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Sucking My Own Balls
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Yep, we'll talk about teabagging, too.
Oral sex is freaking wonderful—some even claim it’s better than penetrative sex . But even though blowjobs are amazing, they can still use a bit of excitement every now and then.
Variety is the spice of life...and it's also the spice of a good blowjob. There are plenty of ways to up your oral sex game by bringing in different BJ techniques , but today we're going to talk about sucking and licking your partner's balls.
Sucking and licking someone's testicles can really get some people going , says Daniel Saynt , founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness. For some penis-owners, a little ball-sucking can usher in a wave of pleasure that brings them one step closer to orgasm , and a few lucky people can even climax from ball-sucking alone.“It’s rare, but it is possible for a man to orgasm from testicular stimulation,” he explains. “You can definitely try to help your partner reach orgasm through ball sucking alone, but it may take longer than usual or not happen at all.”
The act of ball sucking can take various forms, including teabagging (more on this later) and incorporating sex toys. But like all sex acts, there’s not really a standard way to suck your partner's balls. It’s an experiment both you and your partner will need to engage in: Do they like a lot of saliva? Lube? Biting? Which toys do and don’t work for them? Most of these answers will come from your own testicle-sucking trial, though we do have some kickass recommendations from experts below.
Okay: The number one rule is not to assume every partner wants their balls in your mouth. As Saynt explains, balls are extremely sensitive , thus not every ball owner will want their babies licked and sucked. “Some men have vey sensitive testicles and would prefer [it] if they were avoided at all costs," he says.
As with any sex act, you need to get your partner's enthusiastic consent before you take their balls in your mouth. The convo can look like this:
If you have the conversation well before you get to the bedroom, you'll have time to lay out some ground rules. Hair or no hair? Do you want them to shower directly beforehand, or are you okay with a little funkiness?
“Request any of the things that would make the experience more enjoyable for you and he’ll most likely comply,” says Saynt. “ Cleanliness is definitely important and you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable asking your partner to make sure his area is ready before you go bobbing for apples.”
Ask your partner for any suggestions on what they like. If it's not their first rodeo with ball sucking, they might have some tips and tricks for you . Some may prefer ball-sucking as a form of foreplay to get them primed for the BJ; some may prefer it as a mid-BJ interlude; others may enjoy both!
You're holding their crown jewels, so please, please, be careful. Maybe you start by gently sucking and licking the scrotum, and if they're into that, then you can proceed to taking one ball—or both balls—in your mouth. Once your mouth is full, try sucking like it's a lollipop, or running your tongue over their scrotum for a sucking/licking double feature.
Aside from licking and sucking, there is also teabagging. According to Saynt, teabagging is when “a man dips his balls in and out of the mouth of his partner.” (Get it? It's like dunking a teabag in and out of hot water.)
Teabagging can be pleasurable not just for the testicle-owner, but for the receiver, too; if you're into playing with power , having someone lower their balls into your mouth might tap into your submissive side. Teabagging, along with other forms of ball-sucking, can also be a way to explore the kink known as cock worship .
Sounds pretty pleasurable, right? Well, it can be, depending on the partner. Remember, not everyone is into the same thing, so you can’t assume everyone wants you to teabag their balls. Prioritize communication over pleasure.
There are plenty of ways to combine ball-sucking with sex toys. Saynt recommends having your partner use a masturbation sleeve —a sex toy that mimics the feeling of a vagina, anus, or mouth—while you go to town on their testicles.
“Tenga Eggs are [also] great to use during sex, and can add an extra layer of stimulation for your partner,” Saynt says, adding, “There are plenty of flavored lubes on the market that you can use to give your experience a little flavor.”
And, as always, if you’re concerned about STI prevention, you can consider using a dental dam .
“If there’s something in the world of sex that excites you or piques your curiosity, it’s very okay to introduce it into your sex life,” Saynt says.
If ball-sucking isn't your or your partner's thing, no prob. You could also introduce “the seam,” which is the area between the anus and the balls (also known as the perineum or taint). Because sex isn't about checking items off a bucket list—it's about tapping into whatever you and your partner are most into.
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I've always come to this site to either browse through others' problems and compare them to my own and because I've been sexually curious for as long as I can remember. Recently, a guy I've been friends with and I have started to "get to know each other." Last night, this question arose: How exactly do you "suck balls" and what are the benefits? I looked through everyone's questions, and I didn't see this one.
"Ball," or testicle, sucking can cover a number of mouth-to-scrotum activities (the scrotum being the sack of skin containing the testes). Except for the biting, chewing, and swallowing, it could be likened to eating a lollipop: a sucker might put her/his mouth around one or both of a partner's balls, licking, tugging, and even nibbling in a way that's pleasurable to all involved. Because the genitalia are full of sensitive nerves and tissue, testicle tasting and other oral sex entrees need to be done with care and clear communication.
Sucking and tongue action can be combined with hot breaths, as well as blowing cool streams of air, which can provide additional sensation and drying. Alternating from one ball to the other can also suffice as some men may feel more sensation in one testicle versus the other. It's also common for one testicle to hang down further than the other, so this, too, might dictate which side gets sucked. And because temperature affects how high or low the "fruit" will hang, testicle-sucking sessions may vary in look and feel.
Shifting the focus for a minute to the sucker, s/he might have a one or two ball preference. This could be determined by the pleasure, or lack thereof, felt from a "full mouth," and/or the need for more breathing room. As with other sexual play involving the mouth, stray pubic hair can also be on the menu; for those who find this natural occurrence distasteful, a quick rinse and spit with water should do the trick. Some men and women shave some or all of their pubic hair to prevent hair loss during sex, among other things.
Although having a lollipop may never be the same again, practicing ball-sucking on one — whether or not you ever decide to try the real thing — can also help to answer your questions. NOTE: four out of five dentists would probably disagree with this advice.
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People have been fixated on the act of auto-fellatio for thousands of years—and a handful have succeeded.
For a concept that seems fringe to many, it is surprising how often auto-fellatio (the technical term for sucking your own dick) pops up in modern culture. It shows up in movies like Clerks (1993) as both a male aspiration and a punchline. An aspiration because it is supposedly a near-mythic holy grail of uncomplicated solo pleasure— thus the old quip : if I could do that, I’d never (need to) leave my house . A punchline because, as male sexuality educator and clinical medical assistant Paul Nelson explains, “you can’t find anyone else to suck your dick so you have to do it yourself.”
It gets thrown around in common speech, like when in 2017 short-lived White House communications director Anthony Scaramucci denigrated Steve Bannon to a reporter as “ trying to suck his own cock .” It’s a frequent topic of discussion in sex and sexuality columns and talk shows; Dan Savage has been fielding questions about it for years. It even features in fine art, like Kiki Smith’s 1993 New York gallery-featured beeswax sculpture “ Mother/Child .”
Clearly we are, as a culture, low-key obsessed with the act of sucking our own dicks. But how long, exactly, has the West been fixated on—openly acknowledged and made frequent cultural and conversational use of—auto-fellatio? And why has the concept gained so much traction in our popular imaginations? We recently set out to find answers, scouring historical and cultural records and speaking to a wide range of experts in order to build a brief yet comprehensive history of our cultural relationship to and fascination with “self sucking” (as some who practice or idolize the act call it).
Humans, everyone I spoke to for this piece agreed, have likely been thinking about and attempting auto-fellatio since the dawn of our species.
The assumption often runs that anyone who, historically or in the modern era, thinks about or tries to fellate himself likely did so out of homoerotic urges. For some people throughout history, this has likely been the motive. Al Eingang, a contortionist known as “the King of the Self-Suck” since he started performing auto-fellatio in adult films in the 1980s, tells me that he got started in puberty in part because “I already knew I wanted to suck cock, and mine was right there, waiting to be sucked.” Social pressures against homosexual acts could, writer Jesse Bering argued in Slate eight years back, have historically nudged men towards it as a form of isolated, safe sexual exploration.
But auto-fellatio has never, the experts I’ve spoken to again all agreed, been exclusively or even primarily motivated by homoerotic impulses. Instead, men (regardless of sexuality) have likely stumbled into the act for millennia thanks to a mixture of curiosity, physiology, and, as Eingang puts it, “the creative, adventurous spirit that horniness can bring out in us.” Sex counselor Eric Garrison notes that many men today tell him the thought of sucking their own dicks crossed their minds when, as youths, bending over or stretching and realizing how close their penises were to their mouths. As “people are always looking for ways to make solitary sex better,” says Garrison, some men have likely always taken this fleeting thought and run with it—or at least tried to do so.
Physiological happenstance may also explain, in part, why we don’t talk or think as much about auto-cunnilingus, or women eating themselves out. As Eingang points out, it would take more flexibility for women to achieve this than men. Nelson also credits this disparity to the fact that men tend to be obsessed with our penises and many view them (erroneously) as our only erogenous zones, while many women are not as solely fixated on their vulvas and therefore may not be as primed to entertain the thought or tempted to try it out. Sex therapist Dulcinea Pitagora argues that society has long suppressed—and still all too often suppress—female sexual pleasure while it worships the male penis. This may have historically suppressed awareness or reports of, or interest in, auto-cunnilingus among women. At least some women have likely attempted this since the dawn of history too, though.
Regardless of how long men have been thinking about, trying, or engaging in auto-fellatio, the first documented depictions of auto-fellatio show up in ancient Egyptian texts from about 2,500 to 3,000 years ago. In one story , the ancient Egyptian god of creation, Atum, produces his children by sucking himself off and spitting out his own semen. Images depict other gods engaging in what appears to be auto-fellatio supposedly to depict their potency, fertility, and self-sustaining powers.
These depictions don’t mean that ancient Egyptians were thinking often, speaking openly about, or engaging in auto-fellatio. Gods did what gods did in accordance with their nature to maintain order in the cosmos. But at least we know that they were familiar with the core concept of self-sucking.
Auto-fellatio doesn’t seem to pop up again until the 100s C.E., in the writings of the Anatolian Greek dream diviner Artemidorus Daldianus . He describes the act as a form of deviance on par with bestiality and necrophilia, and claims that dreaming of kissing the tip of your penis would portend the birth of children, or return of kids who’ve been away from home. Dreaming of sucking it, however, portended the death of one’s children, the loss of the women in one’s life—as Michel Foucault put it in his analysis of Daldianus’s writings, “for one does not need women when one can gratify oneself”—or impending poverty.
This lines up with the contemporary Roman view that, as Ian Moulton explains it, receiving oral sex was fine, but performing it was shameful. That doesn’t tell us much about whether people actually performed auto-fellatio. But it does point to the fact that, at least in the elite cultures that wrote history, it would have been seen as an especially shameful act, and so not one likely to receive much contemporary mention or historical attention.
The first real evidence that people had auto-fellatio on their conscious minds seems to show up between about 1000 and 1400 CE, in Christian architecture (of all places) and medieval literature. “Figures appear on a good number of churches, mainly in France , Spain, and Germany,” but often in England as well , explains historian Ruth Evans , that sure seem to depict men bending down or flipping their legs over their heads to suck themselves. Most of these carvings have not been extensively studied; no one is even sure if the most famous one of them, from the Cologne City Hall , is genuinely medieval or a very convincing fake installed by a cheeky restorer during repairs to the city after World War II.
But they show up often enough alongside images of anal sex, bestiality, and masturbation to suggest that local churches and writers were using these images as reminders for their parishioners of known but non-procreative and as such immoral acts to avoid.
Popular medieval literature and sketches may also contain coded references to people engaging in auto-fellatio that we just aren’t hip to today. Evans points out that there is an argument that images of boars playing bagpipes , an instrument that some medieval churchmen apparently viewed as sexually tinged, are “an oblique-reference to auto-fellatio.” In one telling scene sketched into the margins of a 15 th century text by an English scribe, she notes, a jester to the right of the piping boar “is clasping his chest with one hand and cupping-squeezing his genitals with the other.”
It’s tempting to read into the piping boars, and the grotesque nature of some of the auto-fellatio carvings on churches, and conclude that our medieval ancestors viewed the act like many do today: a sexual practice that would occur to many, yet read as marginal or taboo to most (thanks to the church), and that could be used both to impress and astound (the jester clasping his hart and junk) and to provoke a good laugh (… boars). But it is difficult to know whether that is a fair reading.
However Medieval Europeans might have viewed or referred to auto-fellatio, by the early modern era, non-procreative sex basically disappears from the historical record, notes Moulton. And in the stringently sexually repressed Victorian era, some argue that explorers, scholars, and everyday Europeans gallivanting around the world may have done their damnedest to destroy earlier records of auto-fellatio, leading in part to the paucity of the historical record. But even if auto-fellatio couldn’t bubble into the popular consciousness then the same way it does today, there are some signs that people were still thinking about it—in ways that feel very familiar. In 1902 , for instance, a year after the death of Queen Victoria, someone first recorded the bawdy version of the limerick “There Once Was A Man From Nantucket,” the mother lode of self sucking cultural references.
About 25 years later, we finally
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