Tease Vulva

Tease Vulva

Stay in touch
MetroUK
@MetroUK
@Metro.co.uk

Laura Abernethy Wednesday 13 Feb 2019 11:13 am

Your daily horoscope for Saturday, October 15, 2022

What I Own: Chanel, who put down a 10% deposit on her property near Peterborough

Inside the hospice: What end of life care really looks like

Costa reveals Christmas menu for 2022 – and there’s a Toblerone hot chocolate

How I Made It: ‘I was told not to aim for a career, now I’m a CEO’

Driver pleads with Just Stop Oil protesters to let him get his wife to hospital

Miriam Margolyes view on Jeremy Hunt

Love Island's Liberty Poole says she was verbally abused by a 'group of lads'

WARNING: This article does indeed contain actual pictures of vulvas.
First there was 100 sets of breasts, then there were 100 penises and now photographer Laura Dodsworth has completed what she calls an ‘unexpected trilogy’ by photographing 100 vulvas.
Across the course of a year, Laura took photos of the 100 vulvas for her book Womanhood: The Bare Reality, and spoke to each person about what their vulva means to them.
Some of the women involved have also been featured in a film for Channel 4 called 100 Vaginas.
Laura started out in 2015 photographing 100 sets of breasts for the project Bare Reality.
Then she examined masculinity by photographing 100 penises for Manhood.
And after that, Laura considered the project complete. She didn’t think she would do a third series, despite suggestions that vulvas were the next step.
But reading about Female Genital Mutilation, the number of women speaking surgery on their vulvas and the language around how we refer to female body parts made Laura reconsider.
Even Laura’s use of the term ‘vulva’ instead of vagina has caused some confusion on social media, with some people misunderstanding that the term is correct to describe what can be seen on the outside.
The vagina is internal, leading from the cervix to the vulva.
Laura told Metro.co.uk: ‘With this series of work, I hadn’t planned any of them.
‘It was more that they were ideas that came from the left field. Each time, it hit me over the head and kidnapped me and each time I was surprised that I did it.
‘When Bare Reality finished, I felt very comfortable in my skin as a woman. I felt very tender, proud and protected.
‘I was surprised that I wanted to do Manhood because I thought my next project would be about women but I felt this gap. I felt like I knew women really well but I didn’t know men really well.
‘People were suggesting that maybe I should do vulvas next. I said “I don’t need to do it. I have done women’s stories.”
‘But I realised that wasn’t true. I think I had some internal self-censorship, some shame and nervousness.
‘The vulva is like a landscape and we generally only know one route through it – that route is sexual and pornographic.
‘When you talk to women about their vulvas, so many stories come up. I felt like I learnt new routes. A lot of the stories that came out were actually very difficult. It was things like traumatic birth, bad sexual experiences or even something innocent like starting your period for the first time.
‘I realised that when I had been batting this project away, I had been batting away taking a really intimate look at myself.’
Within a few weeks of putting the call out for participants, Laura had over 100 volunteers but she took some time to choose a range of people who represented different groups of people and different types of stories.
From there, it was a familiar format with Laura taking the pictures of each vulva and interviewing each person about what it means to them.
Although it followed a similar setup to Bare Reality and Manhood, Laura felt Womanhood was different to the first two.
She says: ‘I think this is the end because I don’t think there is anywhere particularly left for me to go on the body. I have opened up that conversation about being a man and a woman by taking these uniquely male and female body parts.
‘With this, I wasn’t worried about controversy. I don’t think you get more controversial than 100 penises – I was called a whore, a pervert and a cockaholic – but I was worried about the intimacy of this one.
‘During Manhood, men were showing their penises to me in an anonymous space. With women, I felt it was very different. I had a sense that these women were revealing ourselves to ourselves.
‘Lots of women were looking at themselves for the first time or they hadn’t looked at themselves much. Some of them were very well acquainted with their vulva.
‘We tuck away many stories related to the vulva. I was blown away by the number of stories about sexual assault.
‘How many stories do we tuck away just like our vulva is tucked away in our pants? It could be bad trips to the gynecologist or sex that didn’t go quite as we wanted. I think there is a tucking away of the taboo in both senses.’
As part of the project, Laura took her own photograph, partly to test how it worked, but in doing so, she was able to process some of her own thoughts about being a woman.
‘I took my photograph lots of times because I was testing the set up on myself,’ she says.
‘I went through lots of different options. I tried sitting on birthing stools. I tried doing it as a self-portrait, with the women taking their own photograph with an iPad.I tried so many different options.
‘The first time I took it, I felt a bit self-conscious and awkward. The first time I looked at it on my computer screen was quite a moment for me. It was big and detailed and I could see everything.
‘It wasn’t like I thought it was. When you look in a little pocket mirror you don’t see it. The more I looked at myself, the more I felt quite tender and I actually think my vulva is quite pretty now. I’ve also become really tender about my experiences.
‘Bare Reality made me feel comfortable in my skin as a woman. Womanhood made me feel powerful as a woman.’
100 Vaginas will air on Channel 4, Tuesday 19 February.
Womanhood: The Bare Reality by Laura Dodsworth is published by Pinter & Martin . It costs £20

If playback doesn't begin shortly, try restarting your device.
Videos you watch may be added to the TV's watch history and influence TV recommendations. To avoid this, cancel and sign in to YouTube on your computer.
An error occurred while retrieving sharing information. Please try again later.
0:02 / 3:54 • Watch full video Live
Watch ads now so you can enjoy fewer interruptions

How To Touch Every Part of A Woman’s Genitals

Personal Life Media, Inc. 35 Miller Ave, Suite 153 Mill Valley, CA 94941

There are three important pieces that contribute to a woman having orgasms from intercourse: Context, Variety and Engorgement.
Any woman can orgasm nearly the entire time she’s having intercourse. This is a learned skill. And it’s available to every woman. You just need to know some things and you need practice.
The three major components to having orgasms are context, variety and engorgement:
1. Context, which means the conditions have to be right — emotionally and environmentally. She needs to want to have sex with her partner and the place they’re having sex needs to be good for her. STI’s and contraception need to be handled and she needs to feel good.
2. Variety, which can mean anything from the thrill of a new partner to getting a wide enough variety of stimulation that she can climax to and experiences that make the lovemaking exciting enough for her. This is why having a lot of sex techniques is important.
3. Engorgement, which means blood flow. If the tissue all around her vagina doesn’t get enough blood to it from stimulation and arousal, she will struggle to orgasm. You can have a perfect environment and lots of techniques but without engorgement, she may struggle to orgasm.
Women have as much erectile tissue in their clitoral structure and their urethral and perineal sponges as men do in their penises. The erectile tissue is inside her, but very near the surface. You can stimulate a woman’s erectile tissue by knowing where it is and how it likes to be stimulated.
Women need a lot of tongue and hand stimulation to get that tissue full of blood. Blood carrying capacity is as important for women’s pleasure as it is for men’s pleasure.
Below are a series of pictures of a woman’s genitals. You can see the clitoris, the shaft of her clitoris, her clitoral arms and legs. In this picture, the urethral sponge and the perineal sponge are also shown. The vaginal canal is literally surrounded by erectile tissue.
She has what is basically a balloon that needs blowing up to experience incredible pleasure. As you work on engorging her tissues she will begin to experience deeper pleasure. If you massage her and give her oral pleasuring to all this tissue over a series of days in a row, you will see that her vulva blossoms and plumps up. This makes intercourse divine, an otherworldly experience.
Sometimes you can “over-engorge” her. If she feels too swollen, place firm hands on her mound and press to relieve the sensation. She can guide you to duration and pressure needed. This is also called, Grounding and we teach this in our Expand Her Orgasm Tonight program.
When you take a woman up, you also have to ground her. There are couples exercises for it in EHOT. It’s an important part of stimulation for a woman. Stair stepping her up the arousal ladder is the way to take her higher. Not by over stimulating her too much.
In this next image I show you what the anatomical parts are. You are going to see this same image repeated with different instructions so you’ll know your way around female anatomy and how to play with it for maximum engorgement.
Focus on erectile tissue and learning where it is on her body so you can stimulate it. If you’re a woman, play with all this tissue while you’re masturbating. You can use organic coconut oil and a multitude of sex toys on these areas to see what feels good.
The clitoris is shaped like a little person. The clitoris is its head. The shaft is its neck. The crura are it’s arms. The vestibular bulbs are its legs. The arms and legs drape over the opening to the vagina. The arms can be found in the wells of the labial folds. The bulbs are directly under the pubic hair on each side of the vaginal opening.
In addition to the clitoral structure, there are two additional erectile tissue masses. One is the urethral sponge. Erroneously called, the G-Spot, it’s actually a long tube of erectile tissue that wraps around the urethra. The urethra is the place her pee and much of her female ejaculate comes out. You can find the exit above her vaginal opening and below her clitoris. That little hole has erectile tissue around it right there at the exit. That’s why a tongue from clitoris to vaginal opening, which skims over the urethral exit, feels so good to get stimulated. It’s erectile tissue. And that erectile tissue goes all the way up inside her along the roof of the vaginal canal. Pressing down on her mons pubis, above her pubic hair puts pressure on that erectile tube from the outside top as well.
The perineal sponge is another big chunk of very pleasurable erectile tissue. It can be stimulated from the perineum, below the bottom of where the labia come together. For cleanliness reasons, smart women do not like their anus touched at the same time they’re getting their vaginal area stimulated. So if you’re going to touch her anus to stimulate her perineal sponge, put on a polyurethane tight-fitting glove and use extra oil all over the glove and her perineum to massage it. Then turn the glove inside out when you take it off and throw it away and your hand will still be clean to continue the massage.
While you have the glove on, with her permission, you can also slide a finger inside her anus and palpate up toward her vaginal canal. You’ll be directly on her perineal sponge. It’s close to the entrance of her rectum. You don’t need to go far inside. Similar to the G-Spot, it’s near the entrance.
When you are done with the backdoor and focused on the vaginal area again with clean, clean hands, you can also go inside her vagina and press down on the floor toward her rectum and stimulate the perineal sponge from the lower vaginal wall.
But this can come long after she’s very warmed up and given permission to enter her with fingers or tongue. Most women need a lot of external warm up before they want anything inside them.
You’re always starting at the outside and working your way in slowly. Never put fingers inside without asking.
Next I’ve put an image so you can see where to touch to get all this tissue stimulated.
Instead of going right for the clitoral glans or tip, start with the mons and outer labia. Get a good amount of organic coconut oil and rub the mons until the tissue under the skin is like jelly. It will have what feel like stitches or stuck areas in the tissue. If you can get that flesh under the skin to relax and loosen, it will aid in her ability to ejaculate.
Run your hands down from the mons to the outer labia. Lift your hands. Put them up at the mons again. Rub down again. Rubbing up against the grain of the pubic hair can be annoying. Rub down and not up and down at the beginning. Focus not on the skin but the tissue below the skin. Set your intention to bringing blood flow into these outer labia. Watch as they puff up. They will go from flaccid to plump.
Over time, bring in the inner labia. Run your fingers in the channels between the inner and out labia. The outer labia like pressure. The vestibular bulbs are right underneath. You are giving the clitoral legs, or vestibular bulbs or outer labia (all the same thing) an erection.
The inner labia like like touch. Some women have small lips. Some bigger. The bigger ones like a little rolling between oily fingers. Always ask for feedback if you are the giver. If you are masturbating yourself, try a bunch of stimulating touch techniques to see what feels good. Remember, every day you’ll like something different because you’re a hormonally cyclical being. Let your body guide you. Guide your partner each time.
You can start to tease the clitoris now. Start at the hood. Rub your clitoris through the hood. Think about giving yourself or your partner a clitoral erection. You want that shaft to stand up and pop out. Run your hands on your entire vulvar area in a way that sends blood to the clitoral shaft and hood. Stroke up above the hood on the slick skin under the mons. That will help plump up the clitoral hood, shaft and glans.
Try very, very soft well-lubricated strokes around the clitoris alternated with butterfly-light swipes back and forth quickly across the glans or tip of the clitoris. Then move on. Remember, variety is one of the hallmarks of orgasmic pleasure.
I have three outstanding online programs that teach stroking techniques: Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, Female Liquid Orgasm and the Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection. If you want to learn how to hold a woman in orgasm for an hour, EHOT is your program. If you want to learn how to have incredible female ejaculatory sessions, FLO is your program. If you want over 200+ advanced Tantric lovemaking his and hers techniques for massage, oral and intercourse get on the list for our upcoming sale on the Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection.
You can never have too many techniques and skills. And having these kinds of skills go a long way toward creating variety and engorgement.
The vaginal opening, called the introitus, is also full of nerve endings. Instead of rushing right inside, take your time to pleasure the tissue all around that opening.
If you’re the pleasure giver, slow down.
Be in the moment. Feel what you are touching.
Don’t touch to get a reaction, touch for the sheer joy of touching.
When she starts moaning you’re getting somewhere.
Tell her not to move, or do anything that isn’t naturally coming from within her animal body.
The more relaxed she is, the more her natural reactions will surface.
As she invites you or you ask permission to put fingers inside her, you’ll want to play with the G-Spot. The G-Spot is not a spot. It’s an area.
The outer third of the vaginal opening has a ton of nerve endings. The perineal sponge on the floor of her vaginal canal is full of erectile tissue. And the G-Area, which is the urethral sponge, is also a big puffy mass of tissue.
The G-Spot is actually a pool noodle of erectile tissue that surrounds the urethra. Her blood plasma recruits liquid from her body and it drains through the Skene’s Glands down into her urethra and squirts out when she ejaculates. That noodle is all erectile tissue. And you an stimulate it with fingers, tongue and toys.
Watch my video series with the adorable Serene Martinez on G-Spot and Squirting Toys and get my free report called G-Spot and Squirting Toys, Tools and Lube Guide here .
I really LOVE the G-Spot wands for giving good pressure all the way along the noodle up inside the vaginal canal. My favorites are in the guide.
The sponges like pressure. The clitoral legs like pressure. The clitoris itself often gets more and more orgasmic with lighter and lighter pressure. Though some women really like heavy pressure, it’s my opinion they only do so because they haven’t had a lover who knew how to touch their genitals to give them enough wide stimulation of all the erectile tissue. So they rely on heavy clitoral pressure because they are not engorged well enough.
When you can get to the lightest of touch as being meltingly stimulating, you can start to have the Expanded Orgasms we teach in Expand Her Orgasm Tonight. Grab the three free reports to learn more about what an Expanded Orgasm is.
There’s so much you can learn about being a great lover! If you’ve made it this far I congratulate you!
I’m sure you’ll have questions. Write them in the comments below and I’ll answer them all.
And here’s a link to my Penetration Orgasm video series . I go into depth on engorgement, variety and context.
While you’re there, make sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel. It’s free. And like and comment on my videos. That helps me help more people. Pay it forward.
And I’ll see you on the other side!
thank you so much for this Awesome! ive spent some money with you but I’ve learned so much !
Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *
Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.
Content Settings OK to send me sex tips Only send me relationship advice - I don't want any sex tips
About Me Male Female Single Married
Help us send you customized notifications. Click the button below.

Anna Swan is reported to have had the biggest vagina ever in recorded history. The Scot was 7’5-1/2″, her husband was 7’11”, and she delivered the biggest newborn ever recorded: his head was 19″ around. Do the math.

7 Ways To Be A Good Ally To Your Fat Lover

A Body Pillow For The Big Breasted Amongst Us

Can You Eat Fast Food as a Vegan?

October 14, 2022

What To Do Before A Long Distance Move

October 14, 2022

© 2022 - All Right Reserved.
TheFrisky.com is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to pro
Nylon Drunk
Vk Com New Porno
Nurse Handjob Porn

Tease Vulva

Report Page