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Here's what you need to know before catching ~vibes.~
Figuring out how to navigate your sexuality can be overwhelming — especially if it's your first time or you don't have much experience. When it comes to masturbation , you may not know where to begin or how to even do it. And, while your fingers can help you get there, there are other options to explore when it comes to solo sex — enter, the vibrator.
Doing anything for the first time can be pretty intimidating, so if you're stuck on how to use a vibrator, we've got you covered. Seventeen spoke to Dr. Jennifer Lincoln, Medical Advisor for The Body Agency , and Jenn Chang, Head of Product Design at sex and wellness brand Cake to debunk masturbation myths, break down all the best practices and tips for using vibrators, and explain why vibrators aren't as intimidating as you may think.
Believe it or not, solo sex is totally normal and can actually help your mental and physical health. A study by the Indian Journal of Psychological Medicine found that masturbating helps release tension in your body.
"Masturbation is a great stress reliever and the beauty of it is you don't need to rely on anyone to help you out with it," Dr. Lincoln says. "It's also been linked to helping people fall asleep, so if you're suffering from insomnia, you might want to try it out."
Solo sex not only helps you figure out what gives you pleasure but helps you feel more confident during partnered sex, which can lead to more fulfilling and healthy relationships. Dr. Lincoln adds that there's no risk of sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy with masturbation.
While your hands are great tools for masturbating, using a vibe will make your ~alone time~ much more fun. From bullet vibrators to those more advanced, rabbit-inspired toys, there are plenty of options out there to explore different methods of self-pleasure. According to a study by the U.S. Library of Medicine , vibrations increase blood flow and improve both pelvic muscle tone and relaxation, and they're more likely to help you orgasm.
"Vibrators can be great as they can add extra stimulation to wherever feels good for you, whether it's the clitoris, in the vagina, or other erogenous zones," Dr. Lincoln explains. "The ability to take your orgasms into your own hands (and that of your vibrator) is a fantastic way to take charge of your sex life and your pleasure."
For more info on erogenous zones and other factors that come with sexual pleasure, Dr. Lincoln also addresses the stigma around masturbation and debunks sex toy myths on her YouTube channel .
In reality, using a vibrator comes down to your sexual preferences and what makes you feel comfortable.
"Set the mood, take your time, and explore," Jenn suggests. "Find a setting you think is fun and use it on different parts of your body to see how it feels. Remember — there's no 'right' way to pleasure yourself."
However, there are several things to know before you invest in one of your own. To make sure you catch the exact kind of vibe you want, follow the tips below.
Before you drop some money on a vibrator, read alllll the reviews. The style may work well for some people, but it may not be a fit for others. Use specific keywords to find reviews from others looking for a similar experience as you.
"It's great to know that different kinds of vibrators exist in size, shape, and vibration options, but I think it's a very personal decision," Dr. Lincoln says. "The beauty of the internet is that you can virtually browse and purchase one that you think might be right for you without having to step into a store if you are worried about keeping things private."
This is a given, but reading the instructions on your new tool will help you ease into it. Plus, there may be a few settings and features that you'd probably be unaware of unless you read the instructions. It's important to understand how the product is meant to be used before you dive into it.
"Toys are meant to bring fun into your experience. Make sure you're in a comfortable space mentally and physically," Jenn says. "If it's your first time, I'd recommend using less daunting toys and start simple. Cake's Bullet Vibe is the perfect toy for beginners who are looking for something to start with."
While solo sex prevents pregnancy and STIs, there are also some risks to acknowledge if you don't clean toys properly. Both Jenn and Dr. Lincoln emphasized the importance of cleaning and sterilizing your toys on the reg.
"I make sure to wash and dry my toys after each use," Jenn says. She also explains that you should be using cleaners that are specifically formulated for intimate devices. To make sure you're taking the proper steps to clean your toy, find out what material it's made of.
"It's super important to read the instructions of your particular toy to know how to keep it clean and in working order. Disinfecting and cleaning are two entirely different things, so it's important to know the difference and sanitize accordingly," Dr. Lincoln adds. "It's best not to share toys but if you do, using a condom and disinfecting it is one way to make it safer."
There are two categories of sex toys — porous and nonporous — that are differentiated by the materials they're made of. Knowing what your toys are made of is a crucial step in cleaning and sterilizing them properly. Below, find which category your toy may fall under.
According to Sara Kloepfer of sex and wellness brand Bellesa , nonporous materials don't let bacteria through and are generally easy to clean. To clean nonporous toys, you can use toy cleaners and wipes with gentle formulas or unscented soap and water. You can also boil materials like silicone, heat-resistant glass, and stainless steel to cleanse.
Sara also noted that porous materials tend to be absorbent, which means they can't be completely sterilized and should only be cleaned with gentle hand or dish soap and warm water.
Think of sterilizing as a deep clean — this method gets rid of bacteria and dry body fluids that remain on your toys after use. Toys should be sterilized if you have a yeast infection, if they're used by more than one person, or after anal use. Even if you're in the clear when it comes to infections, you should still make a habit to sterilize your toy once in a while.
It's important to note that only nonporous toys can be sterilized, and you'll need to use strong ingredients like alcohol and bleach to properly rid of the germs. If you go for the bleach, Sara recommends using a 10% bleach to water solution before rinsing well.
The last thing you want is for your vibrator to lose its juice before you hit your sweet spot. If your toy is battery-operated, make sure you have some fresh ones handy. You may even want to invest in high-capacity batteries to ensure they last a longer period of time. On the other hand, some toys are rechargeable — just make sure it's fully charged before you start your solo sesh, because it's not recommended for use while plugged in.
This step is optional, but lubricant can be helpful to reduce the friction that might cause discomfort. It's important to note that the kind of lube you use depends on the material of your vibrator. For example, if the vibrator is made of silicone, a water-based lube will help preserve the material and avoid damaging it.
In any sexual experience — with a partner or solo — you have the authority over what makes you feel good. "You know your body. Don't continue use if it hurts. Toys are designed with specific anatomy in mind, so make sure to use the right products for the designated body part," Jenn says.
If something doesn't feel right or comfortable, it's okay to stop. You can always revisit your vibe another time when you're ready.
Sam is the editorial assistant at Seventeen, covering pop culture, celebrity news, health, and beauty. When she isn't draping her cheeks in blush, you can probably find her live-tweeting awards shows or making SwiftToks.
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I recently found out that Target carries a robust line of vibrators. I discovered this as my 14-year-old daughter and I cut down a side aisle while shopping for this year's meagre list of school supplies. I was chugging towards the Q-Tips and peel-off face masks, looking at the vitamins and supplements shelves on the other side when Anna said, "Momma, what is that?"
I recently found out that Target carries a robust line of vibrators. I discovered this as my 14-year-old daughter and I cut down a side aisle while shopping for this year's meagre list of school supplies. I was chugging towards the Q-Tips and peel-off face masks, looking at the vitamins and supplements shelves on the other side when Anna said, "Momma, what is that?"
It was not, as sex toys go, anything earth-shattering. None of them are 14 inches long or require a marine battery. But she looked shook. And rather nonplussed about the fact the box was referring to them "personal massagers.” She had questions. A lot of questions.
So, as tactfully as one can in a busy Target on a Friday night, parked in the family planning aisle, I answered them.
We talked about what each one would be used for, where they can go, the importance of lubricants and keeping toys clean. Matter-of-factly. Because, while some topics got pinned to discuss at home and not in a retail setting, vibrators aren't weird. They aren't a secret or a source of shame. While I'm not used to seeing them across from the Flintstone's Chewables, there's no reason they should need to be purchased secretly, at great expense, and shipped to your house in plain brown packaging.
There's a lot of talk in the media and society at large about teaching our kids about sex and sexuality in a different way. About removing shame and fear, giving them a platform to find their own healthy relationship with their body and what it wants. We hear and talk about consent. But there's still a lot of folks with both a heebie and a jeebie when it comes to talking to their kid about sex outside of the rules and limitation. There's a lot of discomfort around allowing your kids to learn that sex is nice.
It took a minute to find age- and relationship-appropriate language to use and a little brief blushing from both of us to get over the initial hump of discomfort, but I never considering being anything other than frank and honest with my teenager. Yes, we talk about the true risks and dangers, why teen sex is a bad idea but not as bad as unprotected teen sex and that pregnancy is a possible even with protection literally any time. About the emotional load that comes with sexual contact. But then we have to be able to talk about birth control methods and options. About oral and anal sex and what that means. We need to share all facets of sexuality with our kids, not just the doom. If we're not talking about all of it, we're not really talking about any of it.
This also reinforced for Anna that I'm a resource. I've always told her that I'm the best resource. I want her to feel just as comfortable asking me about sex as she does asking about how to get rid of a pimple or wash her clothes or how to improve her bio paper. All are topics where she needs help and has questions and otherwise would rely on other teenagers or the internet for information, which I've long enforced is not a winning plan.
I've seen a lot of strong negative reactions to this new product line on Twitter, anger that families should be exposed to these shameful products and be forced to have frank conversations with their kids (or, even crazier, have to redirect their kids if there isn't an age appropriate way to be forthcoming).
I'd suspect it was the same when they started carrying lube or alternative feminine hygiene products. I haven't seen anybody come out in support of having these options be readily accessible at an affordable price. I haven't heard a parent suggest that allowing teens this knowledge (and avenue, if they've got thirty-odd bucks) might continue to help reduce teen pregnancy or give our girls more agency and knowledge of their body.
This year has been a weird one. I did not expect Target to throw me this curve ball. I hope I used that big ol' two-pronged vibrator to knock this one out of the park.
Kellie has loved Milwaukee since before loving Milwaukee was cool, and knew this was the place to settle down and raise a family. She’s got an opinion about almost everything and loves to pick up new fun facts. Kellie keeps busy as the Group HR Manager for Saz’s Hospitality Group, a hometown favorite, by teaching at Mount Mary, getting involved in her community and trying to play catchup on her reading pile, though she’ll never say no to a nap. Most days, she’s also trying to talk herself out of or into running another half marathon. Kellie lives in Wauwatosa with her partner Rob, who is an owner of Vennture Brew Co, and her daughter Anna.
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Dear Prudie, I’m 16 years old and have an awkward dilemma. I’m thinking about buying a vibrator because I am very curious, but the thing is, I want to talk to my mom about it first. We have a very close and open relationship, and she says I can talk to her about anything. I’m just not sure about this. I’m scared that it will make her feel awkward (even though she’s a nurse, so she likes talking about gross stuff). I already tried talking to one of my best friends about it, but she seemed pretty repulsed by the idea. I’m still a virgin and not planning to change that for quite some time, so it’s not like I’m going to be romping around with teenage boys. The vibrator would be for my own private use, and having my mom to talk to first would be especially helpful to me. Should I tell her?
Dear Curious, If you want instructions on proper vibrator use, I can probably help you: Add batteries, aim, fire. If you want permission, I can help you, too: Masturbation is perfectly normal, and a teenager doesn’t need to check in with her mother before engaging in it. It’s wonderful that you and your mother are so close that you feel you can talk to her about this—but just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Part of your job as a teenager is to start separating from your mother, and masturbation may be a good place for you to establish a zone of privacy. I’m sure your mother—since she’s a nurse and all—would understand your desire for orgasms and appreciate the fact that you are seeking them solo. And if she hears a suspicious buzzing from your room, she probably won’t conclude that you’ve taken up woodworking. Once you do become sexually active with more than an inanimate object, it’s great that you’ll feel able to turn to your mother for guidance because young women can use help making sure they’re protected from disease, pregnancy, and bad choices. But your adventures in vibrator-land may be something you need to confide only to your diary.
Dear Prudence, I’m 26 and engaged to a wonderful 33-year-old man. He’s absolutely the person I want to spend the rest of my life and have a family with. We both want kids fairly soon, but there’s one problem. For the past few years, my fiance has had some problems with a testicular infection, and the doctors say there’s a chance that it has left him ster
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