Spank Knee

Spank Knee

Obviously you know the basics of how to give a spanking over the knee or
bent over a piece of furniture; that is not what I am talking about. In a
cooperative spanking environment like we discuss on this site it is
important that a spanking be more than just swats to the backside.


Take the person to be spanked to a private place, such as his or her
bedroom. We do not condone 'public' spankings in front of other family
members as it changes the effect from behavior modification to
humiliation.

Have them get to the state of undress you have agreed upon (usually
bare-bottom, but may be underpants if nudity is an issue.) and put them in
the position to be spanked. (Over the knee, bent over the bed, etc..) With
them in position calmly explain what he/she is being spanked for and what
needs to be done to avoid it in the future. "I am going to spank you
for missing your curfew, and expect you to be home on time for now on.

Deliver the spanking with no games. Counting licks and stupid chants like
"please sir may I have another" distract attention away from the
spanking and reduces it's effects. Ideally the spanking should be given in
silence, allowing the smacking sound to be the only noise.. an audible
reinforcement of the discipline. You should only speak to give necessary
commands, such as adjusting the spankee's position if he or she has moved.

After the spanking, you should hug the person you just spanked, and
forgive them for what they did to earn the spanking with a reminder to
avoid that behavior in the future. Then allow them some quiet time to
think and recover from the discipline session.

Ideally spanking therapy should take place at a set place and time,
allowing the therapy recipient to anticipate the coming discipline between
sessions. At the start of a session you should both sit down and
discuss anything the spankee feels he or she has done to deserve a more
harsh or lighter spanking, and then you should go over the things you want
to remind him or her of, and the things you think they need to continue to
work on. For example, for an unmotivated adult you may say, "I want
you to continue to focus on your work, as well as keeping your personal
life in order." Remind them of any goals set that have not been fully
attained (weight loss, stop smoking, etc.)

Following the verbal therapy, the spanking should be given as described in
the punishment spanking session above.

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Cobbled this post from a few things I had on file, some which I have posted before.
Spanking in the mainstream cinema is as old as the movie industry itself. Putting a pretty girl across a guy’s knee was a code for sex even on the Victorian stage, where in British pantomimes girls dressed as boys and no production of Aladdin was complete without a thigh slap or a good sound spanking across widow Twanky’s knee on the seat of some very tight tights.
There is an insight into some of the reasoning and pitfalls of theatrical spanking in this excerpt with Johnny D (a presumed movie producer) talking to Sally-Anne in a 1960s teen magazine. I only have a page so the preamble and context as well as the end are missing, if anyone has it or knows where it’s from let us know.
Sally-Anne: What about girls in the movies, they aren’t all famous. Did anyone you work with as an extra or bit-parter ever end up a star?
Johnny D: Oh sure, you would be surprised. Most actresses did some heavy time while they fought tooth and nail for a line. You would be surprised what some of them would do. The cutting room floor is littered with the indiscretions of some of the greats.
JD: You know, lots of nudity and such, but it wasn’t all that salacious. I remember a big star had two lines in a B-flick and we had to do about 30 takes. This actress had to take a spanking from the male lead (laughs), every time something went wrong.
SA: Thirty takes! Was this a real spanking? I mean could she even sit down afterwards?
JD: A real spanking sure, leastways it was by the time we did 30 takes (laughs).
SA: Are you saying that only bit-part players get spanked in movies? I mean recently they have had McKlintock! and Blue Hawaii.
JD: Well I heard that neither of those scenes were played for laughs (laughs) but usually you have a body double, like one of these budding actresses we are talking about.
SA: So why aren’t there more spankings in movies, I mean like there used to be, if the main actress doesn’t have to do it herself?
JD: (laughing) So many questions about spanking.
SA: (laughs) I guess it is what people want to hear about, But seriously I was using this as an example since you brought it up.
JD: Well like I was saying, scenes go wrong and you can end up with an actress with some real bruising. If it is a star we are talking about then that can cause problems. Also between the censor and this whole women’s lib thing it is getting hard to shoot.
SA: I understand the feminist point, but what do you mean the censor?
JD: Well it’s a sex thing. In the old days directors had the hero spank a girl instead of, you know, kissing her and stuff, but people get wise to it. You know, audiences are lot less innocent than they used to be.
To continue the Hollywood theme here is a re-post.
The picture top above is an often seen alleged publicity still of 20-year-old actress and singer, Ann-Margaret being spanked. However, thanks to TipTopper we can now reveal the back story was far from a prank for poor Miss Margaret.
Back in 1962, when she was 21-year-old, she revealed in a radio interview feature, Ask the Stars , that one of the reasons she was allowed to pursue a career as a performer from just 19, was because she was under the guidance of her uncle, ‘a kind but old-fashioned gentleman.’
She was asked about the spanking photo, which she claimed was a “real enough,” albeit mitigated on account of the camera and subsequently exploited as publicity still.
She admitted that she was indeed on the receiving end of many spankings from her uncle.
“The spankings were always the same. When uncle caught me erring on the wrong side of reasonable behaviour he would tell me point blank that I had earned a spanking. I was in no position to argue because he was right at least 99% of the time.”
“Then he would place me firmly over his knee, flip the back of my skirt up, lower my panties and spank my behind until it was bright red. This took about five minutes and included a couple of breaks for lecturing and to make sure that I understood exactly why I was being spanked.”
Ann-Margaret said she could never have been described as Miss Perfect and the spankings had brought her “down to Earth.”
During the interview she refused to be drawn as to when she would be spanked again.
I was always of the opinion that hollywood movie spanking were being acted out rather than the real thing. always over the clothes no bare bottom spanking. even then I am sure the censor was on the look out. but your story reveals that some girls were spanked for real by family as by that uncle. Not many revealed in public that they were spanked or bragged about it. I guess spanking/paddling is an American way going bace the generations. thanks for the story. I must admit I always liked when the guys pulled the pretty girls across their knee. Your stories sure keep the memory of those spanking years very much to the forefront. memories of a sore bottom.
Of course they were acted out – they were movies – notable exceptions are McKlintock! (in which JW played a trick on MOH) and apparently Blue Hawaii (which looks fake in the movie) but Jenny Maxwell complained ruefully she couldn’t sit down the next day for the horse riding scene.
But I suspect when you have a ‘disposable actress’ it is cheaper to do a quick and dirty spanking for real – after all only two or three swats will be seen on screen. No problem – all a laugh – but what if you have to do lots of takes.
I read of a movie where a man had to cross the street for a three second cut away. It took 186 takes! Probably atypical and it was only a street scene. But Imagine a spanking scene that took 50 or even just 30 (as mentioned in the interview)?
I remember reading that article on Ann Margaret way back when. It appeared in either Life or Look magazine.
It wasn’t in Life – although the picture was used there. Ask the Stars might have been a feature in Look – you are right. I have it somewhere. TipTopper sent it in years ago.
I like the replies of everyone and liked the pictures too.Well doneDJ. If only someone could come do that to me where I live in Worcester that would be great.
DeborahGifford
You must do something to earn it, Deborah, the girls here often slapped,
kicked or even shot at the males before they were spanked.
Dont know how many hours i have used to search for “Spanking in the movies” – sure wish we had more of those these days
I did too back in the day when there wasn’t much to find – the band width was too slow for movies back then and the picture sections were usually publicity stills.
Oh yeah. Searching for spankings in movies and old TV shows on a newly acquired mobile device is how I discovered Chross’s wonderful blog. Which eventually led me to A Voice in the Corner, my very favorite, and many other great spanking blogs. I had no idea that such a community of spanko’s existed or that I was one!
Oh wow. Thank you both. You’re so nice! *blushing*
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Start small. Don't immediately spank your child if you see them doing something you dislike. Talk to them first, and try a nonviolent method of discipline if needed. If you decide to spank a child, it should only be as a last resort, after other methods have failed.
Conditional spanking (a mild spanking after a 2-to-6-year-old child has defied a less extreme form of discipline ) is less risky than spanking as a first resort, according to some studies. [1]
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Ask the child calmly why they did what they did. The child may not have realized that what they did was wrong, or maybe you misunderstood what happened. Talking can help clarify the situation: either helping the child realize why their decision was a bad one or helping you realize that your child didn't misbehave after all.
If you're too upset to be calm , say "I'm upset, I need a break to calm down." Walk out of the room and take some deep breaths. Then come back.

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Talk to the child about the consequences of their actions. Older children are able to self-reflect and realize why something is wrong. Ask them how they think other people feel about what they did, or what their actions caused. You can use nonviolent communication and "I" phrasing for scripts like "When you ____, I feel ____." For example:

"How do you think your sister will feel about you breaking her toy?"
"When I didn't see you in the store, I felt really scared. I need you to stay close by so I know you're safe and not lost."
"How do you think Dad felt when he had to clean poop out of the bathtub?"

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Consider whether the child needs to be punished at all. Not every learning opportunity needs to involve punishment.

For example, if your child resolves to do things differently after a conversation, then there's no need to punish them: they learned on their own.
Sometimes, it's you who needs the learning opportunity. Perhaps you expected too much of your child, or put them in a stressful situation that they weren't able to handle calmly. Kids don't always have the emotional tools to handle stress in a mature way. Try letting it go this time, and keeping your child's limits closer in mind next time.

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Look at non-physical consequences if needed. Firmly and patiently tell them what needs to happen. Spanking should never be a first resort, and there are other ways to handle misbehavior. [2]
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Firmly say no. Give a short, clear response to them in a stern voice. For example, "we do not throw snowballs at people's faces."

Clap-growl. For a young child, clap your hands loudly enough to startle them. Then give a firm "no". But don't startle your child too much or else they might start a temper tantrum or argue back.

Logical consequences. Tell the child to clean up a mess they made, fix something they broke, or pay for a broken thing they can't fix. This teaches them to fix their own mistakes. (If they are too young to clean or pay for it, you can do it together with them.)

Give a choice. Let the child choose between two or three options that you are okay with. For example, if your child is resisting getting dressed, say "You can put on your shirt first or your pants first."

Making up. Have the child make amends if they wronged someone. For example, if your son said something mean to his sister, ask him how he could make it up to her by doing something nice for her. Offer suggestions if your child is struggling to think of something (e.g. "you could make her a card").

Time outs. A time out should last roughly 1 minute for each year of age (e.g. 2-minute time outs for a 2-year-old).

Removal of privileges. For example, if your child keeps pushing people while playing, take the toy away for now and tell them why.

Natural consequences. For example, if your child did not put their team uniform in the laundry hamper and it is not ready for the game as a result, that is a natural consequence.

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