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I was introduced to what is known as "Edging", "Peaking, Surfing, or even "Orgasm Control" in my training as a sex educator. And I have to admit that it is one of my favorite pleasures. I love to introduce sexual technique to women at Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women couples in private retreats, workshops and coaching sessions. Frankly, I personally enjoy surfing it's pleasures and exquisite torment. It is my favorite dish!
Extended Orgasm is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the keeping the recipient of the pleasure in a high level of erotic arousal for an extended period of time while not letting them climax or orgasm. This can go on for a period of minutes or hours or even days!
When the choice is made to allow the recipient to climax or orgasm the physical sensations may be much more explosive, expanded and frankly more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced with it's usually build up and release. But there is much pleasure in the play!
Some people have described the experience of being kept in heightened states of arousal for long periods of time as producing euphoric states and altered streams of consciousness like "Erotic Trance". Orgasm control prolongs our pleasure and heightens the experience of sexual sensations that occur during the final build-up to orgasm. It's a powerful experience for both the giver and the receiver whether you are "in control" of your partners climax or if you are the one delaying your own release.
1. If you are going to share this with a partner, I would start with full body touch, almost like giving a massage. "The Giver" gradually move towards the genitals and would stimulate "The Receiver" with hands, fingers, sex toys, gradually bringing them up to the point high in the plateau phase of sexual response where an orgasm is actually building. Then "The Giver" would gradually move away from the genitals and move the energy to other parts of the body or simply reduce the level of stimulation to just below that needed to set off the climax or orgasm.
2. Another way of playing with this is to give control of the orgasm to "The Giver" and play with something called "Orgasm Denial". With this lovely game, orgasm is not allowed for even longer periods of time in order to develop an increased level of sexual tension. Remember that "Orgasm Games" can take some practice. Both the giver and the receiver have to really get to know each others responses. But by carefully varying the intensity, depth, techniques and speed of stimulation and lots of practice a "receiver" can be held in the highly aroused state near orgasm for an extraordinarily long time. When the orgasm or climax is "allowed" it can be described as "earth shaking" or even "overwhelming".
3. You can even bring in elements of "Fifty Shades of Grey" if you choose to experiment that way. Some people enjoy creating an additional layer of power elements into this game and the person who is receiving the extended pleasure, or denial is called the "Submissive" can be even be put into restraints and or blindfolds for an added rush of not being in control. The technical term for this game is "Tie and Tease" or "Tie and Deny".
4. You can play alone! Orgasm control is a way to be more creative with solo touch practices and can also be a great training ground for our own personal orgasmic responses. Masturbation or "Self Pleasuring" allows each of us to learn our own orgasmic response and practice having control over timing, the kind of touch we enjoy, speed of stimulation and our feelings in getting close to orgasm and then backing off and starting again. The term "edging" has been more closely associated with the solo practice where we experiment with stimulation until we reach that place right before climax happens (the plateau phase) and then we just stop or back off the stimulation just before orgasm occurs.
Self Pleasuring is a great training ground for people who want to play this game with a partner because you are in control of your own intensity and don't have to rely on a partner to "guess" where you are in the game. Playing alone is also a wonderful way not only to vary self pleasuring but it's also an easy way to learn your own capacity and limits in edging.
Playing with Orgasm Control or Extended Orgasm or any of the variations of these games are all about making every stroke count. This is all about heightening pleasure. When we play with our arousal we are not just trying to "get off". We are turning orgasm into a feast instead of something to get done. Arousal can become an unexplored lands of moans, groans, giggles, laughter, power play, and ecstatic trance states. It's a beautiful way to build communication and a sense of playfulness between partners and interesting enough when "The Giver" learns to spread the arousal and sensation all over "The Receivers" body there is a learning that our erotic response is not just held in our genitals. It can be found in all the parts of our bodies like soles of feet, nipples. lips, and arm pits in equal parts!
My invitation to you is to explore your orgasm! It can be more than something to get done. It can be a surf board to ride!
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Why it took so long to discover the pleasure, and unexpected benefits, of a little tie and tease, I’ll never know. Perhaps because 50 Shades of Grey wasn’t out when I was in my 20s!
I suspect that spending years dealing with premature ejaculation, and later erectile dysfunction, was the real reason. I literally didn’t have time for more adventurous sex.
I now realize I should have made time for it, especially as you don’t even need an erection or penetrative sex to pleasure your partner.
If I could talk to my younger self, I’d tell him to stop obsessing about erection strength, penetration, lasting time and ‘performance’.
Instead, I’d tell him to relax, go get some silk ties or handcuffs, massage oil and candles!
Let’s go back to my 20s for a moment. Like most guys who’ve had a fair number of partners, I discovered early on that many people find spanking a real turn on.
Some like it light and occasional; others like to feel the regular sting of a strong palm- and don’t seem to mind being left with worryingly red cheeks.
I was just never that into it though. It always felt either contrived or mildly abusive, so I generally only did it enough to not appear boring. It just wasn’t me – I was much more into silently passionate love making than being so dominant.
And of course, having difficulty lasting more than a few minutes during sex also meant I just didn’t really have time to explore all that stuff. My mind was firmly focused on somehow lasting longer than the previously embarrassing session.
After years of avoiding anything too adventurous, I eventually came out of my sexual shell – with help.
First of all, it’s important to note that I now last much longer than I used to, though sometimes it can still be over relatively quickly if I just go for it. My main problem these days is unpredictable erection problems.
Even though I have much better control than I used to, it’s still present enough on my mind that I remain on the constant lookout for new ways to develop that control – both for my sake and my readers.
So when I met someone who very clearly loves having some naughty fun, it gave me a great opportunity to explore the concept of expanding sex to not all be about penetration, ejaculation, and orgasm.
I won’t get into a day by day breakdown of how things developed, but I do want to point out that I didn’t just go from normal(ish) sex to being a kinky mastermind overnight. It was a gradual buildup.
We had a lot of sex for around 3 weeks since we lived so close to each other – several to many times a day on most days. The chemistry was amazing, which really helped, and my partner was full of confidence.
And the great thing was that she was confident about helping me be more confident. It was as if she subtly dominated me at first in order to guide me towards becoming the dominant one.
But at the same time, I think it was just the right catalyst for what was laying dormant for all those years to finally wake up. And so I quickly learned to take the lead during sex through spanking intensity, position choice and dictating the rhythm and flow.
The first time I decided to move past spanking to tie my partner was a typically soft affair for me. My old self was still in there of course, so I wasn’t going to use anything like handcuffs, coarse ropes or my belt.
A nice, soft silk tie was much more fitting (and also what my partner later told me she prefers anyway).
I also didn’t feel like tying every limb to a corner of the bed – just a simple tie around the wrists stretched out above her head seemed like a good start to me. And another around the eyes as a blindfold for good measure.
With candles flickering in the gentle evening breeze coming through the window, some sexy soul music and a glass of wine in the body, I felt a paradoxical mix of calmness and excitement.
My partner lay on the bed, slowly moving her body and I guess waiting to see what I did next. And it was in that moment that I had my first eureka moment.
I could just relax, lavish attention on my partner and not worry about how my own body performed. And best of all, it could go on for ages.
My instinctual idea was to play with my partner’s arousal level, repeatedly building her to a crescendo, but never quite reaching the high notes.
So I spent time just gently running my fingertips over her whole body. Then gently kissing her all over. Making her moan as I spent an impossibly long time teasing her with my tongue – getting agonizingly close to her nipples and between the legs, before going back to other parts of the body.
I whispering naughty things in her ear and occasionally spanked her – even more erotic since she couldn’t see it coming. I made her reach out to kiss my mouth, letting her know my mouth was close enough to kiss, but not permitting a kiss until I wanted her to.
Eventually, I headed south to lavish her with oral sex , and once again kept breaking off to return to other parts of the body.
Over many minutes I slowly made it more intense, to the point that I could feel she might orgasm if I only kept going for a minute…but I didn’t.
I don’t recall how many times I brought her close to orgasm with my tongue that first time, but it was probably an unnecessarily large amount as I was enjoying it so much.
She was literally writhing on the bed with the sexual tension by the time I finally positioned myself on top to join the party.
And to my great surprise and delight, she came almost immediately.
Time to skip ahead and explain a few concepts I’ve worked out over the months since that first passionate night of tie and tease.
Since this site has a heavy focus on helping guys deal with problems like PE and ED, I want to explain why this is such a great way to deal with both of those.
In terms of ED, for some men it’s a question of relaxing and taking the pressure off. And this is a great way to do that. When you’re in control like this, you can focus on your partner until such time as you do get an erection.
You also have the opportunity to do things that you know help you get erect. If you need to play with yourself, you can do that with one hand while using the other, or your tongue to entertain your partner.
If you need oral, or for them to touch you, you can easily make that happen. And maybe you’ll discover something that just seems to get you going.
And if you don’t, then it doesn’t matter. If you want to, you can eventually bring your partner to climax through manual or oral sex.
And remember, this isn’t only about your partner’s pleasure. Sure, you’re in control, but it’s something for you to enjoy together. It’s about trust, a sexual energy and connection, and enjoying intimacy in new ways that don’t have to have the end goal of penetrative sex.
So relax and enjoy it. If you end up having penetrative sex, then great. If you don’t, it’s still great!
In exactly the same way as above, this is about exploring other ways of being intimate together. So it’s no longer a case of being a linear event of foreplay – sex – quick ejaculation – disappointment.
By taking the focus away from penetration and your sexual stamina, you have a whole world of possibilities.
And when you do want to have sex following on from some kinky fun like this, you can still find ways to help you cope with the intensity and pressure to last for ages.
For starters, as my example above shows, your partner is likely to be very aroused after teasing them for so long, reducing the likelihood that you need to last for 10-20 minutes before they have an orgasm.
If you get too close to the point of no return, you can pull out and go back to teasing them some more. I guess it’s like a kinky version of the classic start stop technique .
My partner loves when we have sex and I stop to go back to oral for a while. She tells me it’s agonizing and begs me not to when I do it. But she soon gets into the oral each time and then welcomes me back happily when I finally relent and go back to sex.
And of course, if you have severe premature ejaculation, you can follow through with the tie and tease until your partner reaches climax. And do so again and again if you so choose.
It really does open up a whole new realm of possibilities if you take the time to explore it. And importantly, instead of fighting against it, time is something you’ll have on your side now.
Have you explored the idea of tie and tease before? Do you have any interesting ideas to share?
Leave a comment below with your thought and ideas!
I am a married and sexually active married man. My wife and I are monogamous and when I say sexually actively I mean that she and I have quite a lot of sex.
Compared to some of my friends’ relationships this is awesome!
I am the larger personality of us. I was going to say dominant, but that would have given the wrong idea.
Point of all this is that I want to be teased and my orgasm delayed. For a special thing if I can make it 3 or 4 days or something.
I’d like to make love to my wife, or do her depending on the mood, every day but have to delay myself while she edges me and teases me.
Anyway, that’s more or less what I want and while we have a good and open communication about sex I have not been able to convince her to do this, or maybe not able to explain it right.
Any suggestions?
Hi there
Do you think she’s just not into any kind of dom/sub play, or just doesn’t like the idea of being the dominant one? Perhaps she just doesn’t have experience with it, and so feels uneasy about what to do. These are questions I’d ask her to find out a bit more about what’s going on for her.
One suggestion could be to slowly but surely show her by example. Spend some time being the dominant one to give her ideas of what it feels like, and how it works. Ask her what she’d be comfortable trying, and then do it for her. Even if it’s no more than a blindfold to start with, you can test the water and give her time to adapt to the new way of doing things. Then after a few days or weeks, maybe she’d be more up for reversing roles?
Ethan
I have an issue where I don’t last as long as well. I tried the pull out method and tried to. Cool down a bit, but sometimes it’s so intense and so sudden I get lost in the moment and before I can react it’s over.
Hi Josh
I know what you mean – it’s not always easy to judge the timing, especially when every second counts. The main thing is that you’re trying – don’t give up, keep playing with this idea and in time you’ll be able to get the timings right. I really think this is a great technique, so give it a few more tries.
Ethan
I’m a 32 year old female who has just decided to abstain for a year, my bad luck to come across this fluid inducing blog just as I make my decision! Curious is NOT the word…I’ll be reading-regularly.
Hi Tay
Thanks for the compliment. I hope you enjoy the future articles, and bear with my occasional slowness in publishing new ones. I try to make them good ones when I do though!
Ethan
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