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Watch Guys Masturbating
My boyfriend just told me that he liked to watch other men masturbate, is that right? I've caught him watching porn on TV with just a man masturbating..do straight men enjoy this?
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Instead of wishing that she would masturbate so you could covertly observe (way too much scheduling), have you considered coaxing her into doing such while you sit across from her in the bedroom?
Well, how did you phrase it? What was the response? 90% of Let's-Do-New-Sex-Stuff is how you sell it, not what you're selling.

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I used to be decently apathetic, until I realized that if a guy is frantically jerking himself to get off... it's a turn off or simply boring. If a guy is enjoying himself, enjoying the pleasure of his own touch, then it's hot as hell.

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I had a relatively recent series of Skype sessions during which I most definitely enjoyed watching my man of interest masturbate.
I used to be decently apathetic, until I realized that if a guy is frantically jerking himself to get off... it's a turn off or simply boring. If a guy is enjoying himself, enjoying the pleasure of his own touch, then it's hot as hell.
I dunno. I sort of like it when they're frantic, too.
When they're frantic, there are two things that bother me.

1. It reminds me of a dog humping a couch cushion.

2. It goes against one of my most basic sex principles: sex shouldn't be about the orgasm unless the scene itself requires an orgasm to be complete. Sure, it's masturbation, but you're with another person.

Also, I've got this animal-brain thing going which I'm sure I'm going to get some eye-rolls about, but one of the traits I value most in my partner, possibly the trait I value most in my partner, is self-control. When they're frantically rubbing themselves raw, there's no evident self-control. If they're bringing themselves to orgasm with self-knowledge and control over their movements and state of arousal... fuck .
Sure, but we are just animals. A little lack of self-control, to me, implies a sort of abandonment that I find arousing. I get what you're saying, though.
I think part of it for me, and my love of rape scenes, is that moment of total snapping when they just lose it and suddenly you're being pinned to the ground in the most unnatural position or you're getting choked out via forearm and the blackness is starting to creep in around your vision. I like being the recipient of the loss of control, but also having the knowledge they're in perfect control. It's that type of abandonment that I find arousing.

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I have a big kink about being watched while I masturbate. My penis is large and I’m fit so I think part of it is showing off. Recently I’ve started to masturbate with the blinds open (I live in a 7 story apartment building). Ladies would you be turned on if you saw your hot neighbor in the building across masturbating?
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Only my boyfriend, and even then I do it for him mostly, if he's got a raging boner and I'm just not in the mood. But if I'm not even in the mood to give him a handjob, or am just rushing to get ready for work or whatever, he just gets on with it and yeah it's a bit of an ego boost to see him staring longingly at me, panting helplessly and whacking himself off, while I'm just frantically getting my make-up on or blow-drying my hair.
Yeah I do but only if i ask to see it and in the mood and not a stranger who decides to send a vid. As for the neighbour doing it as long as I don’t feel like he’s watching me while doing it and it’s a one off catch him by accident kind of thing then yeah pretty hot otherwise that’s pervy
Never watched a guy do that. However, the first time I did it to a guy I was surprised how far it squirted.
Generally no, I don't find watching other people have sex arousing (porn is just boring to me), however I like watching my boyfriend masterbate as I know he thinks of me a lot and that's hot
Not particularly. I think guys are more into watching girls than vice versa.
Not while watching a stranger irl but I love male masturbation porn.
Random person no. It is kinda boring
That’s why I asked if a random person
Only if he's my boyfriend and its in person

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Do women like to watch men masturbate? I would think women would find watching a man masturbate BORING, but of course I like to watch her do it! - LOL

I read some of the previous posts on this topic. A good one started by RMC back in April had many replies so I think it's safe to say I have the correct answer to that one now - but I did not want to hijack his thread with my question - How to incorporate into your sex-life??

To put a twist on it, I sometimes have delayed ejaculation. This has been the case since I first began having intercourse. A normal session is about 30-45 min which is nice for both me and my wife. But I would say about 20% of the time I have the delay, which means a session can last well over an hour pushing 2 hours in some cases. Less frequently, but still happens, the delay can mean no climax.

My wife is very understanding. She knows that she is not the cause. When it happens, I usually skip the climax which is not always terrible, and she is not threatened if I do try to finish myself, but in these cases I always masturbate in another room after we have cuddled and/or have time to come down so to speak.

So my question, would it be worthwhile to try incorporating masturbation in our love-making sessions? It sounds like most of the feedback regarding male masturbation is the finish or climax. But I can't predict that I could finish anytime soon. So how long is it enjoyable for women to watch men masturbate? Do women enjoy watching their partner masturbate at the beginning or middle of the sexual encounter as much?
I'd love to watch but my H thinks that's weird so he's never done it for me. My ex has once and it was at the very end, him finishing it off. It was just a few minutes because we had been having sex for a little over 30 minutes so he said if I wanted to watch then he was ready for it. But if I were to get the chance to watch again then I'd prefer at the end but also depends on how much self control he has. Wouldn't want him to accidentally pop without us actually doing anything or me getting enough satisfaction.

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:lol: Lucky for me this isn't the norm or I would have one Popeye arm while the other would look like Olive Oil's arm.

Another weird that happens once in a blue moon, I turn in to a one-minute-man. Now that is really out of the norm. When it happens it catches us both off-guard and my wife finds it pretty frickin' funny.

I think if I tried the end and it worked out we would both find that fun, but again if it didn't I think it would be difficult going back-and-forth between intercourse & trying.

So if I did at the beginning is that arousing? And it sounds like if it is probably only for a few minutes (I don't think I would find that too enjoyable though).

I don't know sounds more & more like a bad idea in my situation.
Well, being a firm believer in open communication and disclosure - have you talked with your wife about this? What would she like? How does she feel about it?

Best wishes.
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