Tips On Deep Throat

Tips On Deep Throat
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Home Lifestyle Curious About Deep Throating? Read This First
Everything you need to know before throwing caution (and your gag reflex) to the wind.
By Dr. Jenn Mann Updated Apr 21, 2021 @ 4:00 pm
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Your partner lies on his back with you on your side which allows you to be in control regarding how far you can take him into your throat. Some deep throaters swear by 69. On your knees. Some say this allows your throat to open up more than if you are laying on your back. Lie on your back, no pillows beneath your head, and elevate your legs. Lifting your legs can alter your spine's alignment so that your throat and mouth are in a straight line. Try lying on your back with your head hanging off the bed. Please note this position requires enormous trust and communication with your partner beforehand because you are in a submissive position and not in control of what is happening to you.
Humming: This can be effective because you are essentially lifting up your soft palate, which is where your gag sensitivity lies. Accupressure: Squeezing your thumb in your left fist or pinching the fleshy skin between your thumb and index finger, known as the Hegu point , are both said to reduce gag feelings. Use your tongue to block the back of your throat. This creates a pillow-like cushion for him to thrust into (and protects your gag zone). Fake it by wrapping your hands around his girth, in front of your lips, so your hand feels like an extended mouth.
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I enjoy giving my boyfriend head. And not to brag, but I think I'm pretty decent at it. Recently though, he has hinted that he wants me to try deep-throating. In the porn I've watched it looks pretty intense — and I'm worried about my gag reflex. Any tips for how to deep throat for a first-timer? — The Shallow
I respect your willingness to swallow your pride, so to speak, and come at this with an open mind (and gullet). As you seem to already know, the gag reflex tends to be the biggest inhibitor of the deep throat technique.
Also known as the pharyngeal reflex or laryngeal spasm, the gag reflex is the contraction of the back of the throat that occurs when triggered by an object touching the roof of the mouth, back of the tongue, tonsil area, or the back of the throat. It is meant to prevent things from going down your throat that aren't supposed to be there, and to stop you from choking. The unfortunate truth is that our throats are not designed to swallow dicks! That said, some people have it easier than others in this category. Studies show that 37% of people do not have a gag reflex . On the other end of the spectrum, 10 to 15% of people have a hypersensitive gag reflex (HGR). Regardless of where you fall, you can learn how to deep throat if you care to. Consider these tips and then dive right in.
There are throat training exercises you can do to help desensitize your gag reflex. Keep in mind, this training must take place over time in order to be effective. Pick a phallic-shaped object, starting with something small like a toothbrush or your finger, and slowly move the object toward the back of your throat. When you feel yourself starting to gag, stop and try to relax while taking deep breaths in order to suppress your gag reflex. Try to hold it there for 10 Mississippis.
The more you practice this, the sooner you will see improvements. Once you are able to hold it there for the full 10 seconds, experiment with moving the object in and out slowly. This may stimulate your gag reflex even more. Make sure to keep breathing. Once you have conquered this with a small object, work your way up to a dildo. Hot tip: Do not practice this with a banana. It could break off into your throat and cause you to choke, which would be a very embarrassing way to go.
Positions that create a straight line from the mouth to the throat, allowing the penis to go there, are ideal. There are a few positions that are particularly good for this type of sword swallowing endeavor.
Whatever position you try, one of the most important things is that you are able to feel comfortable, safe, and relaxed with your partner. Feeling pressured or scared, besides creating a very negative experience for you, will lead to you tensing up the muscles in your jaw and your throat, which makes it less likely that you will get the results you were hoping for. Coming up with a signal that lets your partner know to stop is of the utmost importance, as is open communication any time sexual experimentation is going down.
When it comes to deep throating, creating optimal breathing opportunities and using breath to help you to relax are important ingredients for success. Stuffed up with a head cold? Wait until your sinuses are cleared out, then try.
Try experimenting with your breathing. Inhale as you slide him out, using that moment to take a breath. Try the reverse as well, inhale as he is going in and exhale as he is going out. Many experts recommend sticking your tongue out or flattening it in order to allow the penis to slide further down the throat. Keep in mind that this leaves your soft palate exposed and available to poking and prodding which is likely to trigger that gag reflex.
Go in hydrated like you are about to run a marathon. Dehydration is your enemy. You need saliva to do a good job. Putting some lube on your lips or on him can allow your mouth to go up and down smoothly which helps the whole process. If you are able to bring his penis into your mouth far enough, the back of your throat will begin to lubricate with a thick saliva.
There are many different tricks that are recommended to enhance your deep throat technique. They range from old wives' tales to more scientifically-based recommendations.
In order to feel safe and have a great experience, talk it out first. And make an ejaculation plan in advance. Are you comfortable swallowing? How do you want to be warned that he is about to cum — and where do you want it to go? Most importantly, like any sex act, this should be about wanting it. You should never feel pressured or coerced. With that? You're far from the shallow now.
In Hump Day, award-winning psychotherapist and TV host Dr. Jenn Mann answers your sex and relationship questions — unjudged and unfiltered.

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While deep throating may be something you would never dream of doing in a million years (and if that's the case please know you should never feel pressured into doing it by some blow job hungry monster), some people find ye olde deep throat it super enjoyable.
Carly Rae Summers, an adult actor and deep throating expert, explains what deep throating is, how to practice and why it can feel so damn good (for the receiver AND the giver).
"Deep throat is different to your average blow job , as the penis surpasses your mouth. It travels to the depth of your throat. Giving the receiver a tight all-round grasp," she says.
"I believe that anyone who wants to, has the capacity to deep throat. It's about working with your gag reflex, not letting it dominate your oral skill set."
"Honestly, I’m a bad example. At 16 I landed my first boyfriend - he was well endowed and wanted a girl that could take it all. So I trained my reflex, with some 'guided assistance'. But I really wouldn't recommend to anyone having their head pushed down. A degree of training is required, you're certainly not born with the ability to deep throat."
There are three ways to practice deep throating:
"1. Fingers. This technique is a great way to train your gag reflex and to learn how to work with it. My gag reflex may be mostly dormant, but the sensation of a gag is something special. Make it part of your skill set, and work through it. If it happens, stop, take a second for a breather and continue as if it's no bother at all.
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"2. A suction cup dildo . This will help help you train. You'll require a dildo with a lot of flex so it curves down your throat - realistic toys are great for this. Stick it to a surface (your mirror, a table, the floor) and go wild. You can experiment with a range of angles and positions to find your 'sweet spots'.
"3. And then of course the real thing. Take it slow, remember to breathe and see where it takes you."
"Firstly, LOTS of lube and spit. And secondly, safety has to be considered when deep throating as it comes with a high risk of catching an STI. Like with any sex, condoms should be worn when deep throating new partners. Always make sure you're taking regular sexual health tests; vaginally, orally and anally."
"Angles play a key role in the success of deep throating. Every penis is different and comes with its own challenges. If your sexual partner happens to have a curved penis then it's an easier challenge (as well as being great for anal) as it works with the shape of your mouth.
"Positions on your knees may be aesthetically pleasing, lots of eye contact as your tease and suck, but while you're positioned underneath the cock it'll merely hit the back of your mouth. A position with elevation, i.e. sat on the edge of the bed, while he stands, makes it much easier to curve the penis into the depth of your throat. Plus, this position gives you the control.
"For a more experienced oral expect, tipping your head and neck off the edge of a bed gives ultimate throat leverage. It's not recommended if your gag reflex is still making a stand (no one wants to throw up), as it really is a male-dominated position and allows your partner to control the speed and depth.
"Hint if you want to master this position . Remember, your nose is there for a reason: use it to breathe. Often I'll forget, and find myself struggling to grasp air and will pull out of the deep throat, gasping. I'm personally a big fan of making a mess of my face, the more spit the better, but this position is well and truly the makeup ruiner."
"Giving oral has always filled with me confidence, seeing how guys react to different techniques and tricks.
"As a big fan of foreplay, nothing gets my motor running more than showing off my skill set. I have always been complimented on the variation of movements, continuously changing the pressure and actions involved. Focusing on each area; bell end, length, base of the penis, balls and gooch. I love using both my hands, my mouth and throat."
In order to find out what IRL people with penises think of ye olde deep throat, I turned to Reddit.
"It does mean that there's more surface area being covered by warmth and wetness than a regular BJ. It also gets tighter in the throat," says madememinxy . "Deeper feels better because it's pressure and warmth on more of your cock. Simple," they add.
"For me it feels incredible, the only way I can describe it is it feels like a super hot and wet vagina massaging the end of your dick," says showmethebiggirls .
"I've been with a couple girls that could do it well, but the only time it made a difference is with one of the girls who would somehow click or snap her throat over the head of my dick. It felt awesome, but it's never happened again," realslacker says.
"It's just a psychological thing IMHO... In reality it often causes her to gag and it's not very pleasurable. Blowjobs are nice because of the lips\tongue work..." adds madememinxy .
"It depends on the person doing it. If they can do it, it's pretty awesome. It's mainly a psychological thing, but some girls know how to do some unique things when they have you in their throats that can make a deepthroat BJ even hotter," says Matthew37 .
"Maybe I've never been with someone who can do it well, but I've never seen the appeal. It doesn't feel as great as a regular blowjob and it can be kind of awkward for the girl. Admittedly though I don't really find the idea of deep throating that interesting, so the pleasure would have to come from the sensory stimulation," says rooftopBBQ .
"Semen, like marmite, splits people into lovers and haters. Do you swallow it, get him to cover your chest? There are many options which require a clean up. But deep throating is a great way to overcome this. The contractions/tightness of the throat encourage your partner to finish quicker and it's taste-free because the semen completely skips your mouth and you're not left with the lingering taste. It's mess free and you don't even have to swallow as it'll make its own journey down."

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