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Dear Prudie, I’m 16 years old and have an awkward dilemma. I’m thinking about buying a vibrator because I am very curious, but the thing is, I want to talk to my mom about it first. We have a very close and open relationship, and she says I can talk to her about anything. I’m just not sure about this. I’m scared that it will make her feel awkward (even though she’s a nurse, so she likes talking about gross stuff). I already tried talking to one of my best friends about it, but she seemed pretty repulsed by the idea. I’m still a virgin and not planning to change that for quite some time, so it’s not like I’m going to be romping around with teenage boys. The vibrator would be for my own private use, and having my mom to talk to first would be especially helpful to me. Should I tell her?
Dear Curious, If you want instructions on proper vibrator use, I can probably help you: Add batteries, aim, fire. If you want permission, I can help you, too: Masturbation is perfectly normal, and a teenager doesn’t need to check in with her mother before engaging in it. It’s wonderful that you and your mother are so close that you feel you can talk to her about this—but just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Part of your job as a teenager is to start separating from your mother, and masturbation may be a good place for you to establish a zone of privacy. I’m sure your mother—since she’s a nurse and all—would understand your desire for orgasms and appreciate the fact that you are seeking them solo. And if she hears a suspicious buzzing from your room, she probably won’t conclude that you’ve taken up woodworking. Once you do become sexually active with more than an inanimate object, it’s great that you’ll feel able to turn to your mother for guidance because young women can use help making sure they’re protected from disease, pregnancy, and bad choices. But your adventures in vibrator-land may be something you need to confide only to your diary.
Dear Prudence, I’m 26 and engaged to a wonderful 33-year-old man. He’s absolutely the person I want to spend the rest of my life and have a family with. We both want kids fairly soon, but there’s one problem. For the past few years, my fiance has had some problems with a testicular infection, and the doctors say there’s a chance that it has left him sterile. Having children is extremely important to me, but if it turned out that he couldn’t have them, I’d work around it, i.e., adoption or sperm donation. However, not knowing is killing me. He says he doesn’t want to get fertility testing until we’re ready to start trying to get pregnant. Is it unreasonable to want to find out whether my future husband will be able to have children?
Dear In the Know, When any two people marry, there’s no guarantee that they won’t face fertility problems. Your anxiety is understandable: When you conceive of your future together, you want to know your chances of conceiving. But to him, your insistence probably sounds less like a desire to know what’s going to happen than a way of possibly getting out of the relationship before you marry someone who will not be able to father children. Let’s say you had had a pelvic infection that might have harmed your fertility. Wouldn’t you resent a fiance who wanted you to undergo a battery of tests prior to your marriage, just so he had a better idea of your ability to get pregnant? The doctors have only raised a possibility, not given you a definitive finding. If this is the man you want to commit to, accept that being together will make it easier to deal with all the surprises life has in store.
Dear Prudence, When I was 14, I severed ties with my dad. I was a messed-up teenager, living with my certifiably nutty mother and visiting my dad on weekends. When he remarried and had another baby with my stepmom, I was furious. I treated them badly, cursed at them, hollered at them, stole from them, and went so far as to set “booby traps” in the house so my stepmom and new baby brother could get hurt (luckily, they didn’t). I treated my stepmom like dirt, even though she was never mean. After I stopped answering my dad’s calls and threatened to report him to the cops as a stalker, he stopped trying to get in touch with me. I can see now that he and my stepmom were good people who wanted only the best for me. Now that I am 27, I am trying to get back in touch with my dad, because I’m getting married. However, he will not respond to mail, e-mail, or Facebook messages. I’ve asked my uncle and cousins to tell him that I want to see him. They told me that he was too hurt by my behavior and has no desire to get in touch. Am I wrong to try to re-enter his life? Should I just leave him alone?
Dear Regretful, Write a letter to your father and stepmother very much like the one here—explaining that you were a miserable, troubled teen who, following the troubled-teen guide book, took out your unhappiness on the nearest target (although you don’t need to mention the booby traps). Say they showed you extraordinary patience, and looking back, you appreciate that they were the one stable, loving influence in your life, and you are sorry about how you treated them. Explain that you’ve worked hard to be a decent, productive adult, and now you’re getting married. Add that as you are about to become a spouse, and contemplate becoming a parent, they will be role models for how to deal with difficulties. Tell them that your fervent hope is that they can be part of this new phase of your life. Then ask one of your relatives to be the go-between and deliver the letter. Accept that your father and stepmother may feel they did everything they could for you at the time, and that the breach was so painful, they’ve decided not resuming contact is the best choice for their family. If they don’t contact you, following the wedding, you could send a short letter and some photos saying you don’t expect to hear from them in return, but you hope they don’t mind that you wanted to send them this update about your life. If you never do re-establish contact, take comfort that you’ve come out of a difficult, painful childhood and found happiness and love.
Dear Prudence, I am a woman who started working at a company earlier this year. I share an office with a man who doesn’t really want me there. Because I do my job well, it creates more work for him (which is actually great for business!). I ignore any smart comments he makes, stay professional, and get my job done. My work is beyond reproach. Here is the problem: We have to share a bathroom. He changes into his uniform and leaves his dirty socks there during the week, then takes them home on Friday. (Yuck, I know!) I think he leaves the bathroom this way to protest me being there. The issue is really about the toilet seat. He refuses to put it down. It is his final act of protest against me. I have asked him repeatedly to lower the seat and am completely disregarded. I have talked to my boss about this, and he said he would mention it to my co-worker, but he either forgot, or it didn’t help. I told my co-worker that if I have to put up with his dirty socks, he can at least put the seat down. No reaction. There is another bathroom, but it’s not close. I don’t feel I should have to go out of my way so he can have his own personal bathroom. Any advice for how to handle this?
Dear New Girl, Go into the bathroom, rip off a few squares of toilet paper, and holding them between your thumb and fingers, lower the seat. Your work may be beyond reproach, but dumping the matter of the toilet seat position on your boss is neither a way to make friends with your co-worker, nor have your boss feel anything but dread at the sight of you. Probably your co-worker has been piling his stinky socks in the bathroom since before you came, and it is only because of your objections that he now sees the socks as a biological weapon. Consider that your superior attitude and stream of complaints may have something to do with your co-worker’s reaction to you. So if you can’t live with the bathroom as he leaves it, instead of getting pissy, just decide you could use the exercise and hike to the other facility.
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Taylor Momsen, 16-year-old anti-role model, apparently has a loud mouth and a BFF vibrator. Not that anyone really cares about celebrities, but we can occasionally learn something from them. In this case, teen sexuality. Specifically, teen girls’ sexuality because most of the world seems to feel that it doesn’t exist, or shouldn’t. Dudes everywhere are jacking off right now (creepy right?) but young ladies everywhere seem to think that masturbating is gross and pleasure can only come from their boyfriends/husbands. Lies! And as far as I know, this Momsen girl is the only young girl out there that has no shame in not only embracing her individual sexuality, but also talk about it like it’s no big deal. If you know anyone else, please let us know. The fact that she isn’t boy-crazy and can just be happy with herself is close to unheard of these days. Where did she go right?
Broadsheet ’s Mary Elizabeth Williams says it best:
Preach it, wise lady! Her whole post on Salon is worth the read.
If only there were a more positive influence for girls so they could learn a little self-love.
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Over the counter medication for Impetigo?
I cant actually believe im writing this but i think my 14 year old daughter has taken a vibrator out of my drawer. ( its a tiny mini vibe i won in a as raffle which was in a little bag with another but its beside the point) i know what was there and where n Ive definitely not used/moved the bag or contents for ages, so my only other thinking is: her
. what do i do?? I cant out right ask her .. can i?
I suppose the first question to ask is there anyone else in the home ? Other children or anyone who would have had access or any guests that you may have had.
If you can discount all those then the best thing is to talk to your daughter. It is very tough but if you can, avoid getting angry but tell her about boundaries etc. Explain that anyones bedside drawer is extremely private and personal.
She is probably exploring her body so as difficult as it is, try not to shame her for doing that but at the same time be clear that if she has taken your toy it is unacceptable.
Hey!! Here is me being totally modern parent, the same person who died of embarrassment and became a stuttering wreck whenever I had to explain anything sexual to my kids.
I suppose the first question to ask is there anyone else in the home ? Other children or anyone who would have had access or any guests that you may have had.
If you can discount all those then the best thing is to talk to your daughter. It is very tough but if you can, avoid getting angry but tell her about boundaries etc. Explain that anyones bedside drawer is extremely private and personal.
She is probably exploring her body so as difficult as it is, try not to shame her for doing that but at the same time be clear that if she has taken your toy it is unacceptable.
Hey!! Here is me being totally modern parent, the same person who died of embarrassment and became a stuttering wreck whenever I had to explain anything sexual to my kids.
Thank you for the reply, shes an only child and it was well hidden.. im totally not angry at all just puzzled, ( i would of preferred to buy her her own lol rather than her go behind my back rooting in my things and her feel she cant talk to me. But being 14 myself theres no way i would of spoke to my mum about this kind of thing.. i dont want to embarrass her as i know it is a natural part of growing up or have her think im accusing her when she will probably deny it anyway lol.. theres no way id admit to that. Who knew teenagers where this difficult 🤦🏼‍♀️
To be honest I’d ask her because one you shouldn’t be using someone else’s sex toys as it’s unhygienic two it’s not hers and 3 you should be able to talk to her about it she’s 14 yes but if she feels like she has needs like that you can speak about it and find a solution
If you’re comfortable talking to her then I’d do that but if not I’d have a look round her bedroom to see if you find it.
To be honest I’d ask her because one you shouldn’t be using someone else’s sex toys as it’s unhygienic two it’s not hers and 3 you should be able to talk to her about it she’s 14 yes but if she feels like she has needs like that you can speak about it and find a solution
Hiya, it was new still in the package xxx
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Hi, this isn’t an easy situation ! Everyone has said things which are simple & easy to understand but having gone to an anne summers party years ago I was told something that I’d never even considered! A vibrator should always be used with a condom! Yes, I know! I’d never have thought about that either!
Good luck & I hope you can sort things out easily & with as little embarrassment as possible too. x
yes you can ask her, i would she should not have been looking there
Course you can sensitively or bluntly 😅 awkward but why not it’s your daughter
I'd see this as a perfect opportunity to talk about masturbation. Ask her if she has the vibrator as it belongs to you. But that you can buy her her own one or she can have the new one to keep. Let her know that it's perfectly normal to want to explore her body and that she can always always come to you with any questions or worries. A great time to set foundations for open and supportive communication around sex. This will set you up for being open when she starts having sexual relationships and will be so important for you supporting her in having contraception
Just an alternative perspective in case you hadn’t considered it. She may not have necessarily taken it to use herself, but perhaps because she doesn’t want you to use it (let’s face it, no one wants to imagine their parents having sex lives!)
I would have thought that if she had wanted to use it herself she would have replaced it immediately afterwards as she wouldn’t want you to know.
I hope you have managed to talk to her about it anyway as I’m sure it will be a good opportunity to have any conversations about safe sex etc.
No ! Just no say nothing you'll need to find a better hiding place it's not worth the embarrassment for both of you I'm all for open dialogue between parent and child but not on things this personal if its not her she'll never get over the embarrassment and it could be something so simple as being misplaced when it comes to sexual gratification I think its best kept to ones own private life she may never get over it although I'm guessing you know her much more than anyone trust me I speak from experience just move on from here xx
No ! Just no say nothing you'll need to find a better hiding place it's not worth the embarrassment for both of you I'm all for open dialogue between parent and child but not on things this personal if its not her she'll never get over the embarrassment and it could be something so simple as being misplaced when it comes to sexual gratification I think its best kept to ones own private life she may never get over it although I'm guessing you know her much more than anyone trust me I speak from experience just move on from here xx
So today whilst having a after Christmas clear out, I accidentally found the item which had gone missing! Id moved some shoes then the next thing it was on the floor. Ive put it in a draw ( next to some disposable vape bars which were also hiding) im not going to say anything tonight as shes got a mate with her. I think she knows i know because all she said was wheres my too small nike trainers gone n i said in the bin she never said anything just what other shoes have I thrown so im guessing that was her hiding place. Im thinking weather to just let it go and be thankful she’s experimenting by herself and not with boys lol 😂 or to just say if there’s something you think ive found which I shouldnt of then if you feel u want to talk with me you can..
So today whilst having a after Christmas clear out, I accidentally found the item which had gone missing! Id moved some shoes then the next thing it was on the floor. Ive put it in a draw ( next to some disposable vape bars which were also hiding) im not going to say anything tonight as shes got a mate with her. I think she knows i know because all she said was wheres my too small nike trainers gone n i sa
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