Use Me Like A Whore

Use Me Like A Whore
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Many would feel shame identifying with the traits of a whore but I feel incredibly proud. I’m whorish down to my bones and I’ve felt this since I was a young teenage girl. It’s not just a physicality ― it’s a consistent mental, spiritual and emotional state.
Theorist and psychoanalyst Carl Jung coined the term ‘archetype’ in 1919. An archetype is a universal personality-style that individuals the world over can resonate with.
Some popular archetypes are: the mother the martyr the jester the devil the child and the victim.
Most people identify with one particular archetype but some identify with an array of archetypal behaviors.
Depending on what texts you choose to read. The whore archetype can be insanely positive or negative. I only perceive ‘the whore’ in a positive light.
I laugh at people's stupidity when they label women 'whores' as a put-down. Let's not get high and mighty. We're all whores. We're all selling ourselves in some capacity.
To me, the whore represents an open and non-judgmental sexual channel.
She is empowered. She is the queen of honest transactions. She is the goddess of counsel and nourishment.
I've always fully enjoyed pleasuring men (and women...but mostly men). It feels very natural to me.
Pleasuring men feeds me pleasure. When I'm not pleasuring men -- I'm either thinking about pleasuring men or writing about pleasuring men.
I like how their bodies feel on mine. I like the safety I feel when they are inside of me. I like watching them climax. I like being the warm place that they visit.
This realization and acceptance isn’t degrading or defeatist. It’s powerful!
Embracing my inner and outer whore-archetype on the world’s stage has it’s drawbacks but for the most part it causes me enlightenment. I feel that it’s important to be true to myself. There’s nothing shameful about loving to fuck. It’s the most natural act in the world and it makes one feel so unbelievably good.
My sexuality is a sacred place inside of me where I live and create ― it is the fabric from which I’m made. What an honor it is to gift pleasure. What a god-send to acknowledge my gifts.
Isn’t that what life is about? Giving to others? Sharing joy? Making myself happy? Perhaps we all contribute in different ways.
Vanessa de Largie is an actress, author, writer and sex-columnist based in Australia.
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The heart of man is wicked. That seems to be a common saying widely used by us. What we often do not ask is the action that prompts that reaction. I want to share my story so some of you out there will learn lifematics-101(Trust no one). I have been married for 9years and after much attempts to have a child of our own, 5years into the marriage we had a boy. It didn’t come as easy as I have just put it; by the way I didn’t state I married an Igbo man who had an identical twin and I am a (lady. That alone had come with loads of back and forth from the early preparation days of getting married to finally having a child. Some who have been in my shoes can relate better, I guess. Inter-cultural marriage isn’t always one smooth ride. My husband’s twin was one man I always had high regard for, he was calm, ever willing to listen whenever my husband and the rest of the family came hard and blamed me for childlessness. Atimes I often wished I married him instead of my husband. That was how much effect he always had on me during those trying times. All these while, my husband never had an issue with the closeness that existed between myself and his twin, infact he usually encourages him to come around and spend time with us; much to my delight considering he often gave comforting words whenever my husband chooses not to understand. There were days in which we just hung out and just enjoyed being happy. He makes some moves that I sometimes find offensive but my husband smiles and says he is my twin. On this certain day, my husband went to work. I was home seeing a movie when my bro-in-law offered me wine he got on his way to our place, out of excitement I popped, had few shots while we giggled and laughed as usual. Few minutes later, I felt tipsy and tired, not too long I fell asleep. Waking up, I found myself in the bedroom naked, examined myself and realized there was a sexual intercourse. Sitting across me was my bro-in-law equally undressed smiling and said it was time for me to know the truth because he could no longer bear it and feels I deserve to know the truth. It was like the saddest and most disappointing moment in my life. Before I could say a word, he told me all what happened. He told me it was his twin(my husband)’s idea to often switch places at nights. Apparently my husband had low sperm count according to his twin, as such could not father a child, that he often had sex with me at night while I thought it was my husband. While he said all these, I started adding two plus two together and it became obvious he was saying the truth. My husband sometimes wear a red boxers to bed and when we wake up in the morning I will find a black boxers on the floor and red on him. A lot of things started running through my mind and it began to make sense. I broke down and couldn’t stand it. Called my mother on the phone and told her I was finished. I couldn’t tell her what had happened and suicide became my next option. My husband had ruined me, he had made me worthless, life no longer means anything to me as I now see myself as a piece of shit. Suicide was all I thought of, the two closest persons to me had passed me around like a used sex-toy. I have left my husband’s house and moved on with my son, whom I am not sure of whom the real father is. Trust nobody. Life is cruel. My story. http://gist.mp3bullet.com/2015/08/17/my-husband-passed-me-around-like-a-s3x-toy-lady-narrates-how-she-was-used-by-her-husband-his-twin/
*yawning* ....following, will read it when I wake up *modified * good morning all...back to the topic Before I could say a word, he told me all what happened. He told me it was his twin(my husband)’s idea to often switch places at nights. Apparently my husband had low sperm count according to his twin, as such could not father a child, that he often had sex with me at night while I thought it was my husband. While he said all these, I started adding two plus two together and it became obvious he was saying the truth. My husband sometimes wear a red boxers to bed and when we wake up in the morning I will find a black boxers on the floor and red on him. A lot of things started running through my mind and it began to make sense is it that they both have the same physique, the same style of hair cut, share one deodorant, body spray or perfume asin she couldn't spot a single difference?? so how did she know it was his twin that came in with the wine?? people keep bleating about piracy and the moderators of this forum ain't doing nothing to fight it....as far as I'm concerned this story was culled from a yet to be released nollywood movie...stop piracy!!!
dis is bad. For now leaving dem is d best option until u sort ursef. Plz dearie suscide isnt an option here cos u will b d biggest loser @ d end. Tink abt ur son and find comfort in him.
Abeg let me know when part 2 come out
And sure this is that naija film titled twin brothers
And they did this to her without conscience. They didn't apologise......hmmmm.
We all have our share in life.....sorry you had the bad cut.
You are a very stupid woman! This shows you don't even know the man you married and spent years with. No wait o, are you telling me you can't differentiate between how your husband hit it, from a strangers?
This is absolutely incredible if it is true. Please don't think of any action suicidal at all cos by that you gain nothing. Live for your baby, focus on your career to discourage depression, stay away as far as you can from that family, move closer to God. For many wounds, time does the magic. That family is evil pray your child does not grow up wit their traits.
Sounds a lot like one ramsay noah movie.......
why people go dey lie anyhw
plx dnt play with our intelligence
Guys guys, let's not display foolishness here.. Some of u guys lack understanding and comprehension skills. D lady said she got drunk and d next thing she woke up and found herself naked and possibly "raped" by her brother in law. I chose d word rape because it was out of her will and consent. Most twins r indentical, some may hav identical voices, even faces dat are hard to spot d difference. They may decide to smell dsame by using same perfume etc.. So the lady may hav not noticed all these things or even if she did notice, she may not have taken it with a serious thought.
MOVIE TITLE : disaster of the twin brothers
so the same voice, shaft size, likes, sexual patterns... buh u kno hu is hu whn they talk 2 u, u jst cant differentiate in bed
Testing the waters for another Nollywood Movie!!
Tapout : *yawning* ....following, will read it when I wake up *modified * good morning all...back to the topic is it that they both have the same physique, the same style of hair cut, share one deodorant, body spray or perfume asin she couldn't spot a single difference?? so how did she know it was his twin that came in with the wine?? people keep bleating about piracy and the moderators of this forum ain't doing nothing to fight it....as far as I'm concerned this story was culled from a yet to be released nollywood movie...stop piracy!!! u re jus on point bro! I ll be damned if dis topic eventually hit front page! Am currently askin mysef questions as to weda Nairaland ddeserve my attention after all!
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Dressing like a slut does not that you are asking for sexual assault, or that you’re a slut. There is nothing wrong with using your closet to be center stage , or for self-expression. Most women enjoy dressing a certain way, and thanks to women’s rights, we can dress however we want.
Dressing like a slut doesn’t mean that you have to leave the house in whatever your version of inappropriate is every day. It also doesn’t mean that you have to wear lingerie to a PTO meeting.
Instead, it’s about dressing how you want and wearing what makes you feel amazing about yourself. You are your own woman, and it’s time to show it! Take a few of these 33 tips to spice up your wardrobe.
If you’re out to dress like a slut, show off more skin than you normally would. Whether it’s legs, boobs, or short shorts, let it out. Don’t worry about what another woman would say about your clothes, either. Sluts don’t.
Cleavage is the way to go if you’re ready to dress to show off the goods. Pick up a nice push up bra and show off what you’ve got.
Dressing like a slut is similar to girls playing dress up, just the skanky version (and I mean skanky in the most fun way possible). Pick up some high heels to pair with any outfit. These can be worn with jeans if you really want.
These will help you show off your body more, but can also be worn without a side-eye from another woman. If you’re just getting used to dressing like a slut, these shirts can act as a perfect transition. They are always in fashion and can help show off your sexuality to the world.
Short skirts are always in a girl’s wardrobe. Pair them with some of the tops on the list, and remember to wear what you’re comfortable with.
Big earrings are not going to instantly scream sex goddess to other people, but they are a wardrobe essential. They’ll look amazing with everything else on this list.
Thigh-high boots are another must-have. They are comfortable and can be paired with anything from shorts, to short skirts to oversized sweaters.
Sheer tops can be worn overtop of another shirt, or as a shirt themselves. This is one of the items on the list that is pretty versatile , and a must-have for your new wardrobe.
Show off the cookies without showing them off by letting your bra show. Wear a lacy bralette that can be seen, a sheer top as a shirt, or simply enjoy wearing a bralette as a shirt.
If a sheer top is a bit too much for you , pick up a light-colored shirt. Then, pair it with a bright or dark-colored bra to have some fun.
Ditch the tennis shoes. While these are acceptable in the street or at work, they are not an acceptable part of a slutty wardrobe. Instead, it’s heels or strappy sandals. (No gladiator sandals, either.)
Fishnets are another must-have accessory. These also seem to make a show at every women’s rights walk, such as slut-shame walks. So you should feel right at home if you’re wondering whether you can wear them to one.
No one ever said that you can’t look slutty without showing skin. Pick up a shirt that says “Daddy Cum In Me” and you’re good to go.
Clothes always come with holes, so you can find these anywhere that says fashionable clothing. You can also do it yourself !
Latex is so skin-tight that it’s always going to make women look slutty in the best way possible.
Women that want to look slutty need to pay attention to what they do with their hair. Ditch the donut buns and opt for curls, messy hair, or fashionable hairstyles instead.
The makeup rules of wearing dark or bright makeup for night time no longer apply to women that dress in slutty clothes. Wear your makeup however you want.
Lace shirts. Lace bralettes. Lace everything. This single fabric instantly makes any outfit seductive in nature.
She’s known for cutting holes in her own clothes, and this can add a slutty appeal to the wardrobe of any woman. Start with one cut. Then, and one after another until you have just enough holes in your clothes.
Throw them in the box with your tennis shoes. These are for work or when playing with children, not looking like a slut.
There is a time and a place for cute barrettes or headbands. When paired with the right outfits, these can add a certain amount of appeal. However, if you’re just enjoying showing off your sexuality, avoid them for now until you develop your own style .
Pair an over-sized sweater with a pair of thigh-high boots and you’re good to go. Women can wear this anywhere for a slutty yet chic look.
These can double as shirts. Women can wear these anywhere, and it’s not illegal.
Purchase longer garters to show them off under a short skirt.
Grab the sides and pull them up over your hip bone. Then, wear your shorts lower than most women to grab the attention of men everywhere.
Keep those skimpy summer dresses and throw some leggings underneath. Then, you’re done.
Leather pants, thigh-high leather boots, etc. This sleek material can make any outfit look both badass and slutty. Wearing it the right way paired with some slutty accents is key to making this work.
These show off the perfect amount of skin for one to get used to dressing slutty without going overboard.
Close to your private area without going close enough to get you kicked out of anywhere. Use the holes in your clothes to show off your assets.
Secretary glasses add a certain amount of sex appeal that men just love. They pair great with any outfit, whether you’re going to the club or just enjoying the day.
Braless with a thin shirt will make men everywhere stare. If that’s what you’re going for, this is going to help you get it.
French manicures have no place in this style of wardrobe. Instead, it’s all about self-expression, including your nails! Opt for unique nails that let your personality shine through.
When all else fails, just imagine what you would wear to the club. Usually, these outfits are less conservative than other ones in your closet.
Opt for monotone or neutral colored clothing that fits your body well. Then, jazz up the outfit with a few fashionable accessories. Pair outfits with boots, loafers, or heels instead of tennis shoes for a look that is both timeless and elegant.
Sunglasses and other accessories make any outfit look fashionable . For clothing, go with a motorcycle jacket, boots, and uniquely styled shirts. Clothes should always coordinate in both style and color. This will instantly make an outfit more chic.
Wear casual clothing with a sexy piece from your closet. For example, pair jeans and tennis shoes with a crop top, heels, and big earrings. You could also wear a casual shirt with a mini skirt. Wear what you normally would with one sexy piece of clothing .
To dress like a lady , opt for more conservative pieces in soft colors. Sundresses in light pink or soft sweaters in muted fall colors that are not revealing will make you appear more like a lady. Avoid clothing that shows too much skin, showing off cleavage, or slutty styles.
Simplify. The top billionaires of the world prefer muted colors or neutral colors so that they don’t have to worry about what to wear. This might not be ideal for everyone, but it can make you look rich . You can also make sure that your clothes are tailored, and focus on high-quality items. Then, fill the rest of your closet with cheaper ite
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