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Monthly, weekly or daily tasks and chores for submissives, what are they for and why do Dominants implement them ?
Remember that a Task or assignment should have a purpose. So it might be fun for a Dominant to watch yu doing something you hate, but is that task going to help you improve in a specific way ?
Tasks can be daily check-ins at specific times by text, email, phone, etc, maintaining respect when addressing the Dominant, wearing your collar at specific times or 24/7, completing a submissive worksheet or written assignments. For many submissive’s keeping a checklist or completing daily tasks is a great way to make sure you are staying on track and meeting your Dominant’s standards, giving you a boost of confidence and allowing you to hone your submissive skills.
Within a D/s relationship it is not entirely unheard of for the Dominant to set various task and chores for the submissive. These tasks can range over a wide area of activities. From domestic chores or sexual ones to tasks designed to enhance the submissive service or their well-being, either physical or mental.
In order to properly execute daily tasks and assignments in a D/s relationship the Dominant first has to trust the submissive to follow the set rules and be responsible to follow through. For those in a long distance relationship you may have to rely completely on their word of completion, but there are some ways for long distance relationships to complete tasks in a way that both parties are involved and there is email and IM and camera’s, sending photos as proof.
There are two different tasks : repetitive and non repetitive
The non repetitive task could be something like “write an essay exploring the need for sensory deprivation in all its facets.” This would enable the submissive to pour all her thoughts into something that can be used further on in the relationship.
A repetitive task, well to keep it close to home; “write a blog every week.” But also housework would fall under the repetitive tasks that can be set by a Dominant. The advantage of a repetitive task would be that it gives the submissive structure, and enables them to plan ahead. They know what is expected of them and what is coming when.
Be sure to go over the rules and tasks with your Dominant and make any changes right away so that both of you are comfortable with the amount of daily tasks and the consequences for not completing them. If you are ever uncomfortable with a punishment, be sure to bring that up during negotiations and not when you’re in the middle of the punishment. Keep in mind how often you want to test your limits and what you are physically and mentally capable of.
While there are many reasons for a Dominant to set tasks for their submissive is basically boils down to two reasons :
The first and foremost is : Because they want it, and reason number two : See reason number one.
While this sounds rather funny, perhaps even flippant, let’s have a closer look.
“Because a Dominant wants things”, yes this sounds easy. But only without examining the reasons why they want this. If and when, these reasons are taken into account, then it becomes understandable that this simple reason behold more than its fair share of truths.
Among the reasons they want to do this could be various motivations, the most obvious one : Because this makes their life more comfortable or better. The Dominant provides the funding and entrusts this to the submissive. The submissive in turn keeps the Dominant appraised of the situation. The result is that the Dominant no longer has to worry about this and can relax knowingly that this will be taken care of.
A more real life example of the above could be as earlier mentioned that the Dominant wants the submissive to take care of all the domestic chores in and around the house. Such as cleaning and making dinner. This to make their shared lives easier.
Another reason would be to take care of the relationship.
Having tasks set, both repetitive and individual tasks, helps to give the submissive order in their lives as well as direct challenges to push themselves and prove themselves to their Dominant.
Aside from taking care of the relationship the Dominant has also the included responsibility to take care of the submissive as a person. This can be done by enabling the submissive t grow. Tasks are one of the many tools available to the Dominants arsenal that can help both the Dominant and the submissive in exploring new ways for the submissive to grow. Good tasks in this respect are the writing of essays in which the Dominant asks the submissive to explore and subject in depth and from all angles. This can be either a totally new area to both or seeing if the submissive has understood all the ins and outs of a certain situation and has learned the appropriate lesson.
So what are these kinds of tasks that can be set for a submissive ? On top of my head the following ideas come quickly to mind. I am sure there are many others and that the tasks lists below can be endlessly narrowed down into many sub-tasks but I feel that listing the main categories as it were will at least give a basis to work on like writing essays, blogging, writing a journal, housework, domestic chores, sexual tasks and exercise.
However when all tasks are done one of the more important tasks starts, the dominant having to check that the work has been executed according to the expected standards. This is where in part the caring for both the relationship and for the well being of the submissive comes into play.
The only question that remains answering or perhaps examining in this case is what to do and how to deal if the bar is raised to high ? What if the Dominants demands on you are too high ? There are so many things we can do in a day and even for the most outgoing extrovert will need time in contempltion, or just some old fashioned alone time.
Problems within relationships may arise when the demands on the submissive for their service will start to outweigh their advantages and the submissive feels like all they do is slave away without gaining any of the short term or perceivable long term rewards. As the popular saying goes : “All work and no play .”
The problem with this situation is that the submissive most likely will accept the demands on their time right up till the point of breaking then the submissive may suddenly lash out and proclaim that they either won’t have the time or they will need time to themselves. Such behaviour while understandable is often destructive in nature, and Dominants can be forgiven for reacting in a manner as they could feel the core/basis of their relationship being challenged. However such a reaction is often ironically enough counter productive. The best way for a Dominant to react is to remain calm and open the issue up for communication. Find out what the issue is. This could be indeed that the submissive feels overloaded or that the submissive has simply misunderstood the nature of the task and the time involved.
Communication is one of the best tools a Dominant can have at their disposal. Along with patience, a keen mind. Talk to your submissive, find out the problem and correct it. This may at times mean the Dominant needs to revise her schedule or to drop her task completely for the time being.
then there are unpleasant chores this can include things such as cleaning the stove, cleaning blinds and windows, scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush, detailing a car, tec. The Dominant can make a list of chores and rotate through them to avoid re-clearing a recently cleaned item. Chores assigned as punishments should not include chores that are part of the submisssive’s normal duties. It is important to distinguish normal chores from “punishments chores” or the submissive may start to view all chores as punishment.
I think from the above it can be safely concluded that tasks and assigned chores within a D/s relationship can be a wonderful and useful addition to build a D/s relationship an d keep the submissive busy in a useful way. We have also seen that despite our desire to serve, that it is worth to keep a firm check that submissive’s are not overloaded with work.
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“If you are ever uncomfortable with a punishment, be sure to bring that up during negotiations and not when you’re in the middle of the punishment.” Although, obviously, you should discuss something during negotiation if you immediately know you’re not comfortable with it, you have to realize how extremely fucked up it is to say that someone shouldn’t express discomfort with something at any point. Kink is separated from toxic or abusive behavior only by the presence of enthusiastic, ongoing consent. Period, full stop. It doesn’t matter what the activity is, it doesn’t matter how long people have been together — the second consent does not exist, the activity must stop. discomfort, lack of certainty, etc. all should count as moments when the dominant partner should stop and check in, not just barrel ahead and assume their partner feels comfortable enough to revoke consent. This article is poorly written overall, so I assume this is just the result of shitty writing and not because the author actually believes someone who is taking on a submissive role doesn’t have the right to revoke consent, but holy shit you’re writing an article that purports to be a guide on tasks and chores. you should hold yourself to a better standard

https://delightfullydomesticatedblog.wordpress.com/2015/09/29/our-domestic-discipline-rules-for-submissive/
https://blogger32928463.wordpress.com/2020/06/30/what-are-tasks-and-chores/
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