Tranny Andrea

Tranny Andrea

Creating content for females in Singapore.
Follow Us Here!

Features , Perspective
May 10, 2019

Archives Archives

Select Month
October 2022
September 2022
August 2022
July 2022
June 2022
May 2022
April 2022
March 2022
February 2022
January 2022
December 2021
November 2021
October 2021
September 2021
August 2021
July 2021
June 2021
May 2021
April 2021
March 2021
February 2021
January 2021
December 2020
November 2020
October 2020
September 2020
August 2020
July 2020
June 2020
May 2020
April 2020
March 2020
February 2020
January 2020
December 2019
November 2019
October 2019
September 2019
August 2019
July 2019
June 2019
May 2019
April 2019
March 2019
February 2019
January 2019
December 2018
November 2018
October 2018
September 2018
August 2018
July 2018
June 2018
May 2018
April 2018
March 2018
February 2018
January 2018
December 2017
November 2017
October 2017
September 2017
August 2017
July 2017
June 2017
May 2017
April 2017
March 2017
February 2017
January 2017
December 2016
November 2016
October 2016

The first thing I notice about Andrea, 28, is that she’s really f**king hot.
The 1.75m-tall beauty has cheekbones carved by the gods, legs for days, and jet-black hair that falls to her waist. She is Instagram baddie incarnate; eyebrows expertly drawn, lips Kylie Jenner-approved.
The next thought I have is, “What the f**k, she used to be a man.”
Like most, I have had limited interactions with trans women. Before this afternoon, they were removed stories, caricatured performances of femininity; Changi Village’s sex workers and Bangkok’s ping-pong show performers.
I know from Simone de Beauvoir that “one is not born, but rather becomes, a woman”. To tell Andrea that she does not look like a man is not a compliment, because she is not a man.
In a soft tone, Andrea begins her coming-of-age story, of how she became the woman she is today.
Andrea:
Growing up as a child, I was very reserved. I wasn’t the orthodox loud, play soccer, play football kind of boy.
I wanted to wear a skirt. So when my mum wasn’t home, I would steal her clothes, try them on, and look at myself in the mirror.
I begged my parents for The Powerpuff Girls merch, like “I really want this, I really want this”, and I would play with them. I think that’s when I knew I wasn’t “normal”.
Andrea as a child (left), Andrea as a toddler (right)
In school, everyone noticed that I had a squeaky voice. It didn’t help that I was fat as well, so they also called me a “fat sissy char siew pau ”.
The bullying contributed to my gender and body dysphoria. I didn’t feel like I was in the right body, and I hated how I looked.
For a long time, I thought I was a gay male because I was effeminate and attracted to men.
But when I was 19 and serving National Service (NS), I found out about Canadian YouTuber, Gigi Gorgeous.
Like me, she had come out first as homosexual, then as transgender. When I watched the video, I said to myself, “This could be it, this could be me”.
Andrea when serving NS (left), Andrea now (right)
I only decided to transition a year after I had completed my NS. When I went back for reservist, I had to cut my hair and exercise made me more muscular.
When girls started calling me handsome, it made me so uncomfortable and I knew I had to do something about it.
So I started on hormone therapy. At 25, I went to Thailand for a boob job. Shortly after, I adjusted my voice, did a tracheal shave, and had my gender confirmation surgery.
The gender confirmation surgery was the biggest and most painful surgery I’ve been through. It’s like cutting yourself open, driving a pencil into the wound between your legs, and digging at it every single day.
From stage 1 to 6: Andrea’s transition, spanning 3 years
Previously, I was contemplating living life with just boobs and a penis. But I met my ex-husband at 24, and I really wanted to marry him as ‘female’ in my legal documents.
Going into the surgery, I was really scared because I knew I might not wake up alive again. Many trans women die due to blood loss or complications.
I told the doctor, “Even if I die, do not just stop halfway and leave me with nothing. Finish the surgery, and if I’m dead, just bury me with a vagina.”
Thankfully, I woke up. When I saw my ex-husband’s face, I looked up, smiled, and said, “I’m finally a woman”.
I married my ex-husband at 26. He lived in Denmark, so I eloped to Denmark to be with him.
Andrea on her wedding day, in Denmark
The relationship was toxic and he was abusive. But I married him because I wanted to start a life with him. I was in love with the idea of having a family and my own husband.
But eventually, I decided to move back to Singapore because I realised the relationship was not going to work. I asked for a divorce and we got separated after my 27th birthday.
When I returned, I was very broken. I felt like I had failed myself. That was when I decided I was going to do something for myself and go after my dream of being a model.
I’ve wanted to be a model since I was 14, when I found out about America’s Next Top Model. I would replicate the shoots with a digicam and upload the pictures online to my Photobucket account.
I went to Phantom Models and said, “Hey guys, do you want me as a model?” and they graciously accepted me into their agency.
Everything just fell in place after that. I started doing yoga and taking care of my mental and physical health. In the same year, I also restarted my weave and hair extensions business, Andrea and Weave , and started taking makeup and hair bookings again.
Looking back, it was a really rough journey but I’m glad I went through it. I am who I am today because of it.
One day at a time, I became stronger. It was a journey of self-acceptance that taught me life is about loving yourself for who you are.
To others who are transitioning, or are thinking about transitioning, know that you’re never alone. If you need help, reach out because you can only get help if you ask for it.
All I can say is to just roll with it and just know that at the end of the day, you will reach your destination, and there always will be light at the end of the tunnel.

Cheryl likes bread and cats, especially so when cats tuck in their limbs so that they look like bread.
Receive news, promotions and more from Zula
All Rights Reserved 2016 - 2018 Zula Pte Ltd.

If playback doesn't begin shortly, try restarting your device.
Videos you watch may be added to the TV's watch history and influence TV recommendations. To avoid this, cancel and sign in to YouTube on your computer.
An error occurred while retrieving sharing information. Please try again later.
0:00 / 0:00 • Watch full video Live

If playback doesn't begin shortly, try restarting your device.
Videos you watch may be added to the TV's watch history and influence TV recommendations. To avoid this, cancel and sign in to YouTube on your computer.
An error occurred while retrieving sharing information. Please try again later.
0:00 / 0:00 • Watch full video Live

Lady Kinky Boots
Nylon Feet Femdom Sniffing
Porno Mommy 2

Tranny Andrea

Report Page