TEMPERAMENT PROFILE: INFJ (Fi-Ni-Se-Te)

Melancholic/Phlegmatic (M/P) = Controlled Catalyst

Tim LaHaye

M/Ps are not nearly as prone to hostility as the other Melancholics and usually get along well with others. These gifted introverts combine the analytical perfectionism of the Melancholic with the organized efficiency of the Phlegmatic. They are usually good-natured humanitarians who blossom in a quiet solitary environment for study and research.

In addition to higher education, M/Ps excel in medicine, pharmacy, dentistry, decorating, literature, theology, and many other “cerebral” fields. They are highly respected writers, philosophers, scientists, and masters in music and arts. M/Ps are extremely detail-conscious and accurate.

Despite these abilities, the M/P, like the rest of us, has potential weaknesses. M/Ps can easily become discouraged and develop a negative thinking pattern. M/Ps are unusually vulnerable to fear, anxiety, and a negative self-image. The people with the greatest talents and capabilities are often victimized by genuine feelings of poor self-worth.

Ordinarily quiet, they are capable of hostility caused by their tendency to be revengeful. In addition to enduring mood swings, they can be stubborn and rigid, even uncooperative. But once they learn to turn from criticism and to rejoice evermore, their outlook on life can be transformed.

Their strong tendency to be conscientious allows M/Ps to let others pressure them into making commitments that drain their energy and creativity. Even though humanitarian concerns may sometimes cause M/Ps to spend too much time away from their families, these people are often loved and admired by their families because their personal self-discipline and dedication are exemplary.

Unwritten Grace

Usually the most introverted blend, these people are the sort who genuinely appreciate the deeper things in life, be it art, literature, music or reflection on everyday life. Though they are usually inoffensive towards people, they are often inclined to see the negative side of both others and themselves. This stems from the melancholic tendency towards perfectionism: they may set high standards only to be upset when they, or others, don’t meet them. This, combined with their introversion, can lead to a lot of insecurity and a real struggle to connect with people. Because they are very analytical, M/Ps tend to have a deep understanding of themselves and their emotions, and may spend a lot of time in introspection. Although they are shy around people, they will be deeply loyal to those whom they do develop a connection with, as they are often very devoted to anything close to their hearts. They are very emotionally sensitive, which may be a double edged sword: it can be very hard for them to take criticism, but in a bad situation, they would probably genuinely feel for those affected.