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SelfAuthoredSub talks TSA and guys mistaking his device for a bulge at the gym.
Chastity is one of the trendiest fetishes or kinks for gay men at the moment. It is a practice that, when used in a device-driven format, c enters submission and dabbles in body modification through orgasm-denial . And while some practitioners use chastity cages only in connection with sex, wearing them for only hours at a time, for some it is a lifestyle. Here, in an as-told-to, SelfAuthoredSub describes the interesting, and sometimes comical, conversations that arise from wearing a cage on your dick in day-to-day life.
* SelfAuthoredSub is an anonymous submissive, based in Philadelphia who prefers the lowercase I as the ultimate sign of submission. The links and embeds in this story might be NSFW.*
When i first got into chastity, it was through someone who was my dom. i met him online in 2010, and it took about four or five months from when he first brought it up for me to try it out. In that time, i was watching a lot of homemade videos on Xtube and looking at a lot of photos.
There were two types of images that were really powerful for me. One was seeing boys wear chastity in their natural state, so underneath jeans or to work. It made me understand this wasn’t only a sex toy. It was a way of life. And the other part was men being fucked in chastity.
The longest I’ve gone so far has been 430 days. At a certain point, i just forgot that the cage was there; it is just normalized. When i’m going to the bathroom, i go to the stall and sit down. Because of the cage, i’m hyper aware of whether there’s any drippage or if anything gets on my pants. It’s really a part of the way i live and think about myself.
The cage doesn’t really affect what i wear. I’m usually wearing a jockstrap or a thong so that, plus the pants, usually smooths what it looks like from the outside.
With the apps, at first i would always tell people as a bit of a cautionary note, which felt weird in hindsight. i was just afraid that the person wouldn’t want to hook up with me because i told them i was wearing this, but that was better than them finding out in person and not being into it. i was very cautious, but over time I’ve gotten more comfortable making my kink and submissive personality clear.
i’ve had a few “what is that” moments and not everyone is into it. The worst is when the person does want to jack me off or play with my penis, and they have planned to do that. Then people ask if i can take it off, and no … i can’t. Well, i can, but i don’t want to.
i’ve never felt like i’ve been looked down on or judged, but people do say they aren’t into it. This is especially true at a bathhouse. There’s been so many times where i’m at a bathhouse, where i’m getting fucked and someone tries to suck me. i try to guide them away and they keep at it. They end up with a mouthful of plastic.
i usually wear the Holy Trainer small, which i’ve found to be very discreet. Even with that, though, i’ve had people check me out at the gym because they think i have a really big dick print. So then they come over and start doing the small talk thing. i notice they are checking out the crotch area and not my ass, so i usually find the easiest way to just say i’m not interested.
My last two owners have been encouraging me to normalize chastity in areas where men would be normally undressing. So in the locker room, i’ve been getting over the shame of going to the biggest corner to undress. i still don’t use urinals unless it’s really a major emergency, but it’s also about going to a jacuzzi or a spa.
i do try to protect myself. As much as i would like to live in my full self, i know that’s not the world we live in. If there are signs that would make me feel uncomfortable, like someone doesn’t just look, but they look and scowl or try to find an employee, i know to remove myself from the situation.
The device i wear is plastic so it’s not usually registered by TSA or body scanners when i’m going through airports. For whatever reason, a few weeks ago it was recognized. At the time i also had a metal butt plug in my bag which rang up as well, but thankfully it was two different people who handled those things. They took me to the back room, and there were two TSA employees there and basically they were like, well what is it. So i said it’s a device i wear for my partner. So they wanted to know if it was metal.
I explained that it was plastic and that it was interesting that it rang up because it doesn’t usually. He said it was because their device was really sensitive. So then he asked me a few other questions about it. They weren’t very personal questions but he asked if i could take it off. And i said no, i didn’t keep the key with me. And then he asked a few other things. Then, at the end, he sort of did the residue test on the outside of my pants and it came back negative. For the last thing, he asked could i pull your pants down so they could see the device. i thought it was weird because the test had already come back negative but i did it and after he shook my hand and thanked me. He had this funny smile on his face and he sent me on my merry way to my flight.
*The opening photo for this story is not of SelfAuthoredSub , but of CagedJock . The story was transcribed by Out Senior Editor, Mikelle Street .
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Based in Los Angeles, MJ is a journalist and blogger who covers the LGBTQ community. Identifying as gender-queer, MJ focuses on topics that touch on a variety of life issues impacting men, women and non-binary individuals. Look for posts on science, dating, relationships, and culture.
It’s Locktober and that means it’s time to talk about chastity devices for men. Would you let your lover lock you down until you begged for mercy? Is it really safe to trust your equipment to somebody else?
Well, it certainly requires a level of trust and intimacy that the faint of heart don’t have. If you or your partner are wearing a chastity device, then you’ve just made an undeniable display of fidelity and kinkiness.
Male chastity belts can be a fun part of BDSM play. There’s also something about having your sexual power essentially belonging to someone else that thrills and tantalizes the libido. The device is physically constraining, but there is a definite psychological component to the chastity experience, as well.
It’s all about an exchange of power.
Did you know that chastity belts date back to around medieval times? Crusaders and knights who would ride off to battle would sometimes lock away their lovers’ private parts until they returned safely.
The first historical reference comes from religious texts and a drawing of a metal belt depicted in a book called Bellifortis . It was created by a German military engineer named Konrad Kyeser in 1405. (Figures.)
However, some historians believe that medieval chastity belts were just jokes or purely metaphorical. It wasn’t until the eighteenth and early nineteenth century that people started to put these designs into practical use for medieval reference purposes, pure curiosity, and a bit of kinky fun behind closed doors.
Male chastity belts didn’t become popular until modern times as BDSM toys. However, male chastity belts and devices are far more popular than female versions. Perhaps that has something to do with the prevalence of more men willing to be in submissive roles, (either gay or straight) within the BDSM community.
Essentially, the male chastity device is designed to prevent a man from obtaining an erection or prevent physical contact with the penis. You can prevent someone from masturbating or having direct sexual encounters involving their penis without the permission of the keyholder.
Is this about trust or delayed gratification? Well, it could be either or both.
There are a few different designs out there, but most fall under two types. There’s the cage design which encases a flaccid penis in some sort of elaborate prison for penises and then there’s the plate design which covers the penis so that it can’t get hard.
Some have traditional lock and key components, but you can get really high tech with male chastity belts now.
That’s right. You don’t need a key anymore. Some chastity devices can be locked and unlocked remotely from a smartphone, Bluetooth or Wi-Fi enabled device. That’s certainly a futuristic way to get kinky, but it comes with a new set of dangers.
This is how it works. Basically, the dominant person controls the app. They can monitor the submissive wearer’s time in the cage and unlock or lock them remotely. When engaged, a heavy-duty metal ring closes the device on the user.
Just imagine if your chastity belt was remotely locked by a hacker or your service dropped out and you couldn’t open it? Well, it might seem like something that would happen in a movie, but fact is stranger than fiction.
A security firm in the UK found this exact type of security flaw in a popular BDSM device called The Cellmate . It’s a chastity lock that’s controlled by an app. The security firm, called Pen Test Partners, found that Cellmate could be hacked and remotely operated. The hackers could then prevent anyone from accessing the device. There’s no manual override or physical key.
To be fair, the Cellmate’s designers made an attempt to patch the security flaw. The company in question Qiui made a note on their Google Play and Apple Store page for users “in order to prevent hacker attacks, please review this 2.1.7 version as soon as possible!! ignore version 2.1.4.”
That’s because the problem stems from an outdated application programming interface (API) that is especially vulnerable to outside override from hackers. One disgruntled reviewer still wasn’t entirely happy with his chastity experience with The Cellmate.
He wrote, “App stopped working. Again trouble. Got already stuck twice when wearing it due to the unreliable app. I should not have spent the money for this. Back to normal chastity.”
If you’re new to chastity or you just want to add some kinky fun to your romance, then by all means, take it slow. Try small intervals of chastity and be sure to look closely at reviews before buying any chastity devices or chastity belts.
It can be an enjoyable experience and that builds a powerful bond between dominant and submissive lovers. You might want to carefully consider a physical lock versus a digital app locking device.
Afterall, it’s your junk. You’re just slaving it to someone else for a specific period of time and under a specific set of circumstances. It’s for kicks, but nobody wants to get trapped in their cage while the app updates.
High tech isn’t always the best way to go. Maybe this type of technology isn’t superior to the good old fashion BDSM devices. At least you can be sure that only your dom can lock you down.
Ultimately, it’s up to you. But be safe and have fun.
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I am a mid-30s male. After a few months of experimentation, I started wearing a chastity device 24/7 about 2 weeks ago. I am able to handle all activities in the day time very comfortably. However, my nocturnal erections are a bit uncomfortable and I wake up 2 times to adjust the device and take a short walk to let it subside. I have three very specific questions about nocturnal erections and one general question about abstention:

1. If I continue to suppress my erections this way for long term could I harm my penile tissues?

2. The erection is not completely suppressed and the swelling puts some pressure on my testicles (which appear by themselves grow bigger and more full during the night). Can there be other complications from this pressure?

3. Some people say that these erections are linked to REM sleep. I haven't noticed any sleep deprivation or other neurological symptoms in the two weeks (irritatability, confusion, foginess, lack of attention, or ability to recall etc.). But can I run into long term effects of not getting a sound sleep of 7-8 continuous hours? I just take a 15 minute break those two times but otherwise sleep 7-8 hours.

4. I am not planning to masturbate or have sex for as long as I can and want to rely on wet dreams to release the fluids my reproductive systems build up. Can this lead to complications later?

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