Tips For Going Down On Her

Tips For Going Down On Her

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We’ve all seen the stats about how faking orgasms is more common than you would think. And if you’re here, then you’re obviously trying to score some real points in the bedroom.
Sure, pleasing a woman isn’t exactly rocket science, but it does take some rock solid technique. Don’t think you can just go down there and do whatever you want. That’s a waste of energy. Going down on a woman requires a lot of communication and some experimenting.
But before you start performing oral on your girl, it doesn’t hurt to do a little research. Thankfully, plenty of Reddit users are willing to share some tips.
Here are 13 of the best ones we found.
“ Build up is key . Take a looooong time to explore other parts of her body first. When you finally get to the vagina, focus on other parts before zooming in on her clit. Start slow.”
“ Be gentle ! Whether you are going fast or slow, be tender with her lady parts!”
“When it sounds like she is really enjoying it, keep doing what you are doing , don’t speed up or slow down or try something new. She is enjoying what you are currently doing so why change it up?”
“Listen! Be keen on how your girl responds to what you are doing and make note of the techniques that make her twist with ecstasy vs yawn.”
“Tease her. The last place you should go is the clit , and she should be begging for it. Be attentive and enthusiastic. Tell her how good she tastes.
“On clit sucking specifically: Some women like this, others do not. Some like the clit sucked on directly, others it’s best to suck around the entire vagina . Also, if your whole mouth is around the top of her vagina, there will be a natural vacuum when you’re performing tongue tricks anyway.”
“Personally, I find that using fingers can be 1) distracting for her, or 2) gets in the way of my mouth’s rhythm (think patting head while rubbing belly). I actually think the Nina Hartley video does a great job of explaining some fingering options (come hither motion, pinching labia/clit, opposite come hither hold). However, again, because of #1 and #2 above, I typically use only my mouth when it’s time to get her all the way there.”
“ Try and find the g-spot with a finger and apply on-and-off pressure to it while you’re working the clit/labia. The g-spot isn’t hard to find, here’s how: if she’s lying on her back, it’s gonna be on the roof of the vagina. Put a finger in and press up, you’ll feel the pelvic bone through the tissue. The tissue where the g-spot is will feel really spongy and kind of rough. If you can work that spot in tandem with the clit/labia, hopefully you’ll get some good results.”
“ Make her feel totally confident in herself , totally comfortable and not self conscious. I can tell you that worrying if my SO is enjoying it or if he likes how I taste will absolutely ruin it. She won’t pay any attention to what you’re doing because she’s so worried.”
“When you can, breathe out of your mouth . Depends on the girl, but the feeling of heat from your breath can be very stimulating.”
“You take everything you’ve seen in porn and you forget it.”
“The best thing to do is ask , in my experience. Harder? Slower? Faster? You like that?”
“Asking beforehand is good but the best time I find is after (seeing as during is very distracting unless its openly expressed that your both doing it out of experimentational purposes).
“ Ask her how certain things felt . More than likely the most memorable parts will be the ending or the surprisingly good parts. [Then] focus on finding what those were and figure out how to fine tune them to her liking.”

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Everything that appears in this post speaks from the individual experience of those who gave the tips. Perhaps they don't represent the personal preferences of all women, but they all got a lot of likes on Facebook. :)
"Go to Google and type this in: VAGINA. Now, take a good look at where the clitoris is. Seriously, it's really not all that difficult." — Lúu Novaski
"Don't be frantically licking all over it like there's no tomorrow, just any old way it pleases you. It gets sensitive down there and it's not pleasurable at all when you overdo it. Go slow, be gentle with it." — Ana Cicino
"Your tongue is not a penis. Oral sex has to be like a well-placed kiss: moist, unhurried, and organized. It's not just about seeing how far you can stick your stiff tongue in." — Camila Leite
"Stop it with the toilet plunger impersonation! The clitoris is a sensitive area! If the girl is pulling back, get a hold of yourself." — Wanessa Silva Macedo
"Stop treating the hood of the clitoris and the lips like they're taffy. Pulling, stretching, and tugging. Just...no." — Terumy Reybaud
"If you're acting like a dog lapping up water from a dish, you're probably doing something wrong." — Maria Eugênia Teixeira
"Massaging and kissing the vulva (the external part of the vagina), and touching and caressing before beginning oral sex really helps. Don't forget the rest of the body either, especially the legs and back." — Luana Shaedler
"Women take longer to climax than men do. Don't think that three minutes down there is going to get her where she's going, because it won't." — Talita Azevedo
"If she's fidgeting around, don't keep hitting the same spot! Sometimes she just wants to adjust you without having to say 'more to the right' or 'more to the left.'" — Amanda Kontz
"Many women don't think they're very attractive down there, which is bullshit! Take a good look and say, with sincerity, what you like about her vagina and be specific! What's appealing about the color, shape, scent, taste..." — Luana Shaedler
"When the woman is really quiet, sometimes even silent or only lightly moaning, it's almost always a good sign! Women like this to be a truly intimate moment, with no pressure and especially no rush!" — Luana Shaedler
"Rhythm is everything! You're better off trying to keep the same rhythm than thinking that you need to samba all over the place with your tongue! Did you hear that little gasp? KEEP IT UP!" — Gabriele Bessa
"It doesn't always work. If she pulls you up before you're finished, the mission was a bust." — Vick Gerolomo
"If someone goes down on you and they're doing it wrong, even with you feeding them instructions, tell them what's up! Don't feel obligated to make them feel better about themselves. Help them learn!" — Patricia Teixeira Monteiro
"Women are all different! Sensations are going to feel different from woman to woman. Reading all the oral sex tips in the world won't help at all if your partner isn't in the mood or doesn't like what you're doing. Communication is the secret!" — Haylana Rucker
This post was translated from Portuguese .

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This is the most important thing you’ll read all day.
Alright, guys. We get it. The world knows you love getting blowjobs, and you should know that we have our reasons as women for loving to give them as well. But if you want to keep a steady supply of that reciprocation headed your way, it’s in your best interest to arm yourself with knowledge. Lean in close and pay attention to the 7 commandments of going down on a woman. It’s better to give than receive, after all.
Your tongue is not a miniature, wet penis. So stop using it to have sex with her. You know what I’m talking about. That monotonous in-out-in-out poking sequence that goes on forever. Tongue-fucking is hot for short, 3-second bursts, but remember that might not give her any orgasm-worth feelings, because her sweet spot is a few micro-paces north of where you are now. With over 8,000 nerve endings, her clit is twice as sensitive as a penis, so keep that in mind as your number one priority. But we didn’t have to tell you that, right?
Watch and listen. Pay attention to what she’s doing. If she’s squirming, moaning, and clawing at the sheets, congratulations! Keep up the good work. If she looks bored, she probably is, which means it’s time to employ a different technique. As adult film star Ryan Driller told Maxim , “[Listening] gives you every indication of everything, whether she likes the dinner, whether she’s happy with what you just did. Whether it be in the bed, out of the bed, on the street, wherever. So listen. Don’t respond, just listen.”
Use more than just your tongue. Channel your inner Selena Gomez , and don’t keep your hands to yourself. Finger her while putting your tongue to good use, because penetration + stimulation = orgasm.
Teasing is pleasing. Women on average need more foreplay than men to get into the swing of things, so spend some time warming her up before diving in. Kiss her neck and make your way down to her inner thighs, touch her lightly, and throw in a few dirty words for good measure. If she’s begging you to get to work before you’ve even approached oral territory, you’re off to a good start.
Compliment, compliment, compliment. There’s nothing sexier for a woman receiving oral than hearing her vagina is amazing. Tell her how good she tastes, how sexy she looks, and how much you want to eat her out. It’ll do wonders. Even if it’s not your favorite item on the menu, act excited when it arrives at your table. When you’re enthusiastic about it, she’s going to be that much more turned on.
Different strokes for different folks. There are so many things you can do with your tongue that you’ve got no excuse not to try different techniques and see what she likes. You can make your tongue flat, pointy, stiff, or soft, you can draw circles, suck, or flick…the list goes on. If you strike a chord she obviously likes, keep at it.
Ask her what she likes. Don’t just assume she likes it when you bury your entire face in her crotch — ask her what she wants you to do and what feels good. When you get into a good rhythm and she’s about to orgasm, resist the urge to speed up or change anything. Trust that you both communicate honestly enough that she’ll tell you if something’s not working.
Now go ahead and get out there. As they say, practice makes perfect.

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