Straight Guys In Bondage

Straight Guys In Bondage
Plus, a bi-curious female navigates a new relationship, and a straight man wonders about the term “bear.”

How does one get into the gay BDSM bottoming and leather scene?

“Eighty percent of success is just showing up,” someone or other once said. The adage applies to romantic/sexual success as well as professional success, SACK, but showing up easily accounts for 90 percent of success in the BDSM/leather/fetish scene. Because if you aren’t showing up in kink spaces — online or IRL — your fellow kinksters won’t be able to find or bind you. But you don’t have to take my word for it…

“The leather scene is a diverse place with tons of outlets and avenues, depending on how you navigate your life and learn,” said Amp from Watts the Safeword ( WattstheSafeword.com ), a kink and sex-ed website and YouTube channel. “When I was first getting started, I found a local leather contingent that held monthly bar nights and discussion groups that taught classes for kinksters at any level. It provided an easy way into the community, and it helped me meet new people, make new friends, and find trustworthy play partners. If you’re a tad shy and work better online, these contingents have Facebook groups or FetLife pages you can join. And YouTube has a channel for everyone in the kink spectrum from gay to straight to trans to nonbinary and beyond!”

“ Recon.com is a great option for gay men,” said Metal from the gay male bondage website MetalbondNYC.com . “It’s a site where you can create a profile, window-shop for a play buddy, and ‘check his references.’ Even better, if you can, go to a public event like IML, MAL, or CLAW, or to a play party like the New York Bondage Club, where you can participate in a monitored space with other people around, or just watch the action. Don’t forget the motto ‘safe, sane, and consensual,’ and be sure to have a safe word! And if you do want to explore bondage, take precautions. Never get tied up in your own home by someone you don’t know. If you go to his or her place, always tell a trusted friend where you are going. And when hooking up online, never use Craigslist.”

“Be cautious,” said Ruff of Ruff’s Stuff blog. “There are people out there who view ‘kink newbies’ as prey. Anytime anyone — top or bottom — wants to rush into a power-exchange scene, that’s a red flag. Always get to know a person first.”

I’m a 28-year-old bi-curious female, and I ended a three-year straight LTR a month ago. It’s been tough — my ex is a great guy, and causing him pain has been a loss on top of my own loss, but I know I did the right thing. Among other things, our sex life was bland and we had infrequent sex at best. Now I want to experiment, explore non-monogamy, and have crazy and fulfilling sex with whoever tickles my fancy. I met a new guy two weeks ago, and the sex is incredible. We also immediately clicked and became friends. The problem? I suspect he wants a romantic relationship. He says he’s open to my terms — open/fuck-buddy situation — but things have quickly become relationship-ish. I like him, but I can’t realistically picture us being a good LTR match. I am sick of hurting people! Any advice?

— Hoping Open Peaceful Experiences Feel Unlike Loss

If “someone might get hurt” is the standard you’re going to apply to all future relationships — if it’s a deal breaker — then you shouldn’t date or fuck anyone else ever again, HOPEFUL, because there’s always a chance someone is going to get hurt. There’s no intimate human connection, sexual or otherwise, that doesn’t leave us open to hurting or being hurt.

So fuck this guy, HOPEFUL, on your own terms — but don’t be too quick to dismiss the possibility of an LTR. Great sex and a good friendship make up a solid foundation. You’re aware that non-monogamous relationships are an option — and couples can explore non-monogamy together. If you can have this guy and have your sexual adventures, too — this could be the start of something big.

I’m wondering about the application of the term “bear” to a straight man, such as myself. I’m a bigger guy with a lot of body hair and a beard. I love that in the gay community there is a cute term for guys like me reflecting body positivity. Would it be okay for me to refer to myself as a bear or, as a highly privileged straight cis male, do I need to accept the fact that I can’t have everything and maybe leave something alone for fucking once?

— Hetero Ape Inquiring Respectfully, Yup

“If you want to be a bear, BE A BEAR!” said Brendan Mack, an organizing member of XL Bears ( XLBears.org ), a social group for bears and their admirers. “DO YOU! There isn’t anything appropriative about a straight guy using the term ‘bear’ to describe himself — it’s a body type, it’s a lifestyle, and it’s celebrating yourself. Gay, straight, hairy, smooth, fat, muscled — bear is a state of mind. It’s body acceptance. It’s acceptance of who you are. So, if you want to be a bear, WELCOME TO THE WOODS!”

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On the Web Since 1998 • Over 2,000 Scenes
Did you want to be the one who captured Alias Smith and Jones , or the BeastMaster ?
Have you always wanted to be
tied up like The Dukes of Hazzard ,
or Supernatural's Winchester brothers?
If so, enjoy these video stills from my collection of
guys tied up or bound in movies and TV shows.

Kelly Blatz and Martin Roach in Aaron Stone "Face-Off"
Dan Stevens and Bill Milner in Apostle (2018)
Robbie Amell, Gray Powell and others in Arq (2016)
Ashton Holmes and Paul Moniz de Sa in Arrow "Doppelganger"
Stephen Amell and David Meunier in Arrow "Kapiushon"
Stephen Amell and others in Arrow "Missing"
Stephen Amell, John Barrowman and David Ramsey in Arrow "Nanda Parbat"
Colton Haynes, Duncan Ollerenshaw and Peter Benson in Arrow "Salvation"
David Ramsey and Ernie Hudson in Arrow "Spartan"
Ben Lewis and Colton Haynes in Arrow "Star City Slayer"
Stephen Amell and Dylan Bruce in Arrow "State v. Queen"
Stephen Amell and Seth Gabel in Arrow "Unfinished Business"
Charlie Hofheimer in Betrayed (2014)
Bob Odenkirk, Daniel Spenser Levine and Steven Levine in Better Call Saul "Mijo"
Jeremy Sumpter and others in Billionaire-Ransom (2016)
Jeffrey Donovan and Kenny Johnson in Burn Notice "Desperate Measures"
Graham Shiels and Matthew Humphreys in Burn Notice "Do No Harm"
Kristof Konrad and Daniel Joseph Wilson in Burn Notice "Friends Like These"
Jeffrey Donovan, Coby Bell and Henri Lubatti in Burn Notice "Hard Out"
Jeffrey Donovan and others in Burn Notice "No Good Deed"
Frank Licari and Jordan Werner in Burn Notice "Scorched Earth"
Sergio Peris-Mencheta, Adrian Lamana and Manuel Martinez in Capitán Trueno y el Santo Grial (2011)
Nathan Fillion and Eddie McClintock in Castle "For Better or Worse"
Seamus Dever and Jon Huertas in Castle "Knockdown"
Derek Krantz, Brett Weinstock and Jared Kusnitz in Castle "Meme Is Murder"
Ryan Phillippe in Catch Hell (2014)
Michael Fassbender in Centurion (2010)
Zachary Levi and Jonathan Cake in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Beefcake"
Zachary Levi and Ryan McPartlin in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Broken Heart"
Zachary Levi and Adam Baldwin in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Couch Lock"
Zachary Levi and Ryan McPartlin in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Curse"
Zachary Levi and Gary Cole in Chuck "Chuck vs. the DeLorean"
Zachary Levi and Adam Baldwin in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Sensei"
Thomas Anthony Jones and others in Criminal Minds "Flesh and Blood"
Lance Gross, Dermot Mulroney and Adam Scott Miller in Crisis "Best Laid Plans"
Richard Coyle and Chris Perfetti in Crossbones "The Devil's Dominion"
Logan Marshall-Green in Damnation "One Penny"
Micah McNeil, Mickey Dolan, Alan Trong and Jon LeVert in Daybreak "Schmuck Bait!"
David Tennant and John Simm in Doctor Who "The End of Time"
Shane West and Elden Henson in El Dorado "Temple of the Sun"
Aaron Gaffey and Devin Barry in Dust Up (2012)
Scott Eastwood and Shaun Sipos in Enter Nowhere (2011)
Adrien Brody and others in The Experiment (2010)
Vin Diesel and Paul Walker in Fast Five (2011)
Michael Steger in Fatal Flip (2015)
Geoff Stults and Ian Reed Kesler in The Finder "A Cinderella Story"
Grant Gustin, Stephen Amell and Franz Drameh in The Flash "Crisis on Earth-X, Part 3"
Grant Gustin and Stephen Amell in The Flash "Elseworlds, Part 1"
Nicholas Gonzalez and Carlos Valdes in The Flash "Rogue Time"
Shawn Ashmore and Todd Ryan Jones in The Following "The Curse"
Kevin Bacon, James Purefoy and others in The Following "Evermore"
Kevin Bacon and James Purefoy in The Following "Forgive"
Kevin Bacon and Michael Ealy in The Following "The Reckoning"
Ioan Gruffudd and Jason Babinsky in Forever "The Ecstasy of Agony"
Sean Faris and others in Freerunner (2011)
Adam Devine, Anders Holm, Blake Anderson and Utkarsh Ambudkar in Game Over, Man! (2018)
Craig Robinson and Adam Scott in Ghosted "Pilot"
Ben McKenzie, Robin Lord Taylor and others in Gotham "All Happy Families Are Alike"
Ben McKenzie, David Mazouz and John Bedford Lloyd in Gotham "I Am Bane"
Ben McKenzie and Brian McManamon in Gotham "A Legion of Horribles"
Ben McKenzie and Cameron Monaghan in Gotham "No Man's Land"
Ben McKenzie and Robin Lord Taylor in Gotham "Penguin, Our Hero"
Peter Mayer-Klepchick, Cameron Duckett and others in Groupers (2019)
Bradley Cooper, Ed Helms, Zach Galifianakis and Justin Bartha in The Hangover Part III (2013)
Scott Caan and Daniel Dae Kim in Hawaii Five-0 "Pono Kaulike"
Alex O'Loughlin, Scott Caan and Daniel Dae Kim in Hawaii Five-0 "Ua Malo'o Ka Wai"
Darri Ingolfsson in He's Watching (2018)
Rick Malambri, Jermaine Williams, Dov Tiefenbach and Anand Desai-Barochia in A Holiday Heist (2011)
Donald Faison, John Legend and Andy Roddick in Hollywood Game Night "He Said, She Said"
Mike Colter, Chris Hardwick, David Walton and Xzibit in Hollywood Game Night "Playing Hardwick to Get"
Jason Ritter, Adam Rodriguez and Colton Dunn in Hollywood Game Night "Pop Goes the Game Night"
Brian Hallisay, Skyler Stone, John Hensley and Kip Pardue in Hostel: Part III (2011)
Robert Downey Jr. in Iron Man 3 (2013)
Thomas Cadrot, Chris Cochrane, Julien Hyacinthe and Morgan Derera in iZombie "Thug Death"
Robert Buckley and Rob Knepper in iZombie "The Whopper"
Jason Statham and Matt Nable in Killer Elite (2011)
Taron Egerton and Edward Holcroft in Kingsman: The Secret Service (2014)
Adam Baldwin, Steven Culp and others in The Last Ship "Honor"
Kellan Lutz and Liam McIntyre in The Legend of Hercules (2014)
Brandon Routh and Dominic Purcell in Legends of Tomorrow "Fail-Safe"
Seann William Scott in Lethal Weapon "Bali"
Damon Wayans, Seann William Scott and Burton Perez in Lethal Weapon "Need to Know"
Jake McDorman and Andrei Arlovski in Limitless "Brian Finch's Black Op"
Duane Henry and Sanjeev Bhaskar in London Boulevard (2010)
Johnny Depp and Armie Hammer in The Lone Ranger (2013)
Tom Ellis and Timothy Omundson in Lucifer "God Johnson"
Lucas Till and George Eads in MacGyver "DIY or DIE"
Lucas Till and George Eads in MacGyver "Fish Scaler"
Assaf Cohen and David Dastmalchian in MacGyver "Hole Puncher"
Lucas Till and George Eads in MacGyver "Hook"
Lucas Till, George Eads and Justin Hires in MacGyver "Jet Engine Plus Pickup Truck"
Gethin Anthony and Arliss Howard in Manhunt "Don't Tread on Me"
Dylan Bruce, Peter Mensah, Jason Lewis and Francois Arnaud in Midnight, Texas "Patience Is a Virtue"
Jason Lewis, Peter Mensah and Dylan Bruce in Midnight, Texas "Yasss, Queen"
Armie Hammer and Robert Emms in Mirror Mirror (2012)
Sean Patrick Flanery, Nate Rubin and Matthew Tompkins in Mongolian Death Worm (2010)
Jeremy Allen White in Movie 43 (2013)
Chris O'Donnell, LL Cool J and Brian Letscher in NCIS: Los Angeles "Ambush"
LL Cool J and Eric Christian Olsen in NCIS: Los Angeles "Ascension"
Chris O'Donnell and Gene Farber in NCIS: Los Angeles "No More Secrets"
Rob Kerkovich and Jacob Miller in NCIS: New Orleans "Escape Plan"
Scott Bakula and Steven Weber in NCIS: New Orleans "Father's Day"
Lucas Black and Rob Kerkovich in NCIS: New Orleans "Reckoning"
Christopher Meyer and Austin Cauldwell in NCIS: New Orleans "Sins of the Father"
Darryl Dougherty in Night Vision (2011)
Josh Dallas and Colin O'Donoghue in Once upon a Time "Birth"
Colin O'Donoghue, Andrew J. West and Chris Gauthier in Once upon a Time "Breadcrumbs"
Andrew J. West and Kip Pardue in Once upon a Time "Chosen"
Scott Michael Foster in Once upon a Time "Fall"
Bob Morley and Chuku Modu in The 100 "Ashes to Ashes"
Bob Morley, Christopher Larkin and others in The 100 "Demons"
Bob Morley, Christopher Larkin and Henry Ian Cusick in The 100 "Fallen"
Bob Morley and Thomas McDonell in The 100 "The 48"
Ricky Whittle and Colin Lawrence in The 100 "Human Trials"
Bob Morley and Brad Bergeron in The 100 "A Lie Guarded"
Richard Harmon in The 100 "Thirteen"
Charles Michael Davis and Jedidiah Goodacre in The Originals "There in the Disappearing Light"
J. Lee and Loren Lester in The Orville "Majority Rule"
Jake Stormoen and Anand Desai-Barochia in The Outpost "The Dragman Is Coming"
Jake Stormoen and Anand Desai-Barochia in The Outpost "The Vex Rezicon"
Finn Cole, Joe Cole and Paul Anderson in Peaky Blinders "The Noose"
Kevin Chapman and Ryan O'Nan in Person of Interest "Wingman"
Philip Winchester in The Player "Ante Up"
James Roday Rodriguez in Psych "Shawn Interrupted"
Dulé Hill and James Roday Rodriguez in Psych "Ferry Tale"
Dulé Hill and James Roday Rodriguez in Psych "Yang 3 in 2D"
Dulé Hill, James Roday Rodriguez, John Cena and Sean Rogerson in Psych "You Can't Handle This Episode"
Peyton Wich and Matt Shively in The Purge "Before the Sirens"
Tate Ellington and Jake McLaughlin in Quantico "Cover"
Jake McLaughlin in Quantico "Guilty"
Blair Underwood in Quantico "KUMONK"
Luke Roberts and Anthony Howell in Ransom "The Client"
Brandon Jay McLaren, Eddie-Joe Robinson and Shawn Doyle in Ransom "The Fawn"
Michael Angarano, Kyle Gallner, Nicholas Braun and Cooper Thornton in Red State (2011)
Torrance Coombs in Reign "Monsters"
Graham Rogers, Mark Pellegrino and Billy Burke in Revolution "No Quarter"
K.J. Apa, Hart Denton and Graham Phillips in Riverdale "Chapter Thirty-Two: Prisoners"
Robin Dunne and Ryan Robbins in Sanctuary "Hollow Men"
Jonathon Young and Robin Dunne in Sanctuary "Sleepers"
Aaron Ashmore and Stefen Hayes in The Shrine (2010)
Justin Hartley and Aaron Ashmore in Smallville "Beast"
Justin Hartley and Alan Ritchson in Smallville "Patriot"
Neil Patrick Harris in The Smurfs (2011)
Dominic Monaghan, Ving Rhames, James Cromwell and Sean Bean in Soldiers of Fortune (2012)
Michael Cudlitz and Anthony Ruivivar in Southland "Chaos"
Sullivan Stapleton and Philip Winchester in Strike Back "Episode 13"
Justice Leak and Nick Hunnings in Supergirl "Ahimsa"
Mike Mizanin, Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Beyond the Mat"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Caged Heat"
Jensen Ackles and Dustin Schwartz in Supernatural "Captives"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Hibbing 911"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Mamma Mia"
Misha Collins and Tahmoh Penikett in Supernatural "Meta Fiction"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Thin Lizzie"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "The Thing"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Thinman"
Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki in Supernatural "Wayward Sisters"
Tyler Posey and others in Teen Wolf "De-Void"
Austin Scott and Laurie Kynaston in They Found Hell (2015)
Chris Pine and Tom Hardy in This Means War (2012)
Matt Lanter and Malcolm Barrett in Timeless "Stranded"
Matt Lanter and Malcolm Barrett in Timeless "The Watergate Tape"
Mark Pellegrino and Luke Mitchell in The Tomorrow People "Thanatos"
Mark Pellegrino and Jeffrey Pierce in The Tomorrow People "Kill Switch"
Jared Abrahamson and Reilly Dolman in Travelers "Room 101"
Ryan Kwanten and Noah Matthews in True Blood "Almost Home"
Ryan Kwanten and Alexander Skarsgard in True Blood "I Wish I Was the Moon"
Stephen Moyer and Alexander Skarsgard in True Blood "Authority Always Wins"
Todd Lowe, Scott Foley and Brian Geraghty in True Blood "Let's Boot and Rally"
Sam Trammell and Ryan Kwanten in True Blood "Save Yourself"
Rob Kazinsky and Alexander Skarsgard in True Blood "Don't You Feel Me"
Liam Boyle, Alexander Vlahos and David Oakes in Truth or Die (2012)
Denzel Washington and Mark Wahlberg in 2 Guns (2013)
Andrew Lincoln, Norman Reedus, Steven Yeun, Lawrence Gilliard Jr., Robin Lord Taylor and Chris Coy in The Walking Dead "No Sanctuary"
Steven Yeun, Anthony Guajardo and Andrew Rothenberg in The Walking Dead "Vatos"
James Marsden and Ed Harris in Westworld "The Adversary"
Rodrigo Santoro, Simon Quarterman, Leonardo Nam and Ptolemy Slocum in Westworld "Akane No Mai"
Clifton Collins Jr. in Westworld "Chestnut"
James Marsden, Clifton Collins Jr. and James Landry Hebert in Westworld "Dissonance Theory"
Jeffrey Wright and Luke Hemsworth in Westworld "The Riddle of the Sphinx"
Tyler James Willians, Joe Doyle, Josh Hopkins and Vir Das in Whiskey Cavalier "Czech Mate"
Scott Foley and Tyler James Williams in Whiskey Cavalier "Pilot"
Ed Speleers and Luke Goss in Witchville (2010)
Mathew Baynton, James Corden and Andrew Koji in The Wrong Mans "Bad Mans"
Paul Luebke, Duncan Wisbey and others in Wrong Turn 5 (2012)
Mike Mizanin and Ron Killings in WWE Hell in a Cell (2011)
Nicholas Hoult in Young Ones (2014)

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These are the scenes I like best out of those I've posted on the site so far.
As you've seen, I try to post a wide variety of scenes
as long as there's a guy tied up in them, but these are my favorites.
Some of them are here because I saw them when I was very young and they made a big impression
on me; others push the right buttons for me, or I especially like the actors in them. Everyone's list is different, but
here's mine.

On the Web Since 1998 • Over 2,000 Scenes
Did you want to be the one who captured Alias Smith and Jones , or the BeastMaster ?
Have you always wanted to be
tied up like The Dukes of Hazzard ,
or Supernatural's Winchester brothers?
If so, enjoy these video stills from my collection of
guys tied up or bound in movies and TV shows.

Paul Hough and John McLiam in In Cold Blood (1967)
James Darren and Robert Colbert in The Time Tunnel "Massacre"
Michael Ontkean and Georg Stanford Brown in The Rookies "Cauldron"
Martin Milner and Kent McCord in Adam-12 "Killing Ground"
Wesley Eure and Spencer Milligan in Land of the Lost "The Longest Day"
James Naughton, Ron Harper and Peter G. Skinner in Planet of the Apes "The Liberator"
Michael O'Keefe in Split Image (1982)
Richard Dean Anderson and Richard Coca in MacGyver "Off the Wall"
Mario Lopez and Jeff Stearns in Pacific Blue "Blue Hawaii"
Kevin Connolly and Ethan Suplee in Bad Trip (1999)
Randy Spelling, Zachery Ty Bryan and Jordan Brower in Held for Ransom (2000)
Victor Webster and Vincent Walsh in Mutant X "No Man Left Behind"
Dominic Keating and Connor Trinneer in Enterprise "2 Days and 2 Nights"
Zachary Levi and Ryan McPartlin in Chuck "Chuck vs. the Curse"
Peter Mayer-Klepchick, Cameron Duckett and others in Groupers (2019)

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