Swinger Regret

Swinger Regret





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Swinger Regret
Is swinging leaving you with regrets?
When a question came in from a husband expressing surprise and concern that his wife had regrets after swinging, my response to him was “ What did you expect?” It astounds me he was genuinely surprised at his wife’s reaction to unnatural acts. It told me that he didn’t have a clue.
Let me make this as simple as possible. When you have your spouse engage in unnatural acts, there will be a reaction. This is one reason why quantities of drugs and alcohol are associated with swinging. The intoxication is the only way they can engage in what they’re doing.
That husband has unrealistic expectations about his marriage and his sex life. Unrealistic expectations are at the root of unhappiness. When the ‘happenings’ don’t occur the way he wanted them to, there will be disappointment.
He’s already disappointed with her reaction. It leads me to think that in his mind, he scripted out even her reactions to being a part of his fantasy regarding swinging. In his fantasies, he planned out what she would do and what her reactions would be.
Real life swinging doesn’t go like it’s portrayed in porn movies and adult magazines. There are feelings involved. Those participating don’t just have sex with others and return to life as usual. Issues like emotions and bonding have to be considered as well.
He didn’t consider how traumatizing swinging was for her. Her own husband now wants her to sleep with another man and do things with another woman.
He’s no longer protecting her, but instead encouraging her to be with others. That act carries a message of rejection with it. It’s not sharing, it’s rejecting what they once had.
The special bond between them is no longer valued or treated as special. Sure, he talks about it as if it still exists, but the reality is that it’s gone.
Losing that special relationship has consequences. It changes the relationship between them. The emotional change and trauma needs to be addressed. Sure you can use intoxicants to cover it over, but eventually, the pain will come out.
Are you a swinger who’s been through relationship trauma?
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We want to help you get back on track so that your relationships can be fulfilling once more! Our videos are designed specifically for those needing guidance on how to overcome their own personal setbacks related to swinging. They’re engaging, informative and easy-to-follow – just what someone going through these issues needs! So if this sounds like something you could use right now, click here to order!
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A group of swingers have given a rare and honest insight into the inner workings of the taboo lifestyle, revealing the truth behind people’s common misconceptions.
The Australian Broadcasting Corporation’s “You Can’t Ask That” features different groups of Australians and asks them questions that people want to know the answer to but wouldn’t bring up in a regular situation.
Some of the past participants include former cult members, drag queens, transgender people, strippers and, in the latest episode, swingers.
The participants start off by addressing some of the myths around swinging and swingers parties.
There’s a common misconception that at these parties partners get chosen by everyone putting their car keys in a bowl. Whoever’s keys you pick out is then your partner for the night.
But according to the participants, this rarely, if ever, happens. More often than not partners are chosen on a preferential basis.
“I would much rather have sex with a couple that we have talked with over drinks for an hour than be forced into a bedroom with another person,” Sally from Melbourne said.
Megan, a single woman who is involved in the Brisbane swinger scene, said: “That would terrify me because you don’t really have a choice about who you’re going home with or who you’re hooking up with.”
Megan is known as a “unicorn” in the swinging community because of her single status and said that a lot of couples often look to incorporate another woman in their sex lives.
She said that many people believe women are forced into the swinging scene by their husbands or boyfriends and that the community is just full of “sleazy, old, fat men.”
“The thing is that can be true sometimes because all types of people like to swing,” Megan said. “(It’s) people wanting to explore their sexuality with each other in a couple situation.”
For the people being interviewed the decision to get into swinging was very much a mutual decision between both partners.
Husband and wife Andrew and Sally first got into the scene shortly after their engagement.
“I was only 18 when I met Andrew. He was pretty much one of my first sexual partners,” Sally said.
“As the wedding date slowly crept up on us, I sort of felt the pressure of, ‘I haven’t had any other sexual experiences, I haven’t played with anyone else.’”
She said it was a co-worker that first suggested that just because they were getting married didn’t mean they had to be monogamous.
The couple now regularly attend swingers events together, naming “jelly wrestling” and “the raw lust of it” as some of the most exciting aspects.
Interviewees answered a range of questions like “What are the best sex tips you have learned?” and “What is it like to lose your swinging virginity?” but one of the big ones asked was what it was like to see their partner with someone else.
Jess from Sydney said jealousy is definitely a factor, particularly in the beginning.
“I’m not going to say I don’t get jealous, especially in the early days … because, you know, I compared myself to that girl and I was like, ‘How did she do that?’” she said.
“(But) I think just being able to communicate that with Lawrence has taught me … I don’t have to be jealous. I can just appreciate and love him and love her for what they’re doing. And do it better sometimes.”
Most of the couples agreed that communication between couples was key and a lot of the time seeing their partner with someone else was part of the thrill.
All of the interviewees were very forthcoming with information and the episode didn’t really leave much to the imagination.
While some viewers praised the show as “wonderfully honest” and “very eye-opening,” others weren’t so impressed.
“While I’m cool with people enjoying whatever they like, I actually felt like I was tricked into listening to porn without my consent,” one person wrote on social media.
“Bit ironic really when they were talking up the understanding of consent within the swinging community.”
Another said, “Now I am very broad minded but that needed some serious warnings before it was on. Bit OTT. Love the concept in the right situation.”
“Bit verbally graphic for 9 pm my adult kids. Walked out! … not a prude just saying,” one person wrote.

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"Now they're dating, and I'm still alone."
Sometimes, threesomes are the greatest gifts on earth . Other times, they lead to awkwardness, jealousy, and the end of otherwise-happy relationships and friendships.
Unfortunately, the latter is what happened to the people who took part in a recent viral Reddit thread . It asked the question: "Redditors that have had a threesome and regretted it, what was the unexpected fallout?" In less than 24 hours, the post had accumulated 10,000 comments—and damn, some of the stories are seriously cringeworthy.
Some people said the viral thread made them reassess their threesome plans: "Due to this thread, my girlfriend and I have talked and decided that since 95% of these result in a romantic break up or a friendship ending, it's not worth the risk," one person wrote. Reader, if you recently penciled in your first three-way, consider yourself warned.
Here are some of the best stories from people who regretted having a threesome.
"On the day itself, the moment she touched his penis, she recoiled."
From rambtop : "My girlfriend at the time brought in a friend of hers to try for the first time (for both of us). It was real fun for all of us, or so I thought. We met up at a hotel during the day, it was all preplanned and went without a hitch. Later at night, my gf asked me to call her. She sounded furious. I had no idea where it was coming from. Apparently I had given more attention to the friend than her. I told her that I didn’t do something like that consciously because I was too into it. This apparently set her off even more. Something about me subconsciously finding her friend more attractive. It was a full blown breakdown and she was feeling really insecure. I told her let’s make this better. What would make it better? She suggested another session but with a guy friend of mine instead of her friend. I agreed. On the day itself, the moment she touched his penis she recoiled. She started crying. She started saying that she doesn’t want to do this, it feels like cheating and she’s feeling guilty. My friend hightailed out of there, leaving me to console her. We agreed never to try anything like that again. Turns out she was into voyeurism but hated it when anyone tried getting involved. She just wanted to fuck me (or her partner in general) and have others watch and get off. She thought she wanted more, but the first threesome experience with her friend made her realise that she really really didn’t."
From Tacomancer42 : "I had a threesome with my girlfriend and best friend. She left me for him. They have been married for over 10 years."
"Now they are dating, and I'm still alone."
From PinkAcrobelle : "I had really strong feeling for this guy, and we he been flirting for a while. It was going well, and one night I was over at his house with another female friend of ours. We got drunk, one thing led to another, and we had a threesome.
"Now they are dating and I’m still alone."
"The whole thing was a scheme for my girlfriend to break up with me."
From hokeyWB : "I was asked by my girlfriend to have a threesome with her and her best friend... a friend I had known for a long time and who had actually introduced us.
"A couple of minutes into it I realised that my girlfriend was not remotely interested and had pulled back... which made it awkward because I was not remotely interested in my friend sexually... I only agreed to it because my girlfriend asked and she had been a little distant lately... I thought it might help rekindle the relationship.
"I carried on and did my best to make my friend happy... and then all of a sudden my girlfriend stood up and said "Looks like you two are good, I will leave you to it".
"I stopped what I was doing and asked WTF was going on, and eventually they explained that the whole thing was a scheme for my girlfriend to break up with me and "pass me over" to her best friend who apparently had a crush on me.
"Needless to say this did not go down well, and I ended up losing both of them from my life."
"She couldn't get the image of me having sex with her friend out of her head."
From Buffal0_Meat : "I mean, i guess it wasnt necessarily unexpected, but it just ruined my relationship with my girlfriend at the time. We had a threesome with a female friend of hers, and she couldnt get the image of me having sex with her friend out of her head. She said that she couldnt shake the feeling that if I truly loved her, i wouldnt have been able to sleep with someone else.
"Worst part of it was my gf was essentially my dream girl, and the girl we added to the mix wasnt nearly as spectacular as she was. So i traded a longterm relationship with my dreamgirl for one night of a threesome, and i would NEVER have made that trade with hindsight.
"That said, waking up in the morning with a hot naked girl on each side of me was pretty incredible."
"I gave him head. Like, really good head."
From D0rkasaurusRex : "I had an unplanned threesome with a close friend and her boyfriend. He's well endowed and apparently she couldn't handle giving him oral, but I didn't know that and while we were fooling around I gave him head. Like, really good head. Like so good he wouldn't stop talking about how good it was and asking why she doesn't give good head like I do. It made her insecure and put a strain on our friendship as a result. Even after they broke up, my friendship with her wasn't the same."
"If we do this again, can we get somebody I'm attracted to?"
From Windbelow161 : "I don’t know if I regretted it per se, but I was the third wheel. After the sexcapade we passed out and later on that night her boyfriend went to the bathroom. She then cuddled up to me and said ‘that was really fun and all but if we do this again can we get somebody I am attracted too’. Then her boyfriend walked back in and she realized that I wasn’t him, I could literally feel the room fill up with awkwardness."
"The girl ripped my bra off, and I was really mad about it."
From marilmad : "The girl ripped my bra off and I was really mad about it since it was a 70$ bra that unclicks from the front and I really liked it. Tried to brush it off but couldn’t focus on anything else.
"Then we start having fun and her dude makes out with me and she breaks down and stops everything, starts crying and runs out the room. Her guy followed her, I was just like 'Fuck this shit.' Got dressed and left by the other door.
"Note to all couples wanting to have threesomes: you don’t HAVE to have a threesome sometimes it just needs to remain a fantasy or you need to be with the right person."
"The boyfriend began giving me very intense dirty looks."
From ursoparrudo : "Male here. I was invited into a three-way by two other guys who were dating each other sort of casually. During sex, it became clear that one of the guys was really into me, and I naturally responded to him since he was giving me the most attention, while his BF was basically ignoring me. As it progressed, the boyfriend began giving me very intense dirty looks, so I called a halt by saying thanks, but I’m going to head home now. They broke up right after and one pursued me while the other spent the next several years badmouthing me and glaring at me anytime he saw me, which was frequently since I managed the only gay bar in our relatively small town. The experience led me to develop a new personal rule: no threeways. Only groups of 4 or more (preferably 5 or more). It has served me well."
"Turns out she liked him, and they started dating."
From Porporseu : "I was young, bi, and had a deal with my then boyfriend that I could explore sex with others as long as they were women and he could somehow join us. First two times went ok. Third he proposes a girl whom he found interesting, and I liked her too. It was amazing, and I kinda started to have strong feelings for her. She told me we would be together if I left my boyfriend. I did. Turns out she liked him and they started dating. 10/10 would not try that again."
"He had sex with her again while I was at work."
From Megnuggets : "He had sex with her again while I was at work. Then texted me later to tell me. Not to apologize or anything. Just to tell me and let me know she needed a ride home when I got off work. He was a jerk of a guy."

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