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I am a straight male who has recently become infatuated with the idea of performing oral sex on another man. Guys don't turn me on at all, but the idea of having a penis in my mouth, for whatever reason, is absolutely scintillating! I don't believe I have any homosexual tendencies, I just want to s... c... What's my deal?

Fantasies are a great, safe way to explore exciting events and situations — that you may or may not actually want to do. People may daydream about being James Bond or a Charlie's Angel, a rock star, and/or a famous chef, for example. Or they may dream about playing sports with a pro, having lunch with a senator, or even hooking up with a celebrity. Whether or not a person has the ability or actual desire to do these is often secondary to the escape and joy that fantasy provides. Sexual fantasies allow you to explore sexual desires, feelings, and behaviors without actually choosing to do them. In your thoughts and dreams, you can be more aggressive or more passive, in the setting of our choice. Using fantasy or imagination, you can break away from the "norm" for a while.

Often the fantasy of breaking social taboos is erotic. If something you fantasize about, such as performing oral sex on another man, really turns you on, you can decide to keep it in the realm of fantasy or you may decide it is something you really want to do. Sometimes idealized fantasies, however, are more pleasurable than the real-life activity. Say for instance, you find yourself daydreaming about sex on the beach. You might omit the realities of mosquitoes, sand where it doesn't belong, sunburns on "tender" areas, the pesky hermit crab that might crawl into your discarded swimsuit, etc. In making fantasies real, be prepared to like it, hate it, be disappointed, relieved, indifferent, or have many other related feelings.

In your email, you mention that "guys don't turn me on at all" and that you don't "have any homosexual tendencies." It doesn't seem as if you're bothered by the fantasies; rather, you are curious about them. Having a fantasy about giving oral sex to someone of the same gender doesn't necessarily connote being gay, as you note. And fantasies involving people you don't typically have sex with are normal; many people have fantasies that they do not intend to act on. If you decide you want to act on your desires, you can take a look at the Related Q&As.

If you find that you are struggling with a newly found interest in men (or their penises), a sex therapist or counselor may be able to help you better understand your fantasies and address your feelings in a more direct way. Since you seem to feel no pressure, you can continue to enjoy the pleasure and heat your fantasies generate. Whether you act on them is up to you.
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I’m a straight male, 21 years old. I love women, I’ve always loved women, I’ve always loved having sex with women. However, in the last year, here and there, I’ve jerked off to transsexual porn. One night, after drinking with a friend and smoking some hash, I arranged a date with a trans sex worker. She was totally womanly, nothing manly about her, except for, you know. She licked my butt, gave me head, and fingered me. I’ve been on the receiving end of anal play before from girls, so nothing new. But somewhere during this encounter, I became the receiving partner during anal sex. At the time, I was too fucked up to care. But the next day, I started to feel REALLY bad. She was very safe and used condoms for everything. I just can’t get past the fact that I did the gayest thing a guy can do. I feel really depressed about this traumatic situation. I can’t seem to enjoy my life anymore. I’ve even felt somewhat suicidal. (I would never kill myself—I wouldn’t do that to my family and friends.) I still want to date women and have sex with women. I don’t regret being with a trans woman because I wanted to experiment. I’ve been tested since the encounter to make sure I didn’t catch anything. What I regret is her sticking her thing in my butt. Can a single act like this make me gay? Please help. —Wrong Side Of Wild Side

Yes, yes: You did the gayest thing a guy can do—you allowed someone to put a dick in your manbutt—but now you’re doing the second-gayest thing a guy can do. You’re being a huge drama queen about the whole thing. Stop acting so cray, as the kids say, and repeat after me: One dick in the ass does not a gay man make. Look at it this way: The difference between having a woman’s finger in your ass and having a woman’s dick in your ass is a matter of degree. If the woman’s finger was fine—to say nothing of the woman’s tongue—why freak out about the woman’s dick? Remember: You don’t sleep with men, you’re not attracted to men. You made an exception for this woman’s dick because her dick is exceptional: It’s attached to a woman.

So maybe you took a longer walk on the wild side than you might have if you’d gone on that walk sober, WSOWS, but thankfully, your sex worker was conscientious and responsible and used condoms. So you didn’t emerge from this encounter with anything more devastating than a touch of gay panic. Be a man about this—be a straight man about this—and walk it off, as the football coaches say.

Maybe this will help: Like a lot of gay men, I had sex with a woman before I came out. I did the straightest thing a guy can do—I put my dick in a vag—and it didn’t make me straight. You did the gayest thing a guy can do—you let someone put a dick in your ass—but that didn’t make you gay. Because you’re not gay, WSOWS, and one ride on a trans escort’s dick can’t change that.

If nothing I’ve said has made you feel better, WSOWS, maybe this will: Gay men don’t hire trans women sex workers. Wanting to be with a woman who has a dick is an almost exclusively straight male kink/obsession/wild side. Gay men are into dick, of course, but what we’re really into is dudes. There are gay men out there who date and fuck and shack up with trans men—men with pussies—so not all gay men are after dick. What we’re all after is dude.

If our gayness can’t be defined solely by dick, WSOWS, then surely your straightness can’t be undone entirely by dick.

I’m a married straight man. I recently spent a lovely day snorkeling with my wife in Mexico. We were grouped with three men who were obviously in a committed three-person relationship. I lacked the cojones to ask directly, but they had an extensive travel history together and lived together, everything was “we” this or that, and there were various PDA pairings during the day. They were lovely people. I wish we all lived in the same city, as it’s hard to meet cool people who aren’t exactly like you when you’re married with kids. Several questions: (1) What do gay people call such a union? (2) Does the gay community think it’s odd? Unremarkable? Sensible? (3) How does a union like that form? A couple adds a third? (4) Do these relationships last? Lots of pros and cons, just curious how it plays out.

—Three-way Relationship Intrigues Oblivious Straights

I recently used the term “saddlebacking” to indicate the position where a man rubs his penis between his partner’s ass cheeks as either foreplay or nonintercourse sex. My girlfriend, a regular reader of your column, insists that I used the term incorrectly. Did I? —Rubbed The Wrong Way

You did, RTWW. “Saddlebacking,” as defined by Savage Love readers (the Académie Française of sexual neologisms), is when two straight teenagers, endeavoring to preserve an evangelical girl’s virginity, engage in anal intercourse. This is a thing that really happens. Since anal sex isn’t really sex, according to the abstinence educators evangelical teens are exposed to, many good Christian teenagers rationalize that getting fucked in the ass doesn’t really count against a girl’s virginity.

The act to which you refer—rubbing your penis between someone’s ass cheeks as foreplay or as a substitute for intercourse—is known variously as frottage, outercourse, the Princeton Rub, or “the pearl tramp stamp.” But in Chicago, it’s known as “the Cardinal George.”

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I recently had an encounter I am concerned about. I performed oral sex
on a man without swallowing his ejaculation. My question is how much HIV
can there be in pre-cum and and has there ever been a case in which
someone got AIDS without swallowing semen? I do not believe I had any
sores in my mouth at the time. The man also told me he had not had any
recent partners and is tested regularly when he gives blood. I also did
the visual inspection you mentioned before hand and did not see any
sores, discharge, or other suspicious signs. Also, has anyone ever
gotten AIDS from performing oral sex on a woman? Either the receiver or
the giver?
If you get semen in your mouth, there is still a risk of infection (even if
you don't swallow it) since the virus can get into your bloodstream directly
from your mouth, if there are any types of cuts, open sores, abrasions, or
gum disease. So you don't have to swallow the semen to become infected.
Once the semen gets into the stomach, the acids in the stomach can kill the
virus. But if there are any openings anywhere before the stomach (including
the mouth), there is a risk of infection.
Looking at the risks of oral sex in more detail........
If you are RECEIVING oral sex from someone else, you are only being exposed
to saliva. The concentrations of the virus in saliva are so low, that nobody
has ever been infected from saliva. Keep in mind however that you can get
other sexually transmitted diseases (like herpes) by receiving oral sex.
However, as far as HIV is concerned, receiving oral sex is extremely low
risk.
If you are GIVING someone oral sex, there is a risk of infection since
pre-cum, semen, vaginal secretions, and menstrual blood can get into your
mouth. The more of these body fluids you are exposed to, the greater the
risk of infection there would be. If you have any open sores, cuts,
abrasions, or gum disease in the mouth, the virus can get into your
bloodstream. The risk is less than vaginal or anal intercourse, but the risk
is real, and transmission can occur. There have already been reported cases
of HIV infection specifically through giving oral sex. In addition to HIV,
while giving oral sex, you could also be at risk for other Sexually
Transmitted Diseases (STD's) including herpes and gonorrhea.
Now, when we're talking about the levels of risk by giving a man oral sex,
there is no one answer since several variables actually determine the true
level of risk.
Both pre-cum and semen contain high concentrations of HIV. Semen is however
a riskier body fluid because you are normally exposed to a greater quantity
of semen as compared to pre-cum. Does that mean that pre-cum is totally
safe? No! But we can say that the more infectious body fluid you are
exposed to, the greater the liklihood of transmission. So, you can become
infected by pre-cum alone, but you are much more likely to become infected if
the guy cums in your mouth, since you're exposed to a much greater quantity
of his body fluid.
Of course, the virus must also be able to get into the bloodstream through
some type of open sore, abrasion, gum disease etc. The more openings that
HIV has to get into your bloodstream, the greater your risk would be.
Without ejaculation, there still is some risk of getting infected through
giving oral sex, but the risk would be much greater if the man ejaculated in
the mouth. So rather than saying high risk vs. low risk, it's actually a
spectrum of risk.
NO EXPOSURE TO PRE-CUM OR SEMEN: very low/no risk as far as HIV is
concerned.
EXPOSURE TO PRE-CUM ONLY: low risk (but still possible). The more pre-cum
you get exposed to, the greater the risk would be.
EXPOSURE TO BOTH PRE-CUM AND SEMEN: risky, especially if there are cuts/open
sores in the mouth. The more semen you'
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