Stand Squirt

Stand Squirt
Medically Reviewed by Hansa D. Bhargava, MD on November 24, 2020
Squirting refers to fluid expelled from the vagina during orgasm. Not all people with vaginas squirt during orgasm, and those who do may only squirt some of the time. This type of orgasm includes a rapid ejection of urine from the bladder.
Squirting sometimes also involves secretions from the skene's gland. The skene's glands are sometimes called the female prostate because they function similarly to the male prostate.
A squirting orgasm is sometimes called female ejaculation. But this term excludes non-binary and trans people who are not female but have vaginas.
A recent study has shown that there is a difference between squirting, female ejaculation, and incontinence during sex. However, the term squirting is used to describe all three in everyday language.
All three of these phenomena involve fluid coming from the bladder during sex. Squirting is the expulsion of urine during an orgasm. Female ejaculation is a release of both urine and a substance from the skene's glands. Sexual incontinence — also called coital incontinence — is when someone loses control of their bladder during sex.
Ejaculation in people with vaginas may include a small release of a milky white liquid that does not gush out. Squirting, on the other hand, is usually a higher volume. It is possible to squirt and ejaculate at the same time.
Squirting is real. In fact, scientists have documented the phenomenon. However, more research is needed to determine the exact causes of squirting and female ejaculation.
Part of the ambiguity about squirting is that the skene's glands vary from person to person. Some people with vaginas don't have any, while others have very small ones.
Myth: Everyone Can Squirt If They Try the Same Method
Each person's experience with squirting is different. While some methods can make people squirt more than others, there is no one proven method that makes every person with a vagina squirt. This is because each vagina is different. As mentioned, some vaginas lack the skene's glands which are thought to create the fluid released during ejaculation in people who have vulvas.
Myth: Squirting Orgasms are Always High Volume
Squirting isn't always a high volume event that soaks the sheets. Sometimes it is a small trickle or a stream of fluid.
The depiction of squirting in porn movies often shows large gushes of squirting liquid. Porn producers fake some of these depictions for dramatic effect. All volumes and forms of squirting are valid. Squirting at different volumes is a normal occurrence during sex for many people.
Myth: Squirting or Ejaculation Only Happens During Orgasm
Some people can squirt or ejaculate before or after an orgasm. Squirting can also occur at the same time as an orgasm. Some people also have multiple spurts of squirting spread over a few minutes.
Explore squirting by yourself or with a partner to find out what works for you.
Some sex experts recommend stimulating the g-spot to achieve a squirting orgasm. Either by yourself or with a partner, take some time to find the g-spot with your fingers and/or sex toys. Pressure on the g-spot may make you feel the need to urinate.
Experiment with different methods of bringing yourself or your partner to a squirting orgasm with g-spot stimulation. Some ideas include:
For some people, putting too much pressure on the g-spot can feel uncomfortable. Listen to your body and do what feels good. If you are too tense it may be harder to orgasm or squirt.
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Marie Claire: "My Epic Journey to Find the "Skene's Gland," the Mystical Source of Female Ejaculation."
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Refinery29: "Is Female Ejaculation Even Real? 5 Myths Debunked."
Shape: "Is Squirting Real? What to Know About Female Ejaculation."
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Sexpert Nikki Morgan stopped by New York Post to break down the myths surrounding female ejaculation, also known as squirting. “Embrace the squirt,” Morgan advises women curious about the sex act. “Worry about the laundry later!”

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Have participants stand in a circle around a player chosen to be the Squirtmaster. The Squirtmaster clasps his hands with his two pointer fingers pressed together and points at random players in the circle, saying "Squirt". The player he is pointing at must duck down, and the two players on either side point at each-other with hands clasped and yell "Squirt!". The first one to do this wins and stays standing. The person who didn't say squirt or who said it too late is eliminated and sits down where they were standing. The player who ducked stands back up. The player who ducks may also be eliminated if they don't duck before one of the players to the side shouts "Squirt!"
The game becomes more tricky as the spaces between the players widen. The game continues until there are two players remaining. These two players then have a Squirt-off. They stand back-to-back and start walking away from each other as the counsellor tells a story and when the counsellor says "Squirt!" (as part of the story) they must turn around, point at each-other and yell "Squirt!". The first to do so is the winner, and gets to be the Squirtmaster in the next round.

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Yes it's real, and it can be wonderful, but it's not a gold ring to collect like you're playing some sexual video game
I used to think squirting – also known as female ejaculation – only burst into public consciousness around the end of 2016, when the UK government tried (unsuccessfully) to ban it from porn. But according to insights from PornHub, our fascination with squirting – and with men obsessing over how to make a woman squirt – started long before that, with searches for ‘squirting’ more than doubling in 2013-14 .
Popular as it is, squirting remains controversial (and not just among prudish government ministers). Some researchers claim that there’s no such thing as female ejaculation, and the substance that squirts out is just urine. But although some studies have demonstrated that female ejaculation has a similar composition to pee, if you try to tell the world that there’s nothing more to see here than a golden shower, those who have squirted (myself included) will indignantly point out that the experience neither looks, tastes, smells nor feels the same as urination. Let’s not spend too long on the theory of (and science behind) squirting though – it’ll never be as fun as the practical.
It seems odd to talk about ‘fashions’ in sex, because as a general rule we believe our sex lives to be led by our own desires, rather than what everyone else is up to. But desires are inevitably influenced by the world around us – things our friends talk about, porn we watch , stuff we read on the internet. And when it comes to trends in sex, squirting, right now, is in .
"Approach squirting not not with a ‘can do’ attitude, but rather an ‘it doesn’t matter if I can’t do’ mindset"
As a woman who gets plenty of joy from making guys cum with volcanic force and volume, I understand why so many of my exes have been eager to repay the favour in kind. Delivering so much pleasure that someone’s body reacts in a visible and uncontrollable way is a delight comparable to making them shriek involuntarily during exceptional sex. From my perspective, the sensation of squirting is like nothing else – intense g-spot pleasure combined with enough liquid to soak my partner’s hands (and bedsheets – put a couple of towels down to save your Egyptian cotton). Then, as a bonus, there's the look of glee on his face when he realises he’s played a key role in bringing about this borderline Biblical flooding. Lovely.
But if you want to know how to get someone to squirt, then contrary to all those clickbaity ads, I’m afraid there isn’t ‘one weird trick’. Learning to squirt takes time, patience and experimentation, as well as a genuine eagerness for it happen from both parties. And the best advice I can give you is to approach squirting not not with a ‘can do’ attitude, but rather an ‘it doesn’t matter if I can’t do’ mindset. We’ll revisit this in a second, but first: a brief squirting ‘how-to’.
My few successful squirts have all been down to angle, pressure and mood. Lying on my back, legs spread wide for ease of access, with someone using either their fingers or a curved g-spot dildo to press hard against the front wall of my vagina. The ‘g-spot’ is not a magic button – it's just a neat place to stimulate the internal parts of the clitoris. Once you’ve found roughly this spot, stimulate it gently at first and then begin building pressure. Use plenty of lube, too, because you may be here for a while.
"Women aren’t video games, and you can’t just smash the right button combo to receive a gallon of squirt and 10,000XP"
Your partner will need to be really relaxed and in my personal experience that’s easier to do if I have something else to concentrate on, rather than having my vagina take centre stage. So a 69 position has worked well for me – providing welcome distraction when the pressure of trying to squirt is preventing it from actually happening. When I feel like I may be ready to squirt, a gentle push can make the magic happen, and a little extra clitoral stimulation sometimes adds to the pleasure and can bring on squirting more quickly.
There are a lot of ‘mays’ and ‘cans’ in here, for good reason: squirting is not something that everyone can do, and like any sexual thing, it’s also not one that everyone wants to do. Thanks to the aforementioned porn trends, I am definitely not the only woman who has had a partner ask if he can try to make me squirt, nor the only one who’s eventually got bored during numerous drawn-out attempts. Because squirting is such a visible thing, and one which can be rare, it has the all the hallmarks of a challenge that you might feel compelled to try and ‘win’. Treating it like an achievement to unlock can be exhausting and stressful for the person on the receiving end. Women aren’t video games, and you can’t just smash the right button combo to receive a gallon of squirt and 10,000XP. For many women, female ejaculation just isn't going to happen it all. If you care about her pleasure, you should accept that and move on.
Something which may feel like a fun challenge to you can be a wildly un fun challenge for the person whose body you’re experimenting on. If you attack squirting like it’s a mission to complete, there’s a strong possibility that some of that keenness could translate into pressure for your partner, sapping the joy from sex by turning it into a chore. Reassurance that "it’s OK" and "we’ll try again later is often not nearly enough to drown out the voice in my head that tells me I’ve failed and my body is broken. I don't want to carry a weight of sadness because I’ll never be able to help you tick ‘make a lady squirt’ off your bucket list.
So while I’m fully down with explaining how to get someone to squirt, and introducing you to the fun you can have along the way, I’d urge you to take whatever level of enthusiasm you have and dial it down a few notches before you even ask. Squirting can be very hot, if you do it organically. But don’t get so locked on to it as an achievement that you forget it’s also supposed to be fun.
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