Spanking Babysitter
![](/file/9d11000d16f29988389bc.gif)
🛑 ALL INFORMATION CLICK HERE 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻
Spanking Babysitter
Light
Dark
Auto
Light
Dark
Auto
About
About Us
Work With Us
Contact
Pitch Guidelines
Send Us Tips
Corrections
Commenting
Reprints
Subscriptions
Subscribe
Sign In
Account
Subscription FAQs
Podcast FAQs
Newsletters
Customer Support
Advertising
Site Advertising
Podcast Advertising
AdChoices
Cookie Preferences
Get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week; click here to sign up. Please send your questions for publication to prudence@slate.com . (Questions may be edited.)
Got a burning question for Prudie? She’ll be online at Washingtonpost.com to chat with readers each Monday at noon. Submit your questions and comments here before or during the live discussion.
Dear Prudence,
I am 27 and very excited to be pregnant with my first child. However the thought of bringing an innocent little baby into this world has forced me to face some mistakes from my own past. From the ages of 12 to 16, I baby-sat for a little boy three to four days a week until he started school. I had a lot of pent-up anger from my own childhood, and something about having control over this little boy was a power trip to me. I played with him and taught him to read, but I also took advantage of the fact that his parents approved of spanking. I went overboard and would spank him for things that were not punishable, beside the fact that I shouldn’t have been doing that in the first place. Once I started I couldn’t stop. I feel disgusting admitting this but I believe I enjoyed it. I would also do things to shame him like make him stand in a corner with no clothes on. I moved away a couple of years after I stopped baby-sitting for him. This little boy loved me and trusted me and I have never confessed this abuse to anyone. I want to apologize to him and to his parents, yet if he doesn’t remember this I don’t want him to hear this now. What should I do?
Dear Guilty,
It speaks highly of your maturity and moral growth that you can look back on what you did with insight and disgust. Something was awry both in your childhood and that of your charge. It sounds as if you were not just a baby sitter, but a part-time nanny to this child while you were just a kid yourself. None of the parents involved seem to have been paying enough attention to their children. Since you were feeling anger because of your own upbringing, it’s unsurprising that you turned your frustration on the one vulnerable person for whom you were responsible. I spoke to Sherry Hamby , a professor in the psychology department at Sewanee, the University of the South, and editor of the journal Psychology of Violence , about what you should do now. First of all, she says that while what you describe was cruel, it probably did not cross into legally punishable physical or sexual abuse. She points out that you are understandably looking for catharsis and possibly absolution, but the real issue is what effect your confession would have on the boy. She says it’s probable that he has only dim memories of a baby sitter who could be both loving and hateful. For you to show up now and offer details of what you did would likely just be confusing and damaging. Hamby says since you left his life long ago, just keep things that way. Although you have made personal progress, becoming a mother can take you back in unexpected ways to your own childhood, and caring full-time for a baby can tax even the most mature and loving mother. I think it would good for you to talk to a counselor before your child is born about dealing with your emotions and impulse control. You also need to make sure you have the kind of support in place that will provide you with the encouragement and respite any parent needs.
Dear Prudence,
My husband and I have been married for 10 years, have two young children, and are still madly in love. He is a fantastic father and husband. The “but” is that in the past few years he has become a smoker. He would describe himself as someone who only smokes socially and casually. But he hides cigarettes and often lies about it even though he reeks of it. It infuriates me when he tells me I’m crazy and imagining it, especially since we both know the truth. When I find hidden packs, he says they belong to a friend. At a shower his co-workers threw for us, I heard someone ask him if he was quitting smoking in anticipation of the baby’s arrival. He wasn’t smoking when we first started dating, and I probably wouldn’t have continued our relationship if he had been because smoking is a big turn-off for me. He will admit to smoking “when he is stressed,” and due to his job this has increased. I’ve pleaded for him to quit, but he never does. He says that he shouldn’t have to lie and that I should just deal with it. He said that if you respond, he will follow your advice, and I will, too. What do you say, Prudence?
Dear No,
I was wondering after your description of your wonderful husband what the “but” would be, and it turns out to be a butt, so I understand why you’re fuming. Since you have given me power over your marriage, I say it’s time for his lying, to himself and to you, to stop. He has to recognize he’s no “social” or “casual” smoker. Maybe he hasn’t heard about smoking being socially unacceptable, and there appears to be nothing casual about the way he goes at it. As for you, as understandable as your compulsion is to nag, you must try to douse it. It’s not working and is only creating tension between you. Once your husband comes clean about his dirty habit, appreciate his honesty. Your next step is to follow the model of Michelle Obama in dealing with her husband’s smoking—or at least the reports of her approach. She loathed his smoking, encouraged him to quit, accepted how difficult that was, didn’t constantly monitor, and celebrated his successes. (She also said he would support his initial run for president in exchange for him quitting smoking. So it’s possible he decided to run in order to get away and smoke in peace.) The official word is that after many failed attempts the president is now smoke-free. I’m not the only viewer to suspect that during the inaugural parade the president was maintaining his abstinence by madly chomping on Nicorette gum. As for you two, part of this new honesty regimen is for your husband to admit that he has a problem and that, for the sake of himself and his family, he will address it by going to a smoking cessation class. You will support him and do your best not to rebuke him if you smell evidence that he sometimes slips. Focusing on the wonderful relationship you have will reduce your husband’s stress, which is an acknowledged trigger. He’s got a struggle ahead, and if you can deal with it as partners, he’ll be more likely to succeed.
Dear Prudence,
My boyfriend and I have been a couple for three years and we live together. It’s been a wonderful, communicative relationship. But now I don’t know what to do because he will not stop groping me ever. When I lean over to spit in the sink while brushing my teeth, he spanks me or hikes my skirt up to grab my butt. When we sit on the couch talking or watching TV, he yanks down my shirt and bra or just shoves his hands down my shirt. Recently I reached a breaking point. My mom called and told me a family friend’s daughter had passed away suddenly. When I hung up, I started to cry, and I told my boyfriend what had happened. He wrapped his arms around me and expressed his sympathy. Then he put his hand down my underwear and said, “I want to play with this.” He has not behaved like this the entire time we’ve been dating, but I can’t pinpoint when it started. I always yank my shirt back up and ask him to please look at me and not my breasts. He laughs such comments off, and says, “You have no idea how sexy you are.” It has really killed my sex drive and I don’t want to have sex with him at all. How can I express this to him in a way that puts an end to all the groping and brings back the other parts of our relationship that I love?
Dear Groped,
Yet another letter in which the description of his wonderfulness is followed by a butt. Your account is so odd. Obviously you would not have moved in with this guy if you felt you needed to aim a Taser at him every time he came near. The story of his actions following the news of a young woman’s death makes me think your boyfriend needs a check-up because bizarre changes in personality can have a physical cause. If he comes back with a clean bill of health, then I don’t see what’s left for you but to pack up and leave someone who’s lewd and crude and making you hate him. It’s one thing to have your beloved think you’re endlessly attractive. It’s another to find yourself wanting to turn around and spit in his face just so you can get a few minutes of peace while you brush your teeth.
Dear Prudence,
My wife and I have a dog that is getting on in age and has recently been diagnosed with cancer for the third time in less than two years, meaning her chemo has not worked. We have to meet with the oncologist who’s been treating her, but my inclination is that it’s time to stop fighting the inevitable. My wife, on the other hand, has had this dog since before we met and can’t bring herself to even consider letting her die. But more treatment will wreck us financially (as it did the previous two times). I love the dog, too, but I love my wife and kids more and our resources are being drained in a losing battle. I am hoping the oncologist agrees with me, but if not, what do I do?
Dear Dog,
Whether or not your wife can accept the finality of your dog’s prognosis, in short order your dog will be dead. Your wife knows the canine actuarial tables, and preventing your kids from going to college in a useless, painful effort to extend a terminal animal’s life is only benefitting the bank account of the veterinarian. Tell your wife you are opposed to continuing your dog’s suffering, and say the same thing, firmly, to the oncologist. Let’s hope this doctor recognizes her duty to her patient and her clients.
“ Sins of the Father : I think my dad has a secret love child. Should I confront him?” Posted Nov. 10, 2011.
“ The Monotony of Monogamy : I married my first sexual partner, and now I’m itching to cheat.” Posted Nov. 3, 2011.
“ Indecent Proposal : My colleagues are framing our boss for harassment. Should I expose their evil plot?” Posted Oct. 27, 2011.
“ Bye-Bye Baby : My sister is making a huge mistake by placing her child for adoption.” Posted Oct. 20, 2011.
More Dear Prudence Chat Transcripts
“ Morbid Memento? : Dear Prudence advises a woman whose fiance is too attached to his dead sister-in-law—during a live chat at Washingtonpost.com.” Posted Nov. 14, 2011.
“ Sniffing Out Trouble : Dear Prudence advises a woman who caught her fiance’s dad in a sleazy act—in a live chat at Washingtonpost.com.” Posted Nov. 7, 2011.
“ Halloween Hangover : Dear Prudence advises a dad whose buddies hit the bottle too hard on the trick-or-treat trail—in a live chat at Washingtonpost.com.” Posted Oct. 31, 2011.
“ Sleeping With the Frenemy : Dear Prudence offers advice on confessing to an affair with a BFF’s husband—during a live chat at Washingtonpost.com.” Posted Oct. 24, 2011.
Slate is published by The Slate Group, a Graham Holdings Company.
All contents © 2022 The Slate Group LLC. All rights reserved.
Slate and our partners use cookies and related technology to deliver relevant advertising on our site, in emails and across the Internet. We and our partners also use these technologies to personalize content and perform site analytics. For more information, see our terms and privacy policy. Privacy Policy
| QUESTIONS | CATEGORIES | BLOG | PROFILE |
Login | Register
|
H ave you ever gotten spanked by you babysitter or neighbor? if you did explain what happened
#BMW #CAR #M3 #Turbo #V8 #6cylinder
by ellabella 3 hours ago
REPORT
REPORT
Duplicate Of
Spam
Messages 42
Favourites Snippets
Sign Out
😄
😅
😆
😇
😈
😉
😊
😋
😌
😍
😎
😏
😐
😑
😒
😓
😔
😕
😖
😗
For medical advice, always consult your medical doctor,
Bullying, racism, personal attacks, harassment, or discrimination is prohibited.
Negative racial/anti-Semitic, or religious stereotypes are prohibited.
No advertising or spamming is permitted. If in doubt, leave it out.
Discussion of suicide or self-harm is not tolerated and will result in an immediate ban. Please seek professional guidance.
Everyone has their own opinion. Be respectful even if you disagree.
O nce by a neighbor, I guess I was bad.
K inda, I was 5 and a baby sitter attempted to spank me (by attempted I mean I kicked him in the face when he was trying to grab me ;))
m y babysitter and my my moms friends almost all of them when i got spanked by them they would throw me on the bed lying on my back then i would hold my legs against my chest then i would get spanked with my shorts on then my underwear then naked then i would get spanked over there knee naked i would always cry and scream.my butt was always red but no marks
I would pay some serious cash to get spanked by my neighbor. She is smoking hot.
I nearly did once, but my wife took her home.
i did when i had to go over her house to get babysat with someother girl because i was looking at her changing so she grbbed my arm lead mee into her room threw me on the bed screamed for the other girl that was getting babysat to come and help for wat i done then the girl hel my legs against the bed while the babysitter spanked me with my clothes on then my underwear then naked then i went over her knee and got spanked by the kid hard cause she was so mad i saw her naked.she said since u saw her naked u mine as well be naked. then my parents came to pick me up and the babysitter told them wat happened and they said ood job to her i couldnt believe it i was so mad.i kicked and screamed and cryed my butt was red but no marks.it was relly humiliating both of them seeing me naked my penis and my but. but i guess i deserved it im 14 and the other girl was 15
Y es I did I was 5 years old and I got into her purse and emptyied everything in it and squished all her makeup on the floor she came in and started scolding me and telling me she is gonna give me spanking on my bare bum so hard I wont sit for a week and she did she took my hand walked me up to my room told me to drop my pants and to get on the bed she took her belt off and started to spank me real hard my sister heard everything going on she came in the room and watched me get spanked I got 50 wacks with the belt. She babysat me for 4 more years and at least 3 times a week I got spanked by her she spanks real hard to the end.
Y es I did when twice in 1 day I was 7 my babysitter was 17 I was with her and we went to the store I wanted her to buy me something and she said no so I had a temper tantrum and she said stop and I said no she then said if I have to ask you once more I'm gonna pull your pants down and spank your bum real hard in front of everyone so I said your gonna buy me something now and thats an order so she said thats it come here now she pulled my pants down put me over her knee and started scolding me and giving me a very hard spanking she said when we get home your getting the belt on your bare bum so we got home she took me up stairs by the hand to my room sat down on the bed pulled my pants down she then stood up took her belt off and told me to turn over and get ready she then proceded to spank me very very hard you can hear the echo of the belt hitting my bare bum she gave me 50 wacks with the belt my bum was so sore I couldn't sit down she babysat me for 3 more years and I must have recieved a spanking at least 3 times a week from here she spanked really hard
I was eight and visit my neighbor said "fuck" in front of her teo-year-old daughter which the todler quickly repeated.
That day, after a short talk with my Mom, the neighbbor introducced my bottom to her Grandnother's hairbrush,
M y grandmother babysitted me as a kid and she did spank me one time so yeah! Never by a neighbor.
Y es, just yesterday, I got home in one of those moods...you know? And my baby sitter was wearing these really short short and low cut blouse so I went and dumped my beer on the floor and, did I ever get a spanking! Oh, baby...
O oooooh yeah!
I was at my neighbours house playing with her 6 year old daughter (I was 9) and I accidentally broke a really valuable antique.
I then lied and said it was the 6 year old's fault.
Didn't take my neighbour long to suss out that it was my fault!
She paddled me on my bare bum over her knee for like five minutes IN FRONT of her kid, then let THE KID do it.
Another time was when I threw a tantrum (I was 7) and threw my babysitter's bag at the window- it smashed.
She didn't hesitate to lean me over the arm of the sofa, lift up my skirt and pull down my knickers, then give me a long spanking with a belt, paddle AND her hand.
Then there was the time when my new babysitter caught me drawing on the walls (at 5).
She called her own kids and all my siblings in the room to 'set an example', and took me over her knee for a bare bum spanking with her hand!
Ooooowww!
Y es the story can be seen by
typing in ithadtobetold at Google search
W hen I was 8 my babysitter was 17 she caught me going through her purse she said get out of it or else so I said what u gonna do about it she said if u don't put my purse down I'm gonna take my belt off around my skirt and your gonna get a very hard spanking on your bare bum with my belt I then dumpped everything out of her purse she went crazy she grabbed me by my arm pulled my pants and underware down put 3 pillows on my bed and told me to roll over I said no so she said if you don't roll over your spanking is going to be longer and harder. So I rolled over she took her belt off and told me I'm getting 50 very hard wacks with my leather belt for taking so long plus 25 more for being very bad. so she started spanking me so hard I was crying you can her the belt it was so loud she said to stop moving this is what bad boys get when there bad. She continued to babysit me for 5 more years she spanked me at least 3 times a week.
I did when I was five. I went over to her garden and stepped on all of her flowers. She came to my house and asked my parents if she could spank me, they said yes. I was spanked on the bare bottom with her hand. When I got home dad took me to his bedroom and spanked me bare butt with a wooden hairbrush until I cried
W hen I was age 10 or younger, I and my brother and sister were spanked by our babysitter for defiant or disrespectful behavior on the instructions of mom. After that, our next door neighbor agreed to keep an eye o
Sex Orgy Brazzers
Seduce Sister Sex
Teen Amateur Cum Mouth