Using Vibrators

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Even for the most savvy sex adventurers, vibrators can be confusing. Where to put them, how fast to set them, and what exactly to do with them are all valid questions—and most vibrators don’t come with a full-blown how-to guide. Plus, if you’re going to invest in a good toy you want to make sure you’re getting the most, ahem, bang for your buck.
So, my sweet readers, I've put together this guide just for you—whether you're a newbie masturbator or a vibrator connoisseur—based on recs from sex educators and the badass women who literally design sex toys for a living. May you never have a drab vibe sesh again!

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The clitoris is an iceberg—there’s much more going on than the eye can see at first glance. The clitoris actually goes all the way down the labia (those flaps of skin around your vulva), so pressing your toy on and around that area can feel excellent, says Alys.
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“When you're oh-so close, back off a bit instead of increasing the intensity,” says Alys, “If you know a certain setting gets you off, try playing with a new vibration pattern first. Giving your body time to go through the build up again will make those incredible sensations even stronger.”

You can also go the remote-control route for teasing with a partner. Have your partner start and stop the vibration without touching you using the We-vibe app-controlled vibe. Better yet, wear the vibrator to dinner and let your partner tease you before you even hit the sheets.
Lie face down, put the vibrator underneath you, and grind into it for a fun new way to get off. And to to avoid overstimulation, Alicia Sinclair, creator of Le Wand, recommends you “keep the vibrator and your hips moving,” the entire time you’re playing. Plus, the more you move, the more spots you can explore.
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A classic way to use a vibrator is putting it directly on your clit and moving it back and forth, or in circular motions. This is a great technique if you like a lot of direct stimulation, or after you’ve warmed up a bit and want a little more pressure.
Vibrators can also go inside of you! You can hit that G-spot by using a curved vibrator and pulling it towards your belly button. Or, mimic P-in-V sex by thrusting the vibrator in and out. Whether you choose to turn on the vibration, or use your toy as more of a dildo is up to you.

“Vulva-owners can use an internal vibrator to hit their G-spot while their partner uses their mouth on their clitoris," says Alys. (MysteryVibe's Crescendo can be bent into that just-right curve, while also staying out of your partner's face.)
“Penis-owners might also enjoy a vibrator against their shaft or perineum while their partner gives a blow job," she adds.

“Use a toy with a curve or your fingers to reach your G-spot, and add a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris at the same time,” says Sinclair. “Go one-handed by finding a toy that can do both at the same time." For example, Le Wand’s Curve attachment stimulates the G-spot while also sending rumbly vibrations to your clitoris.
By hitting two pleasure points at once, you automatically up the intensity. "And achieving that level of pleasure on your own can be so empowering!” says Sinclair.
Use a vibrator around the rim of your or your partner's anus for a lovely tingly sensation. This is also a great way to slowly introduce anal play before taking the dive into penetration.
Using a tush-safe toy (one that has a larger base so it doesn’t get lost) and a lot of lube, anal penetration and vibrations can be super-pleasurable—especially for those with prostates.
If you’re a real penetration lover, vibrators are your best friend. Mix vaginal and anal penetration for the truly filled-up feeling. Whether you use two vibrators, a vibrator and a finger, or a vibrator and a penis—double penetration is excellent for both solo and partner play time.
Vibrators are more than for just pleasure: “A little known fact about vibrators is that some people have said they help with pelvic and vaginal pain during sex,” sex and consent educator, Emma Kaywin, explains. “Whether you're cramping, have vulvodynia, or other types of vaginal pain, sometimes you just needs a bit of distraction to get ready for penetration or touches.” So starting off your sexy time with some clitoral vibration may help ease you into partner play.
Whether you use a toy that’s actually branded for your neck or repurpose your Magic Wand, help your sore neck out with a little vibrating massage before bed.
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Expert advice by Annabelle Knight Bsc Dip and words by Paisley Gilmour
Unsure how to use a vibrator? Never tried a sex toy before? That's totally fine and also, I'm so excited for you to up your masturbation game! Before you start, it's important to know how to use a vibrator in the best possible way. It's not always as simple as picking any old toy, charging it and pressing the 'on' button.
If you've never bought one before, how do you know which type to go for? How do you use them during sex, or even suggest introducing it into sex with a partner? And like, where and how should you use them so they'll feel great?

Lovehoney's sex expert Annabelle Knight, explains how to use a vibrator really, really well.
The first thing to realise is that sex toys are now a regular part of many couples’ sexual routines. Using a vibe doesn't mean your sex life is rubbish, so banishing your partner's fear of inadequacy should be the first item on your list. Using a vibrator is a fun way of reaffirming your mutual trust, making you more open-minded, intimate and confident with each other's bodies.
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Everyone is different and you need to find a vibe that works for your body. There are all sorts that you can choose from, and it can be kind of intimidating if you're not sure where to start.
A great beginner’s vibe is a bullet vibrator - these are small, powerful vibrators primarily used for clitoral stimulation. Because of their petite size and easy-to-use shape, bullet vibes are a great choice for a first-time vibrator. They are also highly discreet, quiet and cheap.
Bullet vibrators are so simple to use, and really effective despise their simplicity! Pop some water-based lube on the bullet using your hand, or put the lube straight onto yourself.
Start with the bullet vibrator at its lowest setting and slowly move it around on your vulva. I'd recommend starting around the labia and circling the clitoris, slowly working your way in towards your clitoris the more comfortable/turned on you become.
Try direct contact on the clitoris if you want to - some people love this whereas other people find their clit is too sensitive. There is no normal way to respond to direct clit stimulation, so don't worry if it feels too much. You can use the bullet in any way that feels good for you. Once you're enjoying the lowest setting, slowly work your way up and find a pattern or speed that you enjoy.
The affordable bullet vibrator for beginners
The Rocks Off Bamboo bullet vibrator is one of the best, and it's super affordable. It has 10 speed and pattern settings (whereas most standard bullets have only one), and a pointed tip for targeted stimulation - basically it's cheap and feels really good. The one downside? It uses batteries...
Rocks Off Bamboo 10 Function Bullet Vibrator
If you want to spend a little more on a re-chargeable bullet vibrator of a little higher quality, the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator is super powerful with 3 speeds and 17 vibration patterns. It's also extra quiet and waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower. It's made from luxury-feeling and good quality silicone and has an angled tip so you can enjoy precise stimulation or widespread vibrations. And it comes with a storage case in which the toy can be charged discreetly
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Desire Luxury Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
For those who know their way around a bullet vibrator and have outgrown the single-speed or cheaper versions and are looking to upgrade, the Mia 2 from LELO is £69 and a bestseller for a reason. Designed to be super discreet, it doesn't even really look like a vibrator until you take the cap off. It's got a sculpted tip for accurate stimulation that you can move around your vulva and clitoris to suit your body and preferences. It comes with a one-year warranty, is waterproof and has six powerful vibration settings.
The rabbit vibrator is renowned for introducing women and people with vaginas to what is known as a ‘blended orgasm’ (i.e. an orgasm that occurs when two erogenous zones are stimulated simultaneously, like the clitoris and the G-spot).
If you've never used a rabbit vibrator before it might feel a bit intimidating. But start off slowly and take your time.
First, use lots of water-based lube so everything slips around and feels nice and comfortable. Then, start by setting the vibrator as low as possible and see how that feels. There are different motions you can try and really it is just about listening to your body and what feels good, there are no rules!
Try holding the rabbit vibrator inside you while it vibrates, and at the same time move the rabbit ears over your clitoris. Or you can try moving the shaft in a thrusting motion as you would with penetration, and move the rabbit ears to come into contact with your clit as you do. You can gradually work your way up to the higher settings the more comfortable/aroused you become. Remember you can operate the shaft and rabbit ears separately on some toys, so try a bit of both or just one, to figure out what works best for you.
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The affordable rabbit vibrator for beginners
If you haven't used one before, I'd recommend going for a cheaper and smaller option. The Happy Rabbit vibrators aren't too intimidating in size, with an insertable length of four inches and the mini version starts from £39.99. But if you want to spend even less than that, the Frisky Rabbit Vibrator is a really good shout at £24.99.
It's super cute and small, has 10 vibration settings and patterns, and is made from silicone.
Lovehoney Frisky 10 Function Silicone Rabbit Vibrator
If you want to take your rabbit vibrator up a level, thrusting vibrators are a popular choice. As well as doing what all other rabbits do, it also thrusts inside you and mimics IRL penetration. This Dream Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator is a bestseller - 3 ear speeds and 7 ear patterns, and 3 thrusting settings.
Lovehoney Dream Rabbit Rechargeable Silicone Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator
And if you are after something even more swish and techy, the Womanizer Duo is a rabbit vibrator like no other. As well as the vibrating shaft offered by classic rabbit vibrators, this toy also has a clit sucker function. Yep, instead of the rabbit ears that vibrate against your clitoris, the Duo nestles into your clit and without coming into contact, sends out pressure waves that mimic the feeling of oral sex.
Womanizer Red Duo Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator
Classic vibrators are the traditional shaft shape and tapered at the end. A good one to try for first timers is Lovehoney's silencer whisper vibrator.
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As classic vibrators are all about internal stimulation, they're very easy to use. Simply cover the vibrator with water-based lube and slowly insert it. You can turn the vibrations on before you do this or once it is inside you. Whether you can do this may depend on the product you go for and where the buttons are placed - some are easy to operate while in use others not so much. Start on the lowest setting and hold the vibrator inside you. Once you've comfortable and feeling good, you can move it in and out, around, and work your way through the vibration settings.
Lovehoney Silencer Whisper Quiet Classic Vibrator 7 Inch
Classic vibrators only focus on internal vibrations, are aren't simultaneously vibrating against your clitoris or G-spot, like other vibrators do. Considering the majority of women and people with vaginas require clit stimulation to orgasm, classic vibrators aren't the most popular style.
Wand vibrators are another favourite. Famed for being the ultimate orgasm tool, these evolved from neck massagers that were designed to relieve tired muscles, until women and vulva-owners discovered how the powerful vibrations were perfect for clitoral stimulation.
Wand vibrators look pretty big, and they are powerful, but they're only used externally so don't be too intimidated. Like with all over vibrators, you can use it however feels good for you and it's all about having fun figuring that out. But to start with, put it on the lowest setting, with lots of water-based lube on the end/on yourself. Slowly move the head of the wand around your vulva to see which placement feels good for you. You can start from the outside and work your way in towards the clitoris. Or you can hold it against the front of your vulva so it's coming into contact with as much clit and labia as you like. You can then move it up and down, around, whatever you fancy. Once you're turned on, you can turn the settings up and work your way through.
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The affordable wand vibrator for beginners
If you want something smaller and have a lower budget, Lovehoney's mini wand vibrators are a good beginner's toy as they're not remotely intimidating and have 3 vibration speeds to get you started.
Lovehoney 3-Speed Micro Magic Wand Vibrator
If you're after a reliable and good quality wand vibrator that can be stowed in your bedside drawer/sex box and used as and when, the So Divine Wand Vibrator is perfect. It's rechargeable, 100 per cent waterproof, made from the silkiest and softest silicone that feels great against the skin. And it has 10 powerful vibration settings, including 3 speeds and 7 functions.
So Divine Wicked Game Dual Motor Massaging Wand
The super powerful, sex-expert approved wand vibrator
For those after something a little more advanced, the Doxy Wand is the Godfather of all wand vibrators and the one sex toy sex bloggers say they couldn't live without. Made in Cornwall, it's highly engineered and a serious piece of machinery. Seriously. It's a good'un.
Doxy Extra Powerful Massage Wand Vibrator
G-spot vibrators are tilted at the end to help reach the inner front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is said to be located.
Like classic vibrators, G-Spot vibrators are designed to be used internally. So they're pretty simple to experiment. Using lots of water-based lube, switch it onto the lowest vibration setting and slowly insert the G-spot vibrator and hold it inside you to see how the vibrations feel. You can then move the vibrator in and out, move it around in circular motions, or simply hold it inside you as you work your way through the settings. If you like a bit of clit stimulation at the same time, you can use your fingers to stroke your clitoris.
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The affordable G-spot vibrator for beginners
For a cheaper option, the Tracey Cox Supersex G-Spot Vibrator ain't half bad. It does require batteries which means it's fiddly and a bit annoying, but for the price it's a great beginner's G-Spot toy.
Tracey Cox Supersex G-Spot Vibrator
The everyday, reliable, good quality G-spot vibrator
For a little more, the Desire Luxury G-Spot Vibrator is well worth it. It has 12 levels of adjustable intensity, is made from really soft, lovely-feeling silicone that slides against the skin. It also comes with a storage case and you can charge the toy discreetly inside the case.
Desire Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator
The luxury extra quiet G-spot vibrator
This new G-spot vibrator from ioba is meant to be the quietest vibrator on the market. It also has a "unique massaging pearl for targeted pleasure". It's made from medical grade silicone, and has 3 intensity levels of come-hither-style motion. And it's USB rechargeable.
OhMyG Rechargeable Extra Quiet G-Spot Massaging Vibrator
You can do this by simply choosing your desired vibration pattern and speed, applying some lube to make things nice and slippery, then moving the vibrator around the clitoris and labia until you find the place and method of stimulation that feels the best. That's a basic, but extremely enjoyable approach to orgasming with a vibrator. To take it up a level:
Sure, it seems small on the surface, but you’d be surprised just how much variation there is in the clitoris, especially as it actually extends around the labia beneath the surface. As you become more experienced, you can achieve a fantastic level of precision with a good vibrator.
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Some women and people with vaginas say a particular side of their clitoris is more sensitive, while others prefer to stimulate somewhere just above or below it. If you’re especially sensitive, you can also try using it outside the labia. By covering the clit, the vibrations are dulled slightly, which gives you a slower build up to orgasm.
When you get used to your vibrator, you can try some really exciting techniques such as ‘edging.’ This is the practice of bringing yourself close to the ‘edge’ of orgasm but not quite tipping yourself over it. You keep doing this several times until you ar
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