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Mimi Missfit: I know it can be embarrassing and I know it can be cringey. But the weird wonderful world of sex is one that we all need to talk about.
Mimi Missfit: I'm Mimi Missfit. I'm a YouTuber. I've brought together 17 ages on a fact finding trip to Holland. They're one of the world leaders in sex education, so let's see what us butternut Brits can learn.
Mimi Missfit: They're one of the world leaders in sex education, so let's see what us butternut Brits can learn.
Mimi Missfit: So, I didn't get a lot of sex education when I needed it. I actually first learnt about sex education when I was 17, which at that point it was way too late.
Mimi Missfit: In Holland, the Dutch students start their sex education in the first year of primary school.
Mimi Missfit: This is a class of six year olds.
Teacher: FOREIGN DIALOGUE When you started talking about these subjects with children in the age of four or five years old then it's not strange anymore if you talk about it in the age of 11/12. FOREIGN DIALOGUE
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Who has ever been in love?
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Okay, Alice. Alice has been in love.
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Who has never been in love?
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Okay, that's a lot of boys.
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You can get tickles in your tummy.
Munashe: I did not start young with my sex ed. It was probably like year nine.
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Milan, have you ever seen anyone
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who makes your tummy tickle?
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No, all girls are ugly!
Teacher: All the girls are ugly. FOREIGN DIALOGUE
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Insult!
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Who is in love and has told the person involved?
Munashe: I was really surprised what I saw. I wasn't expecting that from six year olds, because when I was that age I was definitely just learning my eight times tables.
Teacher: I think the emotional feelings are very important. I think they are more important than the lessons about the human body about the vagina and the penis. FOREIGN DIALOGUE
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You are in love?
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Who with?
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With Hannah.
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Hannah.
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You are in love with Hannah. Okay.
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And Hannah?
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I am in love with Mathies.
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Hey! A girl is in love with another girl.
Teacher: FOREIGN DIALOGUE When I'm a lady, can I only be in love with a boy?
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No. No.
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Lesbians.
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What is that?
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What does it mean when you are a lesbian?
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Well, that two women
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Are very much in love with each other.
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Very good. Yes.
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Can that also happen to two boys?
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Can boys also be in love with each other?
Teacher: In order to teach sex education, be open about the subject and let the children talk. Because children give the perfect answers and I think it's very good to listen and let them give you the input to talk about it.
Munashe: I think it was amazing to see what the six year olds were learning. The more we talk about it the more normal it becomes to us.
Teacher: And how do you feel about the children asking about homosexuality and about lesbians in this young age?
Male, short brown hair, blue hoody: Yeah, I mean we don't. I think you should so that you can understand that it's, well that it is just a thing and that it's there. And like there are some things you need to be able to know all your life.
Teacher: I think as a Teacher: it is my responsibility to learn the children how to write or how to read, but also about sexual education. They're very open about it. Yeah. How is that in England?
Children: I know certainly when I was six I used to think the word sex was a swearword.
Teacher: For children in the world we are living now today with Facebook and Instagram, they see and they hear a lot. It's very good when you started talking about these subjects and it's not strange anymore.
Munashe: So after experiencing this lesson, my message to Teacher: s is that if you're going to teach sexual education to students, make sure it's from a young age to make it normal. Because it's something in our world and whether we like it or not we've got to deal with it.
Presenter and YouTuber Mimi Missfit takes seven British teens to Holland to learn from the world leaders in sex education.
Mimi had no sex education until she was seventeen which, in her opinion, was far too late.
Three British and two Dutch teens join a primary school class of six year olds in their relationships and sexuality class.
During the class discussion, they talk about who’s been in love before, and what that feels like, with one student saying it’s like “tickles in your tummy”.
The children discuss same-sex relationships, and that it is completely normal for a boy to love a boy, and a girl to love another girl, with one child identifying these women as lesbians.
The teacher Paula explains when you start talking about these subjects at such a young age, it becomes less awkward to discuss it as time goes on. Paula highlights how children often give the “perfect answers” to these questions and that it’s important to let them have the input in these classes.
This short film is from the BBC series, Mimi on a Mission: Sex Ed. For further episodes please visit the BBC iPlayer .
Due to the sensitive nature of the subject matter, we strongly advise teacher viewing before watching with your pupils.
We advise making yourself familiar with the content and considering carefully whether it will be appropriate and of use for your specific cohort (every class is different, even if they are in the same year group).
Check your school policies to make sure you follow school guidelines and talk to a member of the SLT (Senior Leadership Team) if in doubt about anything.
Check to see if any of your class have any child protection issues or are vulnerable children.
Once you are confident that this is the right resource for your pupils, watch it through alone and consider how it would work best for you all.
This short film might also be useful for teachers to use in CPD sessions (Continuing Professional Development).
During the lesson/watching the film
Set up a working agreement with the class and create a list of ground rules for the session so everyone feels safe and able to talk and join in discussions without being judged. Remember to include a reminder to talk to a trusted adult if anything in the film makes your students feel uncomfortable – perhaps create a list of ‘go-to’ people in the school with them.
You could start the lesson by discussing the title ‘Teaching Them Young’ and using this as a starter. (NB: Discussion can be in pairs, small groups or as a whole class – choose what works best for your pupils).
The film shows Mimi with some British teenagers in the Netherlands (one of the world leaders in Sex Education), where they visit a primary school and take part in a sex education lesson.
It starts with Mimi considering her sex ed when she was younger and this might be a good place to start with your pupils.
She begins by discussing how she didn’t get a lot of sex education when she needed it.
This could be a good place to start your discussion:
Get some discussion flowing about this – there are likely to be many different experiences depending on the different schools they went to – make sure all feel valid (refer back to working agreement if required).
The young children in the film talk very openly about love – who they love and how it feels.
Do your pupils have any thoughts on this?
Do they agree with Paula – the teacher, when she says that “When you start talking about these subjects with children the age of 4 or 5 years old then it’s not strange any more if you talk about it at the age of 11 or 12”?
One of the British teens, Munashe, continues the discussion further. He says he didn’t start his sex ed until around Year 9 (13-14 years old). Do any of your pupils feel they started too late?
The teacher, Paula, discusses emotional feelings and how she thinks these are very important – more important than lessons about the human body (vagina/penis.) Do your pupils think she is right or not?
What subjects do your students think need to be covered and why? (You might need to remind them of the working agreement again here).
She goes on to talk about how to teach sex education, saying that she feels it is important to be open and to let the children talk because they give "perfect answers and it’s very good to listen and let them give you the input to talk about it."
Munashe says “…the more we talk about it, the more normal it becomes to us.” What do your pupils think? Could teachers learn from this?
Another aspect to consider and discuss, as mentioned by Paula, is how social media adds to this need for relationships and sex education at a young age.
After experiencing this lesson Munashe adds a message to teachers: “…If you are going to teach sexual education to students make sure it’s from a young age to make it normal… cos it’s something in our world and whether we like it or not we’ve got to deal with it.” Do your pupils agree? Let them discuss this.
At the end of your session allow time for any questions or further discussion, pull everything together and make sure you allow for some quiet reflection at the end.
Always check in with the group and remind them to talk to someone if anything they have seen or discussed has made them feel uncomfortable and always signpost where they can get further support or information both within and outside of school (ChildLine will talk to people right up to the age of 19 for support and is free to use).
These short films were created in consultation with a PSHE education expert and will fit within:
A look at how safe sex is taught at a secondary school in Holland, including a demonstration of putting a condom on a plastic penis model.
A look at how to make schools feel like inclusive and welcoming places for everyone.
Mimi and the teens discuss issues around sending nudes (sexting), and the problems it can lead to.
Mimi and the teens meet a Dutch sexologist, who talks to them about the realities of porn and what to be aware of.


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Keywords: Adolescent, Young men, first sexual intercourse, African American
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