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We already have our list of the best sex toys for couples , but some of you kinky folks might want some sex toys that are a little more...how should I put this... extreme . A cock ring maybe a little too basic for you. But a cock ring that shocks your penis? Alright, now we have your attention.
These bondage toy recommendations are for partners who enjoy BDSM in the bedroom—or are curious about trying it out. (The recommendations on this list range from paddles to anal hooks, so no matter your experience level, there’s something here for you.)
BDSM (short for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) is an umbrella term for numerous sexual practices. It typically includes elements of roleplaying, dominance, submission, and other related interpersonal dynamics; oftentimes, impact play—such as whipping, spanking, and hair-pulling—is involved. While BDSM practitioners can use regular sex toys , such as dildos and butt plugs , there are also bondage toys that specifically cater to their needs. These bondage sex toys include restraints, blindfolds, ball gags , chastity devices, floggers, nipple clamps, and so much more.
And even if you don't consider yourself someone who's "into" BDSM, you can still incorporate any of these devices into your sex life to spice things up from time to time. With that said, here are 20 of our favorite bondage sex toys.
You can imagine my surprise when I learned that these gag lips are marketed as "anti-wrinkling muscle tighteners." I'm sorry, but no. They are for giving blowjobs and only for giving blowjobs.
Alright, so if you've never seen someone use an anal hook, I recommend you quickly search for it on Pornhub. These hooks go inside your anus, and then typically connect to a harness (or another part of your body) using rope. Obviously, it's not for beginners.
An ordinary cock ring or even one that vibrates? Not kinky at all. But one that actually shocks your penis? Yes, that is kinky. (Obviously, please use safely and read our article on electro-stimulation before trying it out.)
These aren't just nipple clamps—they connect to the clitoris, as well. With these, the euphoric pain rushes through your partner's body.
These nipple clamps are more gender-neutral, and they come with a collar attached. Who's a good boy?
Now a Motorbunny isn't inherently kinky, and it doesn't have anything to do with BDSM per se , but when you or your partner ride this bad boy on one of the high vibrations, you will feel like your insides are exploding, but in a good way.
Ball gags really help to create a dom/sub dynamic. Before trying it out, read about how to use them safely .
This rubber sheet from Exxxtreme is ideal if you're into more messy things , including fluids. (It's great if your partner is a heavy squirter , too.)
The pinwheel provides a prickly sensation. Use it to cause a light, ticklish tingle—or more intense pain. (Pro tip: Have your partner run it down your erect penis.)
You can fist or get fisted without gloves, but it's often sexier, safer, and more sanitary to use them. Besides, the latex is hot.
While on the cheaper side for a sex swing , this one still is highly rated on Lovehoney. It's great for couples who don't have a ton of space in their home.
It's like doing a weighted pull-up...only with your junk.
A sleek and sexy paddle for when you or your partner's been naughty. The faux leather actually feels very nice when smacked against your skin.
If you don't like a "thuddy" pain, and prefer a sharper, more piercing sensation, this flogger is for you. (Pro tip: When you flog, it's all in the wrist.)
For those who are only allowed to orgasm when their master says they can.
For those with penises who don't like pink—but then again, your dom is probably the one choosing your chastity device.
There's something about latex that just screams BDSM. Have your partner wear these panties as you spank them.
A great kit that has everything a BDSM newbie could want: cuffs, restraints, a blindfold, ball gag, and more.
This bondage kit is ideal for couples who are interested in BDSM and pegging . (Make sure to read our tips on how to bottom before getting pegged!)
Here's a BDSM set for beginners who just want the basics. It includes restraints, a ball gag, flogger, and eye mask.

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Last weekend was a great celebration of summer, the midnight sun, and only the week before it was snowing when I was in the yard outdoors! Hopefully the warmer weather will stay now for a while.
It has now been three and a half months since I was placed in enhanced restraints, and almost three months since my corset was introduced.  As far as I know both will remain a part of my life for the long term. I have very different experience with each one, however.
I have only good things to say about having the corset locked on me every day. I like the support it gives and the feeling of a constant hug. I got a new corset recently – it may be a little stiffer than the old one, but at the same time the material breathes better, so it is good for the summer months. It also has elastic shoulder straps.
The corset now feels like the norm for me. My corset lacing is always pretty much the same – my guard knows how tight to lace it, and another committee member, who made the corsets, checks occasionally that it is the correct tightness. It is only laced tight enough to support me and give me the correct posture, but it could be much tighter I think. I do not get to decide how tight the corset is laced.
When I was sick recently the corset was laced looser than normal. Then, I hated the fact that I could feel the collar and back chain, which is between the collar and waist. When the corset is tightened normally I do not feel it, so I was relieved when it could be properly laced again.
One effect of wearing the corset all the time is that I am given six small portions of food per day. Regular small meals seem to be the best when tightly corseted as there is less room for food. As I move around so little I do not need to eat very much, and my committee and I have a good idea of how much food I should eat so that my weight is stable and I remain healthy. Recently, for the first time this summer, there was a barbecue outside with meat, potatoes and salad. I got to sit on my outdoor bench and enjoy a little of the barbecue food.
It would be really nice to spend such a day outside with friends and acquaintances, but I cannot have everything. I always have to remember my position.
My experience of the new restraints after more than three months is quite different to the corset. There have been times recently when the leg irons have infuriated me, along with the fact that the hobble chains are locked to the floor and that I am constantly locked in a seated position. It is hard to be so still – I want to exercise more, although I do still get my 1 hour of exercise per day.
My feelings and thoughts are like a roller coaster ride. Sometimes the constraints and all of the, rules, procedures, locking systems and their backups annoy me very much. But these thoughts are soon gone and then I see things from another point of view – tight constraints feel protective of me – it means that no one or nothing can take me away from here, I’m safe from all harm. It makes me feel that nothing bad can hurt me, and for that feeling I’m willing to pay a lot.
I know that it is very strange but I feel safety and pleasure from the fact that I am locked in and taken care of. Stricter rules keep my mind in check in some sense. Of course I would like my life to be easier, but the prisoner must adapt, and chains, locks, routines, etc. are good things and a sign that all is well.
The fact that the rules are currently stable also has a calming effect … I do not want to have the opportunity to earn any kind of relaxation of my rules and restraints – that would only be a cause of stress for me. Feelings of stability and that I have no possibility of freedom are very important to me, it doesn’t matter how difficult my restraints are, I know I will still be wearing them tomorrow and next week and next month.
I often compare myself with someone who has reduced mobility as a result of a permanent disability. They have no option but still they carry on with life within their restrictions. They are forced to adapt. They sort of “forget” their disability and move on, I respect them very much.
My growing limitation, and the possibility of further limitation in the future, can be compared to progressive disease that takes physical ability. Having the right attitude is important and I see getting used to such a high level of physical limitation as one of my major challenges. It takes a lot of time to adapt, perhaps even years, or it may be that I will never get used to it fully.
While my mind has a long way to go to adapt, my body already “remembers” that my restrictions are normal. Physically, the body adapts to the limits much quicker – some muscles atrophy because they are not used, then they are also not painful as in the beginning. I move as far as possible within my restraints – the only thing that is always limited are my feet, and the range of movement of my hips. I think that if I was allowed to walk freely now, my steps would still be very short and it would take time for them to return to normal. Maybe not ever. In that respect I think that I have moved to “the next level” in a bondage prisoner’s life.
Physical constraints are only a part of all of this. It is possible to adapt to them. It is harder to get used to the behaviour rules and the repeated practices. The touch rule is very problematic, I want to have the opportunity to touch or be touched, and that is why I am sometimes more “helpless” than usual, that way I get more contact and intimacy, even for a moment.
But on the other hand, this is the prisoner’s life … Despite the difficulties, I have no doubt about what I want and need.
Recently I have not been having my monthly orgasm days, for various reasons. I enjoy an orgasm, but I have a strong understanding that I could live without it, without any problems. The orgasm day routine is not my ideal way to gain sexual satisfaction but it is part of my institutionalisation – I do not have a choice in how it is done and if it doesn’t work for me on a particular month I have no option but to wait. I have to get used that.
My orgasms always require “going to the border” – pain, intense restraint etc. I am not sure how my body and my mind takes all that. Sometimes I think I could live without sexual satisfaction – perhaps the same pleasure can be got some other way. A good feeling of satisfaction can be obtained in many ways – for me any fondling and attention is satisfying because I get so little physical contact otherwise. I also get satisfaction from pain and submission. Anyway – I am not giving up on my orgasm days. I must learn to make the best of them. Maybe a little longer break will make it better.
I still think often about permanent solutions. As a teenager I saw a movie where a man escaped from a chain gang. He had been wearing shackles so long that he still walked with tiny steps. This idea affected me greatly and when I saw it I knew that this was my destiny. As I have described above these things are happening to me slowly – in my hips especially.
I am interested by the idea that in the future there may be restraints that I could not go without. For example after wearing my corsets for a number of years I will be no longer comfortable without one, as my back muscles will lose strength and conditioning. This thought fascinates me.
I feel that learning to live with these permanent constraints and having no possibility of freedom from them would make me even happier. Such things would bring stability to everyday life.
I also still want to have permanent marks of my status, for example tattoos and other brands – something that is permanent and that does not go away ever. I would also like permanent ankle and wrist cuffs and a collar that cannot be removed. As a teenager I had a self-locking chain collar, and often I also wore a self-made leather and nylon harness under my clothing. I had the idea that I must be ready for locking points that facilitate it that one day I will be closed and locked. That idea has not gone away … it is still there and that is why permanent solutions are natural to me. The hobble chain perhaps does not need to be permanent, it can be so, but it can also be lockable. Cuffs on the wrists and ankles can be permanent, perhaps at the elbows as well.
There are mental processes that will also make me feel like I have no possibility of freedom. Continuing to become institutionalised to my prisoner’s life also helps with the goal of feeling that my captivity is permanent. I know that one day I will be moved to a different prison, but it is important to me that all is stable in future. That gives me the feeling of security I need and also helps enhance my feelings of institutionalisation. I’m not afraid of the possibility that I will have additional constraints, they are only challenges that I must adapt to.
Knowing that this is my future, perhaps the biggest “dream” is to find a person who really understands my choices. I have dreamed of finding someone who likes me and understands my choice, and that I will never be free. He/she would sometimes visit here, etc, and would understood my rules and adapt to them.
Always glad to hear more about your status and the feelings you have.
miisa,
Thanks for keeping us up to date with your life. I was wondering how far do you think you would go to fulfill your needs. By that I mean what if you were to loose total control over what is done to you by the committee. If they decide to incarcerate you in a cell in a different place and impose harsher conditions (such as the no talking rule or keeping your eyes down at all time). What if they decide to shave your head and tattoo your face with a prison number?
These are extreme examples but it might be what you are looking for (or not).
Max
extrmely inspiring writing! How about to add hih collar turtleneck sweater (over corset) into your daily style?
I trust in the committee, because the members are many and they need to be in agreement when they make decisions.
I do not think they want to make bad decisions.
It is a fact that the members of the Committee are subject to change but it will not happen overnight, and they will try to select a new member of the accurate wondering after.
As is happening now…like the first time, one member of the Committee changes
I’m not worried about it.
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Finding peace through rope bondage might seem questionable, but Brooklyn-based rope mistress Erin Houdini believes that the practice is a form of New Age kink, and she intends for it to bring peace to the stressed-out New Yorkers flocking to her for private and group sessions each month. Although Houdini’s roots in bondage were inspired by her love for BDSM, she insists that the rope bondage she offers her students is more about pushing the practitioner, lovingly called the “bottom,” to explore other states of consciousness than it is about having a sexually erotic experience. But of course it should be noted that if you’re interested in the latter, that can be arranged.

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