Training Submissive Wife
🛑 ALL INFORMATION CLICK HERE 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻
Training Submissive Wife
This content is for Elite subMrs™ membership level members only. To continue reading you will need to register for a membership account. As always, thank you for your support! Little Kaninchen Register Now
This content is for Elite subMrs™ membership level members only. To continue reading you will need to register for a membership account. As always, thank you for your support! Little Kaninchen Register Now
Privacy & Cookies: This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this website, you agree to their use. To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: Cookie Policy
© 2022 Marriage's Sexiest Secret | husDOM™ - subMrs™ - Tangled Wood, LLC - 680 S Cache Street, Suite 100, Box 12679, Jackson, WY 83001 support@husdom.com
Harassment Harassment or bullying behavior
Inappropriate Contains mature or sensitive content
Misinformation Contains misleading or false information
Offensive Contains abusive or derogatory content
Suspicious Contains spam, fake content or potential malware
My Sir used S.O.A.P. in my submissive training…
From the beginning my Sir requires me memorize this mantra and recite what S.O.A.P. means…. Anytime …. Even during a scene.
If he feels at anytime that I am going “vanilla” he will ask me to recite S.O.A.P. …. Reminding me to be mindful of my mouth and actions. I have found at my least submissive moments, I will look at S.O.A.P. and it will help me with my mindset.
Sometimes he has me say it in public, to him at dinner. It makes him smile and I see the Dominant simmering below the surface. I blush at what I know will be my reward later!
Memorize S.O.A.P. and your Sir will be pleased.
Put it on sticky notes where you can study all day.
***** To make things INTERESTING, In your comments please include one of each of your Sir’s A need, A command, A Desire….
Thank You for your sub-port of our sites!
Married submissive Training, D/s-Married Lifestyle,D|s-Married Training, FSOG Lifestyle Dynamic
Yuletime Couples Celebration Personally, I love the Yuletide Season. Unfortunately, the media and retail stores stale the season by declaring the season in September. By…
What is a Yoni Egg A Yoni egg is a beautiful semiprecious stone crystal that’s carved & polished into an egg shape that is to……...
Threesome Fantasy A Third Experience, A Gift for Little Kaninchen {I wanted to try my hand at writing a hot short story about a married…
What is it he wants & Can you give it to him? Domination and submission Marriage: Respect ~Little Kaninchen~ Understanding what makes a husDOM™, your…
This post is about the type of spanking, Spankings of the Erotic Kind. You know the type that we advise using in the Married Dominance……...
You must be logged in to post a comment.
I will never forget the look on your face while in the middle of a scene I asked you to recite SOAP to me.
It was priceless… Through all of the fog in your mind you managed to do it and do it well. I honestly didn’t expect you to be able to mutter the first line.
Thank YOU Sir! All my love and submission…
Love this and I’m studying! For my Sir he needs to be feed and my submission, commands that I watch my bratty mouth (big thing I need to work on) and desires to have my submission 24/7. 🙂
Sir does this to me all the time during scenes and play (I think he saw it over at husDom). I like the idea of doing it during the day though. I am not sure how I would react to it but I am sure I need it sometimes. Thanks for the ideas LK.
We both love this! he said i’m great at S.O.P i need to .A.ccept better and stop questioning! somedays im great and others i need to be reminded of SOAP throughout the day, SO THANKYOU!
I love this! Sir and I had a long debrief last night because I failed in a task he gave me on Thursday. Sir saw through all my muddled reasons “why” I failed and saw that it’s mainly because I have a hard time letting go of everything else and being “in the moment.” He’s planning tasks to help me learn to overcome that…
So I think I’m a decent SAP. (Although, can I be totally accepting of his dominance if I hesitate to obey because I can’t let go of other things?). Anyway… I’m going to share S.O.A.P. with Sir. BTW, I also shared the mirror scene with Sir (when I thought body image was at the root of my ‘failure’), and he’s planning that for us. He’s treading carefully in staging it for me, because he anticipates that there will be tears from me, too…
LK – I keep a journal where I define what submission and dominance mean to me. As I learn more, I adjust them. I realized that S.O.A.P. is an umbrella for almost everything I have in my definition of submission, and I’ve been thinking on what was not covered to decide if they are really essential to my definition.
Do you and Mr. Fox by chance has a similar acronym to define what dominance means? I’d be curious to know how you define that…
Thanks for all your insight and sharing!
Funny thing though….soaping out the mouth has lots of meaning all the same….I wonder if we need to remember that sometimes…I am such a dirty mouthed one myself….x
This is something I need to work on with my Sir. I will start today!
Go girl..I know you can do it! It is so much fun and will show him your commitment.. HUGS! Welcum to my Warren.
LS… Believe me you will love to recite it as he plays with you in a scene or playtime.. Let me know how it goes.
Putting SOAP in the front of my journal “write” now! 🙂
This is great. I am putting this on a post it and reciting it over and over today. I have problems at times but it is all new. I am learning so much and very thankful for this site. I know my Sir will have me recite this many times.
It is a lot of fun to be bound and stimulated and have to recite SOAP.. Have Fun! LK
Wow!!! S.O.A.P that is a wonderfully sexy acronym. And I love using acronyms, they are useful in all types of training 🙂 I will write about this in my journal and see if Sir lets me use this tool. I need to be mindful of him always and I loved how you wrote about feeding the Dom. Thank You for this tool, I think I will keep a fancy bar of soap on my desk at work and on my night stand so that I can remind myself of what I need to do to please my Sir.
So happy this post could help you. We are working on getting soaps out there with our branding merchandise. HUGS! LK
I love the sticky notes suggestion! This would be a great reminder for me as well as a way of feeding his Dom!
Let us know how your sticky notes did! HUGS! LK
This is totally going into my journal today! Thank you for this inspiration
Please confirm you want to block this member.
Please note: This action will also remove this member from your connections and send a report to the site admin. Please allow a few minutes for this process to complete.
Shortcuts to other sites to search off DuckDuckGo Learn More
This is a list of common submissive wife rules. The first four are based on the 4D's and I recommend that you all follow these four rules. Rules 5 -10 rules should be followed where applicable. 1: Respect - show respect at all times. 2: Honesty - always be truthful never tell lies. 3: Obey - Obey your Husband/HoH without question.
Submissive Training : Be Sexually Vulnerable, Explore Your Fantasies and Transform Your Sex Life With Spectacular Experiences (BDSM Books For Beginners Book 1) More Sex More Fun Book Club 156 Kindle Edition 1 offer from $4.99 A How To Guide To Domestic Discipline Boot Camp Learning DD 22 Kindle Edition 1 offer from $9.99
Reminding me to be mindful of my mouth and actions. I have found at my least submissive moments, I will look at S.O.A.P. and it will help me with my mindset. Sometimes he has me say it in public, to him at dinner. It makes him smile and I see the Dominant simmering below the surface.
Subliminal Wife Training 101 Solution Can Jake train his bratty wife , Amber, into a loving submissive and obedient dream girl with Subliminal Wife Training ; using Subliminal MP3 programs he was able to download directly from Dream Girls online directory. Read the full story The Ideal Wife A young, nineteen-year-old girl, Amber.
What I Did To Become A Submissive Wife : 1. Physically greet my husband at the door when he gets home from work, with a smile and a kiss. Or at least a great attitude. In the show, Furman asks the viewer, "Is your dog the first person to greet your hubby when he gets home?" Think about it. Your hubby's been working all day. He's been gone since 7am.
My first actual training occurred when we reached my home our first day together. Sir sat on my couch, and took one of the pillows, placing it at His feet, He instructed me to kneel and remove His shoes. He informed me at that time that His women do not kneel on the floor, only on pillows, and so I learned my first lesson.
A good Dom will help teach the submissive how to push their limits. They are training the sub to be the best sub that they can be for them. During the early courtship, the Dominant will try and build the submissive's confidence. As a submissive myself, this is crucial to helping me feel comfortable enough to test my limits.
Make your submissive walk on all fours with a collar and a leash like a dog. You can incorporate a dog mask designed for kink, like this one, and even take the act outside for the public...
Explore Submissive Karen's 202 photos on Flickr!
We both got our way that night. She garnered a great deal of attention at the pool at the Loews Hotel & Resort on South Beach. My wife is gorgeous and one of a kind, and I couldn't possibly be more proud of my beautiful wife . If some of the photos of my hot wife Rhonda in this bikini are blurry, it's because my hands were shaking!
Help your friends and family join the Duck Side!
Stay protected and informed with our privacy newsletters.
Switch to DuckDuckGo and take back your privacy!
Try our homepage that never shows these messages:
Discover shortcuts to go to search results on other sites.
Stay protected and informed with our privacy newsletters.
Help your friends and family take back their privacy!
Formerly an Emmy-nominated TV news reporter, Janie Porter is the creator of She Just Glows and (often-unshowered) stay-at-home mama to three boys 5 years old and under. Follow her on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter for more posts about less-than-perfect parenting and finding your inner glow.
Receive email updates & offers from ForEveryMom.com. Unsubscribe any time. Privacy policy
Receive email updates & offers from ForEveryMom.com. Unsubscribe any time. Privacy policy
If you’re turned off by the “submissive” word in the title, trust me, I GET IT. Keep reading. (Disclaimer: I’m not a perfect wife and quite often a very crummy one. I’m also not a marriage counselor or expert on submissive marriage. I’m simply sharing what’s worked for me.)
It was nap time. I’d finally gotten all 3 boys to sleep. I collapsed onto the couch, and flipped through channels on the TV, until I landed on The Submissive Wives’ Guide to Marriage , on TLC.
I’d never heard of the show, and I was immediately intrigued. But what does it mean? It means going back to the Bible, and learning about what God says about marriage and wifehood.
The word gives me creeps. The heebie-jeebies. It makes me think of a slave or servant. A woman who doesn’t speak and doesn’t ever do anything for herself. Who lives to serve her husband, a man who must clearly be a tyrant.
The show profiles Tara Furman, a well-spoken, middle-aged, Christian wife in North Carolina. She’s in a happy, more-than-25-year marriage, and she credits it to her choice to be a submissive wife.
Does it mean she doesn’t have an opinion and lets her husband control her?
It means she focuses on being her husband’s helper, lover and supporter. And as a result, he treats her like a queen.
(In fact, I think being a submissive wife takes a very strong, confident woman.)
So about 8 weeks ago, without saying a word to my husband, I started my own submissive wife experiment. I took a few points from the show and adapted them into my own marriage.
In the show, Furman asks the viewer, “Is your dog the first person to greet your hubby when he gets home?” Think about it. Your hubby’s been working all day. He’s been gone since 7am. He fights traffic and finally gets to the front door of his home. He opens it. The dog is there to say hello, but no one else even looks up. How heartbreaking. Furman calls this process “reentry,” and every day when her husband gets home, she and their kids deposit their cell phones into a basket and greet Dad at the door. Furman also usually has dinner going and a cold beverage to greet him.
With 2 toddlers and a baby, I’m not always able to do to all of this, but I can make a point to stop whatever we’re doing when the husband gets home, get up from my seat, and physically meet him at the door with a smile and a big kiss. Sometimes, I’m nursing so I don’t stand up but I let the kids greet him at the door, and I give him a big smile and hello. One day, I thought ahead enough to get him an ice water in his favorite blue Solo cup, and had one of the boys walk it out to him at the car. Groundbreaking? No. But it made him feel special and know that we anticipated his arrival home from work.
The point isn’t that you have to have dinner ready or you have to be fake-happy when he gets home. Heck, you may work and not even be home when he gets home. The point is that, in whatever way you can communicate that your man is respected, he is the leader of the house and that the family is happy when he comes home . If you’re not home when he gets home, can you make his lunch before he goes to work in the morning, or iron the clothes he’s wearing tomorrow? However, you can communicate that you’re grateful for him. In my experience, the attitude is far more important than the action.
I’ve heard this phrase before, but it hadn’t really resonated until seeing the show. I can control my own life, the kids, the house. But when it comes to my husband, I can be content to be his helper. And, here’s what changed it for me: “just” being the helper totally takes the pressure off of me!
With 3 boys 4 and under, I have enough to worry about everyday. So now, instead of micromanaging all that my husband does too, I just let it go. And all I need to do is ask him how I can help.
For example, for years, it’s been my responsibility to manage our rental properties. Now with 3 young children to bathe, feed, change and teach, it is a huge drain to my emotional energy to manage tenants and maintenance of our properties. Rather than trying to do it all myself, I asked my husband to take over. He agreed happily. Since then, he’s been doing an excellent job, and I have the relief of knowing that he will make the best decisions for our family. I don’t need to ask him to give me the rundown of what he’s doing for the properties. All I do is ask, “Is there anything I can do to help you?” The pressure is now off me, and I don’t have to worry about it. And even if something goes wrong, I don’t have the pressure of knowing that the responsibility falls solely on my shoulders. It’s his responsibility.
For me, I’m learning that it’s more about what I don’t say, than what I do. And, I’m finding that holding back when I really want to direct or tell my husband what to do, might actually be communicating more love and respect to him than words ever could.
For example, one night we were grilling dinner, and as is usually the case, it was my job to prepare the sides in the kitchen, and my husband was going to grill the meat outside. We’d decided we wanted to eat at 5:30pm, so around 5pm, I started prepping the sweet potatoes and corn to bake inside, but I noticed my husband wasn’t starting the grill.
Rather than nag him, over and over, to start the grill. And then telling him that he never times the meat cooking correctly, I asked myself, What’s the worst that could happen? Well, the meat won’t be done until after the rest of the dinner. We might be really hungry by the time dinner starts.
Well, we can have some snacks then.
So starting that night, I made a conscious decision to not direct my husband.
Eventually, he started the grill, and we ate dinner a little later than normal, but it was fine. Since I hadn’t blown up at him, or critiqued him, it was a happy, peaceful vibe at the dinner table, and we all had fun. We even laughed! (Like, a lot.) The best part was I didn’t have to take on the role of being the “boss” of everyone in the house, as I might have previously thought I needed to. I don’t need to assume that role of being “the nagger” . The fact is, I don’t enjoy that. And, it’s not helpful to anyone.
As I continue implementing this lack of directing my husband, I’m realizing that I actually don’t need to nag. When he knows that I’m not going to be reminding him, it seems like he’s actually more likely to initiate the tasks on his own. And again, if he doesn’t, the responsibility falls squarely on his shoulders.
This happened recently when we were leaving on vacation . We were going to be staying in a beach house, which meant we had to bring almost everything with us, from shampoo to charcoal to paper plates to food. Before we left, rather than calling the shots, I asked my husband what he wanted me to do. He said he wanted me to handle the interior, and he’d take care of putting the boat on the trailer and getting the outside stuff together.
Suddenly, it became so easy. Once I knew what my job was, from him, that was all I had to worry about. And because I wasn’t nagging him to get his stuff done, he just… well, he just did it. Let me tell you, my friend. This was our very first family vacation where there wasn’t a single solitary argument, disagreement or miscommunication. We got 3 boys 4 and under (including a 5-week-old at that time) down to the beach house with all our stuff for 5 days without a single ounce of tension. It was glorious!
And it all came from me learning to take his direction, and not fighting to direct him and tell him what to do.
In the show, Furman focuses a lot on what she loves and values in her husband. And in this process, I’ve tried to start doing the same. And it turns out, it’s really helping my attitude about everything. When I focus on how hard my husband works for our family, I’m less likely to be mad when he leaves his dirty socks on the floor. When I think about how he still thinks I’m beautiful (despite 52 pounds of baby weight ), I’m not going to be annoyed that I have to take out the kitchen trash again.
As an admitted control-freak, type-A personality, this has been a huge change for me. But I simply go into each day, asking myself how I can best help my husband. And how I can show him my respect. And love.
Once I realized that I’m thankful for who my husband is, I stopped valuing him based on what he did or didn’t do. I started valuing him for the person he is .
My husband works his butt off all day, so that I can be home with our kids. My husband loves me unconditionally. When I think of it that way, why wouldn’t I want to make him feel important? He is!
Once I decided that I wanted to make my husband feel special, it just started coming out in my actions. I’d bring him his favorite peppermint tea in bed. Or, I’d pick him up some new loafers at Target, because I noticed his old ones were getting raggedy. I’d let him sleep until 8:30am on a Saturday, while I get up with the kids at 6am. Of course, with our 3 little ones, I’m not always able to do all of this. But the point is: the gratitude is there. If not in my actions, then at least in my mindset.
Alright, I’m ready for your comments and questions! Please keep the c
Allison Janney Nude
Asstr Kristen
The Family Slut