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Valentine's Day has its roots in ancient orgiastic festivals. On February 14, The Romans celebrated Febris (meaning fever), a sacred sexual frenzy in honor of Juno Februa, an aspect of the goddess of love.
Apr 12, 2010, 05:12 AM EDT | Updated Nov 17, 2011
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Valentine's Day has its roots in ancient orgiastic festivals. On February 14, The Romans celebrated Febris (meaning fever), a sacred sexual frenzy in honor of Juno Februa, an aspect of the goddess of amorous love. This sex fest coincided with the time when the birds in Italy were thought to mate.
The ecstatic rites of the Goddess merged over time with those of Lupercalia, the bawdy festivities in honor of the pagan god of sex, drugs and rock-n-roll, Pan, which were observed on the following day, February 15.
On Lupercalia, (named, incidentally, in honor of the she-wolf who suckled Romulus and Remus), men and women inscribed their names on love notes or billets and then drew lots to determine who their sex partner would be during this anything goes festival of erotic games.
Sulpicia, a first century BC Roman poet, describes her participation in the events with hearty candor:
"At last love has come. I would be more ashamed to hide it in cloth than leave it naked. I prayed to the Muse and won. Venus dropped him in my arms, doing for me what she had promised. Let my joy be told, let those who have none tell it in a story. Personally, I would never send off words in sealed tablets for none to read. I delight in sinning and hate to compose a mask for gossip. We met. We are both worthy."
Naturally, the fathers of the early Christian Church outlawed the observance of Lupercalia as lewd and heathenish. However, they were quite unable to halt the practice. Eventually it was necessary to create a sainted martyr whose feast day would be observed on February 14th. In this way, the Church could sanction a celebration that it simply could not suppress.
There are, depending on the source, anywhere from three to eight Saint Valentines. Each has a conflicting biography concocted by a different author. But in every version he emerges as the patron of lovers, bowing to the original intention of the occasion.
The first St. Valentine's Day was celebrated in 468 AD. In the beginning, the Church attempted to institute the practice of exchanging billets printed with pious sermons and scripture to encourage a holy attitude. What a dry substitute for a physical experience of divine ecstasy that the people craved. Needless to say, the experiment failed on a grand scale.
By the fourteenth century, the celebration of Valentine's Day had lost all Christian content and had reverted back to the love fests of old, albeit, tempered by more than a thousand years of church-imposed morality built on the separation and opposition of body and soul. One now strove for perfection of the spirit through the repression of the body. Courtly love, which was chaste and pure, was the ideal in the Middle Ages.
Valentine greetings have their roots in the love billets exchanged at Lupercalia, though the very first love letter was written on a clay tablet some four thousand years ago. It was signed, "your loving wife who has had a child."
Charles Duc d'Orléans is credited as being one of the early creators of modern valentines. Confined in the Tower of London after the Battle of Agincourt in 1415, he sent his wife, "poetical or amorous addresses," that is, rhymed love letters. Friendship cards were extremely popular in eighteenth century Germany.
The first American valentines were crude sorts of homemade cards exchanged by the colonists, but in 1723, Valentine "writers" were imported from England. These booklets, which included many verses and messages that could be copied out onto fine gilt or decorative papers in fancy script, were DIY manuals for the creation of a much more sophisticated and finely crafted Valentine project. Commercially printed valentines were introduced in about 1800.
Today we still send each other Lupercalia billets inscribed with the names of our desired romantic partners. And these cards are still, thousands of years later, decorated with cupids and arrows, birds, flowers and hearts. These original symbols of Lupercalia have come down to us intact, but thoroughly sanitized of their original flesh and blood intensity.
The chubby Valentine cherub so familiar to us is an insipid and impoverished characterization of Cupid, the Roman equivalent of the Greek god Eros, the Hindu Kama. He was the son of the Roman Venus and Mercury, the Greek Aphrodite and Hermes. S/he was thus an Herm-Aphrodite, an embodiment of the duality and opposition of the heterosexual union.
The arrows that Cupid shoots are the phallus, the lingham. These projectiles of passion are usually depicted piercing the heart, a graphic image of penetration reminiscent of the arrows that the Hopi shoot into rounded, vulvic bundles of corn as a ceremonial gesture of fertility.
The other symbols are clear, but just what is this heart-shape supposed to signify, anyway? Certainly it bears no resemblance whatsoever to an anatomically correct actual heart.
The zoologist, Desmond Morris speculates that the heart symbol is reminiscent of a bending over buttocks, because our ancestor kissing cousins, the apes, do it from behind. Pulease! Spare me.
The horizontal-double-dip-cone-of-a-shape that we call a heart has to be two round breasts above the magical triangle of love -- a female torso. The heart symbolizes the tits and nether lips of the late Great Goddess, the lusty, busty patroness of the passionate heart, Herself. The archetypal love of our lives.
Let Her never be out of our hearts.
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To ~orgasm~, sure, but also to each other.
If I were a greeting card designer, I would make it my personal mission to rebrand Valentine's Day as the Day of Sex. For one, you don't need to be in a relationship to celebrate good sex (now love, that's a different story...). Two, you don't need to spend any money on Valentine's Day gifts (orgasms are free!). And last but not least, you certainly don't need to worry about the fact that everyone else and their mom got roses when you're basking in that post-O glow.
In all seriousness, whether you heart or hate the silly Hallmark holiday for all of its inherent romantic vibes, you should be having hot Valentine's Day sex. A good romp or two heightens intimacy (thanks to all the feel-good chemicals released during intercourse and orgasm especially), reignites your connection, and duh, puts you in a better mood to deal with all the annoying lovebirds on Instagram. Chocolate is delicious and all, but it can't do all that—maybe just that last part.
Now, if you want to make your V-Day really special, you'll want to bust out some new, more sensual moves. Your goal isn't just to come, but to admire your partner from head to toe and let them revel in all of you (hint: that means lots of skin-on-skin and intense eye contact).
Not sure where to start? Behold the sweetest, sexiest, curated list of positions for the best Valentine's Day sex of your life. If only I could put these on a card...
This position checks pretty much every box—there's eye contact, plenty of body contact, and close proximity with your partner, says Lena Queen, a licensed clinical social worker and the owner of Journey Wellness & Consulting Group, a mental health and sex therapy practice. This kind of closeness is major for intimacy between partners which helps foster trust and acceptance.
Plus, if you're the partner on top, you've got total control over depth of penetration .
Do It: Have your Valentine perch on a chair or the edge of a bed. Face them, lower yourself onto their lap, and have at it. Queen also suggests playing around with location (counter top, couch, a sturdy desk), and tempo to really make this one your own.
Being head-to-head (even if you're not facing each other) is ideal for upping sensuality, says Queen. They recommend The Chairman if the "eargasm" is your thing. While your partner's seated on you, lean close to their ear and give them a bit of dirty talk for a next-level turn-on.
And, don't forget about your hands. Reach around your partner for a bit of nipple play or reach down to caress their clit.
Do It: With your partner sitting on the edge of the bed, you sit on their lap or have them sit on yours and lean back onto your chest.
"Oral sex is very intimate," Queen says, but that doesn't mean you can't spice things up a bit. Try bringing in a sex toy that mimics the feel of oral sex. You can give your jaw a break and offer your partner the Valentine's Day gift of multiple vibration speeds and mouth-like sensations.
Do It: Your Valentine starts by lying down, flat on their back. Then, it's up to you to climb on top, so you're facing away from their upper body. (This way, you'll look like the number 69, get it?) Your genitals should line up with their mouth, and their genitals should line up with yours. You can also try this one in a side-by-side position.
If you're the receiving partner, Queen says, while your partner is thrusting into you, you can totally reach down and stimulate your clitoris or your nipples. You might even reach for a bullet vibrator (something small is best so it won't get in the way) and add some buzzing to the fun by using it on yourself or on your partner, where their genitalia are meeting yours.
Do It: Lie back with your legs resting on each of your Valentine's shoulders. For added fun, ask them to rock you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That'll make it easy to focus on your G-spot.
Any position where you can easily kiss while touching each other's fun parts is a win for Valentine's Day sex. This seated setup makes squeezing his balls—or co- massaging your breasts —a cinch.
Do It: While they sit on the bed or a chair, back yourself into their lap and spoon each other while seated. Want to up the ante? Tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor so you can grip them.
Want to cradle your gift from Cupid? Get it, girl. Not only will you feel ~connected~, your rosebud will get plenty of attention here.
Do It: Prop your Valentine up with some pillows and their legs outstretched. Then lower yourself onto them, keeping your feet flat on the bed (or floor, or whatever). Here, you're able to control the rhythm by pressing up through the balls of your feet.
You never know what you’re gonna get…except a solid view of your ass. The friction this position offers may deliver a stellar, unconventional orgasm, but you’ll have to give it a try to find out.
Do It: This is essentially upside-down missionary. Once your bodies are aligned, grab their butt to help control the thrusts—maybe throw in a spank or two if that’s your jam.
If you want to try something new this Valentine's Day, consider this your move. You might feel like you're far away, but that's the appeal here: The position gives you both nice views of each other's full naked bodies, and you have control over the depth, speed, and angle of the thrusts.
Do It: Your partner sits with their legs straight and you sit on top of them with bent knees on top of their thighs, and you both lean back. To make it even hotter, have them use their hand to rub your clitoris, or massage with your own. Lean back farther for extra G-spot stimulation .
Ride your Valentine as fast or as slow as you want on top. This position is just like cowgirl, but with a twist—you lean back, creating a different angle that helps you target your G-spot even more and gives your partner easy access to your clitoris.
Do It: Climb on top and have your partner enter you. Then lean back and place your hands on the bed for support, creating a 45-degree angle with your partner's legs.
Turn up the heat on what’s sure to be a chilly winter night with this position perf for V-Day V-play. Your partner's body heat will warm you up and make you feel closer than ever.
Do It: Lie side-by-side in the spooning position, and bend your knees slightly so that he can enter you from behind.
Take your spoon and raise it a fork: This missionary-turned-sideways position provides the same full-body press and romantic eye gaze, plus lots of opportunity for all the kissing.
Do It: From the missionary position, without disengaging, turn together onto your sides, using your arms to support your upper bodies. Try intertwining your legs with theirs or fondling them down below for even more intimacy.
BAM—you’ve been struck by love. Now have them point their, um, arrow your way with this challenging move.
Do It: Lie back with your ankles on either side of your head. They will squat and dip their penis or strap-on in and out of you.
Candy isn’t all that’s on the menu today. This super-cozy move allows plenty of face time for making out .
Do It: While they're sitting down, you sit in their lap, facing them.
Or, in this case, heels over head. Take your relationship to a deeper level with this move that helps the penetrating partner go all the way.
Do It: Lie back with your legs resting on each of their shoulders. This narrows your vagina for a snugger fit and more stimulation.
Having your partner go down on you is pretty freaking intimate, and this G-spot-blasting position makes the transition from oral to vaginal a little too easy. It's perfect to try out this Valentine's Day, because it's all about you.
Do It: Lie back with your legs resting on each of your partner's shoulders. Have your partner lick your clitoris with their tongue, then have them start rocking you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That should bring the penis or strap-on into direct contact with your G-spot, where it belongs.
This move is all about animalistic sensuality and deep (deeeeep) penetration. Enjoy!
Do It: Get on all fours and have them kneel behind you. They enter from behind while holding your hips or boobs.
This slightly awkward candy heart phrase just got way hotter with this athletic standing-sex challenge.
Do It: They stand while you straddle them, wrapping your legs around their body. They, in turn, support your backside. You can transition to this move from lying down or simply take a leap of faith.
Shower sex is the steamiest way to mix it up on Valentine's Day. Rinse and repeat.
Do It: With your partner standing and positioned to enter you from the front, bring one leg up to brace against the edge of the tub or your shower wall for extra support and thrusting leverage. The change in angle adds a stimulating twist to a shower standard, and the added sensation of warm water on your back definitely doesn’t hurt.
If you're going ~out~ this Valentine's Day, pull over on the way home for some spontaneous car sex . This position is both romantic *and* hot.
Do It: Have your partner sit cross-legged (yoga-/pretzel-style) on the car seat, then sit in their lap facing them. Wrap your legs around them and hug each other for support.
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Grab your heart-shaped candy because the most romantic day of the year is almost here, folks. This means now—not in a few days, not next week, but now—is the time to plan all the ways to make your Valentine’s Day extra special this year. The good news is you don’t actually have to spend a fortune or plan a whole parade to make your partner feel all lovey-dovey. In fact, one of the easiest ways to go above and beyond is by having wild, sexy, passionate Valentine’s Day sex .
Granted, having sex is pretty much the only V-Day activity that doesn’t require a reservation or an overpriced Uber. But! That doesn’t mean it’s any less special or attention-worthy. In fact, putting a little thought into your Valentine’s Day sex is just about the hottest way to celebrate the holiday. Luckily, there are tons of ways to turn up the heat, most of which involve spending absolutely zero dollars. From starting with a romantic date to upping the kink factor or practicing some consensual rough play , the options are plentiful.
Just remember that whatever type of sex you decide to consensually indulge in this V-Day, don’t forget the aftercare . This is the act of making sure your partner feels safe and happy, which can look like cuddling, taking a bath together, or simply splitting a large pepperoni pizza and chatting afterward. And now without further ado, here ar
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