What Does Ff Mean Sexually

What Does Ff Mean Sexually
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An abbreviation that is widely used in texting, and on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and elsewhere on the internet, but what does FF mean in slang?
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Especially with the rise of social media, new terms are coined all the time, including in the arena of sexuality. For instance, while the word "cuck" has become an insult hurled by the right-wing trolls, it's related to cuckolding, which can (and should) be a hot and consensual sexual activity that all involved parties enjoy. If you weren't quite sure of what that particular word's definition is — or you're unclear on terms like felching, docking, or queening, for that matter — I've written a near-comprehensive guide.
Additionally, if you're wondering if any given sex act is really a thing, keep in mind the wise words of sex educator Jimanekia Eborn : " Everything is a thing, is basically what I have learned working in sex education." In other words, if you can dream it, you can do it — or at least rest assured that someone else has probably tried to. With that being said, here are 17 sex terms you probably didn't learn in sex ed, explained.
As Samantha explained to Charlotte on a memorable episode of Sex and the City , a pearl necklace is what results when someone ejaculates on or around their partner's neck or chest (yes, so that the semen is roughly where a pearl necklace is when worn). If you're not someone who enjoys wearing this kind of pearl necklace, feel free to stick to Charlotte's preferred version, which you can find at Bloomingdale's.
Impact play refers to any impact on the body done for sexual gratification, from spanking to whips and crops . When engaging in impact play, remember to pick a safe word and continually check in with one another to ensure the level of pain is desirable. It's also important to stick to areas on the body which are safe to spank or tap on with a crop, which means fleshy, meaty areas away from the organs, such as the butt and thighs. If this sounds appealing to you, be sure to check out my guide to first-timer BDSM tips .
Squirting is when a person with a vagina ejaculates fluid during sex. Eborn says she is frequently asked if squirting is a myth, and she's only too happy to share that it is not, nor is it "just peeing." Research suggests that the fluid involved comes partly from Skene's glands, also known as the "female prostate" — but as with many subjects that don't focus on a penis, more research is required. Not everyone squirts, and among those who do, some squirt from clitoral stimulation and some squirt from G-spot stimulation (that is, stimulation of the sensitive front wall of the vagina).
You may be familiar with cognitive behavioral therapy , a helpful form of talk therapy. However, within the world of kink, CBT refers to "cock and ball torture." This form of CBT can be therapeutic for people with penises interested in having a dominatrix inflict pain on their genitals, through the use of ropes, whips, or even chastity devices.
Pegging refers to when a woman penetrates a man anally with a strap-on dildo . There's a now-infamous pegging scene in a Broad City episode that recently repopularized the term.
Queening is just a glamorous name for sitting on someone's face. There's nothing more to it than that.
Scissoring, also called tribadism or tribbing, is most often thought of as the territory of same-sex, female-identified couples. It's usually considered to be two partners rubbing their vulvas against each other's, but can also be defined as one partner rubbing their vulva against other body parts of their partner's (including the thighs and butt), as Autostraddle pointed out . In so-called "classic" scissor position, partners' legs intersect so that they look like — you guessed it — scissors. Porn (especially porn made for the male gaze) has probably hyped up scissoring as a more popular act among women who have sex with women than it actually is in real life, but plenty of people love it.
When you first hear the term "edge play," it's easy to assume it refers to extreme sex acts that literally involve an edge of some sort, such as knives or needles (and yes, some people consensually incorporate those things into sex). But no sharp objects need to be involved in this type of edge play. The term means kinky sexual acts that push your boundaries (consensually) to the edge, which can be exhilarating for some. What is considered edge play differs from person to person, as we all have our own boundaries and limits. For some, psychological play such as name-calling may be edge play. If you are going to try pushing your boundaries , please do so with a partner you trust and use a safe word.
Figging is one of those sexual acts that are so interesting it's fun to know what it means, but you have to wonder if anyone actually does it. Figging is the act of inserting a piece of peeled ginger into someone's butthole, which would burn, sting, and be quite painful. Figging allegedly originated as a (non-sexual) form of corporal punishment on female prisoners by the Greek and the Roman empires. These days, the term also can refer to the general infliction of consensual pain on the anus.
Aftercare is a sexual practice that everyone should be doing, whether you're having kinky sex or vanilla sex. It's a term created by the kink community and simply means checking in with your partner(s) after sex to make sure all parties felt good and safe about what just went down and taking care of one another emotionally and physically. This can mean cuddling, bringing ice to the submissive partners if there are any spanking bruises, and talking about what you liked or what you didn't like. It really just means checking in post-sex, and if anything did happen that one or all parties felt weird about, making sure it doesn't happen the next time.
To felch is to suck up semen out of an orifice (using a straw is optional). For instance, someone may ejaculate inside their partner's anus and then suck their own semen out of the anus with their mouth; they then may or may not swallow. (Keep in mind that exchanging fluids in this way is associated with the risk of STIs , including HIV.)
Bukkake is both a sex act and popular genre of porn in which multiple men, typically three or more, ejaculate all over a woman.
"Docking is when two uncircumcised [people with penises] get together," Eborn explains. "[The first] pulls his foreskin back and holds it while [the second] stretches [theirs] open and outward as far as possible over the head and shaft of [the first partner's] penis." She says she is frequently asked if this act is real and possible, and her response is that with enough imagination and determination, most things are. (That said, remember that comfort and safety should take priority in all sexual encounters, no matter how creative.)
Cuckolding is when a person in a relationship stands by as their partner has sex with someone else. There are many ways to cuck: The "cuckold" may look on while tied up in a corner, or the cuckold's partner may go out on their own, have sex, and report back. There is usually an element of humiliation involved: For instance, a wife may tell her husband all about how her other partner has a massive penis and can satisfy her in ways her husband cannot. Yes, some men are turned on by being told they suck in bed. (Important note: It's totally possible to share sexy fantasies about cuckolding with your partner without actually doing it.)
Professional dominatrixes often get requests to do cuckolding sessions in which they may have their submissive watch as they have sex with a different partner or tell the submissive to buy them lingerie for them to wear on a date with someone else. While cuckolding is primarily associated with married, opposite-sex couples, people can enjoy cuckolding play regardless of gender, orientation, or relationship status.
According to safe-for-work Google searches, water sports are aquatic activities such as jet-skiing. In the bedroom, however, the term refers to the incorporation of urine in erotic play. A golden shower, for example, is when one partner pees on the other. If you want to try this kind of play for the first time but are a little nervous, peeing on your partner (or being peed on) in the shower is a good way to dip your toe in the water, metaphorically speaking.
Fisting is when one partner inserts their entire hand or fist into the other partner's vagina (or anus, for the highly talented). If you enjoy intense penetration but are dating someone with a small penis, remember that they have an entire fist to use on you. (And no, a penchant for fisting won't make your vagina loose ( nor will sex in general , so put that myth out of your head).
If you'd like to try it, go slow and use plenty of lube ; the fister can also wear a latex glove to keep things extra sanitary and help the hand slide into the orifice. And as with any sex act, enthusiastic consent and in-the-moment communication are key to enjoyment by all parties.
OK, so this one may not be a sex act, exactly, but it frequently happens during sex. Queefing is when air escapes from the vagina, often during or after penetration, and makes a farting sound. It's a form of flatulence, and it's totally normal. "At one point in time, it happens to all of us. We laugh [about it] to keep from being embarrassed," Eborn says.
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We called it the Four F club Find them Fill them Fuck them Forget them In the sixties it was wrong then and now

Just as there are no bad babies, only colicky ones, there are no bad high school and college-aged males, there are only those who suffer FFFF colic. Finding, Feeling, Fu**ing and Forgetting girls is believed to be a congenital disorder. Quarantine is sometimes, though rarely, recommended until the bout passes. Isolation usually lasts up to six months, known colloquially as, hangin’ with Brock Turner.

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or Four Fs or 4-F Club
[ fohr efs]

FFFF is a vulgar slang acronym that refers to the misogynist motto, “ find ’em , feel ’em , fuck ’em , and forget ’em.” The ’em in this case? You guessed it: women-in-general. There are variations on FFFF , including the total number of F s and what specifically they stand for (e.g., fool, feed, etc ). It can also be a self-censoring euphemism for that classic four-letter F word.
FFFF , also known as the Four F s or 4-F s, has been around in forms since at least 1922. It is a crass, disrespectful, macho motto for treating women as disposable sex objects.
An early form went find ’em , feel ’em , fuck ’em , and forget ’em. Specific meanings of the F s can vary, including fool , finger , and feed , and can be added to form Five Fs .
One notable example of FFFF comes in the 1933 film I’m No Angel , starring the legendary Mae West, who advises her maid to “find ’em, fool ’em, and forget ’em” regarding men, a subversive riff on the original. The rap group N.W.A. released the song “Findum, Fuckum, & Flee” in 1991. Entries for FFFF were added to Urban Dictionary in 2002.
The term came into the public spotlight in September 2018 during hearings on sexual assault allegations against Supreme Court Justice Bret Kavanaugh. His 1983 high school yearbook contained the note “FFFFFFFourth of July” next to his picture.
Many thought the F s to be a reference to the vile FFFF treatment of women, especially based on the testimony of his chief accuser, Dr. Christine Blasey Ford. Questioned by Rhode Island Senator Sheldon Whitehouse about the F s, Kavanaugh claimed: “One of our friends, Squee, when he said the F word starting at young age, had kind of a wind-up to the F word. Kind of a ‘FFFF’…And it became an inside joke for the…F word.” Hmmmm… (Four M s in that, we’ll have you note)
Also nothing checked out for kavanaugh. Boof flatulence? No. Anal sex. Fffff stands for fuck? No. Find them feel them finger them fuck them forget them. Devil's Triangle drinking game? No threesome between 2 men 1 woman.
— Patrick Eichholz (@PatrickEichholz) November 18, 2018
FFFF is a misogynistic term, implying treating women as sex objects. That doesn’t stop men from joking about–or, in certainly too many instances, carrying out–the FFFF credo. It’s something of a meat-headed boast, if you ask us, especially when men who say they live by FFFF are part of an FFFF or 4-F Club –an ironic play on the wholesome image of the 4-H Club.
Like this page, where he signs his letter like so many east coast kids at that time – part of the lyrics to the 4 F Club, by the band The Mentors? “Find her, Feel her… – you get the point…” Love, Kavanaugh… handwritten and all. pic.twitter.com/UExxBpe94q
— The Duchess (@TheDuchessSF) October 3, 2018
Guy at work said never get married just stay in the four F club:
— Logan (@loganreese__) January 31, 2018
Elsewhere, FFFF can be used as self-censoring euphemism for fuck…
my v app is being a bit** right now. ffff no one else seems to have this problem. load stupid vapp
— Bloo (@iono_hiro) November 26, 2018
…or it can be used as onomatopoeia for guffawing in amused disbelief.
PLEASE listen to the loud ass fanchants just when they are walking to receive an award FFFF the world really is bts stage and we just living in it @BTS_twt pic.twitter.com/vG5zUWhS9y
— thank YOU bts (@yoonmlned) December 14, 2018

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A discussion on a writer’s group I’m on prompted this post. While many readers understand what the different acronyms mean on romance book descriptions, some don’t. (Witness how many people complain about male-male sex in a book labelled MMF. LOL)
So here is a quick primer of terms for you. (Feel free to share the link.)
(Note: The + sign is added on sometimes rather than writing out all the letters for additional people. LOL)
General rule of thumb: The pairings that come before the F designation determine if it’s GLBT or not. Yes, it’s an alphabet soup, but careful reading when warnings are given can help you find what you’re interested in.
WHY are these designations important? Because if you do not enjoy guy-on-guy action and you buy a MMF book, if the book description or publisher warning lists it as such, it’s not fair to ding the author for having male-male action in their book when it’s labelled. (Obviously, if it’s not labelled, unless you read reviews that listed it, it’d be hard to know ahead of time.)
ALSO… Pay attention to the CATEGORY a book is listed in. If you see it’s listed as an LGBTQ+ book and you don’t enjoy same-sex action, please don’t buy it and ding the author for that later in a review.
HFN – Happy-For-Now (meaning the pair/menage ends up happy for the immediate future)
HEA – Happily-Ever-After (meaning they metaphorically ride off into the sunset together.)
DubCon – Dubious Consent. Seen more in historical, paranormal, and sci-fi than in contemporary books, it’s basically where the heroine (or beta hero) is “taken.” Some equate this to rape, and in some cases it isn’t much better than rape, but in some cases the heroine/beta hero does give consent before the relationship is consummated.
MPreg – Male pregnancy. (Usually seen in paranormal/sci-fi.)
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