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A match of straight man and trans woman is a winner match. The ability of a transgender woman to understand what goes on in her boyfriend’s head in everyday life is crazy. The connection could be perfect, but there’s a big “but…”
In a fantasy world a man and a trans woman can be together. Israeli men like trans women because they fulfill the ultimate fantasy – that you can supposedly go to a bar and ask a trans woman to go home with you to have sex. If she liked the idea she would go with you, and if not you would get a direct answer, without having to spend long hours at the bar ordering drink after drink, trying to make her laugh and show her how cute and charming you are.
In Israel trans women have become objects for casual sex, and I wonder whether it’s our fault or mainly due to the circumstances which were led by men. Is it society that makes it difficult for me to have a relationship?
The ability to enter a relationship with a straight man is difficult because what we want is a straight man willing to say he’s going out with a trans, regardless of her past. It always seemed to me that men would rather go out with a woman who had been in jail than with a trans woman. What does it say about his sexual identity? Is he gay? So the answer is no! Israeli trans women were not “born men.” Yes, you were not born “man” either, you were born male, and like everyone else you have turned into a boy and then you became a man. Most trans women underwent a similar process, from a feminine teen boy, gentle, shy and introverted, into a woman, instead of a man. So I’m sorry to say – no, I never was a man, I don’t know what it means to be a man, I never liked to drink beer or to play soccer. Our need as trans for a relationship is basic. I don’t want to be anyone’s sex doll, I don’t want to be the one you see just for casual sex, because I am a human being with feelings and need to love and be loved.
I had amazing relationships with men – we laughed, we watched movies together, I cooked for us, we drank together, curled up, we had a lot in common and discussions into the night, but it began and ended in the house behind closed doors and in secret. Why must no one know? Why hide me? “You’re lovely, but what if people know about me?” What the hell is there to know ?! That you’re in a relationship with a trans woman? When I began the process of my change I saw myself in a relationship with a man – and having children. Had I known that reality would be like this I could’ve saved years of men-liars one after another., men who tricked me for sex and especially tricked themselves.
I see around me trans friends who are in some form of relationship. I never interfered in other people’s relationships, and it’s none of my business, but for me everything has been different. At some point, I thought that the problem was with me. ‘Maybe I’m too big’ or ‘too different,’ maybe I’m ‘aggressive’ or ‘hard’. But then I discovered that not all trans relationships are perfect. Women often compromise in their relationships because of the need to be loved. When I got into a relationship with a trans man, I thought it would be easier. He’s trans, I’m trans, I told myself. But our love was short term, and we quickly realized that we couldn’t manage to understand each other, and things blew up.
I hope that one day a man will come out in the media, similar perhaps to a celebrity coming out as an LGB or T (though it’s not the same) and say “Yes, I like transgender women, I find them attractive and an upgraded version of woman.” To my knowledge, there are celebrities who like trans women; some of them slept with trans women, but when it leaks out to the media, they are quick to say “I didn’t know she was trans”. Seriously? Come on! Even when she was naked, you didn’t know?
And by the way, gay people are not attracted to trans women. They don’t do it for them, so if you go out with a trans woman, be sure that you are not gay.
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This article is for all men who find transgender persons, ladyboys or transsexual women attractive and who find themselves asking: “Am I gay now?”. We explore the reasons why straight men find trans-women attractive.
For some people with a limited and often transphobic world view, being attracted to a non-cis lady is the same as being homosexual.
However, finding a transgender woman attractive or desirable and being interested in “shemale” dating doesn’t mean that you have to be automatically gay or straight .
Instead, it means that you appreciate that person for whom they are: a woman. Studies have found that the arousal patterns of cisgender men work in response to both cisgender and transgender women, while gay men are only aroused by men.
The bottom line is that if you find yourself attracted to a TS girl, you are unlikely to be a homosexual man.
Instead, you are open enough to allow yourself to establish a genuine connection with an attractive woman , regardless of her past, or the gender assigned to her at birth.
You have to accept and respect your date for who she is and identifies as: a woman . However, for many insecure men, this can be a bit of a hurdle. The idea of walking down the street, holding hands or kissing a trans lady can feel like a secret they don’t want to share in public. Check out this article for more information on what it is like to date someone who’s transgender .
If you’re someone who finds transsexual or genderqueer women attractive and you don’t have problems showing that openly, it’s a sign that you’re confident and comfortable in your own sexuality. And that is attractive!
It simply proves that you’re ready to build a connection with an attractive girl, regardless of her past.
If on the other hand, you’ve got a problem being with your partner in public, then you might need to ask yourself some searching questions.
For example, would you have the same problem showing affection in public, hand in hand with a cisgender woman? If your response is ‘no’, then you have your answer: if you and your date are happy and connected, then it shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks .
The problem for many trans women is that they are often kept ‘in the shadows’; a clandestine partner that is never allowed out into the real world. However, this is tantamount to abuse and, at the very least, is entirely disrespectful to the woman you are dating.
If you’d feel safer keeping your relationship with a transgender woman hidden away, then you might need to consider whether you should be dating her at all.
While you might be someone who doesn’t feel constrained by the idea that gender and sexuality are binary, you might also need to think about what’s expected from you.
Many men who identify as transamorous can believe that they are alone. However, as things progress for the LGBTQ+ community and society in general, more and more straight and cisgender men are ‘outing’ themselves as ‘trans-amorous’.
In this day and age, biological sex is becoming less a focus on our attraction, as more open and inclusive ideas and communities gain traction. Today, there exist a myriad of identities such as asexual, pansexual, transsexual, and so on that through older ideas out the window.
There are online forums for men who find transwomen attractive, where you can discuss your feeling with other guys in the same boat. It’s also okay to talk to a friend about it, as people become more tolerant and accepting and transphobia is becoming a thing of the past.
Finding trans women attractive isn’t unusual or weird , as long as you are respectful of the person you are dating.
Questions about trans experience and identity have been addressed from online forums to the Journal of Sex Research, where academics like Stephen Rosenthal, Alven Weinberg, and Jae Sevelius have contributed, and even by playwrights like Ramses Underhill-Smith.
There are a mountain of questions and ideas revolving around the growing field of study around transgender individuals. However, there are also some everyday questions related to attraction and where it comes from that are frequently asked.
Here, we’ll attempt to answer some of the most common questions:
Yes, it is perfectly normal and is not grounds for you to completely throw away and idea of heterosexuality you may have. You may need to question whether you are bisexual or even homosexual, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t attracted to women and trans-women. There’s nothing wrong with finding the physical characteristics of a non-op trans woman to be attractive regardless of her genitalia, as you are attracted to her as a woman. Trans women transitioning can very much “pass” as women, which explains your attraction. The more important thing to focus on is whether you are attracted to them as a person or not.
Your own sexual arousal or sexual desire for someone who is trans can stem from a variety of sources, originating naturally. Perhaps you find the combination of attractive male and female figures arousing, or just want to experiment.
In either case, regardless of who your sexual partners are or will be, you shouldn’t feel any unnecessary shame about it. Sexuality and sexual orientation are on a spectrum, and the important point is that you simply are attracted to them and should be comfortable with it.
The term “shemale” is really one that only revolves around pornography and the sex trade. As a result, many people mistakenly assume that shemale is interchangeable with transexual or transgender. This is why you see “best shemale dating” services that offer “Shemale chat”.
Anytime you see things like that or the “ Shemale free dating ” line, know that it is trying to capitalize on people who fetishize the sexual identity and even sometimes the ethnicity of trans people. As a result, there is a lot of people have a misunderstanding about transgender identity and of non-binary people, often sexualizing them entirely.
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By no means am I gay I never think about other dudes etc. But I was curious about trannys for the longest time. Never thought I would even consider hooking up with one. Ive slept with girls my whole life so this was new.
I was on vacay with my friend. I ended up hooking up with a tranny. It was very weird to me I was kind of drunk and felt weird. She was a dime piece though. You would never be able to tell. She was asking if I had a friend on vacay with me and if she could meet him after we were done messing around I was like hell no my life would be over.She then said he would never know which was true if he was just looking at her but I could tell by her voice even though it was pretty feminine.
Messing around was different but it was new which made it exciting I guess. I was just so curious and we did everything she was the only catcher though. i took a pic of her just to have it. I go back early in the morning to meet my friend. He was like whered you go. I said I hooked up. He asked if she was hot I was like yea. He was like did you take a pic. I was hesitante but I ended up showing him. He was like geez dude she is a dime I was like yep. He was like wow how did you pull that I want a girl like that...then I said I dont think you do. I showed her pic to multiple people i knew and they were all like holy sh!t that is a dime piece etc. Its pretty funny.
That night she texted me and asked if i got to my hotel ok and said it was nice meeting me. I said "yes im ok ..it was nice meeting you too i might stay another day so give me a call tommorrow or something".
The next day Im debating about staying because I wanted to hook up with her again. My friend is like lets just go. I was on the fence. So I said fine lets just fly back. Well Im sitting on the plane before we start going on the runway and low and behold I get a text right then saying "whats up cutie?" I was like fvvvccckkkkkkkk. I texted back and said I had to leave tonight I might be back next week and i will call you..i had fun last night.
Nobody knows what I did except for people on this board. I will never tell a soul I know what I did. I was kind of fvcked up for the next couple of days but i am getting over it.
I might go back and see her. She is seriously a dime though and i am debating taking her out with me in public I would be curious to see the reactions. I had to get this off my chest because I never told anyone.
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I do not care how much of a dime piece he/ she is.... If I knew that this was a dude, all bets are off the table!!! Strange story and had to respond since I have not posted here in a while..... If that is your thing and it makes you happy, go ahead on. For me, finding a women is a chore in itself, but damn if I want to hook up with a fella!!
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And another one steps out of the closet....
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To quote the words of Tone Loc :
"I threw her out...I don't fool around with no Oscar Meyer wiener!"
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When I worked inside a jail the inmates that included themselves in that gay stuff would say it was, "situational homosexual" Homosexual is homosexual, spot on!!!
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Once you are born a man, you are forever a man.
No amount of hormones or genital alterations can make you any different.
So, congrats on sleeping with another man.
Doesent it seem like this site is full of troll posts now?
" You never take the easier way,
while the is blowing straight into your face.
You never make a compromise,
for any trouble that may cross your way.
There's no risk that you're not takin',
not a mountain that's too high,
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to the best time of your life. "
Dont stop at the top..
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Once you are born a man, you are forever a man.
No amount of hormones or genital alterations can make you any different.
So, congrats on sleeping with another man.
Doesent it seem like this site is full of troll posts now?
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This is a complete joke. A good comic relief though.
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hey i just read your post mk. i understand u complety inbox me if u can we pretty much had the same expirience and i too have never told anyone anything , somebody that doesnt judge would be cool to tell stories to
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Whatever makes you happy brah. We shouldn't actually give a fvck about this sh1t guys. His life, his choice.
Inb4 trolls attack me. No, I didn't hook up with tranny. The point is we should be busy with our sh1t, not with judging what others do.
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