. They wanted to know if I got an IPhone, they wanted to know what I think about an IPhone; they wanted to know if would be interested to meet a man without an IPhone; somebody send an E-mail from his Iphone; somebody send a link to an IPhone commercial on youtube.
But the point is that most of these men were local people, they lived in my small town or very close to where I live and I thought that single men in my age group don't live here at all! Just be creative and have fun!
Joan, I have a question. I get this massage from this really cute woman. I've never asked her out. I've certainly never asked her for the "rub 'n tug." I spend the whole massage trying not to get an erection so I don't look like Johnny Drama on Entourage. By the way, Johnny Drama could not get it up during one of the rub 'n tug episodes. I look more like Turtle anyways. So my question to David (or Joan) is how do I ask out my masseuse without her thinking that the only reason why I ever had her massage me was so I could ask her out?
Are there any places like this for women? It wouldn't be called a "rub 'n tug," it would be called just a rub :) I've passed this blog onto all my friends. This is just about the funniest thing I've read in a long time! David, can you help us find a sexy male masseuse who wants to rub?? LOL
i could help 7245457955 call me some time.
This is pretty hilarious David. Been once to a "Rub and Tug," passed up the tug. Ha Ha I am not real into that scene, but to each his own. I'd rather be rubbed, hot oiled, naked...with someone who has sparked my interest.
Joan, the dance sounds like a great addition:) How would you answer that question of Richards? Richard don't feel alone there. A good massage has that stimulating effect on a lot if not all men. Ha ha Well, back to the grind..the work grind;) I'll be back later to see if the sexy cougar answers that question. Interested for the answer:) I'm out!
Ah ha. my friend wasn't bs'ing.
LOL Horny Lisa, you make me laugh! Everytime I see that name I am inclined to change mine to "Jump You Bone Joan!" So if y'all see that here---you know it's me. LOL Girl I thought of a name for we womens place. The guys got their "Rub and Tug," we need our "Rub and Grub!" lol Got me on that one?!
OOO this day has been to fun and it's only half over!
Richard:) I remeber you from oral pleasure day, because you asked the ladies a question about alternating the oral with penetration;) How is that going is my question to you? lol Is it all you were told and then some! NICE!!!
The massage question. First of all, don't feel weird about getting aroused, because it happens A LOT to some of my clients and the girls I work with talk about it too. Sometimes it is hard for the therapist as well. If he is hot and starts with the, "mmm that feels good stuff," well let me just say, it is a good thing I don't don a penis or he would think he was getting a hot poker in his side! LOL Just being honest folks! SOOO The therapist gets turned on at times also. We are touching mens oily bodies from stem to stern. Man do I love my job! ( Most the time,)
Do you think she is interested at all in you? If she does seem interested, just tell her something like, "Hey, I was wondering if you would like to go with me sometime to the......(you fill in the blank) art museum, or for coffee.." Whatever you think or have dug out of her subtly that she has interest in. Tell her, "I have been wanting to ask, but didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable since you ARE my massage therapist." There you go! Don't ask her this as you are layed out on the table now. lol Make sure you have eye to eye contact and just see what she says. You will never know until you ask. Good luck to you.
Now could one of you guys tell us women, what if we wanted to have casual friend sex with a man one time, how we could do that tactfully?
Can it BE done tactfully? Now it is only fair we get an answer here. Your questions have been answered from a womans point of view, now we need the mans point of view. Don't be shy! David you are the expert here. Can you answer that---or do I have to wait? lol
Ok. I am off to work to finish up this fun filled day. I hope the 2nd half is as or more fun!!! lol
Guys, who is the man who will answer that relatively easy question????
Wil there be any answer when I return?
Are men afraid to answer stuff like that?
Do men not like to asked a question like that?
Do men see girls that ask that as sluts?
Don't you wish you'd answered the one question?
Now you have 6 more to deal with. LOL No, if that one can be answered, that will suffice:) Thanks
"Rub an Run" if I find out my old man goes to that kind of place. Ha ha this is a funny post today. I don't know why the word "weenie" makes me laugh! Ha Ha!! Horny Lisa and jump your bone Joan, what should my name be? I can't think of a good one. I reckon I will leave that to someone here. Ha Ha! I like the 'Rub and Grub!" My old man has got the rubbin, I just wish hed do a little more "grubbin!" Ha Ha Good laughs David.
Thanks for the tips ladies! I emailed David and he told me to step up to the plate and take my balls into the massage place and ask her out, because he said "I could always find another masseuse" and he's right. Thanks for responding to my email David! I know your busy, and I appreciate the minute you took. Next time I'll be patient and wait for you to respond in the blog. By the way, I just finished listening to David's audio program, The Mastery Series, and it kicks ass!!!! Really, really good stuff!! Thanks everyone!
Another day bites the dust! Ha Allright Joan let me see your answer here. Ok That is good and Davids is too. That would probably be the more manly way to me. Ask, if she declines she loses a date and a client! Ha Ha No offense Joan. You know you are the exception to the rules in my book. Glad to see you are your crazy girl self;) You are definitely in happy overdrive . Hey I'll take a shot...well I will tell you how I feel about your question. I am not an expert, but if the two have been friends then she should just tell him what her thoughts are. Just like the massage thing. Just say what you want, and either it happens or it doesn't. Does that help answer the question? I will talk to you later little sexy cougar;) Everybody have a good one. I'm out.
David, this is tooo funny! Sure beats reading how crappy people can react to your blogs. LOL BW I laughed so hard when I read your "rub and run" comment. Hey if this is what a man feels he needs, by all means get you a rub n tug for goodness sakes. lol Hey Joan, who cares what the man thinks? I say ask and hopefully recieve and if not, his loss! I think a man should be flattered a woman sees him as somebody she would want to have sex with. You KNOW they love the one night deal...most anyway. Sorry guys..don't want to stereotype but lets face it. Hey I like one night stands every so often. If a guy looks at a woman as a "slut" then hes an ass and doesn't deserve the pleasure anyway. Sorry Jacob. lol Didn't mean to over ride your answer:) Do you do any masseuse work on the side? If you are as sexy as we hear from your Jaguar comments, Horny Lisa there is our masseuse man! lol
Well, I honestly could have worked over overtime today. We had the most fun at work we have had in a very long time. Thanks for taking a minute when I know you clearly didn't have the time, to let me tell you thanks David, from the whole spa!!! Appreciate your time. Everybody (but 2 older ladies) read the BLOG, and laughed. Granted we who are the MTs were under fire, but it was fun fire! The clients (for the most part) got a kick out of all the little "happy ending" jokes:)
Lol Persia. Yea, well she didn't wait. She talked to him and he was pretty happy. She is adorable, so he should be happy! I know she is. I sure am or guess who would be dear Abigail tonight;) Luv ya Lynn:)))) Have fun!
Jacob I agree with you. My answer was how a woman looks at the situation I guess. David gave a mans answer for a man. Always going to be better advice;) Thank you for answering my question. You didn't want to answer the other 5? lol I am playing;) So, you are wanted as the masseuse here i see?;) Do you think you can handle the job? Ladies, I will sacrifice and be the Guinnea Pig and see if Jacob would be a good canidate;)) LOL I might or might not get back with y'all on that one;)))
Well, as fun as this day was, I am ready for some R&R. Dog still needs a little exercise and my labor for the day is done! Good night to all;)
Hey, Horney Lisa,
Do you know who was the sexiest male masseuse in the world? James Bond!!!
I would never go to a male masseuse unless it is James Bond!
The problem Jessica is that James Bond only gets massages. I am sure he has indulged in a rub and tug.
I hear the name of his next movie is.
Danial Craig starring as James Bond in
Happy Endings.
Filmed on location throughout asia.
And exactly where do all these asian women get there hand job training from?
Jessica, Daniel Craig---HOT!!! A massage from him would be awesome!!
Massaging him would be MORE awesome. LOL
People, you forgot!
There is one James Bond movie where Kim Basinger is playing. She is in a spa. Her masseuse is late, James Bond walks in, gives her a back rub and walks away
LOL. I agree with Jessica. Being secretive is GREAT...but that does kinda suck cuz its a TEASE. UGH. I love teases but HATE them too. ARGH.
I'd just read this and it is worthless.
Let me start by saying that if you want a quality rub 'n tug, go to Canada. There are no such facilities in the continental USA which are legal and above board. Plus, there are plenty of international and Canuck women, who'll offer these services north of the border, who can speak English or French (if you like the Quebecois scene).
==That whole process really doesn’t turn me on. Now it’s different if someone that I’m hanging with comes over, puts on some incredible music, gets naked, and we have some fun with oil all over our bodies.===
This sensual experience is available in Canada and yes, you can also have an ethnic east Asian masseuse who speaks English up there, if you so prefer.
How do you find these Rub and Tug places. Escort is all over but rub and tug?
Totally true. It's a professional massage that really relaxes you. When it's nearly done they usually tickle the balls a bit and then ask if you want more. If you focus on the other guys that have been there, of course you'll get grossed out. I focus on the girl touching my balls. It's a great feeling and the best way to relieve some tension.
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For those of you who watch “Entourage” on HBO, there was a really funny episode when Johnny Drama (played by Kevin Dillon) walked into this Asian massage parlor…with a twist. It was your neighborhood friendly “rub ‘n tug” shop. You know the place – where a man can walk in, get his muscles massaged by a sexy woman who speaks little English, and then when she’s finished massaging she will look at you and in broken English say “Mister, you want happy ending?”
All over Los Angeles, there’s your neighborhood 7-11 store where you can get America’s favorite soft drink (the Big Gulp) and then right next to it there’s a massage parlor, where a man can get his favorite neighborhood rub ‘n tug. A little bit of rubbing and a little bit of tugging makes men happy.
Basically, rub ‘n tug shops are the safe version of being with another woman. Most men believe that because it’s just “a happy ending,” and because they DID get the massage, that this is not cheating. I once read a survey in a magazine that said that 80% of men have gone to their local rub ‘n tug shop for a little mid-afternoon relief.
Now I’m not a big fan of the rub ‘n tug thing. I like to go in, get a massage, get my muscles worked on, and listen to some good spa music. That whole process really doesn’t turn me on. Now it’s different if someone that I’m hanging with comes over, puts on some incredible music, gets naked, and we have some fun with oil all over our bodies.
But to be massaged by someone who doesn’t speak a word of English on sheets that other people have had the rub ‘n tug on, doesn’t turn me on. I liken it to sleeping in one of those motels where you wouldn’t want to make any contact with the bedspread but because the air conditioning has no thermostat and gets a little cold during the night, the bedspread inevitably ends up right under your nose.
There are just certain things I don’t like to share. I don’t like to sleep in a bed on which thousands of other people have slept, and I don’t like to get a rub ‘n tug on a bed where seven other guys have gotten one during that same day. That just doesn’t turn me on.
But , there are lots of married men who are bored and who just want a rub ‘n tug in the afternoon. Why jerk off in the office bathroom when you can have someone do it for you? I know a lot of single guys in this scenario: they go out, have a few drinks, spend about seventy bucks, they don’t meet any women, and then they go to the local massage place and spend another $100.00 on the rub ‘n tug. They figure that it cost them $170.00 that night, but it was worth it because they got off.
For me it’s all about connecting with someone and having a good time. It’s not as if I don’t like getting off. I just like to do it my own way, i.e., with another person who I don’t have to pay to pull on my weenie.
But the local rub ‘n tug does provide a good service for some men. If you’re bored one day, hang out outside your local rub ‘n tug and see the volume of men who go in there to get rubbed and tugged.
I’ve lived most of my adult life in big cities, and I know some of you who live in smaller towns don’t have a “happy ending” massage parlor around the corner from your local Blockbuster or 7-11. And for those of you who do live in small towns, men masturbate like men. They retreat to their own private place and masturbate. But for those of us who live on the coasts, we have the privilege of going to our local “happy ending” rub ‘n tug massage parlor.
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