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Tender skin. An open palm or leather flogger. The anticipation before the hand or instrument meets flesh. The thrill as the sound reaches your ears at precisely the same moment the sensation reaches every inch of your body. And you only get another if you ask very, very nicely.
Oh, the joys of spanking. It may have been a dreaded punishment as a kid. But as part of consensual adult play, it can be delicious fun. Much of the thrill comes from the expectation and build-up. When will it happen? How will it feel? Will it happen again? And no matter how many times you may indulge, those same questions always seem to arrive since each spanking encounter is different.
People enjoy spanking, because in a safe environment, it can be exhilarating to command and to relinquish all power. The spanker is in control of how many spanks and how hard (within the agreed upon scenario, of course.) The “spankee” is left to wait and wonder. Many people find themselves aroused before the paddle ever meets skin, in fact. Just the setup and the imagery in their mind is enough to drive them wild.
Spanking is also a thrill for the senses. The smell of the leather. The sight of the instruments of pleasure or your partner’s backside. The sound of the spank. The feel of open hand or flogger or paddle. The taste of your partner’s kiss as reward after you’ve been “punished.” In fact, each of those sensations alone can send some spanking aficionados over the edge.
The mere sight of the instruments of play can make some people salivate. Although you can use your bare hand, some prefer to use a leather flogger, spanker, slapper, or riding crop for spanking play . And sometimes just leaving it out for your partner to see will delight him or her as much as the action to follow. There is something naughty about these tools, especially when “innocently” left out on crisp white sheets, hinting to the evening’s activities to come.
If you want to get a taste of how it’s done and how it may feel, you might first want to try reading some erotica on the subject, like “Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories" by Rachel Kramer Bussel. Warning: These tales are not for the faint of heart, and they may likely make you long for the barest of bottoms. Sorry, couldn’t resist. And if you choose to indulge in spanking erotica, believe me, you won’t be able to resist either.
The how-to of spanking is simple because you can play however you like. The only real rule is that those who are in the game want to be. Talk beforehand about what you’d like to do, and what doesn’t interest you one bit. And have a safe word, something simple and easy to remember. If that word is ever uttered, it’s hands off. Literally. No questions asked.
You may want your partner to lower his or her pants just enough for you to get to the goods. That mid-state of undress might actually be more exciting for you both than going the full monty.
The “spankee” can lie across the spanker’s lap, legs spread (if clothing allows.) Or he or she can bend over or lie across a bed, chair, or table. It’s your scene, set it however you like.
You may want to take your hand or instrument of choice and rub the waiting target gently, teasing with the very thing that is about to bring a sting or slap or whisper of pain.
A little dirty talk can also be fun when you indulge in spanking play.
“That’s better. Now lift up that beautiful bum. I’m about to start a little fire.”
You get the idea. And it may sound cheesy now. But in the moment, you just might find your heart racing and your breath shortening without warning.
Take your time. Going too quickly will spoil half the fun. And be sure to check in with your partner. Reminding the spankee to breathe is also a good idea as you go. It makes the pleasure deeper and keeps the spankee in touch with how the sensations really feel.
Step Six: Basking in the Afterglow.
Yum. The aftermath. Almost the best part. The red marks left behind. The heat rising from the spanked skin. Caressing the skin with cool hands after the spanking can be stellar. Or, try a massage tool like ceramic stones that you can chill with ice-cold water and soothe your savage beast with by doing a bottoms-up massage. The smooth texture combined with the chill feels amazing on fiery skin.
The attraction to spanking play is manifold. And although it may take a little courage to ask your partner if he or she wants to play, I’m betting you won’t be disappointed by the reply. Then all you have to do is shut the door and utter the magic word.
Jenny Block is a freelance writer based in Dallas. She is the author of "Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage." Her work appears in "One Big Happy Family," edited by Rebecca Walker and "It’s a Girl: Women Writers on Raising Daughters," edited by Andrea Buchanan. Visit her Web site at www.jennyonthepage.com.

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Ever felt the urge to smack someone’s bottom in the bedroom?
You’re not the only one – it’s one of the most common bondage activities, according to new research.
A survey among 4,500 participants, conducted by Lovehoney , revealed that 75% of women and 66% of men like hands-on (bum) action in the sheets.
Once upon a time, spanking was only ever talked about out loud as a punishment method for naughty children (then in a non-sexual scenario, of course) but in recent years, the stigma around the fetish has been lifted.
If you’ve never tried spanking, know that there are various levels – from a light slap to hardcore sessions that leaves big, bright marks on the other person’s butt.
There’s nothing wrong with either one, so long as it’s completely consensual, and we recommend talking it through with your sexual partner if you’re going towards the particularly painful end of the spectrum. To help you out, we’ve even created a useful beginner’s guide .
While it may not have been spoken about openly until recently, spanking has been around for centuries – but why are we such fans of this particular kink?
According to Dr Becky Spelman, a psychologist and clinical director of the Private Therapy Clinic , the reason for our appreciation is both physical and emotional.
‘There can be a fine line between pleasure and pain, and erotic spanking can be just on the right side of that line,’ Dr Spelman, tells Metro.co.uk.
‘We know from murals found in Pompeii that spanking is a sexual practice that has been popular since long-ago times.
‘Spanking involves the use of the palm of the hand against flesh, usually the well-padded flesh of the buttocks. It can sting but does not cause serious pain or harm.
‘The sensation can give rise to an adrenaline surge that can heighten emotion and sensation.
‘Moreover, the additional blood flow to the surface of the skin that results from a playful slap makes all of the nerve receptors in the skin more sensitive, enhancing the sensation of a caress.’
Another component released in the body during this act is endorphins – also known as the happy hormone – and you’ll also see a boost in cortisol levels, which reduces feelings of stress.
According to a study from 2009, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior , this sensation can differ depending on your role in the spanking scenario.
Out of the participants, the submissive (i.e. the one getting spanked) saw an increase in cortisol, but the dominant (the person spanking) did not.
Sarah*, 44, likes being spanked because it calms her, and she’ll occasionally use toys to add to the impact.
‘The thing that I like most about being spanked is that it releases endorphins and makes me feel calm,’ she tells us.
‘The BDSM community talk about something called “subspace”, which is a result of this kind of activity. It’s a heightened sensual experience, which shuts down the activity in your frontal cortex.
‘Very helpful for overactive thinkers, like me. I also enjoy admiring my stripes and bruises the next day, if I’ve been spanked very hard (perhaps with a hairbrush or a paddle).
‘The dull ache reminds me of the peace I found in the moment, and so it soothes me again.’
Beyond just being pleasurable, spanking can also be connected to memories, a psychological theory known as ‘imprinting’ (no, not in the way it’s described in the Twilight books).
Classical conditioning is a type of behaviourism that falls within this area, and acts an automatic response to prior learning – i.e. the spanking can be linked to something you’ve experienced in the past.
‘It usually occurs around a particular traumatic episode, which is then stamped into the child’s psyche,’ Dr Spelman explains.
‘One patient of mine was very young when her father spanked her for something he believed she had done wrong. Her dad reacted very angrily, and spanked her hard on her bare bottom causing a lot of shame, rather than holding on to the shame it’s common for people to later in life turn the traumatic experience into a sexual one to help cope with what they have experienced, leading to a strong emotional connection between spanning and sex, which now manifests as a spanning desire or fetish.
‘However this is not the only reason people have a desire to be spanked as there are several other psychological theories which state other ideas.
‘Spanking can also contribute to roleplay with themes of submission and dominance, which some psychologists believe may be more common in societies with hierarchical social structures.’
Amy*, 27, relishes in the submissive element of spanking.
‘I like spanking (a lot), because where I’m quite loud/dominant in my everyday life, I actually much prefer feeling more submissive in the bedroom,’ she tells us.
‘I love being taken by surprise with a good spank and it helps that it’s usually done most frequently when I’m partaking in my favourite position (doggy!).’
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Meanwhile, Damon*, 29, is the exact opposite – he hates being spanked, but will happily administer a slap or two across someone else’s bottom.
‘So for me, dominance is key in bed,’ he said.
‘I love spanking others but I really hate getting spanked. I’ve had it done to me before but I just find it annoying, partly because I don’t have much of a bum and it just irritates me more than anything.
‘There’s nothing worse than being distracted when you’re really in the zone.’
As it turns out, there is a myriad of reasons why people are keen on paddling each other’s backsides.
The most important thing to remember is that it’s totally OK if you do – or you don’t.

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The act of spanking didn’t just start with the Fifty Shades phenomenon. A look at ancient Rome circa 800 BC is where you just need to look.
The Tomb of the floggings has features such as frescoes that depict a naked woman who is bent over while two men flog her from behind. From the ancient era in Egypt to Kama Sutra and tribal drawings, the act of spanking during sex has constantly being represented and explored causing fascination for both women and men alike.
A study carried out of 1,580 women indicated that about 95 percent of them enjoyed being spanked. The study found out that spanking ranked third out of a possible 126 sexual behaviors. But why do women like to be spanked? Let’s explore this and more in this piece.
Certainly, not all ladies love to be spanked, however many of them love to be spanked as part of their sex lives. If the spanking is properly done, it is worthy of note that it can lead to an orgasm. When a woman is being spanked, it can lead to the release of endorphins in the same way it would in vaginal orgasm. When endorphins are released, the effects can be quite minimal or quite high in terms of quality. This is the reason why some orgasms are much better than others. This may not be a universal concept but it’s quite common with men and women to enjoy being spanked during foreplay.
It is, however, vital to point out that people who enjoy spanking during sex doesn’t enjoy it the same way and for the same reasons. For example, some people enjoy spanking simply because it is linked to masochism. Such people may enjoy undergoing heavy punishment spankings which may leave red marks on their bodies. 
Spanking is a personal thing. What this means is that you could spank two people the same way and the interpretation from them would be different. It should be noted that each of the consenting recipients will react to it based on their reasons.
One begins to wonder why exactly women like being spanked during sex. Could there be psychology behind it? The simple truth is that there is a psychological link between pleasure and pain in the sexuality of human beings. It is a complex and profound thing.
It is an expression of the polarity which exists within each of us and thus elicits our curiosity. The truth is that pain, sex, love , and violence all have a way of stimulating the release of hormones and chemicals in our body. Endorphin which gets released when we experience pain is often taken as pleasurable.
Biologically speaking, spanking has a way of releasing norepinephrine and epinephrine which are both pain chemicals that have a way of triggering pleasure. There is also the angle of submission and dominance which both run deep into the concept of human sexuality. Also, the part of the human body where several people like to be spanked is a tender region that stimulates the flow of blood and as such arouses the region that surrounds the genitals. It thus makes much sense that the person being spanked feels good about it.
One thing we should all know regarding our sexuality is that we ought to get comfortable with the changes we experience over the years. We should thus never be forced into doing things we wouldn’t want to.
If you are looking to give your partner some spanking during sex, you shouldn’t spank blindly. You should always ask your partner if they indeed wish to be spanked. Apart from the fact that she will likely appreciate your thoughtfulness, it is good manners. Here are some reasons why she may want to be spanked:
Even the most romantic relationships get into a rut from time to time. When everything becomes predictable, it makes it all become rather boring. Society may abhor diversity but nature sure does love it. Different people are wired for pleasure in different ways as well as our different erotic fingerprints. This is why it is quite normal for things like a nibble, spank a grab of hair can take us to a certain level of ecstasy.
It should be noted that power is a very sexy tool. Even though women may enjoy being in control from time to time, most of them prefer the man taking charge in the bedroom. Establishing your control between the sheets indicates that you are aware of what you want and the way you want it. But one thing you should never forget is that great power comes with great responsibility.
By sharing new experiences with your partner, you will be bringing yourselves closer to one another. By exploring new sexual ideas, you will be creating fresh memories that will help spice up the bond that exists between you both. A study carried out regarding couples that engage in BDSM behavior indicated that it created a feeling of increased intimacy even after the act must have ended.
One thing you will realize is that your body may react positively to being spanked. When our body encounters unpredicted stimuli, it has a way of firing up our dopamine receptors. This, in turn, have a way of triggering our sexual pleasure levels. Getting an orgasm sure does feel good and a little spanking wouldn’t hurt.
If you are still not clear about the submissive and dominant roles in the house. Know that there isn’t anything wrong with a man giving his partner a spanking during sexual intercourse. This should, however, be to get his attention and not to cause bodily harm or pain. For instance, if she recoils immediately, it could mean that she didn’t enjoy being spanked. However, if she smiles during the action, it could be a cue that she feels good about the whole experience.
One unique feature of spanking during sex is that it can sound rather powerful and sweet. The rhythm and effect have a way of triggering certain hormones that may be the beginning of a journey to orgasm land.
If you are sure your partner is comfortable with the idea of being spanked, you must know how best to go about it. You certainly do not want her to be turned off on the first try.
Just as it is with all kinds of sexual activities, communication is perhaps the strongest tool if both of you want to get as much pleasure as you want. Thus, while you are in the act of spanking, you must observe her reaction first before proceeding. There are easy steps you can take to decipher her disposition to the activity. First, was she more into the sex after you spanked her? Was her response filled with noise? Was the noise negative or positive? Was there any change in her breathing after doing it? The answers you get from asking these questions will tell you if she enjoyed being
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