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By Rebecca Jane Stokes — Written on Jan 03, 2017
I am a sex-positive person and spend my days talking and writing about sex. I'm also a submissive , and I'm open about that too.
It only goes to follow that I talk to a lot of people about their kinks.
A lot of people are curious. They want to know why some women love being spanked.
But interestingly, a lot more people want to know why guys like spanking women. So that's what I'm going to talk about today.
Even men who aren't ass men enjoy touching a butt.
Getting a chance to feel, slap, and grope a butt during spanking is a treat in and of itself.
It is a fact commonly known that the closer a straight man can get to a vagina, the better.
In the spanking position, there is a vagina on or near one leg and boobs on or near the other.
Feeling a woman wriggle around in this position is hot foreplay for some men.
Skip arm day? Never. Spanking is a great way to workout your arms.
Just make sure you switch sides regularly to maintain symmetry.
Spanking someone does elevate your heart rate , which gets your blood flowing, which makes it easier to get an erection.
Not every man who spanks a woman does it because it's his particular kink.
Some men do it because their partners ASK them to do it.
Making their partners happy is their number one priority.
If your man is a Dom who gets off on daddy play, doling out punishment when his baby girl has been naughty could be a huge turn on for him.
Even if your guy isn't into roleplay, he might just like to watch how a woman's ass responds to the spanking, or how much his partner enjoys it.
For many people (male and female) being in a position of dominance or submission (like spanking someone or being spanked) helps them feel more in control.
That's the appeal of BDSM for those into it.
They might feel like they have no say over their job or with their friends, but during kinky stuff like spanking he can feel totally empowered.
Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer and editor living in Brooklyn, New York. She writes about relationships, sex, psychology, pop culture, and true crime.
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I 'd be lying if I said I didn't love a good spanking. I'm sure you've quickly surmised this thorny little detail, but I do mean spanking in a sexual way. Just a flat palm and a willingness to explore (opens in new tab) is all you need for this sado-masochistic activity (opens in new tab) —unless you're into paddles and floggers (and if so, good on you, soldier).
It feels like being dropped into an ice bath and then wrapped in a warm towel: Shocking at first, unpleasant even, but overall quite soothing.
But what is it about spanking that people enjoy so much? Is it the raw nerves after a hand meets your butt? The flood of feel-good chemicals into the body?
Spanking is for some, and for me certainly, the beginning of an exploration into the world of kink. It feels like being dropped into an ice bath and then wrapped in a warm towel: Shocking at first, unpleasant AF even, but overall quite soothing. It's a reminder that you are, no matter how crazy life gets, tethered to this earth.
And if you do a quick Google of the terms "spanking therapy" or "BDSM therapy," you'll see that people are using spanking (opens in new tab) as more than just a way to get off. This channeling of pain into pleasure also becomes a therapeutic way for practitioners to lose themselves in the moment and can actually help people cope with serious trauma. Below, we talked to experts and researchers about how spanking therapy works and why it's been so effective for the kink community.
But first, some history. Up until the 1980s (opens in new tab) , S&M (sadomasochism) was classified as an actual mental illness by the American Psychiatric Association. Which is pretty disconcerting considering studies have found that 36 percent of American adults (opens in new tab) admitted to using bondage tools during sex.
When we're enjoying a certain sex act, whatever that sex act may be, our brains are flooded with feel good chemicals, most notably the neurotransmitter dopamine . How pain plays into this game is pretty rad. According to an article from the journal Nature Reviews Neuroscience (opens in new tab) , there are far more similarities between how our brains process pleasure and pain than we ever knew before.
"Spanking can enhance excitement and physical sensations; increase adrenalin, endorphins, and oxytocin; explore and maybe push the line between pleasure and pain; increase intimacy and bonding," explains Dulcinea Pitagora , a psychotherapist, sex therapist, and founder of the series, KinkDoctor .
Dr. Nikki Goldstein , a sexologist and author of Single But Dating (opens in new tab) , says that we are inherently excited by anything that seems naughty and different. "It's not rocket science when we consider this is how we also get enjoyment out of life. We like to push the boundaries and especially when sexual boredom could be at play, any sexual act that is even a bit different excites us."
The sadomasochistic practice of sexual spanking is about more than just the brain converting feelings of physical pain into a rush of delightful dopamine. There's also the psychological release of power. According to Psychology Today (opens in new tab) , "The essential component is not the pain or bondage itself, but rather the knowledge that one person has complete control over the other, deciding what that person will hear, do, taste, touch, smell, and feel."
"It feels good to be totally in control, and sometimes it's nice to be totally submissive. Power play is a way to break free from the roles we're trapped in during our everyday lives, and it can be a powerful release," says Sandra LaMorgese (opens in new tab) , PhD.
A submissive finds therapy, stress-relief, and a sense of calm through the relinquishment of their power (opens in new tab) . Giving someone total control over you transfers your worries and psychological burdens onto the other person. "Still others describe the stress release as an escape from self-awareness and compulsive thinking and processing of emotions," says Pitagora.
She adds that practitioners of spanking describe it as an opportunity to enter into a consensual, time-bound interaction with someone they trust and feel close to, where they are free to let go and stop thinking about other things for a bit. "When body chemistry changes in a rush of pleasure and adrenaline, and then comes back down to baseline and levels out, that trajectory can result in a very calm and zen-like feeling."
There are conflicting thoughts among experts and researchers on whether or not spanking can be used as a true form of therapy, but it *can* be a coping mechanism for those dealing with trauma. Sure, it's a surreal concept for those who have never flirted with BDSM before, but La Morgese says it's more common than you might think. "Just Google 'spanking therapy'—it's all focused on positivity, healing, and working through issues in a safe, supportive space. Think of it as a form of massage."
It's about remembering how intertwined our physical and mental sensations are, too. Forget yoga: "For some, spanking is a way to let go, relax, and surrender to physical sensation so they can have a clearer and calmer mind."
The kink community can be a place to grow and learn about yourself. It isn't all scary dungeons and the stuff of nightmares, but a faction of like-minded individuals exploring sexuality. So long as people's rules, boundaries, and consent are being respected, says Dr. Goldstein, "It's a world where people's emotions and well-being is paramount."
She uses aftercare as an example, where a dominant will nurture a submissive after a sexual act and bring them back to reality by holding them and comforting them. "There is so much care there that someone with trust issues and problems with personal boundaries could benefit from."
Follow Marie Claire on F (opens in new tab) acebook (opens in new tab) for the latest celeb news, beauty tips, fascinating reads, livestream video, and more.
Gigi Engle is a writer, certified sexologist, sex coach, and sex educator. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women's Health.
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I 'd be lying if I said I didn't love a good spanking. I'm sure you've quickly surmised this thorny little detail, but I do mean spanking in a sexual way. Just a flat palm and a willingness to explore (opens in new tab) is all you need for this sado-masochistic activity (opens in new tab) —unless you're into paddles and floggers (and if so, good on you, soldier).
It feels like being dropped into an ice bath and then wrapped in a warm towel: Shocking at first, unpleasant even, but overall quite soothing.
But what is it about spanking that people enjoy so much? Is it the raw nerves after a hand meets your butt? The flood of feel-good chemicals into the body?
Spanking is for some, and for me certainly, the beginning of an exploration into the world of kink. It feels like being dropped into an ice bath and then wrapped in a warm towel: Shocking at first, unpleasant AF even, but overall quite soothing. It's a reminder that you are, no matter how crazy life gets, tethered to this earth.
And if you do a quick Google of the terms "spanking therapy" or "BDSM therapy," you'll see that people are using spanking (opens in new tab) as more than just a way to get off. This channeling of pain into pleasure also becomes a therapeutic way for practitioners to lose themselves in the moment and can actually help people cope with serious trauma. Below, we talked to experts and researchers about how spanking therapy works and why it's been so effective for the kink community.
But first, some history. Up until the 1980s (opens in new tab) , S&M (sadomasochism) was classified as an actual mental illness by the American Psychiatric Association. Which is pretty disconcerting considering studies have found that 36 percent of American adults (opens in new tab) admitted to using bondage tools during sex.
When we're enjoying a certain sex act, whatever that sex act may be, our brains are flooded with feel good chemicals, most notably the neurotransmitter dopamine . How pain plays into this game is pretty rad. According to an article from the journal Nature Reviews Neuroscience (opens in new tab) , there are far more similarities between how our brains process pleasure and pain than we ever knew before.
"Spanking can enhance excitement and physical sensations; increase adrenalin, endorphins, and oxytocin; explore and maybe push the line between pleasure and pain; increase intimacy and bonding," explains Dulcinea Pitagora , a psychotherapist, sex therapist, and founder of the series, KinkDoctor .
Dr. Nikki Goldstein , a sexologist and author of Single But Dating (opens in new tab) , says that we are inherently excited by anything that seems naughty and different. "It's not rocket science when we consider this is how we also get enjoyment out of life. We like to push the boundaries and especially when sexual boredom could be at play, any sexual act that is even a bit different excites us."
The sadomasochistic practice of sexual spanking is about more than just the brain converting feelings of physical pain into a rush of delightful dopamine. There's also the psychological release of power. According to Psychology Today (opens in new tab) , "The essential component is not the pain or bondage itself, but rather the knowledge that one person has complete control over the other, deciding what that person will hear, do, taste, touch, smell, and feel."
"It feels good to be totally in control, and sometimes it's nice to be totally submissive. Power play is a way to break free from the roles we're trapped in during our everyday lives, and it can be a powerful release," says Sandra LaMorgese (opens in new tab) , PhD.
A submissive finds therapy, stress-relief, and a sense of calm through the relinquishment of their power (opens in new tab) . Giving someone total control over you transfers your worries and psychological burdens onto the other person. "Still others describe the stress release as an escape from self-awareness and compulsive thinking and processing of emotions," says Pitagora.
She adds that practitioners of spanking describe it as an opportunity to enter into a consensual, time-bound interaction with someone they trust and feel close to, where they are free to let go and stop thinking about other things for a bit. "When body chemistry changes in a rush of pleasure and adrenaline, and then comes back down to baseline and levels out, that trajectory can result in a very calm and zen-like feeling."
There are conflicting thoughts among experts and researchers on whether or not spanking can be used as a true form of therapy, but it *can* be a coping mechanism for those dealing with trauma. Sure, it's a surreal concept for those who have never flirted with BDSM before, but La Morgese says it's more common than you might think. "Just Google 'spanking therapy'—it's all focused on positivity, healing, and working through issues in a safe, supportive space. Think of it as a form of massage."
It's about remembering how intertwined our physical and mental sensations are, too. Forget yoga: "For some, spanking is a way to let go, relax, and surrender to physical sensation so they can have a clearer and calmer mind."
The kink community can be a place to grow and learn about yourself. It isn't all scary dungeons and the stuff of nightmares, but a faction of like-minded individuals exploring sexuality. So long as people's rules, boundaries, and consent are being respected, says Dr. Goldstein, "It's a world where people's emotions and well-being is paramount."
She uses aftercare as an example, where a dominant will nurture a submissive after a sexual act and bring them back to reality by holding them and comforting them. "There is so much care there that someone with trust issues and problems with personal boundaries could benefit from."
Follow Marie Claire on F (opens in new tab) acebook (opens in new tab) for the latest celeb news, beauty tips, fascinating reads, livestream video, and more.
Gigi Engle is a writer, certified sexologist, sex coach, and sex educator. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women's Health.
Keep those cheekbones lookin' sharp.
Who said game nights need to be wholesome?
Good sex should always go smoothly.
For Melanie LaForce, pandemic-induced social distancing guidelines meant she could no longer see men outside of her marriage. But monogamy didn't just change her relationship with her husband—it changed her relationship with herself.
Dim the lights and hit play on this sex songs — the perfect playlist of songs to have sex to.
These actors aren't faking anything.
"It makes me feel like the sexiest woman on earth."
Marie Claire is part of Future plc, an international media group and leading digital publisher. Visit our corporate site .
©
Future US, Inc. Full 7th Floor, 130 West 42nd Street,
New York,
NY 10036.
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