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Tease And Denial Ideas For Cruel Keyholders

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Sarah Jameson |

Submitted On April 27, 2012

One of the most important "rules" for making strict long-term orgasm denial work in a marriage or other relationship is regular and frequent tease and denial, or "edging".
After all, men who crave chastity are not saying they want to be "locked and left" when they beg you to take control of their orgasms: what they want is to experience the torturous pleasure of being taken to the edge of orgasm but not being allowed to cross over it.
For some men, this becomes a permanent fixture of their lives: in other words, their wives permanently withhold their husbands' orgasms (always with their man's consent) and instead limit them to strict tease and denial.
The effect this has on a man cannot be overestimated.
It's profound -- and it does wonders for your whole relationship.
But then the question is how do you keep your man sufficiently interested so he's willing to continue to allow you to withhold his orgasms?
The answer to that, in part, is with extreme and even cruel tease and denial. I'll now share three of these techniques with you now, all tried, tested and proven to keep your man permanently right of the edge of orgasm, get begging you not to let him cum:
It's one thing to play with a man's penis and masturbate him right to the edge... but it's another to use lube to drive him wild.
Here's what you do: liberally lubricate his penis then circle your thumb and forefinger into a ring and slide it over the head, drawing it down all the way to the root. Pause for a moment, then slide back up again.
The trick to making this almost unbearably torturous for him is to squeeze hard -- harder than you think you can get away with. You won't hurt him, and the sensation of you sliding up and down like this will drive him crazy.
And just before he cums... you stop, lock the device back on, and he lives to beg for another day.
This takes real skill to pull off and the chances are you'll have one or two little "accidents" before you get the hang of it.
First, make him please you orally so you've cum a few times and you're nice and wet. Then get him to kneel between your legs and allow him to put just the tip of his penis inside you.
Then you make yourself cum again by stimulating your clit either with your fingers or a vibrator (or for a real treat, make him do it for you).
As you cum he'll feel your vagina pulsing and tightening around his penis. He'll want to push all the way in and cum... but you simply tell him to stop, because cumming is not allowed... ever.
This isn't for every couple, but logically it's perfectly reasonable -- because why should you go without proper sex and enjoying a man having an orgasm with you just because your husband has begged you for chastity?
The secret to making this work is to ensure your hubby still feels secure as your "Number One".
If you can do that then he'll usually be more than pleased to watch you making love with another man.
His special delight will be actually seeing your lover cumming inside you, experiencing that one thing he will never be allowed to experience himself.
This will keep him totally focused on you and your pleasure, for as long as you hold his key.
There's a lot more to cruel tease and denial, of course, and this is just the beginning.
If you really want to play the game, then it's just a matter of doing the research and getting the information you need to make a properly informed decision...
So... click the blue link and claim your FREE step-by-step chastity guide and discover the truth about male chastity and cruel tease and denial .
... because right now I'm giving away this free Guide to anyone who visits my website, but this free offer won't last forever.
... if you're serious about strict and uncompromising chastity, be sure to get it as soon as you can.
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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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Tease and Denial: How Long Should You Make Him Wait to Orgasm?

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By
Sarah Jameson |

Submitted On April 22, 2012

Tease and denial, or "edging" as it's sometimes called is a mainstay of male chastity.
In brief, it means a man hands over control of his orgasms to his wife or girlfriend, meaning the decision about when, how, where and even if he gets to orgasm is entirely up to her (and we'll come back to "if" in a moment).
What it does not mean, though, is the man is deprived of any sexual pleasure whatsoever, save the vicarious pleasure of pleasuring his beloved. In some relationships the man is kept completely celibate and expresses his sexuality only through his partner's orgasms, but that's a different thing from what I am talking about.
Because with male chastity, the man is definitely kept celibate. On the contrary, couples who practice male chastity typically have more sexual contact rather than less.
No, what it means is the man is taken right to the point of orgasm, but not allowed to go all the way -- this is why it's called "edging", because he's taken to and held on the edge of orgasm.
Now, to most women this would be incomprehensible, especially if they've ever experienced the frustration and even anger most men exhibit when they don't get what they want. But the truth is, many, many men crave this. It goes far beyond the emotional charge of having a woman in control -- we are talking here about men who quite literally love the feeling of needing to orgasm but not being allowed to.
As my husband, John, describes it, " it's like being half-way to orgasm all the time ". I don't profess to fully understand this completely. As a woman, I enjoy my multiple orgasms and cannot imagine any pleasure at all in having them delayed or denied to me (and it does feel terribly selfish to take great pleasure in denying my husband's orgasms, knowing he needs to cum but can't until I allow it).
Which leads us to the inevitable question:
It depends on what you've both agreed and subsequently what you, his partner, decide.
Some couples who practice Tease and Denial have an agreed limit or schedule, and that's fine.
But many more men hand over complete control, meaning they are willing to take the risk their beloved might never let them come at all.
This sounds cruel, but, believe me, it's what many men secretly want. No, not ALL men want it, but in my experience, MOST men who admit to a desire for male chastity have permanent orgasm denial as their ultimate fantasy.
Yes, of course. There is absolutely no reason I am aware of to say any man has to orgasm, ever . There's no compelling medical evidence to say it's harmful, and it's not as if you're forcing this upon him without his consent (he could cheat at any time he liked -- even if you have him locked in a chastity device and hold his key, he can cut it off if he wants to. There is no such thing as a 100% secure male chastity device. Anyone claiming otherwise is a liar).
And not only is it possible and so far as we know harmless, there are many benefits to it, in terms of increased emotional and physical intimacy, better and more frequent sex, the pleasure in hearing your man beg for release he knows he is never going to get, and the satisfaction of living your life knowing your man wants you 24/7.
My personal view, developed over many years of practicing male chastity and orgasm denial with John, is the best and most pleasurable results from tease and orgasm denial come from longer periods of denial rather than shorter ones.
Everyone is different and makes their own choices, but that said whenever I'm asked by readers of my work " how long is best between orgasms? ", I encourage them to aim ultimately for permanent orgasm denial for their man, just as John and I are aiming for it now.
Bottom line : John doesn't need to orgasm for either physical or mental health and our relationship is closer and more fulfilling when he doesn't, and so I can't see any benefit in allowing it.
If that hasn't scared you off from begging your beloved for what you really want, then it's worth your while finding out more about tease and denial... but just be careful what you wish for!
So... click the blue link and claim your FREE male chastity guide and discover the truth about tease and denial.
But HURRY! I'm giving away this Guide today and tomorrow ONLY to anyone who visits my website. So if you're serious about experiencing serious tease and denial , be sure to get it before tomorrow night .
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Posted on May 27, 2016 by Paul Byerly
Most men enjoy being sexually teased, as long as you know when to move from teasing to pleasing. Some women enjoy teasing too, but many don’t and those women are unlikely to provide the sexual teasing their man would like.
Sexual teasing falls into two categories. The first is arousal teasing, the second is stimulation teasing. Every man has a limit for each of these. Usually, if his limit for one is high or low, the other is about the same, but there are exceptions. The reason men like to be teased sexually is it makes sex bigger and better. Arousing him in bits and pieces all day long makes sex an all day thing, and it builds him up for a much better climax. Prolonged stimulation also makes sex last longer, and can make is much better for him.
This is doing things you would usually do to get him to orgasm but stopping before climax. You can take him to the brink of climax, just close enough to make him think you might finish him, or stop before he’s too far along. You can do it a few times or many.
Most men enjoy being repeatedly taken to the edge of orgasm without finishing. In addition to making their climax far better when you finally give it to them, being that close is almost as pleasurable as orgasm. This is as near as most men will ever get to multiple orgasms.
If you want to take him very close, manual sex is the best option. You have the control, he can’t finish himself with a quick thrust. Additionally, you can watch him better. His body will tell you how close he is to climax. His face, his breathing, and the way he holds or moves his legs all telegraph his level of arousal. His penis and testicles are especially good for this. At high levels of arousal, his testicles will pull up very close to his body. When he’s very close, the head of his penis will change colour and texture. With practice, you will know exactly where he is and how much more you can do without taking him over the top.
One thing you may have to learn is to know when “Don’t stop” means don’t stop and when it means keep going. He may beg you to finish him when he really wants you to tease him a bit longer. Test this by stopping one more time when he asks to finish, and then after he regains his mind ask him if he’s glad you stopped or wishes you had kept going.
~ Paul – I’m XY, and I encourage you to show your husband a good time!
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OH I wish! I can tease him til the cows come home, and 9 out of 10 times he falls asleep! He does seem to enjoy it, but not enough to stay awake. In his defense, he does work 60+ hours a week. But oh how I wish I was half as important to him as his job. If I were 1/4 as captivating as the next job site, we’d be golden.
My wonderful husband is close to 80 and post-prostate surgery. A few days ago we were lying in bed together before going to sleep, and I was fondling him. He said, “I’m glad I’m the age I am, because if I were young, I’d have shot off already.” And I might have been reluctant to be fondling him for that reason. One of the benefits of being older!
@One half of a very mature couple – Not that old yet, but I agree – being a bit less easily aroused is a good thing. It’s okay if a bit of fondling is just a bit of fondling.
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Here are some more ideas for turning your husband on in public . What I’d really love are some ideas for turning your WIFE on in public.
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