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Last Updated: March 19, 2022 Maine Bel
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Learn how to swallow cum the easy way! Swallowing your man’s cum may be something that he didn’t ask you to do in the past.
However, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like it.
Most men may bring this up with their partners once or twice but would not force the subject if their girlfriends weren’t comfortable with it.
You may be one of those women who have not yet given this much thought.
To help you understand why it’s something that you must absolutely consider doing for your man’s pleasure, I’ve rounded up the top five reasons your man likes it when you swallow his cum .
Most men see your swallowing of their cum as an act of acceptance. It means you, as his girlfriend, accepts and even worships him and his entire being. When you do, it makes him feel more special, bringing him closer to you.
But only if he sees you enjoying the act . If he sees you’re only doing it because he wants you to and your heart is not 100 percent into it, he may feel rejected. This can ruin his mood for sex.
Your boyfriend or husband, even if he doesn’t say it, wants to be the driving force in bed. Even if he likes when you take control sometimes, he still thinks that the ultimate control should be his.
So when you allow him to ejaculate into your mouth and you swallow his cum afterwards, it means you’re giving him the power in bed. You’re letting him dominate.
There are times when your man will feel that sex or a blowjob is better if you accept his semen orally. This is because he doesn’t have to take out his male organ from your vagina or mouth when he’s about to come, allowing him to experience a better orgasm .
Nothing beats the look on your face when you swallow your man’s cum and you look like you’re having a good time while doing it. It can send him to cloud nine.
There are many reasons women can’t stand the idea of swallowing their boyfriend’s cum, let alone allow them to ejaculate into their mouths.
Let’s be honest here. Semen doesn’t taste like your favorite ice cream. If it did, swallowing your man’s cum wouldn’t be this much big of a deal, right?
Your boyfriend’s cum doesn’t usually smell the best. Yes, there may be instances that it will be odorless but more often than not, it smells less appealing than you’d like.
Also known as laryngeal spasm, the gag reflex is caused when an object is thrust toward the opening of your mouth, touching its roof, the back of your tongue or throat, or the area surrounding your tonsils.
Simply put, it’s that feeling you have when his penis is in your mouth and he pushes it down your throat . It’s not pleasant at all so it’s no surprise that you don’t always relish the sensation.
Most men’s semen has an unusual color. If your boyfriend’s or husband is the same, it may not look pleasant to you at all. Seeing it that way can have a huge effect on how you’ll feel about it when the time for swallowing it comes, right?
If his cum is too thick and chunky, say like cottage cheese or yogurt, it may not be too appealing to let it into your mouth then swallow it after.
A man’s ultimate goal is to give you a huge load of their cum. It makes them feel so virile. However, it’s a major turn off for some women. They can feel that a large amount of semen, even if it’s from the one they love, is just too much to swallow in one go.
When you haven’t been with your boyfriend for quite a while, it’s understandable if you have reservations about swallowing his cum during intercourse.
However, if you’ve been together for quite some time already, know that he may, in passing, mention it to you. To avoid the awkwardness that such a conversation can cause, it’s best to prepare for it.
Figure out if swallowing his cum is something you’d be okay with doing. Remember, you should never be coerced or pressured into doing anything you’re not ok with.
More importantly, no matter what you do for your man in bed, you can’t be half in and half out of it. You should be 100% into it.
Now that we’ve got the crucial stuff out of the way, it’s time to drop the juiciest information I know you’re dying to know about – that is, if you’re ready to swallow his cum or you’ve been swallowing but are having a hard time with it.
Here are seven tips to make swallowing cum easy for you.
An hour or two before you make love, it’s a must to have him drink apple or pineapple juice. This will help improve the texture, smell, and taste of his semen. This way, when he ejaculates into your mouth, it won’t taste as bad as before.
Now, it’s important to know that this recommendation is only based on forums from the internet. There is no established medical research that supports this claim. Even so, it won’t hurt to try, right?
Not all men are keen on drinking juice. If your boyfriend is one of them, don’t fret! You can suck peppermint while giving him head. When he ejaculates, the peppermint will help mask the semen’s natural smell and taste. This is worth a try, don’t you think?
Before you jump into bed, get yourself a glass of wine, iced tea, chocolate, or your favorite liquor. Put it above the cabinet so that it will be within your reach after you swallow your man’s cum.
Doing this will help prevent you from feeling nausea. It will help to mask the strong taste of semen in your mouth so you don’t look like you’re about to vomit.
Many reports suggest that swallowing semen has a number of health benefits. It can lower your blood pressure, boost your immune system, lessen acne, enhance your overall mood, improve the quality of your sleep and memory, increase your energy level, and reduce pain from wounds.
Keep all these amazing benefits of swallowing his cum in mind for when the time comes.
When your man performs cunnilingus on you, he gets a taste of your very own nectar. Imagine if he ran to the bathroom to spit while in the middle of the act. How would that make you feel?
Performing fellatio on him and then swallowing his cum afterward is kind of the same thing. The bottom line is that it’s something you do wholeheartedly because you want to please him.
Let’s say you’ve tried tips one to five and you’re still not comfortable with swallowing his cum. To help you start being more comfortable with it, ask him to come first on your breast, chest, chin, lips or other body parts of your choosing.
Doing this will help you get accustomed to the smell and texture of his semen. When you become familiar with it and you get used to the sensation it gives you, swallowing his cum the next time you make love should be easier.
Yes, you read that right! Since we all know practice makes perfect, it only makes sense to practice swallowing his cum whenever there’s an opportunity. So if you and your boyfriend make love three to four times a week, you should swallow his cum each time.
With regular practice, you should be on your way to learning to swallow cum without much effort and difficulty. You’ll also discover that swallowing cum shouldn’t be that hard, especially if you’re doing it for the man you love.
It is common knowledge that semen may contain viruses that can be transmitted from an infected man through bodily fluids. So before you swallow your man’s cum, it is crucial to know about your boyfriend’s medical history.
If he is infected with Hepatitis B or is currently dealing with any Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) like chlamydia, gonorrhea, or herpes, it’s important that he tells you about it before you engage in oral sex.
Additionally, if you have any open sores in your mouth, bleeding gums or gingivitis, you should give fellatio on your boyfriend a pass as the risk of getting STIs is higher when you perform oral sex at that time.
Having said this, make sure you sit down with your man and talk about this with him. Because if you don’t, you could face huge problems down the line. Through honesty and open communication with him, you’ll prevent having to deal with STIs.
Swallowing your man’s cum isn’t rocket science. There are several ways to make it easier for you. All you have to do is go through this guide and make sure you put every piece of advice into practice.
Once you learn this by heart you’ll become a pro at swallowing your boyfriend’s cum. You’ll start loving it and when he sees that you’re enjoying yourself as you give him the pleasure he deserves, he’ll be even more satisfied .
The look on his face will tell you how he feels after you give him head. So if you’re in doubt, just look at him. If you see the spark in his eyes and the curve of his lips when he smiles, you’ll know you’re sending him to sexual paradise .
Lastly, remember that honest communication with your man about each other’s medical history is the key to avoid contracting any STIs. Be sure to sit down with him and have a talk about it before you jump right into bed.
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Am I a horrible BJ giver because I don't swallow? It makes me gag and tastes gross. I am, however, very enthusiastic when giving one. Does a guy get upset when you don't? Can I train myself to like it? —Spit Take

There are lots of people who don't swallow. And, lots of men who don't care and think a blowjob is the greatest sexual gift no matter what. What matters is knowing your partner well enough to know what is important to them. Yes, you can learn to swallow, if that's what you really want to do. But unless it is someone really special (who has been tested) and who is eating you out like there is no tomorrow... why would you?

There are many reasons why men enjoy having their semen swallowed. For some, it is the ultimate sign of acceptance and embracing them for all that they are. "Some men feel that swallowing indicates a degree of passion or acceptance or even love and that spitting is rejection," says Ian Kerner, sex expert and author of such titles as Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man and She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman .

For others, it can be an act of dominance. "For some men, it also is a behavior that's linked to a fantasy of feeling powerful. So some guys treat swallowing like it's part of lovemaking, others feel like it's part of eroticizing a partner during sex," he explains.

While it is important to understand the preferences of your partner and to be able to work together so that everyone has a great sexual experience, the pleasure of receiving oral sex is not dependent on the swallow. Focusing on the finish ignores the talent and skill that it takes to perform a great blow job, not to mention the pleasure that provides. According to Kerner, "Oral sex feels great, but swallowing has little to do with the actual physical pleasure. The essence of a blowjob is friction to the head of the penis, pressure to the base, and lubrication to facilitate the process. Suction and tongue-work augment the friction."

In addition to technique, there is a lot to be said for enthusiasm and passion. "Beyond physical pleasure, the difference between a great blow job and a not-so-great blow job is the psychological stance of the giver, namely does she seem into it?" says Kerner. "There are lots of ways to be into something — sensual, sweet, passionate, powerful — and guys can tell the difference generally between authenticity and going through the motions."

In other words, you can swallow a river but if your technique sucks, so to speak, and you seem repulsed, you're not going to impress anyone. Showing him you're really down, with authentic groans and getting into it, will go a lot farther than one gulp.

1. Communicate with your partner about what you are comfortable with.

Let him know what you are comfortable with and, if there are circumstances that might help you to feel differently, what that might be. "It's important to communicate your likes and dislikes and also be able to talk about them and feel like you're both listening and being heard. Taking a sexual behavior like swallowing off the table shouldn't be a deal breaker, especially if a partner enjoys other aspects of oral sex," Kerner says. "Also, if not swallowing allows you to really enjoy the other parts of fellatio, let your partner know this."

High-level technique requires study. When you were in school, if you wanted to get an A on a test, you studied for it. To get an A as a lover is no different. Many people have a hard time putting their ego aside to learn about sex and anatomy. "Why should I? I already know how to give a blow job," you may think to yourself. But you can always heighten your partner's pleasure, give better orgasms, and learn new things. When it comes to technique, no matter how much you know, it is best to put your ego aside and approach this learning process from a place of openness and humility. There is no shame in learning, and asking what feels good — and what could feel better — is a good place to start.

Spice things up by going deeper than you usually do. Check out some tips and techniques from my column about deep throating to give swallowing a whole new meaning.

Make sure that oral sex is reciprocal, that one person is not doing all the heavy lifting while the other lays back. This can breed resentment and make a partner nitpick and focus on what he isn't getting (swallowing) instead of what he is getting.

5. Don't let up til the orgasm is over.

A really common mistake that people without penises make is to stop blowing mid-orgasm which can make it less pleasurable. If you don't want to swallow, Kerner recommends, "don't stop applying friction with your hand until a guy has finished ejaculating."

It's okay. You don't have to swallow if you don't want to. And, if you want to work past your aversion, that is an option, too. Here's what you can do.

You can use your fabulous oral sex techniques as a warm-up to intercourse. Once things are hot and heavy, you can jump on top of him to take him inside of you (assuming he's consenting and game, of course).

There are so many places for him to cum! The world is his oyster... and your oyster is only one of them. He can cum on your stomach, your face, your boobs; roll over and give him your back as a palette if you want. He can cum on himself or shoot it across the room. Just try to keep his jizz out of your eye, which is not only mood-killer, but potentially dangerous. If that does happen make sure to rinse it with warm water, put a compress on it and check in with your doctor if things get inflamed.

There is nothing wrong with spitting it out. Just don't act like you are grossed out or find his juices repulsive. You can be so discreet he will hardly know. You should always have a washcloth or tissue nearby when doing anything that involves bodily fluids, anyway. He'll be psyched about the orgasm (and probably that it happened in your mouth), and you can just discreetly spit it into the cloth you already have on hand. Win-win.

If you want to get over your aversion, there is nothing like exposure therapy. Perhaps you had a bad experience with some "funky spunk" as Samantha did in Sex and the City . Maybe your current guy has a better taste than someone you were with in the past. Diet, health, and lifestyle habits can make a huge difference in acidity and taste. Another option is to let him shoot it further back in your throat so it does not hit your taste buds. Sometimes a bad experience — like a partner who did not warn you it was coming or one who pressured you to swallow when you weren't ready or didn't want to — can spook you for a long time after. Having a sensitive partner who lets you be more in control and doesn't pressure you can be very healing here.

For myriad reasons, you should think twice about any man who pressures you to swallow or shames you for not doing it. You should always have a conversation about STIs and HIV status before swapping fluids. People forget that they can catch something from oral sex but it happens. It is also okay to save something for a committed relationship... or, save it for never and straight up say no! After all, a sexual encounter with someone you're into should never be that hard to swallow.

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To celebrate the release of my new web series, The Big Gulp, which is about swallowing (hint: not water) I asked a vital question: “Do you remember the first time you swallowed?” People’s answers ranged from hilarious to surprisingly dark. You can see my story in the first episode, “Winter Is Coming”, below:
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“The first time I swallowed I ran away from my boyfriend, spit it out in the sink, and took a swig chocolate syrup. He was a Christian. He wanted me to put the syrup on his dick. I wouldn’t. He currently lives in Denver with his boyfriend.” Lia, 25
“Swallowing is funny because it seems like there is such a premium on it, versus “spitting” which takes more skill anyways. The first time I swallowed I didn’t even know what I was doing, it just happened. Like, suddenly there was this rush of salty liquid in my mouth, no warning. It was cool, I think. It was nice that there was a very concrete end point because otherwise I would have had no idea when to be done, at that point.” Christine, 28
“Ok so I can’t remember the FIRST time I swallowed. but O can remember a series of times. honestly at this point I don’t even remember spitting ever. I think for me swallowing and sucking dick go hand in hand. spitting always seemed too messy, too much of a — the first words that came to mind were dick/pussy, I don’t know what that says about me BUT — seemed like too much of a dick move / a pussy move. i remember it being so fucking disgusting the first several times. Hell, it’s even kind of gross now. I’m madly in love with my boyfriend and I still kind of gag a bit at the end of a BJ. For me that’s the only option. The idea of spoiling the moment to run to the sink and spit? That doesn’t appeal to me. And nothing turns me on more than when I’m told how good i taste, so then I would assume to reason that a man feels the same. I think if I were a dude and a girl was always spitting out my splooge, my feelings would be hurt. Really, I’m just protecting everyone’s feelings. that’s what’s going on here.” Celeste, 27
“It was with my first boyfriend, who was emotionally abusive and extremely selfish. The first time I swallowed was not my ch
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