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Sexual energy is one of the most powerful energies on the planet. It is sexual energy that creates a whole other human being. Why is it then such a taboo subject? And more importantly, why is female sexuality taboo?
In writing this article I looked up the definition of taboo . It is defined as “proscribed by society as improper or unacceptable .” I love it (well not really)…. sex is unacceptable yet we are suffering from TMP – Too Many People on the planet! Overpopulation is a problem. Too many people are starving. The population is currently is 7.2 billion and rapidly growing . We have quantity instead of quality.
My intention is not to sound negative or pessimistic about humanity. My intention is to show the irony and answer the question why is female sexuality taboo.
How did we get 7.5 billion people on the planet?
Why, on earth, is female sexuality taboo? Women are the ones that birth the babies. They must be having sex…. Or am I missing something?
The only problem I see is the quantity vs quality thing again. Women are obviously having sex and lots of it. But is it quality? Or are women just our planets birthing machines? Sounds crude, doesn’t it? Maybe that is why female sexuality is taboo.
For me, sexuality for the sake of ONLY pregnancy is “unacceptable”, part of the definition of taboo. Makes sense to me then, why female sexuality taboo?
The number one reason, I believe, why female sexuality is taboo is because it is so darn powerful!!! Women don’t realize what they are holding in their womb and between their legs. There is a great need for more sex education for women .
It isn’t their fault. Women need lots of sex education and intimacy education to free ourselves from the taboo around female sexuality. Women, you hold the key. Allowing your sexuality to be taboo keeps all of us unconscious. I believe the evolution of our species is directly related to the empowerment and even disclosure of women’s sexuality.
Our species is evolving. We are still in the dark ages regarding sexuality. Many women don’t know deeper aspects of their female anatomy . The reason why female sexuality is taboo is that we simply haven’t evolved far enough, as yet. We don’t fully understand the sacredness of female sexuality. We have not grasped the power and responsibility that female sexuality holds.
Empowering women is the path to this much-needed wisdom. Our over-populated planet would greater benefit by educating women about their vaginas.
Recently I went and saw Eve Ensler’s production Vagina Monoluges in my local community. It was fun to see familiar faces on the stage as they talked about the vagina.
The monologues are from interviews of women about their vagina. One monologue shared women’s answers to the question, “If your vagina could talk what would she say?” Before they began sharing the various answers, all 12 or more lady performers, got quiet, put their hands up and together answer the question by saying, “SLOW DOWN.”
What is going on behind closed doors in the bedrooms across the US and most likely the planet that is having women unequivocally desire a slower approach? Are women’s needs being met? Are they getting pregnant more than they are experiencing pleasure? What is more important at this point for healing the planet? More pleasure or more pregnancies?
Are your sexual needs being met in the bedroom? Have you had to deal with aggressive, fast and furious and even rough lovers? And if so, have you found a positive way to deal with it? Or are you one of those women who is often stuck in sexual servitude or sex as a duty or job instead of something you fully embrace and enjoy?
Why is female sexuality taboo? I believe we as women have not established our own sexual authority. We are missing out on more pleasure because of it. Our patriarchal society makes feminine sexual expression difficult. In our fast-paced society, we have no time to SLOW DOWN.
Feminine sexuality is slow, soft, caring, sharing, expansive, respectful, hearted-centered, mutually satisfying. It is subtle, liberating, unbinding and healing. Individual souls, both men, and women, will awaken when feminine sexuality is expressed. Feminine Sexuality doesn’t cause jealousy, boredom, competition or the like.
We will free ourselves from feminine sexuality being taboo when women start claiming their sexuality as sacred. When women hold a healthy boundary and only engage in sex acts that include honesty, respect, love and honoring (mostly of self), then female sexuality will no longer be taboo.
Unfortunately, they hold the mysteries from themselves. It is up to each woman to create her own rite of passage regarding her sexuality. She has to claim her sexual sovereignty and authority. She needs to own her body, love her body and be authentic in the way she navigates her sexual energy.
How can she do that? Education about the spiritual side of her sexuality is key.
Has she had good role models for that. Probably not. In order for female sexuality to no longer be taboo a woman needs to learn a whole new way of being with her sexuality. What does that look like? Does anyone know? I believe we are slowly formulating that and I want to be part of the pioneers who help the process.
To answer the question “Why is female sexuality taboo?” we must understand we are in the process of evolving our species. And that there is a great need to educate women about their bodies and female anatomy.
As we evolve we will understand, both men and women, the power and sacredness of our sexuality. We will stop treating it as something hidden, nasty or taboo. We will openly celebrate our sexuality and dance with it, together, in a whole new way.
I’m Anna-Thea, an author and Certifed Divine Feminine Educator. If you’d like to learn more about the sacredness of your female sexuality make ure you check out my course “ Sex Ed You Didn’t Learn from Your Mother .”
No worries about asking. I wish i could help though. i am really not sure. I do know that the wordpress theme that I am using is called Tribe. And it’s part of the blog so Tribe I guess would be the answer. Hope that helps. Warmly, Anna-Thea
Awesome post…I’m writing a short fat loss blueprint. And most fitness books I’ve read shy away from the topic of sex. Or the books briefly touch on sex. I agree 100%. Sex isn’t taboo. Sex releases feel good hormones and relieves pain. After reading your blog post, I plan on including sex in my book. And I’ll try to sound politically correct as possible.
Awesome! Love your comment. Glad you liked my article. And yes, I want to encourage you to include sex, especially good quality sex ed or conscious perspectives in your book. Best wishes to you! Thanks for commenting. Warmly, Anna-Thea

by Charlotte Hilton Andersen Published: Apr 5, 2017
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"My cousin Adam was my first kiss."
If you've ever seen a Liftetime movie, you probably get why the plotline of a taboo relationship is so freaking captivating. Mother, May I Sleep With Danger? Dirty Teacher? Yep, we'll watch all of that. And while we typically witness these, shall we say, nuanced love stories on our couch, sometimes they happen IRL.
Case in point: These five women anonymously share the surprising dudes they dated and what happened after they hit things off. Spoiler alert: Not many of them have happy endings.
"My roommate Allie* had been dating Chris* for about six months before she and I moved in together with four other girls in a college apartment. She and I shared a bedroom. At first we all hung out together all the time and Chris was just one of many guys that was often at our apartment. But as the semester went on, Chris ended up with us more and more. He said he was just trying to catch up with Allie, but she was a workaholic, straight-A student who was barely ever home. So he'd hang out and cook dinner or watch TV with me while he waited for her and it didn't take long before he was spending more time with me than with her.
"I was surprised to find how much Chris and I began to click. And he was seriously hot. One night he said he was too tired to go home and asked if he could crash on our couch instead. I told him he could just have Allie's bed as she wasn't home to use it (again). We went upstairs and got ready for bed but I don't think either one of us was sleeping. After a few minutes he asked if I wanted to cuddle to fall asleep. I hopped in Allie's bed with him and we did a lot more than cuddle. Soon we were hooking up on the regular.
"Then [one day], Allie walked in on us. She'd gotten sick at work and decided to come home early to go straight to bed. Except we were in her bed. She caught us mid-act. At first she didn't say anything (in shock, I guess) but then she just burst into tears and ran out. That was the worst part. I would have been fine if she'd been angry at me—in my mind I blamed her for being too busy to take care of her boyfriend—but she was just so hurt. She slept on the couch for a week before she could make arrangements to transfer to another apartment. We never talked again after that. And Chris and I never became a thing either. Half the fun of our 'relationship' was the excitement of the risk of having sex in his girlfriend's bed. Once it was just my bed, it wasn't as interesting. I lost a great girl friend and a sort-of boyfriend that year. I'd never do that to another girl again."
"My cousin Adam* was my first kiss. I don't normally tell people that because, well, kissing cousins are gross, right? I didn't think he was gross though, and I was totally crushing on him. He had silky brown hair, bright green eyes, and the most perfect lips. We lived nearby and hung out all the time, so when we started to get flirty with each other it didn't seem weird at all. We'd always joked around with each other. And then one day, at the lake during a family reunion of all places, we started talking about kissing and he dared me to kiss someone. So I kissed him. The only weird part was how weird it didn't feel.
"That summer we hung out every day, but it got awkward fast. We never did anything more than make out. The hardest part was how careful we had to be to hide our relationship from our families. I still remember my mom walking in on us in my bedroom and making up this elaborate lie about how I was trying to help him fix his braces. (Ironically, I wasn't allowed to have boys in my room but because he was my cousin it was fine.)
"But even when it was just us, we still felt kind of like we never knew what to call each other, exactly. Boyfriend and girlfriend sounded wrong, but kissing cousins sounded way worse. Eventually when school started it just fizzled out. We grew up and have never spoken of it again. Although we still see each other at family gatherings on a regular basis. I never told my husband about it. And whenever someone asks what my first kiss was like—which really doesn't happen much anymore—I still feel like I have to edit out the genetic relationship. It was a confusing time in my life, and that was just one of many strange things I did as a kid."
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"At 19 I thought I knew everything about the world, and so when I met Dan* I just knew he was the one I was destined to be with. He probably didn't know that while he was working on my teeth though. I was a freshman in college and still on my parent's insurance. He had already completed college, finished dental school, opened his own practice, and bought a giant house. I think the fact that he had his life all figured out really attracted me to him—even though he is old enough to be my dad. (There are 22 years between us.) I never liked boys my own age with their hookup mentality, and people are always telling me I am an old soul. So the age difference never bothered me. I decided to do everything I could to get him to ask me out.
"At first he totally resisted all my advances. I'd put on my hottest outfit and stop by his office to say hi or to ask about tooth whitening, adding I was just in the neighborhood. I'm sure his office staff thought I was nuts. But eventually he agreed to have lunch with me. The more we talked the more we realized how much we really have in common. It was amazing how easy and comfortable it all was. The weirdest part, by far, was introducing him to my parents. Although they weren't really friends they did know him socially, and at first they thought the age gap was too much . But I pointed out to my dad that I would never have to struggle like he and my mom did when they first got married and that I'd be totally taken care of from day one, which he really liked. We got married five years ago and now have a beautiful son! I couldn't be happier about how things worked out."
"My first job right out of college was with a company that was huge in my field—and they hardly ever hired people with no experience (like me) so the job was a major score. I had my own office, a fat paycheck, and felt crazy smart and successful. I also had a boss who, at the time, I thought was really great. He was the one who hired me and so at first it didn't seem weird that he was always coming in to check on me, but within weeks it became clear he was interested in more than just a working relationship. I was unattached, and I liked him, so I jumped on it—er, him.
"We dated for six months, but because office relationships between a boss and an employee were forbidden we had to keep it a secret. I think that was part of the fun actually. One time we went on vacation together, so we were both out of the office at the same time. We spent half of our time together concocting elaborate stories complete with pictures and social media posts to make it seem like we weren't together. I still remember my coworker telling me how 'brave' I was to go to Mexico all on my own.
"It wasn't too long after that though that the shine started to wear off. We were fighting more and then one day he hired Jackie* and it suddenly became clear to me what was happening. She was obviously unqualified for the job and he was smitten with her. We broke up. While I wasn't heartbroken about it, I still wonder if that was the only reason I got the job."
Watch men and women spill the honest truth about exactly what they think about cheating:
"When I was 18 and in high school, I worked at a pizza place. It was a rough year for me, and I ended up failing out of school. I was telling my manager Jake* about how I had no place to live and then he said I should just move in with him. He was older than me, but he was cute so I said yes. Even though I was dating someone when I first moved in, my roommate and I quickly became something more, and we ended up living together for two years.
"Things were pretty good until the management changed at the restaurant. The new manager demoted my boyfriend to shift lead. And then I quit because he refused to ask her for a raise on my behalf and wouldn't let me ask her directly. We started fighting a lot.
"But the real problem was that I didn't have a bank account so I'd been depositing all my checks into his account. I never saw the statements, but he said he used the money to pay the bills. I deferred to him on all decisions, financial and otherwise. I was too nervous to ask him for money, so I never had much cash.
"Ultimately, I cheated on him, he cheated on me. We broke each others' hearts."
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