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As Told To: Rachel Kramer Bussel Published: Apr 27, 2016
The atmosphere of the cruise made us more open to trying new things.
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And it definitely helped our sex life.
For this installment of our weekly interview series, Love, Actually , about the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Vera (a pseudonym), a married woman who unexpectedly got into swinging during a tenth-anniversary cruise.
Last spring my husband and I were looking for an adults-only vacation to celebrate our tenth anniversary. I came across a "clothing optional lifestyle takeover cruise." The materials talked about dance parties, clothing-optional areas, and playrooms, including a dungeon. We assumed "lifestyle" meant BDSM. It was only after we'd booked the trip that we realized it meant swingers. We figured we could still go, even though we didn't plan to participate.
Leading up to the cruise, though, we got to know some of the other couples online and began to change our minds. It started with talk of me being interested in playing with other women and evolved into "Let's just go for it and enjoy all this cruise has to offer."
We really didn't know what to expect when we got there, and were definitely surprised. Some people were completely nude, some just topless, some in tiny outfits, and some fully clothed. We kept our swimsuits on. No one seemed to mind, or even notice, what anyone else was or wasn't wearing.
The first evening there was a toga/gods/goddesses party. My husband dressed as a Roman gladiator and I made a toga out of a sheer purple fabric. We danced with a couple we'd chatted with online, who were in white togas. We didn't get naked, but there was some flashing and roaming hands. My husband and I are "full swap," which means that we are okay with penetrative sex with other people, but their rules were stricter than ours.. They do not kiss or have penetrative sex with others.
After the dance club closed, we all went to the 24-hour outdoor play area. There were beds spaced about every six feet with small tables between them. We all went to one bed and started by getting undressed and making out with our own partners. Soon I felt the woman's hand caressing my breast as I was kissing my husband. Then her husband, while still kissing her, started to finger me.
At one point my husband went to the restroom. While he was gone, the other guy went down on his wife while I kissed her and played with her breasts. Then we shifted and I went down on him while she went down on me. When my husband came back, he watched for a minute, then joined us.
After a little while, I started giving my husband head while the other couple had sex. He'd had a lot to drink and to his dismay wasn't getting hard. We tried a couple times, but it wasn't going to happen. We played a little while the other couple finished up, and then we all went to the hot tubs.
The atmosphere of the cruise made us more open to trying new things. Throughout the week, we had two more play sessions with other couples, including a six-way group session with the same couple from the first night.
There has to be some physical attraction when we decide who to play with, but the connection we form with a couple is the bigger factor. We want to play with people who are fun and stable in their relationship. We have a very low tolerance for drama. Since we play only as a couple, there has to be a four-way match in terms of attraction.
One day we were talking to a couple and the woman stripped down to nothing but a smile and just kept on chatting. This was very awkward for us, but we tried not to let it show. Ten minutes later, her husband stripped down too. He suggested that we do the same, but we declined. He asked us about making a playdate, and I told him that I didn't think we had the four-way match we needed for us to be comfortable. For the rest of the week she was cordial when we'd run into them, but he wouldn't even say hello to us. I felt bad for possibly leading him on. Unfortunately, that's the way it goes sometimes.
Before the trip, I thought swingers were people who would have sex with any random person. But those we've met want the same thing that we want: friendship with like-minded couples, and if we happen to have fun in sexual ways from time to time, that's a bonus.
Now we play with others about once a month. Unfortunately, there is not a single lifestyle club in the entire state where we live. We play only as a couple and only together in the same room. We like to be within reach so we can play and talk to each other at the same time. It's about group play, not just swapping partners.
Condoms are a must. We both have veto power, meaning that if there is a man I want to play with, my hubby can say no at any time for any reason and it will not happen, whether he's not comfortable with the guy or isn't interested in playing with his wife. We rarely play at our house, but if we do it is only with a couple we know really well, and never in our bed—that is only for us.
We talk to several couples we met on the cruise on a weekly basis. One we've become really good friends with, and we get together often with our kids. We do the same things other families do but sometimes, after the kids are in bed, we lock the door and get naked. Sometimes we start with a dinner date and drinks, or just hang out with the kids until they're all asleep. We might play a game like sexy dice or watch a movie with sexual undertones.
We haven't had a successful session yet with another couple where we both had penetrative sex. My husband overthinks it and can't maintain an erection. We have talked to several other men in the lifestyle and they all said that it is very common in the beginning, especially if you've been exclusively with your partner for a long time.
Neither of us have any romantic feelings for our play partners at all, but we do see them as friends. There are definitely people we are attracted to, both mentally and physically, but romance and love are just for us.
Other than the couple that we said no to on the cruise, no one has ever made us uncomfortable. We have been asked to do things that we have rules against. For example, there is a couple who generally play separately, but we play only as a couple. We've made this clear to them. We still talk to them and joke around; we just know that we won't be play partners and that's okay.
Swinging has helped our sex life, because after a night of playing with others we always come back and talk about the experience and have really hot sex with each other during the conversation. I don't know if we will stay in the lifestyle forever, but we are definitely having fun for now.
Rachel Kramer Bussel ( rachelkramerbussel.com ) writes about sex, dating, books and pop culture. She's the editor of over 60 anthologies including The Big Book of Orgasms, Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica and the Best Women's Erotica of the Year series, and teaches erotica writing classes in person and online. Follow her on Twitter @raquelita.
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My name is Barbara and I am a proud Marine Corps wife. I am the granddaughter of a Korean War Veteran and the daughter of a military brat. Long before meeting my Marine Corps husband I had gypsy feet from my childhood spent with a father who, after growing up in the Navy, could never remain in one place too long. I coveted the stories of my father’s youth, growing up on military bases and seeing the world.
Perhaps then it was no surprise to anyone when some years later, I was again charmed by the stories of adventure and ideals of patriotism another man in uniform brought into my life. But despite my initial fascination with the military, when a marriage license and a Budget Truck found me halfway across the country as a new bride of Uncle Sam, I was less than charmed. Oh, my husband still looked just as handsome in his high and tight and Dress Blues, and I was still feeling blissful about being a newlywed, however it did not take long until I decided the Marine Corps and I were just not going to get along.
It was the little things at first. Having grown up in the country on acres of land, it was a surprise to me that families in base housing were herded together in duplexes, triplexes and worse. You could hear the neighbor’s television set and their toilet flush! I also soon found my identity was not really Barbara anymore, but the dependent of LCpl Bates. So, dutifully as all military wives do, I memorized my husband’s social security number and carried my identification card religiously.
I thought surely my husband was joking when he first explained he would have to routinely stand 24-hour duties away from home. “All night long?!" I asked incredulously. And as if all that were not enough, then came deployments. About a year and a half into our marriage, my husband and I became the proud parents of a beautiful baby boy. A boy, I thought, who needed two parents around to raise him. The Marine Corps however, assured me I could do just fine on my own by sending my husband off on deployments. “Not fair!" I protested. “Can’t they see I need him here?" But the Marine Corps needed him more, and off he went.
So it went for almost four years of my life: duty, deployments and the inevitable sick child and mechanical malfunctions that always accompanied them. When my husband’s end of active service date approached and talks turned toward the idea of reenlistment, I did not give it a second thought. The Marine Corps was no place to raise a family. It was time to go home.
So, once again, we loaded up our (this time much larger) Budget Truck and headed back to Civilian Town, USA. But, after pulling off the interstate exit to our hometown, instead of the exuberance expected, my husband and I both felt strangely empty.
In the days and weeks that would follow, I reasoned with myself we had simply been so excited about our move back home that the reality of it was destined to pale in comparison.
We rented a house in the country with a big yard and no neighbors nearby. Instead of enjoying the newfound peace and quiet, I woke up in the mornings missing the sound of the children whose delighted screams always echoed from the playground behind our base housing duplex. I missed the comforting sounds of another family living next door, who could always be counted on to lend a cup of milk or good cheer. Shopping trips were no longer to the commissary or the exchange, and the checkout girl at the local Food Lion did not care a thing about seeing my identification card.
My husband and I went to work in civilian jobs and tried to get on with life, but no matter what we did, something just did not feel right. We constantly talked about all our friends and past adventures, and how all the men in our hometown needed haircuts. It did not take long to realize that, although we had taken ourselves out of the Marine Corps, the Marine Corps was not easily going to be taken out of us.
In becoming civilians again, we finally understood what it meant to be military. What we had thought of as only a job ran much deeper. It had become our life. The endless deployments and duty assignments, the nights spent apart, the well worn and unpapered walls of base housing, these were our calling.
As a young military family, we had seen these things as sacrifices to be made. But they were not sacrifices. As a civilian family, we went to work each day wondering if the jobs we were devoting so much of our time to even mattered in the grand scheme of things. In the Marine Corps, we knew we were a part of something that mattered not only to us, but also to the entire world. Instead of a sacrifice, it was an honor to know we set the standard for others by living the core values set forth by our republic long ago in its infancy: honesty, courage, respect, loyalty, dependability and a sense of devotion to God, community and family. As members of the military family, we made a difference; the lives touched by our own, immeasurable. Civilian life just could not compare to that. With a new understanding and sense of humility for our place in life, my husband and I finally knew for certain where we belonged. Shortly thereafter, he reenlisted and we found our way home to the Corps, back to deployments and duty and the utmost sense of pride we had ever found.
Though our time as civilians was short, the lessons it taught were unforgettable. We do not live the military life; it lives in us. It grows in the heart day by day as we share our lives together as military families. It happens as we shop at the commissaries and exchanges, and iron uniforms, sew patches and shine boots. It is a shared sense of pride that bonds us together as family, a family where each and every service member is one of our own, and all of us matter.
As for me, I took the long way around, but I can now say without a doubt, I am a Marine Corps wife, and I am proud. Now would someone please tell my neighbors to turn down their television set?

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9 Most Common Sex Fantasy of a Woman Revealed

Sylvia Smith loves to share insights on how couples can revitalize their love lives in and out of the bedroom. As a writer at Marriage.com, she is a big believer in living consciously and encourages couples to adopt this principle in their lives too. Sylvia believes that every couple can transform their relationship into a happier, healthier one by taking purposeful and wholehearted action.

The release of the top grossing movie Fifty Shades of Grey has allowed many women to be in tune with their sexuality. It allowed women to be more vocal about their fantasies and as well as their sexual needs.
It’s true! Women have fantasies too and you’d be surprised to know what they are. Being open to your sexual fantasies is not weird at all, rather it’s considered healthy and hot!
Let’s look at the most common fantasy of a married woman and even the darkest fantasies that women in general have.
You’ve heard this term many times but what exactly is a sexual fantasy?
By definition, sexual fantasies are a collection of mental images that arouses a person. Each person has different sexual fantasies and having them are perfectly normal. Most people are a bit hesitant when this topic is discussed because of the context of it but all of us have sexual fantasies.
This is a part of who we are and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Having sexual fantasies doesn’t mean that you’re not satisfied with your husband or partner, it doesn’t mean that you are sexually deprived, in fact, sex fantasies women have that are totally normal and it actually means that you have a healthy sexual appetite . Post the hype of the Fifty Shades movie series, the film has allowed many women to be comfortable with their sexuality even discussing the most common fantasy of a married woman that they secretly want to be fulfilled along with their admiration with sexy and hot men!
If you’re wondering whether your sexual fantasy is normal or a bit dark, then let’s check the most common female fantasy that women have.
Whether you’re looking for the most common fantasy of a married woman or just women’s topmost common fantasies, then you’re about to discover them.
This may look like a common sexual activity between couples but the fact is, not all women experience the glorious feeling of being caressed down there.
This is one of the most common sexual fantasies many women want fulfilled .
We’re not talking about having sex in front of many people, rather, we’re talking about places where people might catch you doing the “deed”.
Imagine being with your hot partner in the library? He makes advances and you can’t make him stop!
The thrill of being caught can spike your libido!
Because of this movie, one of the most common fantasies of women today is to be dominated by a hot man.
Can we blame our imaginations for being enticed by that setup? Who doesn’t want to be dominated by a hot guy?
He wants you and you feel that you want him too but you don’t want to commit a sin! He forces you into a corner, pins you and kisses you. He forces himself until you can no longer fight and give in.
The roughness of this scenario is something that some women love. It’s the thought of being taken against your will which also excites you beyond belief and is definitely a sexual fantasy that is very common with women of all ages.
There are some women who also get turned on by the thought of making out with the same sex. It’s fun and arousing at the same time.
This is something that men would definitely love to see.
If you think knowing the most common fantasy of a married woman is making you feel hot, then get ready to know the top women’s deepest, darkest sexual fantasies that they can ever have.
For the men who are reading this, can you handle her?
Shhh! One of the most common fantasy of a married woman is actually committing infidelity. Guys, don’t be surprised, we all know you’re also fantasizing about actually doing it.
There’s this dark arousing feeling of having sex with another guy other than your partner. May it be your hot driver, brother-in-law, or even a family friend, the thrill is already enough to make you sexually excited.
Imagine yourself being sexually attracted by some hot stranger and he reciprocates? Drunk? Better! He grabs you and takes you! You can’t help yourself but submit to your own desires!
Now, you understand why this is among the top most common sexual fantasies of women?
Husbands don’t get all angry here okay?
Of course, your spouses would never want to get back with their exes but thinking about having sex with them again – that’s a different story. It’s the thought of doing all those sexual acts that you’ve shared that is arousing, plus the fact that you’re married makes it exciting and will go back to the fantasy of infidelity .
You’d be surprised to know how some women find this very arousing. May it be a threesome or more! It’s a sexual fantasy that many women hide even with their partners.
We don’t want our partners to get the wrong idea, right?
Do you want to make these sexual fantasies a reality without compromising your relationship or your dignity? Then doing role plays is your answer.
Allow yourself and your spouse to talk and be open with each other. Be comfortable with talking about these fantasies and agree on trying them all out – just be sure that both of you won’t take anything seriously here.
This is a great way to bring back the intimacy and can even strengthen t
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