Teens Masturbation Defloration
⚡ 👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 INFORMATION AVAILABLE CLICK HERE 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻
The “true” self may or may not exist, but our ideals and projections about it sure do.
Posted September 26, 2011 | Reviewed by Gary Drevitch
Thank goodness that I can write to you anonymously about my teenage son and his masturbation habits.These topics are certainly not easy for me to talk or write about. I would love to compare notes with my friends who have teenage sons but I am scared to death that this information will leak to their sons and my son will end up getting teased. I would never want that to happen. I treat my relationships with my kids with much respect and care.
article continues after advertisement
So, having said that, here is my issue: I am the mother of a 15-year-old teenager and a 10-year-old boy. The boys have separate bedrooms. Recently, I have become aware that my teenage son has been masturbating several times per week. I am basing this on physical evidence—the status of his bedding, sheets, etc. You get the picture. I don't know what the "normal" frequency is. I'm not sure if I should address this as a problem or not. My husband dismisses this issue. He says that this behavior is perfectly normal and, I quote, that I should "leave a box of tissues in the kid's room and leave him alone." He says that I should be happy that my son is a happy and healthy kid who is interested in his sexuality.
Dr. G., I don't want to make any mistakes here. My son is a good kid. His grades are fine and he has nice friends. I do not want to give you the impression that he runs to his bed at every possible opportunity. In fact, he doesn't spend much time in his room at all. His afterschool time is mostly spent playing sports.
So, what do you think? Does my son have a problem that requires some type of treatment? I certainly don't want to raise a sex addict. Please help.
First, I would like to commend you on a number of things. You respect your son's feelings and your relationship with him. That is excellent. You make it clear that your son's behavior in other areas of his life has not changed. That is very helpful information. I also agree that discussing this issue with a friend who may be even the slightest bit careless could certainly be a major misstep. Finally, talking with your husband and getting his input was also an excellent idea.
My advice provides guidelines only. The rules of masturbation and teenage boys have never been clearly established. Here is my attempt at it.
1. If your son is involved in all areas of his life and is not focusing exclusively on porn and masturbation then it is unlikely that he is developing a sex addiction.
article continues after advertisement
2. If he seems comfortable with himself and is not showing signs of avoidance, confusion, and shame then I would guess that he is probably not experiencing these feelings to any problematic extent.
3. My suggestion is not to introduce shame to this equation. I believe that there is no need, in your particular case, to address your son's behavior directly.
4. Although your husband may have seemed dismissive, his idea about leaving a box of tissues in your son's room is actually not a bad idea. It may indirectly send the message that you are aware of your son's behavior and that you are responding to it in a casual and relaxed manner.
5. As a mother, you may have some discomfort with your son's developing sexuality. This is to be expected.
It sounds like you are a thoughtful, well-intentioned mother. Keep up the good work.
Barbara Greenberg, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist who specializes in the treatment of adolescents and their well-intentioned but exhausted parents.
Get the help you need from a therapist near you–a FREE service from Psychology Today.
Are you a Therapist? Get Listed Today
Psychology Today © 2021 Sussex Publishers, LLC
The “true” self may or may not exist, but our ideals and projections about it sure do.
Твиттер предлагает еще больше возможностей в приложении
Не пропускайте ни одного твита. Откройте эту страницу в приложении Твиттера, чтобы получить доступ ко всем возможностям.
Внимание! Этот профиль может содержать материалы деликатного характера
Вы видите это предупреждение, поскольку в твитах этого пользователя встречаются потенциально оскорбительные выражения или изображения деликатного характера. Хотите продолжить просмотр?
Hentai Teen Old
School Sex English
Sex Doctor Help
Ensest Sex Hikayeleri Sex Hikayeleri Oku
Russkiy Zorlama Sex
Tres Jeune Fille Vierge Asiatique Defloration
Teen Virginity Study - When Teens Lose Virginity ...
I Don't Know if My Teenage Son's Masturbating Is a Problem ...
Defloration TV | Twitter
My Daughter Masturbates - Is That Normal? - Scary Mommy
Watch Teens Strip for a Swim in Retro-Horror 'Dead of ...
7 Masturbation Techniques: The Hand Screw Video - video ...
Female Masturbation photos on Flickr | Flickr
Video shows Aboriginal teens tear-gassed, stripped naked ...
ЛВН 18+ | ВКонтакте
Teens Masturbation Defloration
