What Does Submissive Mean Sexually

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What Does Submissive Mean Sexually

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Sylvia Smith loves to share insights on how couples can revitalize their love lives in and out of the bedroom. As a writer at Marriage.com, she is a big believer in living consciously and encourages couples to adopt this principle in their lives too. Sylvia believes that every couple can transform their relationship into a happier, healthier one by taking purposeful and wholehearted action.

There is a widespread belief that women enjoy submissive sex. And, although we will explore this subject in the following article, we should first note that both sexes, and all individuals, for that matter, have a neurological potential of liking both dominance and submission in sex.
That said, it is also the fact that women seem to still enjoy the submissive sexual role. So, let’s see why it is so, from a psychological standpoint.
Both men and women fantasize, that’s not a secret anymore. They both have attitudes about what they like and what not. Both genders have fantasies that they will fulfill at some point and some that will remain just that.
When it comes to the content of these sexual fantasies , what men and women get aroused by can be very similar, such as enjoying a vignette in which there are elements of sexual domination.
Although there are similarities that we wrote about among men and women, there are also very important differences. The most important ones revolve around how socially dominant individuals relate to force fantasies. Socially dominant men seem to also enjoy fantasies in which they dominate women.
However, women don’t differ in how they rate fantasies in which they dominate men based on their social standing. Both powerful women and shy housewives would rate a female domination fantasy similarly. But, when it comes to fantasies about them being dominated, women reveal a significant difference that is associated with their influence in the society.
Women of power or generally dominant women seem to enjoy fantasies of a tad forceful intercourse more than other women.
These fantasies may remain in their heads or play out in real life . They may include rather gentle dominance of their male partner but can go as far as fantasies of rape.
Women’s fantasy of being forcefully taken and seduced is interlaced with the fact that such mate would be probably genetically very well predisposed to give them healthy and strong children.
But, these evolutionary assumptions aren’t really that applicable to modern women anymore. They are especially unsuitable to women who are socially dominant and need no such thing as a big protector and a provider.
So, how would we then explain this experimentally confirmed fact, when previously given explanation doesn’t do much to help us understand this phenomenon?
Interestingly, experiments might reveal the mechanism behind this fantasy of dominant women. And the results reveal a logical, but unexpected explanation.
There are different explanations of why an, otherwise very confident and seemingly strong, the woman enjoys becoming dominated over in bed.
Some psychologists, especially those of dynamic schools of thought, might be prone to explaining this by introducing intricate subconscious tendencies towards self-destruction, things like penis-envy and so on.
Nonetheless, it seems that an explanation of what appears to be a paradox is much simpler than that. It’s not a paradox at all. Unlike how degrading such sexual intercourse might appear to some, to powerful women, there’s an entirely different perspective. Such encounters actually serve to confirm the dominant woman’s desirability.
In other words, a woman that enjoys a man dominating over her in sex actually interprets this behavior as the manifestation of how attracted he was to her .
He couldn’t resist her. She was that beautiful and sexy that he just couldn’t help himself, he had to have her, be it by force.
She’s successful in her career, socially dominant, and now she’s also sexually desirable, as a demonstration of feminine power.
When it comes to the discussion about submissive sex for women, the feminist movement might and usually do protest. The idea of a woman being dominated over by a man opposes the core of feminist philosophy. Women should be independent and powerful in every aspect of their existence, including sex.
However, as we presented above, the lure of submissive sex for women might be actually in accordance with what feminism propagates; or, at least, not in opposition to it. Yes, the man forces himself to a woman. But, there is more to feminine power than sheer physical force.
In other words, what women enjoy about being submissive in sex is actually empowering from the other perspective.
A perspective of feminine desirability and thus female power. This is confirmed by the fact that fantasies about sexual submission excite socially powerful and dominant women the most, and that they interpret male domination as a proof of their irresistibility.
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What does it mean to be submissive in a relationship?
This is a question that many people ask themselves when they are considering what type of dynamic would work best for them.
In this blog post, we will examine the meaning of submission and see how it can improve your relationships.
Submissive is a role in a relationship where the person takes on tasks and behaviors that are asked of them by their partner.
This might be different for every couple, but can often include things like household chores, sexual favors, or simply taking on a more passive role in the relationship.
If you’re interested in exploring this type of dynamic with your partner, there are a few things to keep in mind.
First, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation about what each of you expect from the relationship.
This includes discussing your roles, but also your expectations for communication, honesty, and trust.
Submissive is defined as yielding to the authority of another.
In a relationship, this means that you are giving your partner control and following their lead. This can be a difficult thing to do if you are not used to it, but with time and practice, it can become second nature.
How do you become submissive in a relationship?
The first step is to understand your own needs and wants. Once you know what they are, you can communicate them to your partner.
Next, be willing to put your partner’s needs before your own. This doesn’t mean that you always have to agree with them, but it does mean that you should be respectful and considerate of their feelings.
Finally, be patient and let the relationship evolve at its own pace. Trying to force things will only lead to frustration on both sides.
If you can approach being submissive with an open mind and a willingness to learn, you will find that it can add a whole new dimension to your relationship. And who knows, you may even find that you enjoy it!
1.Be Patient: One of the most important aspects of being submissive is to be patient. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and your partner isn’t going to become a dominant overnight. If you can exhibit patience and understanding, it will go a long way in helping your relationship flourish.
2. Follow Instructions: Obeying instructions is one of the best ways to show that you are submissive.
3. Be Careful Not To Take It Too Far: While it’s important to follow instructions, your partner should not be too controlling or manipulative with their orders. If they take things too far, there needs to be some give and take in order for the relationship to be healthy.
4. Be Open Minded: One of the benefits of a submissive partner is that they are often more open minded and willing to try new things in the bedroom. If you’re looking to spice up your sex life, this can be a great attribute to have.
In conclusion, Being submissive can be a difficult role to fill in a relationship, but it can also be very rewarding.
If you are interested in becoming submissive, there are a few things you need to keep in mind.
First, always remember that your submission should never come at the expense of your own safety or well-being.
Second, make sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to your roles.
Lastly, always be willing to communicate with your partner about any concerns or questions you may have.
By following these tips, you can create a healthy and fulfilling submissive relationship. Thanks for reading!
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Submissive. It’s a term with a lot of negative connotation to it in today’s society. Much of it has nothing to do with the submission practiced in D/s relationships but because most of us, when we first encounter the term, don’t know a thing about BDSM it can come as quite a shock to be described in this way.

In this video I’d like to help you understand what it means to be submissive in a Dominant/submissive context as it pertains to BDSM relationships. I want to debunk a few common myths and help you or your partner accept that being submissive can be a healthy expression of yourself or your sexuality.

Being submissive is a healthy expression of your personality, whether that be in your public or private life. Submissives are often able to live fulfilled lives and feel more connected with themselves and their relationships. I’ve often heard other submissives say that their life is better because they submit then before they embraced the D/s lifestyle.

There are many different bottom roles that could fit you and one size does not fit all in any of them. I suggest that anyone who has being controlled fantasies specifically start with a bottom role and go from there. That way you can explore the kinky fantasies you have and not overwhelm yourself with the idea of surrendering control of other areas of your life (until you want to/unless you want to).

Let's take a look at the following four spaces to help you figure out if you are submissive. Apply them however they will work for your own personal situation.

Knowing you are submissive will have a
mental aspect to it. When you think of serving others does it put you in a peaceful position? If it feels like the logical thing to do then it probably is. When I found that I was happy being submissive I stopped fighting myself and accepted being happy.

You may also have a
spiritual connection to submission. I've often described my connectedness to my Dominant as being in prayer. I feel a higher power sort of connection when I please him. You may have an overall sense of bliss or complete happiness thinking about or participating in service.

Connecting to submissive can have an
emotional response as well. You may cry uncontrollably, or smile so hard and so often that your cheeks hurt. There is a clear sign that you are submissive when you can look upon being of service to someone else and your heart aches with need. Your emotional response is usually the strongest response to submissive stimulus that you will be able to experience.

Lastly, when you are submissive you will develop a
physical response to Dominance exerted at or near you. For many, this is sexual excitement but it could also be a need to physically get up and do something to bring your closer to that Dominance. I've had moments that only felt perfect when I listened to the primal urge to kneel or kiss his hand or do something to serve him.

Feeling all of these things at one time or another usually means you have a submissive mindset. It may not happen all the time, but the moments that do you should try to feed it. Develop a service you can provide someone else, volunteer in your community and certainly if you can explore a relationship with Dominance and submission at its core. You may find the calling you were hearing was one thing or another... or all of the above. Only you can know if submission is the right direction for you.

The best resources for someone just exploring are the multitude of books and online resources available to you. This website was a good first step and I highly suggest you browse through the hundreds of articles here about a lot of different things.
How to Be Kinky and
How to Be Kinkier by Morpheous are good starting points. So is
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Molly Devon and Phillip Miller. If you learn better visually, there's no better place than
KinkAcademy , where for a small monthly subscription you can get kink educated. I highly recommend it. You can find links for all of the resources I mention in the description box below.

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