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EAGLE COUNTY — When addressing teens who have been viewing pornography, it’s not “What were you thinking,” but rather “How were you thinking,” said Diane Andrews, program manager for Personal Responsibility Education Program in Glenwood Springs. Andrews spoke Wednesday, Oct. 11, at a brown bag lunch sponsored by the Eagle River Youth Coalition.
“We need to change the lens to ‘how’ and not ‘what’ as we are not here to shame kids or anybody for watching porn,” Andrews said.
Andrews showed the all-female audience three TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design) talks that related to adolescent brain development and pornography pausing to insert statements and facts.
In a 2013 TED talk “Insight into the teenage Brain,” Adriana Galvan stated that the prefrontal cortex of the brain changes every day until a person is in their mid-20s. Everything that is viewed, everything that is experienced is taken into consideration and part of the makeup.
Teens and adults were part of a lab study in which they were fed sugar through a straw during an MRI. The teen brain, Galvan said, was much more excitable to sugar. A second test group of teens and adults was brought in and this group was shown images of money. Once again the teens were more excitable.
“That tells us something about the teenage brain,” Galvan said. “The teen brain is very responsive to environment.
“The teen brain gets really excited about rewards, emotions and new experiences. It is constantly changing right now and it gives teens permissions to be teens,” Galvan added.
Andrews stopped the tape and told attendees that any time humor can be used to address a situation it can help diffuse tension and blame.
She then said what many parents already know: that children can stumble onto porn sites without ever having that intention.
“A child can easily be working on a school history project and go to whitehouse.com. That is a porn site. You often forget that it is .org and not .com when looking at government organizations,” she said, laughing.
Andrews added the behavior path of addiction can begin with a child or teen accidentally finding porn and then seeking it on purpose. They think about how and when they are going to get it (access to porn) throughout the day. They can create a ritual or routine around using it and ignore consequences or negative impacts on viewing porn. The desire can eventually lead to a need.
When asked by a woman at the talk, “What defines porn,” Andrews responded, “I would be willing to say if you are offended by it, it is probably under the umbrella of porn.”
“Teenager brains are different than adults and are still forming,” added counselor Nicole McGuffin. “Teen brains are tasked with neuronal wiring so they can reproduce in the future. Resting dopamine levels are lower than adults and as a teenager responds to a stimulus, the amount of dopamine released is considerably greater. Because of this, their brains are more at risk for pornography addiction. In addition, learning about sex based on pornography is unrealistic. Associating sexual arousal to screens on the computer and phone leads to not being able to be aroused by real people. Finally, what happens is that no human being can compete with the vast amount of images the brain has been exposed to resulting in losing the appetite for real world encounters.”
A video “The Great Porn Experiment,” by TED speaker Gary Wilson offered more insight into boys’ brains.
“Most boys seek pornography by the age of 10. It is an unending novelty,” he claimed.
“Unfortunately, adults don’t take porn addiction as a real concern. We think this is something all teens go through,” Andrews added after the video.
McGuffin explained why parents should be concerned. “The biggest sexual organ you have is actually your brain. Sexual stimulation releases the highest natural quantities of dopamine. Internet porn sites allow users to jump around, keeping dopamine elevated longer. When dopamine is elevated long term, it leads to brain changes that are associated with addiction such as hyperreactivity cues.
Think of a smoker seeing a cigarette commercial and wanting a cigarette,” McGuffin added. “This results in an individual feeling a loss of self-control, a reduced ability to cope with stress, and a lowered response to everyday sources of pleasure.”
Andrews cautioned parents to be aware of the warning signs of addiction: isolation, lying, being mentally foggy and distracted, grades dropping in school, emotional apathy, very low energy and memory loss.
The symptoms of “arousal addiction” mimic social anxiety, depression, performance anxiety, concentration problems and OCD.
Still it is not all gloom and doom. According to Andrews there are strategies for intervention and support:
• Share online videos and research about porn and arousal addiction with teens to start a conversation.
• Update parental controls on computer.
• Educate yourself as parents on rebooting strategies and side effects.
• Create a technology agreement to limit access and keep an open mind and understand this an addiction with physiological impacts that will take time to reverse.
Andrews emphasized that for adult males whose ventures into pornography began with magazines that the reversal process is easier. For younger males who can “jump from image to image,” the reversal process is longer.
Andrews has a family technology handout that parents can use with their teens which both teens and parents sign. It highlights time together, mutual support, respecting the rights of others, opportunities and limits to screen time as well as not purchasing anything with a credit card without prior permission.

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My husband and I have always had a minimal sex life. We dated for 12 years before we married, two years ago.
I’ve tried to get him to engage in more intimacy but have been repeatedly rejected.
Through his internet search history, I’ve discovered that he’s regularly masturbating to internet porn, usually 15 websites daily. His wastebasket is filled.
I became alarmed after noticing that he was doing this while I was at an appointment with my teenage daughters (from a prior marriage) and my other teenage daughter was still at home.
When I raised this, plus my concerns about pop-ups of teenage porn sex, he assured me he was just looking at “regular sex” porn.
He’s since set the computer to erase his history. But when I reset it, the pattern never changes.
I work out regularly and am in excellent shape for mid-50s, yet I feel so unattractive because of the lack of intimacy and his porn addiction. Is there any hope in getting help for this if he’s willing? I understand that most marriages end from this addiction.
Your attractiveness has nothing to do with his porn issue.
Focus on the very serious things that do: 1) Your husband’s interest in teen porn when he’s living with teenage stepdaughters; and 2) his disinterest in sex other than through porn.
There’s a chance for help only IF he’s willing to get addiction therapy, and also wants to eventually have a marriage that includes intimacy with you.
Meanwhile, stand up for yourself and your daughters.
Insist that he must seek therapy and also never watch teen porn again or you’ll have to separate (NOTE: Just as you’ve discovered his addiction, so might the girls).
You’d benefit from your own separate counselling, regarding having no blame for his behaviour and whether you two have a future together.
Several years after I married, my husband’s brother married a good-hearted woman who must control all family gatherings and interactions.
This past year, she opted out of a big family gathering and there was huge relief, with everyone else happily taking on roles.
She’ll soon be back. I want her to be welcome, but with everyone else able to play a role. I understand we can’t change her, only take responsibility for ourselves.
How can I talk about this with her, and/or change my own behaviour so I’m not responding to her demands?
How can I help shift this dynamic so everyone feels welcome?
It’s not easy, but yes, you can change your own reaction to her, and also try something new.
Choose an event now. Insist it be held either at your place or another uncomplicated venue. List what’s needed — food brought or bought by several people for each of mains, sides, desserts plus drinks.
Then send out a warm and cheerful group email asking everyone to sign on for their participation.
If she reacts with hurt or anger, respond gently but hold firm.
Say that you’re glad to have her participate — she’s very good at it — but that everyone wants to feel involved in these family occasions.
It’ll be a fresh start at finding out what works and what doesn’t.
Example: If she tries to control the next family get-together, talk to her directly about how all the relatives appreciate her enthusiasm but want to contribute too.
Explain that it’s their way to all feel connected and valued within the family, just like her.
Three LOUD alarms: Porn-addiction, including teen porn, teen stepdaughters in the house, rejecting spousal sex.
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Twitchcon took place in San Diego last weekend and there has been no shortage of complaints about the event.
Wheelchair users found the event extremely inaccessible, with staff seemingly unable to handle the mass of people at the event.
That wasn’t the worst of it though, as one attraction in particular drew a lot of heat and caused several injuries.
This was a foam pit that was on the convention floor. It had two platforms in the middle and the goal was to knock your opponent off their platform into the sea of soft foam cubes below.
It may have seemed odd that, before you entered the pit, you were forced to sign a waiver that noted the pit posed a risk of “death, serious neck and spinal injuries”.
Unfortunately, exactly that is what happened to streamer and adult performer Adriana Chechik.
Chechik, after winning her duel, jumped off her platform in celebration, expecting to find a soft landing with the foam.
However, it turns out the pit was far too shallow, being just three cubes deep with a rubber mat at the bottom. This meant that Chechik hit the ground with unsettling force and in a video of the incident, it’s immediately clear that she’s seriously hurt.
In a tweet after the fact she went into detail about her injuries writing: “Well, I broke my back in two places and am getting surgery to put a metre rod in for support today.” Chechik’s injury was the most serious, but it was far from the only one.
Another streamer, Lock_Vaness dislocated their knee and sprained their ankle after landing in the pit, which reportedly remained open for a while after these injuries, but was eventually closed following more complaints.
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