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The first thing I’m going to do is make sure you all know this word: Autonomy.
independence or freedom, as of the will or one’s actions
You think it’s strange that I’m teaching a word that means freedom?
Of course it’s strange, but that’s what I’m doing. I will tell you now that there was a slave who told me once that the difference between the three was how much love they get from their Master/Mistress.
The real difference between a Pet, sub and slave is their Autonomy.
Each of the three have a Master, or need one. Each of them know their place and may be punished accordingly when they are out of line.
Pets have a great deal of Autonomy, depending on the Master they may have anywhere from 80-99% free reign, though they know they can be called at any time, for any purpose. With such freedom, can come Responsibility too. The responsibility to occupy ones own time when their Master is occupied.
A sub has some Autonomy though not nearly as much, perhaps 40-60% depending on the Master. As with a Pet, even though the sub could be in the middle of something, it must respond to the call of it’s Master. It is also easier for a sub to manage it’s own time while it’s Master is occupied because the Master of a sub is responsible for giving it enough to do to not worry about it.
A slave, by definition, has no Autonomy whatsoever. Its only desire is to fulfill every wish, every whim, of it’s Master. A Master looking for a slave, must therefore dedicate himself to managing his girls time very well.
So the slave is not free to do anything on its own then?
The slave is expected to have no desires except to obey their master.
A slave is only as free as her owner allows. But her most important thing is to serve her owner first always. Pets and sub’s have more freedom then a slave. But all should please their owner and in return the owner must make them feel whole and desirable
The owner controls the sub/ slave with love, making them feel loved and needed too. The slave gives herself freely to her owner and trusts that their owner has their best interest.
In ones heart all three are submissives. A slave depends on the master to govern her, guide her into knowing what her Master wants. Once the slave does learn what is wanted, there is usually the ability to act pro-actively to please him.
But a master who takes a pet knows they’re getting someone who might want to go shopping for a bikini she thinks her master would like, independent of being ordered to shop. A pet, sub or slave that does not desire their masters happiness is doing it Wrong, period.
Now let’s look at what you can expect from various Masters. A Master looking for a fucktoy to use whenever the mood strikes would be looking for a what?
A pet…cause we said whenever the mood strikes..leaves the girl time to go out shopping after hes done. A master looking for an on demand fucktoy doesn’t want to micro-manage the girl. She’d be expected to keep herself from getting bored.
A pet, sub or slave expects to be used at any time. But the question asked about a master that ONLY wants a fucktoy… He doesn’t want to give her Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc. to do when he’s not using her for his pleasure.
The Master of a slave, If he’s doing it right, knows that his girl depends on him to fill her time for her.
The Master of a slave who doesn’t micro manage, ends up with a bored ass girl who eventually becomes a runaway.
Similarly, the Master of a Pet who is too controlling is encouraging rebellion.
Your desire for autonomy vs. being given things to do can fluctuate… You may offer yourself as a pet today, then wish to be more closely directed later..

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On Saturdays I answer questions from my readers or respond to frequent web searches. A friend of mine who is new to BDSM asked this question.
What is the different between a sub and a slave? What is a pet?
A slave is someone who has a serious commitment, for some people equal in importance to a spouse. It usually means that the couple have spent a lot of time together, figured out that their needs match, and have entered into an extremely intense relationship with “24/7” kink frequently involved.
The slave’s Master probably gave a collar to the submissive to signify their bond, which is often worn all the time. In some circles, like the traditional leather community, there are multiple levels of collar from a simple token of consideration for further training, through an intermediate level signifying serious commitment, all the way up to the final slave collar.
Submissive is a more generic term, meaning someone who takes the “bottom” half of the power exchange dynamic. If you hear someone say “I am Joseph’s sub,” all you know is that they sometimes play together with Joseph in the dominant role. They might be casual play partners or they might be involved in a relationship of any level of commitment from dating to significant others.
Pet is even more informal — in the case of my pet, who I refer to here often, she is something like a slave in training. I have given her an anklet which signifies she is under consideration for a more permanent collar. While it is not the case for us, pet may imply that the power exchange involve pet play like puppy play or kitty play. Pet play is a kind of objectification play where the often-submissive partner acts as a domesticated pet, either through pure roleplaying or by wearing pet collars, dog hoods, puppy paw gloves, or even cat-eye blindfolds.
In a nutshell, slave is a formal title, submissive is a class of people and pet is somewhere between a title and a term of endearment. At a festival I once insulted a dominant woman by assuming her personal air conditioning device was a collar — and just like that accessory, the only way to know the definition which applies to a particular relationship is to ask the people involved.
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This is a guest post by SkylerPet. She has written a
Pet Play Primer on this site and answered a question I sent her from a reader about what a human pet is.

Pet play is something I’ve spoken of before and enjoy engaging in myself. For many though, they’d like to be pets, just not animals. With small changes pet play it very easily be changed to being a human pet rather than an animal pet.

When you’re in a Dominance and submission relationship, being owned and collared really would be the first step, as pets typically are seen as being owned. You certainly do not have to be permanently owned; simply be your Owner’s pet when your collar is on and return to being your usual self when your collar is off.

However, the question really could be; how can you be your Owner’s pet without being an animal? Well, one big thing would be to have your collar not be an animal’s collar. There are many stores
where you can get human-sized collars , many that still include a D or O ring so you can have a leash if your Owner so chooses.

Also, things such as limited mobility, limited speaking ability, and even limiting bathroom privileges are ways to act more pet-like. Other things you could do to enhance pet play are:

All you need is your creativity so that things such as these work just humanize them. For example, a trick you could learn could be something sexual, or perhaps a dance you do for your Owner when S/He says a specific word. You could crawl instead of walk, eat off the floor, or any other number of things.

Being a human pet is merely being a pet without including any specific animal traits. So no barking or meowing, no ears or tails, treats that are human treats rather than animal treats. Animal pets are trained in the behaviors their Owner wants them to have. They often are taught tricks, have toys, typically a bed or small pet house and are punished if they misbehave. In my opinion, it’s the tricks, toys, and more playfulness that puts you into the category of pet. Of course, this is my opinion. You are what your Owner says you are and wants you to be.

There are so many different nuances to being a human pet. Make sure you explore the variety before you begin creating the human pet of your dreams.

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Skylerpet is a 24/7 submissive pup in her late 20′s. She has been into pet play since she discovered the D/s lifestyle and can be reached at: requiemskye@yahoo.com for emails and also YIM chat.
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