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I have a son whom I spanked until age 15, although rarely. Today at 24 he is well adjusted and a happy person. What are others' opinion on spanking teenage boys?

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17 here dad spanks me and my brothers. My close friends dads are similar. I hate it but know I need it when it happens. I have found I guess that spanking is uncommon as you get older but not where I am from. As long as you live at home. Mom stopped spanking when we got to about 12. She also is not there but tells dad if we need one.
Im 16 and still get spanked by not often, only for something serious. Like really being rude and talking back. The worst part is the embarrassment since I feel Im getting old for it, but it helps me try to behave more. And i like it better than grounding since its faster. Its bare bottom over the desk but my mom lets me wear a jockstrap now. Hand or hairbrush and they stop when they can really tell Im squirming (and not faking it lol).
i got the belt pants down on rare occasions. the last time was 16 when i got caught with marijuana. dad took down my pants and heated my bottom so bad with his belt that i never tried it again.i cried that time but he didn't stop until i had gotten 30 strokes.
It really depends on WHY parents spank their children. If it's to instil discipline, it can be a good thing. If it's to instil fear, or just vent anger, it's a bad thing. For discipline, it's sometimes the only thing young children can understand, but once it becomes possible to reason with the child, there are much better ways (e.g. shaming, denial of privileges) so spanking becomes obsolete.
True JS1234, I feared my Dad because of the spankings. But he stopped the spankings when I was 10 yr olds.

He told us that by 10 he could reason with us and changed our punishments with unique methods.

One time he made my brother and I count the little tiles in the bathrooms.

He praised us when were clever enough to count the length and width then multiplied.

But, we took the time to count the 2nd identical bathroom. He told us we only needed to double the first bathroom to calculate the total small tiles.

My dad was strict, but let us know the world is hard and wouldn't love us as him and my mom.

As an adult my fear turned to love and respect. My parents were not perfect, but I learned a lot from them.
Being hit by my parents just made me afraid of them. My basic response to my parents was always fear. But I guess that's what we're supposed to do, fear our parents and fear God.
I bet there's it many 15 yr old boys still spanked by mom or dad but is refreshing to hear that
So long as they knew ahead of time what the ounishment would be, fine. But once a teenager, they need advance warning of the consequences of their actions. I was spanked by both my parents, bare bottom, At 15, the embarrassment caused me to behave better, especially if my mother was spanking or was going to watch. Once I had pubic hair, I hated for her to see me bare. One part of her punishment was to keep me in underwear until dad was home and then have to tell him what I'd done. It didn't take long for him to be home before the underpants were off and my bottom was getting warmed. Even into my early teens. They knew how I hated that and it was made part of my punishmwnt as well as bare corner time afterwards.
As someone who was spanked growing up, I can say that this form of discipline is still quite effective when it comes to reinforcing ones parental authority over a naughty, misbehaving boy in his teens.
I was spanked into my teens and it did me good. Not beaten, ut spanked. I'd do it too, after several warnings that it will happen. But then, do it!!! Empty threats do nothing.
Most important thing is unconditional Christian love, bit if after warnings and discussions things are not resolved then bare bottom beltings are advisable for both genders and up to perhaps 14 years old
I doubt your husband is worse than mine. i have not worn any clothes since we got married two years ago. I am required to remain nude from this point on. He makes every decision involving my body. I do not get to voice my opinion about anything. I must simply obey every decision made by my husband. I am also spanked and whipped regularly
---sara_johnson on 3/23/19

Sara is either a liar, or this family needs to be reported to the authorities. We'll probably see them on the news like that family who starved and chained up their children. I'm surprised Sara is allowed to play in the Internet. Since she CAN communicate to the outside and DOESNT call the police....shows she is either sick herself or an abuser herself.
"Both boys usually have good behavior because all 7 sisters watch each time they get spanked. each boy is also spanked w him alwasys being totally nude." Weird, who does the spanking? Why are the girls watching? If they are"usually" good boys with "good behavior" why do they have to be spanked? They are old enough to be reasoned with Sara.
I am a 47 year mother w a 16 amd 14 year old son. I have 3 daughters 12 17 and 10 and 4 step daughters 16 18 and 14. none of my daughters ever get spanked. both sons are spanked once a week minimum. Both boys usually have good behavior because all 7 sisters watch each time they get spanked. each boy is also spanked w him alwasys being totally nude. until they turn 18 each son still has to get spanked. I do believe very strongly that teen boys should be getting spanked
I am not pro spanking but this may add a little humor--I had not needed a bare a pdddling from mom since 8th grade and I had grown up and developed into a man by 16---It was near my confirmation and mom had planned a huge party. My friend and I went swimming while still early Spring and she went ballastic as she thought I would be sick for the Confirmation party--right there in front of my best friend she ordered me to bare my butt and go over her knee and she paqddled my bare butt hard in front of my friend I was much bigger and stronger than she I guess there lots of power in the word "MOM' NO MATTER WHAT AGE---I got confirmed very healthy but with a damn sore butt!
Hello, i am pieter, boy from 14, I placed a couple of days ago a message, still spanked by my dad,Actually. it was a cry for help.I am still spanked over the knee, Always when i deserved a punishment.I repeat too soon als mistakes, and I realize that i diapponted my parents.Olease others or other parents talk with me.i am spanked otk once per 8 weeks.i feel sometimes shy opposite my friends, when I m juast punished,i caan't expalain why but i want to talk.punished with a spanking once per 8 weekd.Pray before sleeping.
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I believe that as long as they are under your roof..its YOUR rules and yes..teens should be spanked.
By the time I was a teenager. I didn't do anything stupid enough to get spanked. My teenagers when they did wrong were not spanked. But they were still punished. I oppose spanking teenagers.
hello,
i am a boy from 14.I hate a spanking, but it is Always deserved.of cause i feel embrassed,getting a spanking over the knee.there is always a good reason to punish me.I am crying getting a spanking over dad's knee.not only for the painful backside.I cry too disapponted my parents again.i deserved it.shy to say
greetings pieter
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occasionally, and only if inevitable. I'm now 22 and I got my last spanking at the age of 14. That was really horrifying and so embarrassing. But in hinsight I think it was necessary, although I personally would now prefer different measures. I've no children yet, but I would not rule out spanking.
You said it all: not often, but when boys need it they should have it, otherwise they don't have a clue on what's wrong and what's right. My older is 19 and he still needs now and then some attitude adjustment, not to talk about my 16 yo. And they know it's for their good.
I believe spanking is meant for little children. As they grow, their love for their parents should be what keeps them obedient. In much the same way, the greater our love for God, the less sin we will have in our lives.
I'm 67 and have 5 brothers. Each one is married (no divorces) all professionals. We have a total of 18 children between us. My Dad and Grandfathers, and occasionally uncles spanked us on a regular basis. Usually one per day among the brothers and I . It was bare naked, rough, anywhere from 40 to a hundred wacks and bare corner time. My cousins got the same.No involvement with the police or drug use. We all have a great relationship with the men in our lives. We survived and thrived in this environment (no denying we hated it) We treated our children, grandchildren and nephews and nieces the same way with the same results. Yes spanking needs to be a part of parenting until they are on their own and even if they come back home.
I am 34 now but was spanked mainly from 10 to 13. But at 16 making good on his promise to take me over his knee if he found out I ever smoked cigarettes my Dad did just that and then mentioned that I stole my Mom's cigarettes and lied about it repeatedly before yanking my boxers down and "beating" my bare butt.
(beating my butt meant as opposed to spaced out swats he just wailed away until I bawled)
my best friend and i are in our teens and our dads will spank each other if its something we did at their house. His dad has a paddle and my dad uses a belt. The paddle actually hurts me worse, underwear on
I'm 14. I prefer belt over grounding. It hurts but it's also over.
I'd not spank my kids, but dad says, he has too.
Embarrassing for a 14 year old...
im 16, i usually get a choice though now between spanking and grounding, i always choose spanking. 8-10 hits with a belt, underwear down now since i tried to use padding before. not so bad, hurts for an hour and thats it
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I am 16 and in the same position as most boys my age. Spanked by your father on the bare-bottom. Sometimes with the belt but that I have only been given that a few times for MAJOR punishments.
I still get spanked I'm 16 I pull my pants down lay face down on the bed with my underwear on
My brothers and I got paddled bare thru high school and we just accepted it even though it really hurt--Times have changed---waht was normal and accepted is now different---While I reaely spanked my sons it was not like as I grew up Actually I had a good realtionship with my dad so while I do not spank --it did not do any damage to me just sore bqare gbutts once in a while Others??
Gordon 2: I am not suggesting for parents to whip their kids at all, just agreeing with your answer and why. I never whipped my kids, I never spanked them either. I had a good enough voice to mean power. I also use phycology to make them believe that a worse punishment would come if they did the same mistake again. It never came to that. Though my children were not perfect in any way, I was blessed that none of them did drugs, or ever disrespectful to my wife or to me. Some times there needs to be some form of punishment, but with control. It all depends on the child's actions, but true love chastens.
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Gordon, I agree with your answers. Here is why. We are told in Scripture in Hebrew 12:5,6)
"My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him, For who the Lord loves He chastens, and scourges every son whom He receives." We are told that God scourges those He loves. If you go to (Matt. 10:17) you find that word "scourge" again.
"But beware of men, for they will deliver you up to councils and "scourge" you in their synagogues"
The word "scourge" refers to flogging with a whip, a severe and painful form of beating that was common Jewish practice.
Hebrews 12:7) talks about father chastening sons.
I agree with the "pants down" for teenagers , But I think it should be over the briefs (underpants) ! The boy being disciplined should be ordered to : "Drop your pants' & bend over the table so I can spank you ! 2 to 3 moderate swats should be enough to get a behavior modification !
If spanking did not work when the boy was younger it is not likely to work at age 15. It will, however, bring about resentment in most boys that age.

If your son is now exactly how you hoped he'd turn out I am happy for you but I think you might find that your method did not work out well for others who tried it.

Also, a 15 year old might be allowed to report his father to the police for such treatment. That would certainly be the case in the U.K.
In the 60's my brothers and i got paddled on the bare butt for something serious and while it hurt--we never questioned it--It became less frequent as we got older but it still happened--We turned out fine--I just did not like paddling my boys so i quit earlier and they turned out fine--I think its the relationship a parent has with sons that counts if the relationship is good even a paddling won't hurt the basic dad/son relationship--just my experience
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"Spare the rod spoil the child"...It is also written: Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [Eph. 6:4]. Provoke means: do not irritate, exasperate, rub the wrong way, incite. This is done BY A WRONG SPIRIT and BY WRONG METHODS. Shame on you parents who don't treat your children, like Jesus does...There are many more Scriptures, a bunch of them, God tells you how He wants you to treat children and people.
"Spare.......Spoil......." kids & TEENS need to be disciplined . I'm not saying to spank for every little thing, But kids need to know the consequences !!! & when they step out of line its : Swoosh "Pants Down, Bottoms up" for a good spankin' Good Luck on your parenting !
Well it's not uncommon to see psycho parents beat their children for the hell of it... I am not one of those parents. but I can assure you that s night follows day, The children I know where their parents never spanked them think it strange when their children act up and have not got a clue how to manage them, so many of the children manage the parents. No so in my home, I manage my children and they seem to manage their manners.
Hello,this is ELENA, got to think, remember yes,my mother lord laid me out on the floor,she got. me real good with the broom,and. I got a real. Well mannered no more get in trouble, no more talking back and that was the end of that,until I got permission to get married. I was about 14 years old. I Think she did pretty good, I graduated full honors from school. She only did it one time.
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Gordon I originally responded to Trey's post who stated he got a beating not a spanking. adults wearing out teenagers in process of beating them would have also worn themselves out.

nothing from scripture tells of Lord striking someone or teaching beating defenseless children. When you spank a young child you snap them out of a behavior with quick, swift correction typically because they are not old enough to reason and cannot pull themselves out from their wrong. If you believe giving a teenager a few swats is productive punishment (treating them like a toddler with a spanking) then I must ask for what purpose? seriously a few spankings on a teenager? still makes a parent negligent and a parent ignoring Gods warning in Ephesians.
Follower_of_Christ, YOU ARE SO TWISTING IT ALL UP. There is a big difference between "spanking" a child or teenager and "BEATING" a child. If the parent is already the type of person who is so emotionally messed up themselves, where they go further than spanking and end up abusing and beating on their child, then, YES, that's obviously very wrong! But, that's a whole different matter, Follower, than merely "spanking" a child. To the average parent who loves their child and has their head properly on their shoulders, spanking their child is simply one form of discipline. One does not have to lead to the other!
if children are corrected in childhood, when they are teens they shouldn't need it. I have some teen friends and they are so well mannered all the time. one of the teens is 15 and won an award for being an example to other teens.and...she can sing too
Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Deuteronomy 6:6,7 Proverbs 22:6 for teaching children when they are young, quick swift punishments of spankings. resort to beating a teenager (soon to be young adult) you failed your role as a parent in their earlier years, you cannot beat them now for your negligence otherwise you provoke them to wrath. Why we see more bullying in school today.. parents using any excuse to physically abuse their teenagers by lie of discipline. When you have to beat an older child it requires far more effort than a small child and it requires an angry bitter adult who should be put away in jail for assault and battery.
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Why do people assume that "the rod" necessarily implies physical punishment? Kings traditionally wielded a rod and a staff. The rod to discipline, and the staff to nurture (as a shepherd does). How many kings do you know that enforced discipline by physically beating people? They usually had many different (and more effective) ways, depending on who was being disciplined.

While young children who are incapable of understanding spoken instructions (or of knowing the consequences of their actions) may occasionally require physical discipline, older children, and especially teenagers, can be much more effectively disciplined by other means, such as withholding of privileges.
Cluny, Do you want a Bible Verse to back up what I'm saying? PROVERBS 13:24 "He that SPARETH HIS ROD HATETH HIS SON: He that loveth him (his child) chasteneth him betimes." Cluny, aren't you British? You know proper English? That Verse means that If a father loves his son (any child of his) he will discipline and chasten him when necessary. He will chasten his child when he does wrong, because he LOVES HIM. And, he wants his child to learn to do what is right, in order to live long and prosper. And, the rod is the KJV word for an instrument of disciplining. If you think that's "bad", well, GOD is even more so. That's why Hell and the Lake of Fire were created.
Gordon, spanking a teen IS physical abuse.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
Follower_of_Christ, You did not read and fully comprehend my comment. I made the distinction between spanking and physically abusing a teen. And, I also said that spanking may not be suitable for ALL teens. Just for certain ones. And, if it works, IT WORKS! A parent must be mature and not let their emotions
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