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WOULD you be brave enough to try out anal bleaching?
The bizarre trend was sparked after celebrities including Kourtney Kardashian, Charlotte Crosby and Sophie Kasaei revealed they have lightened their behinds .
In fact, there's been a 23 per cent surge in the number of women seeking anal bleaching as they feel the pressure to "look like porn stars" in the bedroom, according to a top London clinic.
The procedure involves lightening the colour of the skin around the anus. It's done purely for cosmetic reasons to make the skin the same colour as the surrounding skin on the backside.
But, is it worth it? And does it hurt?
Two weeks ago we sent fitness instructor and mum-of-two Tracey Kiss, 30, from Aylesbury, along to HB Health Clinic in Knightsbridge , London, to have a 30 minute session.
She took boyfriend Freddie Shaw, 27, along with her and claims it's boosted her confidence in the bedroom...
TO be honest I'd not really given too much thought to that area of my body, I guess because it's not talked about a lot and people find it all a bit embarrassing.
But I can see why more and more women are having it done. We all like to be well groomed - I get regular bikini waxes and remove all my pubic hair.
Reading more about it, I did become a bit concerned deep down as to how mine looked.
I love sunbathing and wearing G-strings, and I've even had designer vagina surgery!
I'm into body building and I realised I'd not really been giving that part of my bum as much attention as everywhere else. So I thought, why not look into it?
I never realised just how many shades and colours skin in that area could be, and that I could even select as my "end result" colour.
Bizarrely, Freddie seemed to know more about the procedure than me! Perhaps he'd done his research. It was great to be able to ask him what he thought and not have him freak out in horror or laugh at me.
Obviously I don’t look at that area of my behind very often, but from time to time he does "encounter" me from that view. While he had no complaints, I decided it would nice to have the dark-ish brown colour of the skin down there look more uniformly like the rest of me.
That’s the reason most models and celebrities say is behind them having the procedure.
I was surprised at how quick and simple it was.
When I got to the clinic I had to lie on my back with my knickers off - just like I was having a smear.
I was given special glasses to wear to protect my eyes from the laser and EMLA Cream was then applied to the surface area to allow the skin to numb for several minutes before treatment began.
The Double Wave Laser removes the melanin layer present in the sensitive area, meaning the source of the darker colouring is permanently treated, without leaving any scars or burning.
I didn't know how sensitive I would be for the very first zap, and I was worried I might jump with the surprise of it.
I'd imagined it would be painful but it was over with really quickly. I've had my underarms and rosacea on my face treated with laser before and I’d always felt a short, sharp sting during those procedures.
With this, I merely felt a couple of pings as laser shots were set off at my bottom. It was certainly easier than child birth or period cramps!
I chatted to Freddie about grocery shopping while Dr Madhok administered the laser, which helped me to relax as it took my mind off it.
Afterwards my bottom felt quite "hot" because of the laser and I was given healing cream which needed applying twice a day. We also couldn’t have sex for a week.
I couldn't wait to see what it looked like, and I was thrilled with the results.
I had Freddie take before and after images and I used a mirror between my legs to check on the recovery. The area is considerably lighter and looks just like my normal skin.
It’s gone from what I would say was latte brown to a strawberry milkshake colour. The whole experience was bizarrely liberating.
Now when I think about it, it's just like having the circles under your eyes improved!
It’s something that has really given me an extra boost down below and certainly smartened everything out there.
I've nicknamed the procedure my "cracking facelift" because it really felt like a face-lift for your anus.
When we had sex a week after the procedure I felt like a virgin again. It's allowed me to be more adventurous between the sheets. It's made me feel super confident.
Having anal bleaching doesn’t mean you want anal sex or are obsessed with it. It's about body confidence. Talking about it with my man was as liberating as having it done.
I think if the treatment makes you feel good about your body, then have it done.
I've never had any negative comments on the appearance of my anus, but I had the procedure for me. I love the results and am glad I did it.
ANAL bleaching is the process of lightening the colour of the skin, not the hairs, in the bum region.
It was established for cosmetic reasons, to make the skin around the hole more uniform with the rest of your panty region.
After the rise of Brazilian waxes, women - and some men - began to notice that their anuses had a darker hue.
If you have noticed this on yourself, it is very common - and completely normal.
Thanks to the likes of Kim Kardashian , we're becoming more and more obsessed with our rear ends.
Scores of celebs have spoken out about their new-and-improved bums.
But be careful; if done in a dirty spa or by an untrained professional, anal bleaching can cause herpes, scarring and infection.
It could also lead to strictures, which make the opening smaller and bowel movements difficult, or tears in the anal canal.
"It’s not the most gratifying treatment," New York Dermatologist Doris Day MD told Cosmospolitan .
"The darker pigmentation will always come back so it’s not permanent.
"And there’s also a chance of total depigmentation (the skin going completely white) or in some cases, because of how one’s skin reacts to the bleach, a darkening of the area."
Freddie said: "I love the fact we can talk about these things. If you can accompany your girlfriend for anal bleaching I think you can definitely deal with any of life's other hurdles.
“It’s made us closer as a couple. Tracey is more confident in the bedroom and I love that. I'm glad she did it for herself and not me, because I love her how she is.”
Jane Wiles, clinic manager at HB Health of Knightsbridge, said the laser treatment is currently the most popular among patients, accounting for about 95 per cent of anal bleaching cases. In other cases women are seeking creams.
"The vaginal bleaching has always been quite popular but recently anal bleaching is becoming really popular as well," she said.
"A lot of women have issues where the pigmentation has gotten a lot darker and they are insecure about it.
"It is usually hormonal. So if you become pregnant, if you go through menopause , if your hormones change at all during your lifetime that is what will spark it to get darker."
Dr Minoo Madhok, who performed Tracey's bleaching, added: "Laser treatments tend to require two to three sessions, using a high-tech laser to remove a layer of melanin, which is responsible for darkness.
"Cream treatments work in the same manner as skin bleaching. Most people want it done for body confidence and it’s great to see people walk out feeling better about themselves."
One session at HB Health in Knightsbridge costs £500, while booking a block of three costs £1,300 - a saving of £200.
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A friend of mine on the opposite coast is a crossdresser considering transitioning. He came out to a female friend he had known for a long time but hadn’t seen in a while, and she told her that she wanted her to come to her house fully dressed for some hot sex to “explore her bi-curiosity” or some shit. I told her to go for it, saying gender-transgression play is potentially hot. I neglected to mention that she should only go for it if she trusted this girl (hereafter known as “Evil Bitch”). Evil Bitch backed out as soon as she arrived, but took her out to dinner (still fully dressed) as consolation. When she first told me this, I thought, “Oh well, Evil Bitch got cold feet, that sucks.” Now my friend is telling me that Evil Bitch messaged a bunch of mutual friends he wasn’t out to, outing my friend to them. After my friend told Evil Bitch that what went down between them was private, Evil Bitch just responded with “LOL k,” and THEN posted pictures from their dinner date—fully dressed—on her Facebook. I told my friend to call Evil Bitch up and tell her what a violation of privacy and betrayal of trust that was. She just called him a faggot and hung up. I feel bad because I encouraged her to go for it. Is there anything my friend can do? She’s freaking out and thinks that Evil Bitch ruined her life.

—Friend Of Crossdresser Betrayed By Evil Bitch

Your pronouns are all over the place, FOCBBEB. Your friend is a she, then a he, then a she, then a he. So I’m gonna stick with “Your Friend,” despite how clunky it makes my response, because I can’t tell how Your Friend identifies.

Twenty years ago, Your Friend could’ve told Your Friend’s relatives and whatever friends Your Friend had in common with Evil Bitch that they got dressed up for a laugh and Your Friend can’t for the life of Your Friend understand why Evil Bitch is misrepresenting what they did that night. But I can only assume that Your Friend and Evil Bitch exchanged e-mails, swapped texts, sent DMs via Twitter, etc., so Your Friend shouldn’t accuse Evil Bitch of lying. That will prompt Evil Bitch to retaliate by posting e-mails, texts, and DMs to Facebook, which will only make things worse for Your Friend.

Since Your Friend can’t turn this around on Evil Bitch—and since calling Evil Bitch a liar will only make things worse for Your Friend—there’s no way for Your Friend to nip this situation in the bud. Your Friend can only get out in front of it. Your Friend is out about the crossdressing now, at least, and Your Friend should embrace being out with as much good grace and courage as Your Friend can muster. And paradoxically, FOCBBEB, the more at peace with being out Your Friend appears to be, the fewer people Your Friend will be outed to. If Your Friend tries to keep this quiet, other malicious assholes will realize they can hurt Your Friend by spreading the news. If Your Friend acts like Your Friend couldn’t care less who knows, malicious assholes will be less likely to spread it around.

I’ve known a few people who were outed by malicious shits like Evil Bitch—outed as gay or kinky or swingers or poly or all of the above—and it sucks and it hurts and, yes, it can turn a person’s life upside down. But most of the people I’ve known who were outed looked back on the experience a year or two later with… well… not with gratitude, but they woke up one day happy to be free of the stress of keeping their big secret. Maybe Your Friend will feel the same way, and Your Friend will have Evil Bitch to thank.

In the meantime, FOCBBEB, offer Your Friend your support and get in the face of anyone who gives Your Friend any grief.

I just read your column about evangelical girls “saddlebacking” (having anal sex in order to preserve their virginities). I am a 21-year-old and have been sexually active since age 14. I engage in oral and anal sex. I have never had vaginal intercourse, so technically I am still a virgin. My reason for doing this has NOTHING to do with religion and everything to do with AVOIDING PREGNANCY. And, yes, I think it would be nice to give the man I marry a rare gift on our wedding night. And with my experiences over the past seven years, I believe I will be able to keep my future husband fulfilled and quite happy in the bedroom. —No Name

Anal is a highly effective birth-control method, and there’s only one known case of someone getting pregnant through oral sex. (Google around and you’ll find it pretty quick.) But anal intercourse is also the most effective means of HIV transmission—18 times more effective than vaginal intercourse—so I hope you’re using condoms, regardless. And one quibble: If technically you’re still a virgin, NN, then technically my husband is still a virgin, too. Yeah… no. My husband isn’t a virgin, technically or otherwise, and neither are you, NN. Your vagina might be a virgin, sure, but you’re not.

PAULINE “DEAR ABBY” PHILLIPS: I grew up reading both Eppie “Ann Landers” Lederer in the Chicago Sun-Times and Pauline “Dear Abby” Phillips in the Chicago Tribune. I always preferred Ann’s column to Abby’s column—did you know they were twin sisters?—and I’m actually sitting at Ann’s desk, which I bought at auction after her death, as I write this. So you could definitely call me more of an Ann fan. But I have a newfound appreciation for Abby after reading Margalit Fox’s terrific obit in the New York Times (read it here: tinyurl.com/abbyobit). The obit ends with the most famous three-word response in the whole sordid history of the advice-column racket:

Dear Abby: Two men who claim to be father and adopted son just bought an old mansion across the street and fixed it up. We notice a very suspicious mixture of company coming and going at all hours—blacks, whites, Orientals, women who look like men, and men who look like women. This has always been considered one of the finest sections of San Francisco, and these weirdos are giving it a bad name. How can we improve the neighborhood? —Nob Hill Residents

Phillips wrote that decades ago—back when adult gay men often resorted to adopting their adult partners because it was the only way to secure any legal protection for their relationships—and people are still quoting it today. I don’t think anyone working in this genre will ever top it. My sympathies to Jeanne Phillips, Pauline’s daughter and the current author of the Dear Abby column.

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Hello and thank you for the forum. I had a sexual encounter with another man earlier today and have been feeling anxious all afternoon. Since I didn't have a condom, I refused to bottom for him, but I ultimately allowed him to rub his penis against my anus. I started feeling pressure and realized he was pushing his penis inside of me. I stopped him, but I am worried that he may have inserted the head of his penis into my anus for about 5-10 seconds. I have had receptive anal sex previously and do not think that he fully penetrated me, as I was not in any pain at all. Although he stated that he is tested every six months and is negative, and that he has not had sex for a long time, I still do not know him well enough to trust it. I realize there is some degree of risk for HIV infection (as well as other STIs) but am curious as to how risky this scenario seems and whether I should get tested for this and when. I've heard about PEP and rapid tests, but don't really know if this situation warrants it. Thank you!
Based on the information you have provided me, it is unlikely that transmission of HIV occurred. It's possible that you were exposed to other STIDs during this encounter, and I would suggest testing for all STD's at the 30 day mark just to be sure. If it has been more than six months since your last HIV test then I would suggest one of those as well.
This situation does not warrant PEP. The risk was not great enough. I hope this helps.
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