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Jessica Buck was diagnosed with prolactinoma, a benign brain tumour that causes the body to produce too much of the breast milk hormone, prolactin
A TEENAGER who thought she was pregnant when her breasts started leaking milk was actually suffering from a brain tumour.
Jessica Buck was just 18 when she was diagnosed with prolactinoma , a benign tumour found inside the brain that causes the body to produce too much of the breast milk hormone, prolactin.
The tumour affects the pituitary gland found at the base of the brain, which controls levels of several hormones in the body.
Jessica had just started sixth form when she began experiencing symptoms including exhaustion, dizziness and headaches.
But the most worrying symptom for Jessica, now 24, of Carterton, Oxfordshire, was the milky fluid that leaked from her breasts every few days.
She said: “I had to put tissue in my bra.
“I was working part time as a retail assistant and kept going to the bathroom, realising that my bra was damp.
“There was white, milky fluid coming from my breasts. I thought that was something that only happened to pregnant women.
“I started to put cotton wool pads or tissues inside my bra, which was embarrassing, as I was constantly trying to hide it.
“I spoke to my mum and asked, ‘Is this normal?’.
“She sent me straight to the doctor.
When blood tests were inconclusive she was sent for an MRI scan at Churchill Hospital, Oxford, which revealed a non-cancerous pea-sized tumour on her pituitary gland.
Jessica said: “When I heard the words brain and tumour in the same sentence, I barely listened to anything else.
“I was thinking about something much more sinister, so I did get quite upset.
“I was with my mum and she was just as shocked.
“We got home and talked about it and started to do some research.”
The tumour meant her pituitary gland wasn’t functioning properly and was producing too much prolactin, the hormone which stimulates milk production after childbirth.
Jessica was told that her options were either to have surgery, or to take medication to control her symptoms and reduce the size of the tumour.
Reluctant to have brain surgery, Jess decided to try medication first.
She was prescribed Cabergoline, which blocks prolactin secretion from the pituitary gland, and her symptoms became more controlled.
Now, she still experiences some symptoms – such as headaches and nausea – but much less than before her diagnosis.
Three years after she began her treatment Jessica was taken off the tablets.
But her symptoms came back and the tumour began to grow again , so she decided to resume the treatment.
Although Jessica now feels like her condition is under control, she does worry about what it will mean in the future.
She said: “A few months after the diagnosis, I was told that prolactinoma can cause fertility problems.
“I was so young when I was diagnosed that babies weren’t really on my radar, but I have always wanted to be a mum.
“It is something that is so important to me.
“I was told that we would cross that bridge when we came to it.
“I have looked online and lots of people have said that they have the condition and have gone on to have kids, which is great.”
Prolactinoma is a condition in which a non-cancerous tumour of the pituitary gland overproduces the hormone prolactin.
The major effect of the tumour is decreased sex hormones - oestrogen in women and progesterone in men.
It is not a life-threatening condition but can cause vision problems and infertility.
There may be no noticeable signs or symptoms but if there are they are caused by an excess of prolactin in the blood.
It can also cause loss of interest in sexual activity, headaches, vision problems, infertility and low bone density in both men and women.
The cause of the tumour is not known.
The pituitary gland is a small bean-shaped gland situated at the base of your brain.
Despite its small size, the pituitary gland influences nearly every part of your body.
Its hormones help regulate important functions such as growth, blood pressure and reproduction.
The aim of treatment is to restore normal prolactin levels in the blood.
Oral medications may be used to decrease the production of the hormone and shrink the tumour.
Surgery to remove the tumour is also an option if medication doesn't work.
Jessica worries that if she was pregnant she would have to stop her medication again and would become ill throughout her pregnancy.
She added: “There are different medications that aren’t as effective, but I would really have to work with my team and have a plan in place before trying to get pregnant.”
For now, Jessica is determined not to let her condition get her down and to make the most of life.
Last year, she even gave up her job as an estate agent to travel the world.
“I quit my job last summer and I haven’t looked back,” she said.
“I went to the US for a month by myself and did all sorts of high energy stuff like white water rafting in Colorado, flying in a helicopter over the Grand Canyon and speed boating in Miami.
“There was the odd day when I didn’t feel great, but the adrenaline got me through it.
“I have been around Europe this year and I just make sure I am home when I have an important appointment.
“I write about it for my blog and I’m determined to have visited 25 countries before I turn 25 in January.”
Jessica has recently become an ambassador for the Pituitary Foundation, which is a national support and information organisation for pituitary patients, their families, friends and carers.
They are the UK’s leading charity providing support to people affected by disorders of the pituitary gland.
This October, Jessica plans to turn her town orange for Pituitary Awareness month to raise as much money as possible.
You can follow Jessica’s blog at journeyswithjessica.net.
For more information about the Pituitary Foundation visit their website here.
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Powering through leftover livestream questions

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Dan Savage
March 26, 2021 August 18, 2021

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Q: You say people need to be in “good working order” to be in a relationship. What if you will never be in “good working order” because you cope with a mental health condition?

A: Having a mental health condition isn’t proof a person isn’t or can’t be in good working order; likewise, not having a mental health condition isn’t proof a person is in good working order. I mean, we all know people without mental health conditions who are walking disasters. Now someone with a mental health condition who refuses to get help or to stay on their meds might not be in good enough working order to be in or sustain a relationship. But taking care of ourselves is one of the most important ways we demonstrate that we are, in actual fact, in good enough working order to fuck, date, or marry. Or all three. So far from proving you’re not fit to be in a relationship, having a mental health condition that you’re doing something about—having one or more that you’re actively coping with—is evidence you are good working order.

Q: I’m a bi widower and not out to anyone. While teaching a Zoom class to young people I accidentally left open a tab that read “gay.” One of the students alerted me in the chat and I closed it right away. It was embarrassing and awkward. Should I just ignore it or address it in some way?

A: If you wanted to come out you could seize this opportunity to do so. If you don’t want to come out, well, you aren’t obligated to, gay tab or no gay tab. Unless parents are complaining and demanding an explanation, you’re free to shrug this off. And if someone assumes you’re gay because they saw a gay tab, well, you’re free to tell them that their mistaken . . . because you’re not gay, you’re bi.

Q: I’m way more into BDSM than my huzzben. He enjoys it, but he does not initiate play. How can I encourage him to be the instigator of rough sex? We have negotiated limits and safe words but he finds using restraints and toys to be too much work!

A: Since your huzzben has made it clear that restraints and toys are too much work, I would advise you to relieve him of the burden of tying you up and shoving toys in your ass by finding a third who enjoys your kinks and/or regularly attending play parties with or without your husband—when the pandemic ends, of course. Who knows? Your husband might not like doing the work of tying you up but he might enjoy making out with you (or someone else) while someone else does the work of tying you up.

Q: If my fiancée bought a house, do we say, “We bought a house”? I got laid off at the start of the pandemic, but her career has taken off and she’s proud of being able to afford a house all on her own. So how do we keep things respectful while still honoring her accomplishment? She wants the house to feel like mine as well. (I’m a dude.)

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A: To casual acquaintances you could say, “Hey, we got a new place.” To close friends and family you could say, “She’s doing so well that she bought this house—I’m really proud of her and so lucky to be with her.” Hell, you could say those things to casual acquaintances and close friends interchangeably because both are true. And assuming you live in a marital property state, Mr. Dude, the house becomes yours too after you’re married. In the meantime you can earn a little sweat equity (and homeowner cred) by taking the lead on fixing the place up.

Q: I have a question about the “tech-savvy, at-risk youth” who work on the Savage Lovecast . Wouldn’t it be nicer to just refer to them as the tech-savvy youth? How do they feel about having the “at-risk” label applied to them? Surely it gives you guys a perhaps deserved pat on the back, but I can’t help thinking that little bit of stigma could be damaging. I was once an “at-risk” youth myself and even though I enjoyed and benefited from programs that were specifically created to help teens/youth in my situation, I was always keenly aware that it made me feel “less than” and like I needed special treatment.

A: I wasn’t trying to give myself a pat on the back when I started referring to the kids who were working on the Lovecast as the “tech-savvy, at-risk youth.” It was just a joke—maybe not a funny one—as they were all certainly tech-savvy, for sure, but the only risk they were running was being in the same room with me. I’m sorry if that joke reminds you of a time in your life when you felt “less than.”

Q: We have a friend who could be a unicorn. They have already subtly expressed interest though they are generally possessive and need to be “number one” in a relationship. We’re interested but we worry about their possessiveness causing problems.

A: I’m guessing your friend is hot—I mean, that would explain why you’re willing to overlook how emotionally unsuited they are for the unicorn role. Because if you’re looking for someone to play a sexy-but-subordinate role in your relationship, if you’re not seeking an equal partner and/or you’re not open to your unicorn becoming an equal partner, the last person on earth you should consider for your unicorn is someone you know to be possessive and interested in being first, not last.

Q: I’m a 27-year-old queer/poly woman from NYC. My question: I used to babysit my friend’s baby. And when I would show up to babysit, her husband would be there to let me into the apartment and we would chat for ten minutes before he left for work. I don’t babysit anymore, but sometimes he texts me a picture of the baby and I’ll reply with, “So cute!” That felt normal. But one day he texted me two selfies. I didn’t reply because I thought that was weird. Is this something I should mention to my friend? I can’t tell if this is weird enough to bring up to her. Or is there something I should have said to him?

A: You don’t know what’s going on in your friend’s relationship—maybe flirting with others is allowed—but you do know how you feel about her husband sending you selfies: you don’t like it. If your silence wasn’t enough to put a stop to it and he sends more photos and/or messages that make you feel uncomfortable, tell him to knock it off. If he doesn’t knock it off, tell him he’s gonna leave you with no choice but to alert his wife. If he still doesn’t knock it off, alert his wife.

Q: I’m 39 years old, cis, and female. COVID has really tanked my sex drive. I’ve masturbated like twice in the last four months. I guess my question is . . . do you think things are gonna go back to normal? Please tell me yes.

Q: I have imposter syndrome when I go to rope jams and such, but I really love the community of kinksters. Is it OK to go to kinky events even if I have trouble identifying my kinks?

A: So long as you’re respectful—so long as you aren’t gawking or taking photos without permission or making shocked faces—you’re more than welcome at most big kink events. Sometimes the hosts of smaller and more intimate play parties have rules that would preclude the attendance of someone who had no kinks of their own or had yet to identify their kinks; at smaller parties the host might want everyone to be in a certain kind of gear or interested in a certain kind of play. If you’re wondering if you’re welcome to observe the play at a particular rope jam or event, e-mail the organizers and ask.

Q: I’ve got a friend who wanted to do pet-play and talked about being a cow and bought breast pumps to try and start lactation. Have you any advice on how to safely support her in this? I’m potentially open to play with her, if it’s safe, and I’m curious about her even being able to start lactation.

A: Do people keep cows as pets? Regardless, according to the La Leche League, regular use of a breast pump can “induce lactation,” which is “the official term for making milk without pregnancy and birth.” So the sooner your friend gets started with that pump, the sooner she can pretend to be your sexy, sexy pet cow. v

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A NEW mum has claimed her mother-in-law tried to "milk" her while she was struggling to breastfeed her daughter in hospital.
Posting on Reddit's "Just No Mother-in-Law" forum , the anonymous woman explained how she had a difficult pregnancy and suffered from pre-eclampsia and haemorrhaging at 12 weeks.
As a result of her "deteriorating physical and mental health", the mum had an emergency C-section at 37 weeks which she says she still hasn't recovered from.
Just four hours after her daughter was born, her mother-in-law turned up to the hospital to meet their new grandchild while the mum was doing skin-to-skin.
She wrote: "I was exhausted, in pain and overwhelmed. She arrived at the hospital and tried to take [darling daughter] off me four times, telling me I would spoil her by holding her too much."
As the new mum tried to get to grips with breastfeeding, she claims her mother-in-law "marched over, taking full advantage of my drugged up state, got my nipple between her fingers and started ramming it in my daughter's mouth".
I was shocked and froze, she kept squeezing my nipple and forcing it into my baby's mouth
She added: "I was shocked and froze, she kept squeezing them and forcing it into her mouth."
The following day, the mother-in-law returned criticised the way her granddaughter was dressed and the temperature of the hospital room.
And when the new parents banned her from bringing a child she was babysitting to the hospital for her next visit, she totally disregarded their wishes.
After trying to settle her baby all night, the new mum said she was "loudly woken by the door opening and a child I didn't know shouting and throwing several balloons at me and the bassinet.
"I was shocked and my [darling daughter] started crying. It was my mother-in-law and the child we asked her not to bring."
Unsurprisingly, the new mum snapped and told her in-law that she couldn't hold the baby and was told she was "not hospitable".
The woman's post sparked outrage with other users on the forum who slammed her mother-in-law's "violating" behaviour.
One replied: "I would have blacklisted her from the room, that's not even remotely acceptable. I'm sorry you had to go through that."
Another added: "How the f*** can you spoil a NEWBORN? Newborn babies are like non sentient worms that only respond to basic primal instincts. It has no idea it's being spoiled."
A third: "I don't think I can find my jaw wherever it dripped on the floor..."
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