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They do say no one knows what goes on behind closed doors – but is your neighbor giving out secret clues that they’re a swinger?
Yesterday we told how sales of garden pampas grass have plummeted because it’s believed to be a secret signal that swingers live in the home it belongs to.
But it turns out that the exotic plant isn’t the only giveaway that the house’s residents are into liberal sexual practices.
While The Sun Online cannot verify any of these claims, here are some of the tell-tale signs that you could be living next door to a swinger.
According to Cooper Beckett, host of the Life on the Swingset podcast, many swingers wear a black ring.
He told The Stranger: “Wear your black ring on your right hand if you are out and open to meet other swingers.
“If someone wearing a black ring on their right hand approaches you, start a conversation with them, ‘I see you’re wearing a black ring on your right hand. Maybe we are in the same club’.”
Other secret swinger symbols include a woman wearing an anklet, toe rings, thumb rings and switching your wedding ring to the right hand, according to alternative lifestyles website Bigger Love.
They also cite white landscaping rocks and pink or purple decorations in the front garden as a signal of swinger activity.
Bizarrely, the website identifies pineapples as another swinger signal – in the form of a door knocker.
They may look sweet and innocent, but it turns out garden gnomes are a likely indicator that the resident is into swinging.
An estate agent in the US found this out the hard way, when their client was warned off buying in a “huge swinger community.”
The claim is also backed up by a Reddit thread, which also suggests that pink flamingos on the lawn is a tell-tale sign, though the user who uploaded the post was skeptical.
According to the website Swinger Code, people who are up for swapping sexual partners often wear a wristband brandishing a special “sign.”
The subtle symbol was created to help swingers recognize each other and help them to find potential partners.
According to the website, the sign is “unobtrusive and respects the privacy of the ones who wear it.”
The symbol, which consists of the international male and female signs arranged horizontally with their circles intersecting, with three plus or minus signs on both sides, differs slightly depending on what the swinger is into.
The three plus signs on both sides mean they are “looking for partners as a pair” while the minus signs mean they would also join without their partner.
Having a hot tub in the garden is also famed for being a common swinger trait.
But according to Ross Phillipson, sales director at Hot Tubs Superstore in Blackpool, this is now a myth.
He explained: “The biggest misconception is that hot tubs are the preserve of swingers, indulgent Premiership footballers or flashy types who live in Essex. In fact, they are bought by anyone and everyone.”
Another sign is that your neighbor will never open their garage door until they’re in the car with the doors closed, according to a Reddit thread.

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SOME couples go out to dinner on the weekend. Alice and Eric go to swingers parties and have sex with strangers.
FIVE years ago, Alice and her husband Eric* were your average young married couple . Today, they are minor celebrities in Australia’s swinging community , having sex with dozens of other people every month.
Here’s a tantalising glimpse into Alice’s average week.
I slipped off in my lunch break to go lingerie shopping . I needed a hot new outfit for the weekend. Some people love latex and leather but not me so much. I feel sexiest and most feminine when I’m wearing delicate lace. I love when it’s sheer enough that you can see through the fabric. I have a penchant for stay-up stockings too.
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As I slide my hands over the new bra I feel a thrill of electricity for the coming weekend. I send my husband, Eric* photos of myself in the change room with some steamy sext action . It inspires me to quickly get myself off right there before heading back to work. I feel smug at my desk all afternoon and count the minutes until the weekend.
Some couples like to go out for dinner or go out dancing on the weekend, but we like to go to swingers clubs or parties and get playful.
We didn’t always play with others. After a couple of years of marriage and a couple more together prior to that, I told Eric that I had a fantasy of being pleasured by two men at once. I just imagined it would stay a naughty fantasy. The idea of another man f**king me got Eric so wild that night he suggested we look into it. That was the turning point for our relationship.
When we get to the club it’s very relaxed these days. In the beginning I was a little nervous or shy but after three years we’re considered regulars on the scene. It’s just like catching up with friends, except all our friends come with sweet benefits.
Eric and I have rules. We only play together, never apart. The whole idea is that this enhances our love life so being able to see, if not touch, each other at all times is a must.
I love watching Eric with another woman across the room. I know he’s an incredible lover, so seeing him go down on someone, watching her writhe under his expert tongue while someone is sliding into me blows my mind every time. It’s surreal and delicious, feeling my own pleasure rise and peak while I watch my partner bring someone else to the brink.
Saturday nights are late nights. We catch a cab home together and debrief about the evening. We climb into bed exhausted but satisfied. Falling asleep in Eric’s arms is always my favourite part of a play day.
Sunday is fun day. After a sleep in, we lie in bed with coffee and rehash the evening, which usually ends leads to another romp.
We invite some swinger friends over for a casual BBQ. One of the best things about being part of our community is that we are super social and enjoy hanging out with like-minded people.
Eric and I have one particular couple we both love to spend time with. Most of the time one of you likes someone in a couple more than the other, or your partner is keen and you’re not so much. When the chemistry is good between the four of you, your senses simply explode. A cacophony of hands touching you, mouths all over your body. The sensory overload is awesome.
Eric works in finance in the city and I’m an IT consultant. Our work friends have no idea what we do for fun and if they did, frankly, I think their brains would burst.
Monday night we just hang out like any regular couple. No crazy outfits or toys. We see our lifestyle as an added extra to an already beautiful relationship, not something we have to do every day to keep things spicy.
We usually crash early after our busy weekend.
I like to do my sexy admin on Tuesdays. I know admin is usually not sexy but this is a little different. I have a blog where I write about our swinging adventures.
I love to write about our lifestyle because I’m proud of the fact that we share each other and take joy in each other’s sexual exploration and pleasure. I think more couples would benefit from it but I don’t tell my work colleagues or family for obvious reasons so the blog is my opportunity to share freely.
Sometimes people contact me through the blog, or the club we go to will send newbies my way if they need some more information about what happens and what to expect from coming to one of our play nights.
I love introducing new people to our community and helping them to feel safe and comfortable exploring their fantasies.
We catch up with a playmate Alexis* for a meal after work and take her home for some sexy fun.
Alexis is a stunning unicorn who has curves for days that we both fancy the hell out of. A unicorn is a single lady who likes to play with couples … aptly named because they’re pretty rare.
We both love her company, but she’s perfect because she sees us as equal playmates and nothing more. Sometimes it can be tricky when feelings get involved. Eric and I know that we are solid and Alexis totally gets it.
We chat and eat, go home for dynamite sex and then she leaves. That’s another rule we have. Our bed is only for us to sleep in. Anyone can come to play, but when it’s lights out, it’s always just us.
I give myself one day where I do all the self-care I need to feel hot for my lovers. Depending on what’s needed I get my hair done, a spray tan or a wax. Sometimes I get a pedi or even just a massage. Taking care of myself helps me feel sexy and more in tune with my body.
I feel that swinging has helped me feel sexier than ever. I feel desirable, I feel in touch with my sexuality and I know that exploring this side of ourselves has enhanced not only our sex life, but also our love for each other.
This article originally appeared on whimn.com.au and is republished here with permission.
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SOME couples go out to dinner on the weekend. Alice and Eric go to swingers parties and have sex with strangers.
FIVE years ago, Alice and her husband Eric* were your average young married couple . Today, they are minor celebrities in Australia’s swinging community , having sex with dozens of other people every month.
Here’s a tantalising glimpse into Alice’s average week.
I slipped off in my lunch break to go lingerie shopping . I needed a hot new outfit for the weekend. Some people love latex and leather but not me so much. I feel sexiest and most feminine when I’m wearing delicate lace. I love when it’s sheer enough that you can see through the fabric. I have a penchant for stay-up stockings too.
FOR MORE STORIES LIKE THIS, GO TO WHIMN.COM.AU
As I slide my hands over the new bra I feel a thrill of electricity for the coming weekend. I send my husband, Eric* photos of myself in the change room with some steamy sext action . It inspires me to quickly get myself off right there before heading back to work. I feel smug at my desk all afternoon and count the minutes until the weekend.
Some couples like to go out for dinner or go out dancing on the weekend, but we like to go to swingers clubs or parties and get playful.
We didn’t always play with others. After a couple of years of marriage and a couple more together prior to that, I told Eric that I had a fantasy of being pleasured by two men at once. I just imagined it would stay a naughty fantasy. The idea of another man f**king me got Eric so wild that night he suggested we look into it. That was the turning point for our relationship.
When we get to the club it’s very relaxed these days. In the beginning I was a little nervous or shy but after three years we’re considered regulars on the scene. It’s just like catching up with friends, except all our friends come with sweet benefits.
Eric and I have rules. We only play together, never apart. The whole idea is that this enhances our love life so being able to see, if not touch, each other at all times is a must.
I love watching Eric with another woman across the room. I know he’s an incredible lover, so seeing him go down on someone, watching her writhe under his expert tongue while someone is sliding into me blows my mind every time. It’s surreal and delicious, feeling my own pleasure rise and peak while I watch my partner bring someone else to the brink.
Saturday nights are late nights. We catch a cab home together and debrief about the evening. We climb into bed exhausted but satisfied. Falling asleep in Eric’s arms is always my favourite part of a play day.
Sunday is fun day. After a sleep in, we lie in bed with coffee and rehash the evening, which usually ends leads to another romp.
We invite some swinger friends over for a casual BBQ. One of the best things about being part of our community is that we are super social and enjoy hanging out with like-minded people.
Eric and I have one particular couple we both love to spend time with. Most of the time one of you likes someone in a couple more than the other, or your partner is keen and you’re not so much. When the chemistry is good between the four of you, your senses simply explode. A cacophony of hands touching you, mouths all over your body. The sensory overload is awesome.
Eric works in finance in the city and I’m an IT consultant. Our work friends have no idea what we do for fun and if they did, frankly, I think their brains would burst.
Monday night we just hang out like any regular couple. No crazy outfits or toys. We see our lifestyle as an added extra to an already beautiful relationship, not something we have to do every day to keep things spicy.
We usually crash early after our busy weekend.
I like to do my sexy admin on Tuesdays. I know admin is usually not sexy but this is a little different. I have a blog where I write about our swinging adventures.
I love to write about our lifestyle because I’m proud of the fact that we share each other and take joy in each other’s sexual exploration and pleasure. I think more couples would benefit from it but I don’t tell my work colleagues or family for obvious reasons so the blog is my opportunity to share freely.
Sometimes people contact me through the blog, or the club we go to will send newbies my way if they need some more information about what happens and what to expect from coming to one of our play nights.
I love introducing new people to our community and helping them to feel safe and comfortable exploring their fantasies.
We catch up with a playmate Alexis* for a meal after work and take her home for some sexy fun.
Alexis is a stunning unicorn who has curves for days that we both fancy the hell out of. A unicorn is a single lady who likes to play with couples … aptly named because they’re pretty rare.
We both love her company, but she’s perfect because she sees us as equal playmates and nothing more. Sometimes it can be tricky when feelings get involved. Eric and I know that we are solid and Alexis totally gets it.
We chat and eat, go home for dynamite sex and then she leaves. That’s another rule we have. Our bed is only for us to sleep in. Anyone can come to play, but when it’s lights out, it’s always just us.
I give myself one day where I do all the self-care I need to feel hot for my lovers. Depending on what’s needed I get my hair done, a spray tan or a wax. Sometimes I get a pedi or even just a massage. Taking care of myself helps me feel sexy and more in tune with my body.
I feel that swinging has helped me feel sexier than ever. I feel desirable, I feel in touch with my sexuality and I know that exploring this side of ourselves has enhanced not only our sex life, but also our love for each other.
This article originally appeared on whimn.com.au and is republished here with permission.
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A woman is sharing her tips on how to embark on one controversial occupation – for those willing to take the risks.
A jilted woman is going viral after revealing how she figured out that her boyfriend was cheating: when he unexpectedly got better in bed.
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