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There's a dearth of sexual information for queer people, let alone for trans folks and our partners. To help combat the misinformation and stereotypes that permeate our communities, I've put together a guide for all you queer cis women out there. It comes down to education and communication, so let's chat about trans women and how our bodies work, shall we?
Ana Valens is a trans sexuality columnist for the Daily Dot. She has written for The Toast, Bitch Media, Vice Games, Rolling Stone's Glixel, and Fanbyte. You can follow her on Twitter at @acvalens.
Summer is here, which means every other queer girl is finally hopping off Twitter and grabbing some sun. And what better way to enjoy the weather than going on a beach date? Higher temperatures are encouraging us all to be slutty, so whether you’re single, nonmonogamous, poly , or something in between, it’s the perfect time to swap numbers and grab drinks with that dyke that you’ve been bashfully checking out at the feminist bookstore.
Of course, sapphic dating is easier said than done, and not just because a gentle brush against the leg can mean 20 different things. Queer trans girls are out there dating, too, and chances are if you’re reading this article, you’re at least entertaining the idea of hanging out with one of us (if you haven’t already!). But because trans bodies are ridiculously stigmatized, there aren’t that many sex ed resources out there about us. Hell, most trans women don’t even know how to pleasure themselves.
That’s why I’m here today: to help you unlearn our society’s nasty transphobia and teach you how to have fun with the trans women in your love life . It’s a noble endeavor, I know. So let’s chat about trans women, how our bodies work, what feels good for us, and what you should know before we go home together.
Mainstream porn implies anyone with a penis, be they cis men, nonbinary people, or trans women, prefer intense, rigorous stroking until they squirt semen. While not every trans woman uses estrogen, many (if not most) of us do, and our bodies work so much differently than cis men’s on hormone replacement therapy (or HRT). Trans adult performer Claire Tenebrarum warns that cisgender women are just as prone to cis men when it comes to believing and regurgitating these unrealistic stereotypes.
“Based on Tinder hookups and just general interactions with cis girls and couples on Tinder, their knowledge, like cis men's knowledge, comes from highly fetishized pornography where girls with thick, throbbing cocks shoot wads of cum,” Tenebrarum tells me. “There's a complete lack of even basic understanding of trans people, how our medication works, and we're basically just treated like cis men with tits.”
Some trans women have penises but feel uncomfortable using them during sex. Others are fine having their cocks touched but may refrain from topping or penetrative sex. There are also trans women who top and enjoy having penetrative sex (as I know from first-hand experience as a vers, or someone who doesn't have a particular preference when it comes to sexual positions). Additionally, many trans women are post-operative and do not have penises at all; instead, they have vaginas. In my case, I am a non-operative trans woman — that is, I have a penis (which I prefer to call a “clit,” “cock,” or “girldick”) and have elected not to change my genital configuration. Because HRT feminizes my body, my clit has soft, thin skin that prefers gentle stimulation. By all extents, it’s a feminine penis. Really, when it comes down to it, we're all different, and you should communicate with your partner about what both of you want in bed.
Journalist Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard pens the sexuality column “MTF & DTF” for Vice, where she talks about her love and sex life as a trans woman. While she doesn’t have any personal experiences with hooking up with cis women, she’s well aware of the social dynamics at play when trans and cis women meet up. More specifically, assuming a trans woman’s penis is penetrative by default “rearticulates the coerced masculinity” trans women are forced into at birth .
Keep an open mind, and remember you’re having sex with a woman who knows more about her body than you do about hers.
“This is not to say that using one's penis for penetrative sex is masculine. Rather, the person making such an assumption overlooks the reality of trans women's dicks, particularly for girls who are taking estrogen and testosterone blockers. Our dicks get smoother, softer, more flaccid. To be honest, it's harder to penetrate when you're on all those 'mones," says Blanchard.
“This failure to acknowledge the specificity of our bodies just continues the line of thinking that trans women are actually men," she continues. "Obviously, it doesn't mean that a girl who isn't on hormones or has an unchanged dick is less of a woman. But what violates trans women is how the underlying assumptions guiding normative cis male sexuality are exported to the normative sexuality of a trans woman.”
Granted, you probably wouldn’t have known any of that unless you slept with a trans woman before. But that’s exactly why you should walk into sexual encounters without any expectations. Keep an open mind, and remember you’re having sex with a woman who knows more about her body than you do about hers.
“One girl might like her dick touched, another might not, some areas can possibly be an off zone altogether because I know men touching my dick completely takes me out of the mood, so I'm sure the same applies to woman-love-woman sex for some trans women,” Tenebrarum tells me. “No two trans girls are the same.”
So what are some of the best ways to pleasure trans women that want genital contact? For one, it depends on our configuration. Trans women with vaginas have genitals that function similarly to cis women’s, whereas trans women’s penises on HRT are much more analogous to an enormous version of a cis woman’s clitoris. In the latter’s case, our crotches require a soft, smooth touch based on using one’s fingertips. For trans women on HRT, stroking the frenulum — the outer tissue on the penis connecting the shaft and the glans — is particularly pleasurable, and the penis’ tip often responds well to gentle touching.
Alongside the penis, the perineum is right above the prostate; some trans women even prefer having it touched (or fucked) instead of penile stimulation, as the perineum’s placement feels analogous to a vagina. These areas respond well to simultaneous stimulation as well, especially when playing with the anus too. To paraphrase one of my favorite zines out there, Fucking Trans Women , people born with penises have an incredibly sensitive web of nerves throughout their crotch, from the top of their shaft, through the taint between the rear and cock, and ending at the anal sphincter. Experiencing simultaneous stimulation can be ecstatic, to say the least.
But it’s not just about touch, it’s also how you talk about our penises. Blanchard warns that because cis women are “upheld as the pillars of femininity,” trans women may be more self-conscious during sex. That means talking to your trans partner about their genitalia — from how they want to be touched to what words to call it — is extremely important.
“It's rather simple to say, but genitals are blessed with being the arbiter of sex and gender, within the context of a patriarchy that is rooted in biological understandings of people,” Blanchard says. “So I think a cis girl needs to know that how she talks about a trans girl's ding-dong could be more upsetting than if a cis guy were to say the same thing.”
There’s a lot more to sex than just genitals. Don’t forget kissing, fondling, groping, and other forms of foreplay, as well as kink , if applicable. For more information, check out Allison Moon and KD Diamond's Girl Sex 101 , which details more techniques for playing with the shaft, treating it in a feminine and affirming way, and learning all about sapphic sex across genders.
Masturbation can often be really difficult for trans women with all kinds of genitals; girls with penises, in particular, can have a hard time reaching orgasm due to things like dysphoria , self-consciousness, or simply not being in the right headspace. Part of trans sex is accepting that a complimentary cum isn’t a given. Instead, many of us deprioritize getting off and try to focus on connecting with our partner (or partners) when we hook up. This can be doubly so when two or more trans women sleep together.
“I can speak only for my experience, but most trans lesbian sex for me has consisted of mostly foreplay, there's hardly ever penetration even, and isn't super focused on genitals. It feels more like a lewd cuddle session,” Tenebrarum explains. “For example, me and a friend just kind of get really high, lick and smell each other, it's completely unfocused on our dicks and there's no pressure to orgasm , because we're not even focused on those areas. It's great.”
That said, there is a wide range of toys that can help trans women get off. For pre-op and non-op women, the Hot Octopuss Pulse III ’s oscillator does wonders to the frenulum. It also pairs well with the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus , which is a cock ring that vibrates against the shaft and perineum simultaneously; together, they prove immensely pleasurable and can help trans women cum. (Granted, I recommend trans women just snag the former if they’re uncomfortable with getting or maintaining an erection.) Other than that, the Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable continues to be the gold standard for trans girls. (For more recommendations, check out my column on trans sex toys with the Daily Dot .)
We know what it’s like to have a lot of awkward, uncomfortable questions about trans bodies, because we’ve spent most of our lives asking the same exact ones. In other words, we get that you may be nervous about fucking up or saying something shitty. Or you may feel a little overwhelmed because sapphic trans sex is an entirely new sexual experience. All of that is fine. But it’s also why communication is so important.
While I can’t speak for all of us, queer trans women generally don’t expect cis women to be professionals with our bodies during their first few times. Once sex is on the table, we’re open to answering questions about how our bits work, what we need to enjoy ourselves, how we like to be played with, and what crosses a line. For instance, if you don’t know whether we want our genitals to be touched or played with, go ahead and ask. If you don’t know what words we prefer for our penises, talk to us. And if you don’t know how to go down on a trans girl, be honest. We’ll sit down with you and work things out.
“Absolutely ask questions, just do it in a respectful manner, and think before you speak,” Tenebrarum advises. “Talk to us about what we like, don't apply assumptions you apply to cis men to us, our body works in different ways, and [understand that] dysphoria also affects us all in different ways.”
Granted, it’s one thing to ask a trans woman about her genitals when clothes are coming off; it’s another to do so over coffee on the first date. But if it’s an appropriate question to ask, speak up. It’s the lifeblood of good sex.
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I'm A Straight Man In Love With A Transgender Woman
By SheSaid — Written on Jul 28, 2016
When I moved to a new town in Pennsylvania just over a year ago, I had no idea of what an enormous effect the change would have on my life. The only people I knew in Pennsylvania were a few friends I'd lived with previously who were local to the area, so it's safe to say my social circle when I first moved here wasn't huge.
It wasn't until a few months later in November that Ty and I met via Facebook. A few of my friends had been talking about her negatively after seeing her videos online about being a transgender woman , and I felt the urge to get to know the real her, so I reached out and sent Ty a message.
I couldn't get over her beautiful feminine features and, for someone who is transgender, I loved that she took her femininity so seriously. Everything from her skin, to her hair and nails was immaculate.
She was very clear about her situation from the beginning, and I was very open to a friendship ... until I started to form some very real feelings for her .
I didn't have too many fears or concerns when we began our relationship. I always respected her as a person regardless of her being transgender , but I was definitely worried about what other people would say or think about us together.
I knew our relationship would turn the heads of my loved ones, but over time I learned to adopt Ty's nonchalance to other people's negativity and critical perception of my life choices. After I learnt to reject their comments, our relationship became real and strong.
My family always told me they'd love me no matter who I chose to be or who I chose to be with; however, they did seem a little skeptical at first. With time, though, they've accepted that Ty and I are very happy together, and I know it's what they want for me now. As for my friends, most of them accept our relationship, praise how strong I've become since meeting Ty, and applaud how committed the two of us are to each other.
Like any couple, we have our arguments, but we always bounce back. The downs are mostly when Ty's feeling self-conscious ; I feel bad that I can't help her, and that's when we get frustrated at each other. Apart from that, she just gets angry at me when I let the dog on the couch.
Being physically intimate together is very different from what I was used to, but through everything, I still see her as a woman, emotionally and physically. I know with time she'll have her surgeries, but I love her either way.
We've talked about the longevity of our relationship — marriage, kids — but it's all within time. We would love to adopt, because I was adopted myself. Being adopted has made me a lot more accepting of people's differences. Everyone has their own past and everyone has their own demons. Why discriminate?
I wish more people understood that transgender men and women are people . Everyone has imperfections, whether physically or mentally, and because of that we all should be treated fairly. Transgender people know exactly who they are, and nobody should be able to say anything different.
Ty has definitely changed me as a person for the better. I used to party all the time and was very disconnected from my family; being in this relationship has helped me see there are people out there who have had it a lot harder than I ever did . It honestly turned my whole life around.
Today I have a good job, stability, and a love I never thought possible, although I do feel people identify with me differently now. Some people think of me as gay or bisexual, and I'm not at all. I'm a straight man in love with a straight woman.
There are so many amazing things about our connection . I love the chemistry in our relationship. Never in my life have I felt closer to another person. Even when we were just friends on social media, I fell in love with Ty's personality. Everything feels different with her, and I love it.
I love that she's so feminine; I love her voice, her appearance, the way she carries herself, and the person she is.
If you feel a connection with someone, you shouldn't second-guess it simply because they're different. Choose to value them as a person.
If I'd chosen to look the other way, I never would have met Ty, and I never would have known just how much of a difference one person could make in my life.
Nate lives in Pennsylvania with his girlfriend , trans vlogger Ty Kowalski, and is a passionate advocate for the LGBT community.​
This article was originally published at She Said . Reprinted with permission from the author.
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My name is Jerry and I’m 24 years old. Since I was a kid, I have been fascinated by feminine clothes. I used to admire my sister’s clothes and eventually got into crossdressing by wearing her outfits in secret. As time moved on, I tried resisting the urge to dress up as I didn’t have a lot of personal space inside my house.
And for a while, I stopped crossdressing. After few years, I got into a relationship with an amazing girl, Amanda. She was a beautiful & smart lady. We brought an apartment together and started living together. Things were really going great.
Amanda has a job at the pharmacy and I work as a freelancer. I spend a lot of time inside the apartment and there is a lot of Amanda’s clothes lying around. She has so many cute & hot outfits and I frequently wonder how those outfits would look on me.



One day, I woke up quite late because I was up all night working on a client’s project. I got into the shower and took a nice bath. When I came out of the shower, I noticed Amanda’s bra and panties lying in the hanger. Amanda had already left for work. The temptation was so strong and I couldn’t resist the urge to put on her bra and panties. My whole body shivered with excitement when I put them on.
It felt so wonderful to get in touch with my feminine side again. I walked around the apartment and spend almost 2 hours taking photos and looking at myself in the mirror. After that moment, I began to wear Amanda’s outfit more frequently but in total secret.
I would dive into her lingerie cabinet when she was at work and try on her latest lingerie. I would at most occasion get so indulged in dressing up that I forgot about time. I almost got caught two times and it was quite scary.
I thought about telling Amanda my crossdressing secret many times but I was really afraid she might break up with me after knowing. I decided not to tell her and see if my desire to crossdress fade out.
My interest in women’s lingerie grew bigger instead. I loved the feeling of wearing my girlfriend’s undies & her cute dresses, walking around the apartment and taking tons of photos & videos of myself.



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