Swingers Clubs In The Uk

Swingers Clubs In The Uk

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So, you’re interested in swinging ? Lucky for you, it’s more common than you think.
According to our own data, swinging was one of the most searched fetishes in the UK .
Likewise, a past survey revealed that almost 1.5 million Brits have tried swinging , while 9 million UK adults are keen to give it a try .
If you’re a first-time swinger and looking to spice up your sex life , read our guide on swinging for the best experience.
Swingers are singles or couples in an open relationship who engage in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
They can be married or in a long-term relationship, and enjoy having sex with other people to fulfil their sexual desires and fetishes.
Unlike polyamorists, they tend to avoid romantic attachments with partners outside of their relationship, keeping relationships strictly sexual.
The sexual practice of swinging can occur in private settings or in dedicated public places, such as swinger parties like Swinging Heaven (more information below).
Non-monogamous relationships might not be traditional, but there are various reasons why people think it’s a beneficial choice for themselves and their relationship.
Below are some reasons why people enjoy swinging:
If you want to become a swinger, there are a few things to consider to ensure it goes smoothly for you and your relationship. Firstly, you should:
Although this might be a little never-racking, let your partner know that you’re interested in swinging and ask them if they would be up to it too.
Be sure to explain to them why you think it will be beneficial to both of you, so they understand your feelings instead of leaving them to their own assumptions.
Once you and your partner have agreed to become swingers, you need to set boundaries to ensure that you both agree with how this will be done and to avoid complications in your relationship.
For example, you might want to think about how often you will swing, sexual activities that are off the table, what you’re happy or not happy witnessing with outside partners, safe sex measures and hygiene practices, and so on.
After you’re both clear on the boundaries and each other’s expectations, you can start your search for other swingers, whether it be online, at events, or with people you already know.
Some swingers even opt to hire an escort to indulge in group sex, watch their partner have sex, or feel like they are swinging.
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When it comes to swinging, there is some basic etiquette you should be aware of to swing safely and consider other people’s expectations. These include;
A swingers club or party is a social and public place for swingers to go to meet other compatible swingers and fulfil their fantasies.
Although each couple may have different motivations , it’s a place for swingers to feel free and be adventurous without judgement or stigma, as everyone is there for the same reasons.
Here are some 9 things to expect at a swingers club:
Although the main purpose of swinger parties is to swap partners, you are not obligated to do this.
If you’re new to the swinging world, there’s nothing wrong with taking in the atmosphere and being observant to get a feel of what it’s about.
However, try not to do this too often, as you might appear like you’re just there to snoop and people watch – so only go if you’re really up for it.
If you or your partner are interested in swinging, there are various places you can meet like-minded people.
As mentioned previously, if you like a lively environment or a bit of social fun, you can meet swingers at swinger parties, clubs and houses. Some popular swinging locations in the UK are:
However, there are other places to look for local swingers, such as adult and swinger dating sites and apps, such as:
If you’re keen on going out, you can even meet swingers online and arrange to meet up at a swingers club.
Another great place to find UK swingers is on Vivastreet . Whether you are looking for swingers in London or local swingers, you can do this on our platform in three easy steps:
If you want to, you can refine your search by location, orientation, and sexual interests.
You can also enter a term in the search bar that describes something you’re interested in exploring, such as oral sex and browse through the search results.
If you want to increase your chances of finding compatible swingers, you can post your own ad to advertise your interests .
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The Vanilla Alternative near St Neots has proved a hit with the swinging community
Tucked away on the outskirts of a beautiful rural town is a dirty secret.
Drive down the A1 from St Neots in Cambridgeshire and after 12 miles you will reach a bus stop next to a nondescript building called the Anchor Hotel.
While it might look like a run-of-the-mill place to stay, the large red brick structure contains more than first meets the eye, Cambridgeshire Live reported.
A white and purple sign to the side of the hotel reveals that the building is in fact the 'Vanilla Alternative' - a private, members-only club dedicated to swinging and an 'alternative' lifestyle.
The club has proved hugely popular with guests who have left dozens of rave reviews praising the venue, which hosts saucy parties for its members every Friday and Saturday night.
And Vanilla Alternative has one very bizarre rule when it comes to how guests are expected to leave the place.
The club has the motto "cleanliness is essential when Godliness is improbable".
When the guests have parked in the secluded car park, they are greeted with a row of lockers.
Here they are required to drop off any mobile phones, which are not allowed into the club to preserve the privacy of guests.
Not that they would have a pocket to store a mobile in anyway.
Members are expected to strip down into lingerie, towels or their full birthday suit before they can get stuck into the venue's numerous play areas and hot tub.
Key features in the steamy house of fun include a fully licenced bar, a DJ backed dance area and a stripper's pole.
A leather clad seating area and neon purple lighting help set the tone.
Off from the bar is the couples-only playroom, with luxurious red and gold wallpaper, black and gold drapes, and suggestive red lighting.
For those who like a little privacy there are a number of curtain covered booths.
For those who don't, there's also a large public area underneath a circus tent roof, featuring BDSM equipment and a bed in the centre.
While the hot tube is there to crank the temperature up, the air conditioning system can stop things getting too hot under the collar.
The club's owner even say "a good night" at the club "is always determined by the size of the towel mountain left behind by satisfied guests."
On from the hot tub is another play area awash with UV lighting.
Here guests will find seven beds and not much else.
In the corner a large red leather sofa and recliner chair allow for some relaxed seating for any spectators.
Although parties continue until late, some guests can't get enough and stay the night.
The rooms are all smartly decorated with different themes and ensuite bathrooms.
And during the warmer months guests can even camp on the site rather than head home after a big night.
The club has rave reviews from its guests and is evidently a big hit in the swinger community with a four star Google rating.
One visitor praised the discreet parking saying: "Plenty of parking screened from the road, so no worries about your car being spotted and questions asked.
"Nice bar and seating area. Nice big jacuzzi, 'beds' in the play areas have now got a leatherette cover."
However, he did lament the club's low lighting saying: "Personally would like it better with a bit more illumination."
Another of the guests praised the club and gave it five stars, saying: "Amazing place. Far outweighed my expectations. Friendly staff. Friendly welcoming members. Very well priced. Hotel room was clean. Will defiantly be coming back in a few weeks!"
And a third man also said the club looked amazing but had some advice for "single guys" saying: "Lovely looking club. But it's not for single guys, save your cash and use a club that like single guys going and shows them around a little.
"They just use the guys to make up for cash that they lose on the couples that don't turn up. There are other clubs out there which are better for single guys."
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Everyone appears to be getting laid on TV, social media, and in the movies… in real life, it’s actually kind of hard to find couples that are seriously looking for fellow swingers.
The majority of couples just aren’t into it. Some only swing with their own friends, kind of a closed circle sort of thing. Then again, there ARE other swinging couples looking for dates…but locating these mysterious sexy strangers is a challenge.
Here we look at the top 11 best swinger sites for finding open-minded people!
You may wonder, how did we figure out what sites to include?
We actually conducted a research project and registered for about 20 different swingers sites. Over the course of 25 hours or so, our profile and pictures got a lot of responses – and mostly from the top 5 sites on our list.
For our Top 11 list that caters to swingers, open marriages, poly dating, and everything in between, we considered factors like members, dating app UI, response, quality of responders, intelligence of the conversation (indicating humans, not bots), and the number of swinger events or dates offered.
By the end of this list, you might have one favorite swinger site that sticks out in your mind!
Starting back in 1996, Adult Friend Finder is the most well-known kinkster site online.
This adult dating site was matching up swingers and real-life gangbangs back when most of us were just discovering free porn for the first time. Adult Friend Finder also happens to have one of the most inclusive and open-ended searches of all dating sites.
You can look for couples, trans users, or groups, and designate your own sexual preferences. Even more interesting is that you can choose “how you swing”, deciding on which spouse gets sex, or if you’re just being a voyeur for the time being.
SwapFinder is one of the largest swingers sites online, claiming 40 million profiles and offering a variety of matches, including full swap, threesomes, BDSM activities, and even group sex.
Naturally, the best feature for swapping is their two-way live sex cams for both couples. You can start flirting as a couple and send flirts or come-ons to other couples when you see someone nice.
Start with a video chat before arranging for a sex date – this way, you know the other members are real before you meet them.
SwingLifeStyle promotes a “Swingers Next Door” kind of feel, with less emphasis on perfection and supermodels stripping on video, and more about finding real couples.
The Florida-based website emphasizes club meetings and even has connections with “Bliss Cruise”, and “Topless Travel” options for meet and greets.
The best feature of the site is the “Join a Group” and “Find a Club” option, which lets you become part of a larger swinger community.
SDC is serious about finding your customized date! As soon as you sign up you can choose between swingers, hookups, fetishes, and even sex education while you’re at it. Like some of the best swinger sites, SDC focuses on groups and communities, as well as events and parties .
Swingers Date Club is taking online dating to the next level!
Many swingers enjoy meetup groups and events before they date a couple alone. Swingers Date Club also offers party searches and public events nearby, and more detailed profiles than the average site.
On top of all that, SDC is also one of the oldest swinger communities online, starting in 2000.
Reddit Swingers is one of the most active dating groups for swingers, though its 200K members are substantially less than most of the other sites reviewed. Still, it’s an active community with a very direct approach.
You can enjoy free sign-up , instant chat, instant forum discussion, and private picture trading. If you don’t want to pay for the snappy features and just want to find or post a personal ad, Reddit Swingers won’t disappoint.
Seeking.com is not a swinger dating website specifically, but it does just so happen to bring a lot of hot college girls together, all on the tab of a wealthy guy with no attachments.
The site isn’t about escorting, just sugar babies who are more than willing to chat about sex, fantasies, and what turns them on.
The female-to-male ratio is highest at this site, 4-1, which is great odds. It’s one of the best dating sites to find threesomes or a pool of sexy partners if you have the Bruce Wayne/Tony Stark kind of lifestyle.
Believe it or not, Ashley Madison is not all about cheating. Plenty of profiles on the site are hot wives (sharing couples), open marriages, poly, and couples looking for threesomes. No names are required and in fact, sharing personal information is discouraged.
Ashley Madison provides chat, email, travel perks for meeting lovers on the go, and most importantly, anonymity. If you’re a single guy looking for couples, Ashley Madison has the tools you need. While not strictly a swinger dating app, it might just do the trick.
Alt.com is a BDSM-themed site with a high number of active users. There are multiple fetishes and relationship types here, not to mention an LGBTQ+ friendly atmosphere.
While the site is not free, for a low-cost you can get away from the ads, fake profiles, and spammers.
The extended questionnaire, for example, helps root out the weaklings from the dedicated users who want to have some sex already.
Kasidie offers anonymous couples matching with customized levels of privacy. You can look through photo albums or chat with others in a forum or online messaging.
Most importantly, Kasidie offers hundreds of listings for swinger parties, swinging events, and even resort sleepovers.
Besides the club listings, the swinger website also provides private and even secret communities catering to specific fetishes or general interests.
Fetlife is primarily known as a BDSM hookup site , roleplay site, and the darker side of the dating scene, where you can openly discuss blackmail play, dungeon flogging, cage training , and whatever else would make Christian Grey blush.
It’s not like the other dating sites.
But Fetlife is also known as a great place to find swinger partners because most couples on Fetlife are spoken for AND looking. Everyone here is probably open to sex or swinging IF the fetish matches and if they like your photos/videos.
Tinder is a special case because it is both the best of times and the worst of times when it comes to swinging. Sure, plenty of open-minded partners are on Tinder looking for swapping or for a third.
But there are also plenty of Tinder horror stories, “awkward” stories, and all sorts of swinging fails that come from an unfiltered “free” service. If you’re picky about who you meet, Tinder might be a disaster.
It’s actually great that you have questions about swinging. The worst thing you can do is jump, uh head first , into an unpredictable sexual situation.
As you will learn, successful swinging is all about communicating with your partner and your new sex buddies.
First, try to understand that there’s no “one size fits all” in the swinger lifestyle.
Some couples or poly families have always been non-monogamous. Sometimes they grow up around it. Sometimes they learn it, because of a busy work schedule or frequent travel.
Other couples are curious and want to spice up their sex life. They may have even more complex rules and desires, and it’s important to understand them individually.
Not everyone wants the same thing, even in a freethinking lifestyle such as swinging.
Experienced swingers will tell you to leave the personal drama at home, and to get your issues fixed BEFORE bringing someone else into your bedroom.
A lot of toxicity follows around some couples that have warped ideas o
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