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LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to Know

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I've avoided teaching about this, because learning to spin plates is more important. But now the subject has come up, and people are talking about it.
Here are the Basics. Not a comprehensive guide, not even a primer. Simply the absolute minimum you need, to avoid shooting yourself in the foot.
If we read the single most important piece of Redpill literature ever, /u/humansockpuppet 's Bitch Management Hierarchy , we learn that there are four level of sexual intimacy with a woman.
The Guide itself touches on the distinctions, but focuses on when and why to promote. Of a clear explanation of what the difference is, we turn to the Cliff's Notes , which makes it clear that:
So, an LTR is a sexual partner you have voluntarily allowed yourself to become emotionally attached to .
It doesn't mean monogamy, necessarily. (Don't give that away unless you want to, and never for free.)
It doesn't mean promises made to her, or publicly announced status, or cohabitation, or investment of material resources (all of these are also gifts if you choose to give them).
It just means you emotionally invest in her.
This has additional benefits, and carries additional risks.
Men may be the gatekeepers of emotional connection, but this does not mean they derive no joy from it. Just as women, who are the gatekeepers of sex, still crave and enjoy sex, men can and do feel real affection for the right sort of woman, and will actively want to do so.
Most of you, this already makes sense to. If it doesn't, and you are still asking "why?", then this urge is weak or non-existent in you. Stop reading and go spin plates.
When we invest money in a business enterprise, we risk losing that money. When we emotionally invest in a woman, we risk losing that investment.
If the idea of losing this girl doesn't bother you to some degree, then you have an FWB, not an LTR. Thus, you lose the total outcome independence that you would have with a plate.
The effects of this are easy to imagine.
First, invest wisely . The Bitch Management Hierarchy deals very comprehensively with how to do this.
Second, actively manage your investment .
This means abandoning your strategy of indifference for a strategy of control .
You no longer get to not care if she stays or goes. You no longer get to say that "she's not yours, it's just your turn" . These are tactics of indifference. If you are invested, you are axiomatically not indifferent. Investment and indifference are opposites of each other.
You must actively control your woman to prevent things from going pear-shaped. It's not just your turn. She is yours, and you damn well better be able to enforce that.
This principle is why Chad gets turned into a bitch by his LTR, and divorceraped by his wife. "Naturals" have only indifference game, and no control game.
" But Whiisssssssper, it's heeeeeeeeeeeeeer job to secure commitment! I'm just supposed to be attractive, and any effort to keep her is BETA! YOU are talking like a BETA right now! The Vanguard are getting WEAK! (I'm terrified of being a beta. Someone please hold me.)"
Yes, it is her job to secure commitment, and keep it. But since when can a woman do a job without a man to tell her what to do?
She does the work to keep the LTR. You control her so she does the right work.
Your control of your woman rests upon three pillars:
Attraction You must, at all times, keep her believing that you are it . That you are the best thing she could possibly get, and if she doesn't hold onto you, it's all downhill for the rest of her life. She must mate-guard herself whenever she is capable. This means that unless she is being strong-armed, you shouldn't have to step in.
Obedience You must instill her in the expectation that her job is to do what you say, when you say it, because you say it. She must explicitly and consciously accept her role as the subordinate in the relationship. This is easy to do if you start early. (Read some porn written by women, they touch themselves to this stuff.) Be sure not to let obedience stop at the bedroom door, use the habits she gets into there to give her instructions in her daily life. Use compliance tests frequently. Explicitly punish her for minor misbehaviours.
Non-Entitlement You must make sure she regards anything you give her as a gift given on a whim, not a normal aspect of your relationship that she is now entitled to. Gifts (generally small and inexpensive as a rule) should happen when you feel like it, not on Christmas, her birthday, Valentine's day, etc. Never respond to "I love you" with "I love you, too". Give her attention and pets as a reward for good behaviour, not as a pattern or habit. If she ever approaches you in a fashion that comes off as demanding, never give her what she wants.
She should always be working to keep you, and to keep you happy.
You should always be giving her clear and unambiguous guidance on what is expected of her.
He who cannot cast away a treasure at need is in chains.
While you must be invested, you must also be willing to write off a bad investment and cut your losses. Major misbehaviours (cheating, deception, ultimatums, deliberate disrespect, etc) must always result in a hard next. There is no "saving the relationship". If a relationship ever needs "saving" rather than a minor course correction, it's already a write-off.
It is important to keep your game strong, so you can get back into it as soon as possible after you write off a bad one.
If a woman who practices reciprocity is a unicorn (because unicorns don't fucking exist), then a feminine, submissive woman who is willing to work is a "snow leopard", an animal that exists, but is so rare that if you see one, odds are it will already be captured and in someone else's zoo.
Don't hunt snow leopards. It's a waste of your time. Simply be prepared to recognize one if you see it, and know what to do with one when you recognize it.
Just as girls have no control over whether you are sex-worthy, you have no control over whether the girls you meet are relationship-worthy.
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LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to Know
March 9, 2018 9:52 PM UTC (4 years ago)

Ideal age for American women is 53 -- Daily Mail
[FAQ] FWB, LTR, ENM, LAT, etc. What does it all mean?
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This is a place to discuss dating and relationships over 40. It's not a place to push gendered agendas; it's not a place to talk about all the reasons not to date; it's not a place to talk about everything wrong with dating people over 40; and it's not a place to talk about everything that's wrong with your target gender. This is a sub that intends to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages.
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By popular demand: DTR = "define the relationship".
For the next several weeks, we’re going to be devoting one sticky a week to a Frequently Asked Question here at Dating Over Forty. These FAQs will then be compiled into a wiki and pinned in the sidebar for this subreddit.
Because they will be archived, moderation in these threads may be tighter than usual in terms of off-topic discussions. Thanks for playing!
FWB: Friends with benefits. This is a friendly relationship that includes a sexual component. There may or may not be sexual exclusivity by mutual agreement. There is no expectation of relationship building and escalation; often that has been explicitly ruled out.
LTR: Long-term relationship. This a committed relationship that lasts longer than a fling.
ENM: Ethical non-monogamy. This is a relationship model in which there is no expectation of sexual exclusivity by mutual consent of all involved parties. It’s a very broad term that can include open relationships that are mono-romantic, polyamorous relationships with partnered or unpartnered people, threesomes, swinging, group sex, closed throuples, really any situation in which all involved parties consent to a lack of sexual exclusivity with just one monogamous partner, though there may be an expectation of exclusivity within a small group of partners.
LAT: Living Apart Together. This is when people in a long-term committed relationship choose to live apart in separate households. Can be married or unmarried. Can be monogamous, open or polyamorous.
I might add that a FWB could be anything from a true friend who you regularly talk to and spend time with and just happen to have sex with sometimes, down to a "friendship" that isn't much more than a polite fiction.
A Fuck Buddy (FB) is when you ditch the polite fiction.
Never heard of LAT before. That's new to me. Sounds interesting.
Let’s be sure to add LDR too please 😊
Thank you! I have had no clue what that meant! Seems so obvious now!
Each of these has different meanings to different people. Never assume you know what a label means to someone else, always clarify it with them to make sure you’re both on the same page.
Does anybody have a definition for “situationship”?
Aspects of a committed relationship without the definition of one and minimal prospects for evolving into a LTR.

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Did any of that make sense to you? If so, pat yourself on the bum for being Grindr fluent. But for those who just saw a bunch of letters, allow us to welcome you to the world of queer dating. If you want to get the most out of the apps, you’re going to need to speak the language. Dig in below to discover the acronyms, abbreviations, and other lingo that’s become an inescapable part of the Grindr experience.
ANON — Short for “anonymous.” Probably won’t be exchanging phone numbers with this one.
Bator — People who tend to enjoy masturbating with others over penetration.
BB — Bareback (sex w/o a condom) 🤠
B/D — Bondage and/or domination. Feeling kinky?
Bear — A larger, typically hairy, gay male.
Bttm — A bottom, or the person who is penetrated during anal sex.
Can’t Host — Can’t have ppl over to hookup, possibly has a roommate, or parents.
Daddy — An older gay male who is lusted after by younger men.
Discreet — Someone who values their privacy (could be closeted). Good luck getting a face pic.
DP — Double Penetration: two penises, one hole.
Facepic only — Don’t try and message with just a torso profile.
Free Later? — You will never hear from this person again.
FWB — Friends with benefits (the main benefit being sex).
GH — Gloryhole; a hole in a public place where one can insert their penis and receive an anonymous blowjob.
Hookup — Meet up and have sex. Duh?
Hosting — Congrats, you have your own place! Or at least a private room where you can invite ppl over to fool around in.
Hung? — This person is a size queen.
Into? — No, this is not a question about your favorite hobbies. They mean what are you into sexually .
Jock — A gay man with an athletic build who is into fitness and/or sports.
Leather — A gay man involved in the gay leather subculture.
LTR — No, this is not about Lord of The Rings. LTR means long term relationship.
Masc4Masc — Something insecure ppl put on their profile.
Milk — What some gay men call semen. Good for your bones!
More pics? — This person can’t tell if you’re their type just yet.
Nice — This person is not interested. Sashay away.
NSA — No strings attached (don’t get comfortable).
No Taps — This person has some sort of inexplicable problem with receiving compliments.
Otter — Gay ppl with fur who run on the lean side.
Pig 🐷— Pits, fluids, body odor. Also see: Raw Only.
Raw Only — No condoms during anal sex.
Safe — A fan of safe sex practices: condoms, PrEP, etc.
Showoff — Ppl who want to have public sex.
Thicc — A body-positive bigger guy.
Travel — Either on a vacation or lives with his parents.
Twink — A young, hairless gay man.
Unicorn — A single male who likes to sleep with couples.
WS — Watersports. Urine for a treat!

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