Stopped Orgasm

Stopped Orgasm
By Isadora Baum Published: Jan 17, 2019
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We asked guys for their tried and true techniques.
At some point or another, you've probably been there. You’re in the middle of foreplay and you’re getting really turned on — way, way too fast. Before you know it, you can't hold back, and you're climaxing a lot earlier than you wanted to.
There are a lot of strategies out there for training yourself to last longer in bed , such as kegel exercises and edging. But when you're in the moment, sometimes you have to think fast to make that intense arousal chill out for a few more minutes. Here, we asked men to reveal what they do to slow things down when they're getting a little too excited during sex.
“Sometimes one position is killing it and I am about to orgasm, but I know it's too early because she hasn’t [come], or we just started having sex and I want to keep going for the enjoyment of it. So let's say she’s on top and it’s super good and I'm about to burst, then I'll stop and change to a different position. In that time of transitioning, I get out of the flow a little and can reset and keep going.” —Matthew*
“Plain and simple: take a break. Lie on her or have her on top and just kiss for a bit. Or just cuddle for a minute or so. That way I am still hard because we're kissing or touching, but my penis gets a breather and needs to get excited again to actually finish. Plus, she always likes kissing.” —Samuel*
“I picture myself getting hit by a car or something scary and jolting. It isn’t [so] much [that I] go soft, because there is some adrenaline rush, to a little extent, but it's also not arousing [to] where I’d come, because it’s scary. It is the right little pause that takes me out of the moment of orgasm for a delay.” —Brian*
“Seems dumb, but just order yourself not to come yet. I say like, 'Come on man, you’re not done, keep going.' Or like chant ‘do it for her’ or ‘don’t come, don’t come’ over and over until the moment passes and you know you can keep it up longer.” —Walt*
“I actually have a problem with coming a bit too soon ... and so I keep water by the bed. Then if we're going at it and it's really hot and I know I don’t have much longer, I'll take a sip of the water and it cools me down, but also gives a little break from the position. And it’s a quick sip so I can get back into it.” —Zack*
“If I know I am gonna come ASAP, I get out of the position that I am in and I focus on her to give myself a short break. So I will finger her or go down on her or something for a few minutes so she is still enjoying sex and doesn’t feel like it’s a break, and I can go longer afterwards.” —Ethan*
“A bit gruesome, but it works every time. I think of a dead bird or pigeon on the street or an ugly raccoon or something — nothing too vulgar and bloody, because then I probably won’t want sex at all anymore. But just some dead animal on the street.” —Frank
“I think of my grandma. Works every time.” —Tim
*Some names have been changed to allow subjects to speak freely on private matters.
Isadora Baum is a freelance writer, certified health coach, and author of 5-Minute Energy . She can't resist a good sample, a margarita, a new HIIT class, or an easy laugh. Learn more about her on her website: isadorabaum.com .
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How to Stop Orgasm - 6 Tips to Last Ten Minutes Longer!

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Submitted On November 11, 2009

Most men aren't satisfied with how long they last in the bedroom because they don't know the simple tricks of how to stop orgasm. You're getting intimate with your partner and after the first few moments of intercourse, you orgasm. Now only if you knew how to stop yourself from doing that, you would never leave your partner upset, unsatisfied, and frustrated again.
Luckily for you, I've already done the research involved in treating premature ejaculation, so here are a few tips for you to follow:
1. Control your breathing : Keep your breathing at a steady pace of deep and slow. You don't want to continue doing your usual quick and rapid breathing, as this will only keep you more aroused.
2. Take it easy : During intercourse, don't start attacking your partner like a jackhammer; instead, work into it nice and slowly. Savor every moment with your partner as they're probably doing the same.
3. Masturbate before hand : Before the big show, masturbate once, twice, maybe even three times. As many as you need to keep your hormones under control during intercourse.
4. Communicate with your partner : Premature ejaculation is very psychological. When your partner understands the situation, is okay with it, and has no high expectations, you'll reduce so much anxiety, and it'll make your job much easier.
5. Go to a sporting event : Not literally, but in your head. Use this to distract yourself from how good everything feels, and this should keep you at a lower state of arousal.
6. Oral sex, my friend! : If you can get your partner to orgasm without intercourse, then it'll relieve a lot of pressure on you to be busy during the main event.
7. How to Stop Orgasm 100% of the time : This is an amazing trick I found inside of a very powerful guide. It's packed full of many other useful techniques that will get you lasting ten minutes longer by tonight . Click here [http://www.preventing-premature-ejaculation.com] to see what all the fuss is about!
So, if you're done torturing your partner with humiliating sex, then do her the favor and cure yourself of premature ejaculation once and for all by clicking here [http://www.preventing-premature-ejaculation.com].
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